{"id":15267,"date":"2020-05-26T11:34:52","date_gmt":"2020-05-26T11:34:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15267"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:33:20","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:33:20","slug":"o-tipo-da-carta-apercebeu-se-que-se-perdeu-tarde","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-tipo-da-carta-apercebeu-se-que-se-perdeu-tarde\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que se apercebeu do que perdeu, mas demasiado tarde"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Talvez seja verdade que as pessoas s\u00f3 se preocupam quando \u00e9 demasiado tarde...<\/em><\/p>\n<p>While she was walking away, she told you that you will remember her. She didn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll remember her by the way she wore her hair or how she loved to dance to Ed Sheeran songs or how by the way she looked.<\/p>\n<p>She told you you\u2019ll remember how she made you feel. In the moments you feel most alone and in the moments when you feel like you need this one friend and you\u2019ll remember her.<\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m o fazia sentir como ela. Ela olhava para ti como se fosses o \u00fanico homem neste mundo.<\/p>\n<p>O que quer que fizesses era especial para ela e ela observava-o com uma dose de admira\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Nos seus olhos, pod\u00edamos ver o que ela sentia por n\u00f3s. Pelas coisas que ela fazia por ti, podias ver o quanto significavas para ela.<\/p>\n<p>Ela estava sempre l\u00e1 para ti. Ela queria ser a tua melhor amiga e s\u00f3 depois a tua namorada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89156\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/couple-walking-on-concrete-road.jpg\" alt=\"casal a caminhar numa estrada de bet\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>She was one of those girls who did everything in their power to make their loved ones happy and like they\u2019re the most special people in this world.<\/p>\n<p>With her, there was no need to think that you\u2019ll ever be lonely because no matter what, she was there for you.<\/p>\n<p>Ela estava l\u00e1 para tornar os dias escuros um pouco mais brilhantes. Ela estava l\u00e1 para te iluminar quando estavas triste.<\/p>\n<p>Ela estava l\u00e1 para aliviar o stress depois de um dia mau e estava l\u00e1 quando precis\u00e1vamos de algu\u00e9m para nos fazer rir ou algu\u00e9m para partilhar o sil\u00eancio connosco.<\/p>\n<p>Simplesmente, ela estava l\u00e1 para si. Fosse o que fosse, fosse o que fosse que precisasses, ela era suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>She would\u2019ve never walked away from you if it was up to her. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/planeado-ficar-afastado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ela tencionava ficar, mas tu afastaste-a<\/a>. Tratou-a mal.<\/p>\n<p>Todos os seus esfor\u00e7os foram apenas meio caminho andado. E trocou uma boa rapariga por algumas tempor\u00e1rias. O pior \u00e9 que, at\u00e9 agora, n\u00e3o tinha consci\u00eancia disso.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/couple-standing-on-the-bridge.jpeg\" alt=\"casal de p\u00e9 na ponte\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>You realized you did wrong. Only now you figured you should\u2019ve been there.<\/p>\n<p>Now you see that you shouldn\u2019t have let her feel alone when she was obviously with you.<\/p>\n<p>You should\u2019ve cared for her like she did for you. You should\u2019ve taken her hand when she tried to reach out to you. You should\u2019ve listened when she tried to tell you how you make her feel.<\/p>\n<p>Mas optou por seguir o outro caminho. E agora sabes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-deixam-de-amar-os-homens\/\">porque \u00e9 que as mulheres deixam os homens que amam<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Tomou-a por garantida porque ela se preocupava demasiado. A bondade dela para contigo tornou-se algo que esperavas ter sempre que quisesses.<\/p>\n<p>You expected her to be there for you whenever you needed her, but you never felt the need to give her anything in return. And that\u2019s not how you do love. That\u2019s now how you make her stay.<\/p>\n<p>Porque, independentemente do quanto ela te amava, independentemente do quanto ela queria ficar, ela tinha um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-boas-razoes-para-se-ir-embora\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">uma \u00f3ptima raz\u00e3o para se ir embora<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now you think how good it would be to have her back. Now you\u2019d like to relive all those moments with her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89158\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/despair-man-lying-on-bed-and-looking-at-photo-with-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"homem desesperado deitado na cama e a olhar para a fotografia com a namorada\" width=\"800\" height=\"546\"><\/p>\n<p>You wish she\u2019s there with you to hold your hand and tell you how everything is going to be okay.<\/p>\n<p>Desejas sentir o calor do seu corpo e desejas que ela diga adeus a todas as tuas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p>And you think about reaching out to her again. But that\u2019s so selfish of you.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s imagine you manage to get her back. Will you be able to erase all the pain she went through?<\/p>\n<p>Conseguir\u00e1 apagar todas as m\u00e1s recorda\u00e7\u00f5es que ela ainda tem na cabe\u00e7a? Conseguir\u00e1s apagar a imagem de a teres deixado ir embora? Pois, bem me parecia que n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You had a chance to fix things already, don\u2019t you remember? You have no idea how much she wanted you to stop her from walking away.<\/p>\n<p>She just wanted you to take her hand and tell her to stay, tell her how you need her, how much you love her and how you\u2019re going to figure everything out together. She just needed you to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/fazer-rir-a-rapariga-4-situacoes-funcionam-com-charme-evitar-grandes-desvios\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">faz\u00ea-la rir<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019d forget all the pain and she\u2019d turn back and stay. But you missed that chance.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89159\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/portrait-of-young-lady-in-yellow-jacket-standing-on-street.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma jovem de casaco amarelo na rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>Enquanto corria atr\u00e1s de todas aquelas mulheres tempor\u00e1rias, ela tinha tempo suficiente para pensar em tudo.<\/p>\n<p>She had the time to see how you took her for granted, how you didn\u2019t bother to give her anything she gave you back, how she was the one who loved more and who tried more.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-altura-de-o-verem-como-ele-realmente-e\/\">Ela teve tempo suficiente para te ver como \u00e9s<\/a>&nbsp;e perceber que era ela que estava a arrastar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o para a frente.<\/p>\n<p>While she was walking away she told you that you will remember her. What she didn\u2019t tell you is that once <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/esqueceste-te-de-a-amar-e-e-por-isso-que-ela-se-foi-embora\/\">she\u2019s gone<\/a>, she isn\u2019t coming back. You might\u2019ve realized what you lost, but you realized it too late.<\/p>\n<p>Girls like her don\u2019t wait for anyone. And there is probably now someone who gives her everything she deserves without her needing to ask.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que s\u00f3 esperou que cometesses um erro para poder entrar em cena e arrebat\u00e1-la. Tu perdeste-a.<\/p>\n<p>May this be a lesson to all men, too. You don\u2019t leave a good girl for those temporary ones.<\/p>\n<p>Because when you wish to come back, there won\u2019t be anyone waiting for you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-89154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Realized-What-He-Lost-But-Too-Late-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta para o homem que se apercebeu do que perdeu, mas demasiado tarde\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe it\u2019s true that people care only when it\u2019s too late\u2026 While she was walking away, she told you that you will remember her. She didn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll remember her by the way she wore her hair or how she loved to dance to Ed Sheeran songs or how by the way she looked. 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