{"id":15271,"date":"2020-04-26T11:41:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T11:41:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15271"},"modified":"2022-01-13T01:02:18","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T01:02:18","slug":"5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-toxicos-fazem-nas-relacoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-toxicos-fazem-nas-relacoes\/","title":{"rendered":"5 jogos mentais que os homens t\u00f3xicos fazem nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pode nem sequer ter consci\u00eancia disso. Pode pensar que a culpa \u00e9 toda sua.<\/p>\n

Quando, na verdade, ele est\u00e1 a fazer jogos perigosos com a sua mente. \u00c9 ele que tem os dedos enredados na sua inseguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel por te sentires como te sentes.<\/p>\n

Think about it: you weren\u2019t this person before. You used to smile. You used to enjoy things in life. But, now all that is gone, and he is the one who took it away.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele fez jogos com a tua mente para te controlar e para te transformar num fantoche obediente.<\/p>\n

Ele queria ser o respons\u00e1vel pela vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, excluindo-a de todas as decis\u00f5es e retirando-lhe o direito de dizer alguma coisa ou de dar qualquer tipo de contributo em geral.<\/p>\n

Tens de p\u00f4r um ponto final nisto! Acabar com esta loucura que se passa \u00e0 vossa volta.<\/p>\n

Life is too short to spend it with a manipulative asshole who doesn\u2019t give a damn about your feelings.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 provavelmente emocionalmente afetado<\/a> e inseguro, por isso procura o controlo na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he is being a manipulative jerk because deep down, he is insecure.<\/p>\n

Mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma desculpa para esse comportamento. O facto de ele ser inseguro n\u00e3o pode justificar o seu comportamento e o facto de ele a ter transformado numa mulher insegura e frustrada, a quem \u00e9 feita uma lavagem cerebral diariamente.<\/p>\n

That doesn\u2019t justify how he destruiu a sua autoestima<\/a> and your self-respect. He did all that just so he could feel better. I\u2019m sorry, but that is not love\u2014that is psychopathic behavior.<\/p>\n

If you suspect that your mind has been tampered with, read these mind games to see if your guy is doing this to you and if he is, just run for the hills and don\u2019t look back.<\/p>\n

1. O jogo da culpa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele culpa-a por tudo o que corre mal. A culpa \u00e9 um comportamento t\u00f3xico que lhe d\u00e1 um impulso ao ego porque tira a aten\u00e7\u00e3o de cima de si pr\u00f3prio, por isso ele sente-se melhor e tu sentes-te mal.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to own up to his mistakes, so he is forcing you to take the blame instead of him.<\/p>\n

E a parte mais triste \u00e9 que isto nos afecta. Passado algum tempo, deixamos de lutar contra isso porque n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possamos fazer. De alguma forma, somos sempre n\u00f3s os culpados.<\/p>\n

So, you stop fighting and after some time you start believing in it. He planted that seed in your head and he has nourished it until it has grown and forced you to believe it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n

2. O jogo do Gaslighting<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Gaslighting is a psychological term defined as: \u201cA form of emotional abuse where the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his or her own memory and perceptions\u2026<\/p>\n

[The term is derived] from the British play-turned-movie, \u2018Gas Light\u2019 in which a husband attempts to drive his wife crazy using a variety of tricks causing her to question her own perceptions and sanity.\u201d<\/p>\n

You see, it\u2019s not your fault. It never was. He was making you believe in things which are not real in order to fuck up your self-confidence and respect.<\/p>\n

O plano dele era abalar a tua confian\u00e7a em ti pr\u00f3pria, para que pudesses deposit\u00e1-la completamente nele. Depois, ele podia fazer o que quisesse contigo.<\/p>\n

3. O jogo da culpa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

De alguma forma, ele far\u00e1 com que tudo seja sobre ele. Quando precisa de alguma coisa de si, algo que n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o razo\u00e1vel, vai fazer com que se sinta culpada e lhe d\u00ea o que precisa.<\/p>\n

Ele vai chantage\u00e1-la com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, s\u00f3 para que ceda e lhe d\u00ea o que ele quer.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, ainda sente algo por ele e, a certa altura, sente pena dele e acaba por ceder.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t have a problem with lowering himself to the lowest possible position only to get what he wants.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s got no morals whatsoever. That\u2019s why he can do this. That\u2019s why he has the power to destroy you.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> Uma carta aberta ao homem que me destruiu<\/a><\/p>\n

4. The \u2018Bait and Switch Game\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

Quando discutem e gritam um com o outro, ele sabe como dar a volta \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o de repente.<\/p>\n

So, let\u2019s say you\u2019ve been talking about something particular, you\u2019ve been arguing about it, and after ten minutes of yelling, you find yourself defending while he puts all the blame on you.<\/p>\n

And not just that, you are no longer fighting about the same thing. Now, you\u2019re fighting about something that you screwed up a year ago and he never let it go.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ele estava a guardar a sua asneira especificamente para um momento como este: um momento em que ele faz asneira, para poder dar a volta \u00e0 situa\u00e7\u00e3o atirando-lhe \u00e0 cara o seu erro antigo.<\/p>\n

5. O jogo da montanha russa<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um movimento cl\u00e1ssico de todos os homens t\u00f3xicos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Todos eles mudam o seu comportamento numa quest\u00e3o de minutos, sem qualquer aviso, sem qualquer raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what he does to you. One day he is the best boyfriend you ever had and the next day he is a serious jackass.<\/p>\n

Isto faz-nos pensar: Ser\u00e1 que a fonte do problema \u00e9s tu? Fez alguma coisa que o aborreceu?<\/p>\n

A resposta \u00e9 muito simples. N\u00e3o fizeste nada de errado. Ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 a tentar manipul\u00e1-la<\/a> para a pr\u00f3xima coisa que ele quer de si. Ignore-o e deixe-o assim que puder.<\/p>\n

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You might not even be aware of this. You might think that it is all your fault. When, actually, he is playing dangerous games with your mind. He is the one who has his fingers entangled in your insecurity. He is responsible for you feeling the way you do. Think about it: you weren\u2019t this…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":87536,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15271","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/5-Mind-Games-Toxic-Men-Play-In-Relationships-1.jpg",800,545,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15271","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15271"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15271\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/87536"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15271"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15271"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15271"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}