{"id":15287,"date":"2020-06-26T13:50:52","date_gmt":"2020-06-26T13:50:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15287"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:56:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:56:57","slug":"a-rapariga-roubou-o-homem-nao-posso-agradecer-o-suficiente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-rapariga-roubou-o-homem-nao-posso-agradecer-o-suficiente\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que roubou o meu homem: N\u00e3o sei como te agradecer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Escrevo-lhe isto a si, \u00e0 rapariga com quem o meu ex-namorado me traiu. \u00c0 rapariga que o roubou de mim, roubando-me a felicidade e a vontade de viver. A ti, que me quebrou<\/a> e arruinou a minha vida.<\/p>\n

Pelo menos, foi o que eu pensei que fez.<\/p>\n

Quando ele me traiu pela primeira vez contigo, culpei-te por tudo o que tinha acontecido.<\/p>\n

I was certain that this man loved me more than anything and that the two of us would have grown old together if you hadn\u2019t interfered.<\/p>\n

Pensei nele como um rapazinho inseguro que foi seduzido por uma bruxa m\u00e1. Pensava que o tinhas manipulado para que me tra\u00edsse contigo e acabasse por te escolher a ti em vez de mim.<\/p>\n

It sounds pathetic, but if he hadn\u2019t left me to be with you, I would have probably forgiven him for his infidelity.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pensei nisso como um momento passageiro de paix\u00e3o e como algo que ambos dev\u00edamos esquecer, para podermos seguir em frente com as nossas vidas.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que a trai\u00e7\u00e3o e a infidelidade dele me magoaram de uma forma inimagin\u00e1vel, mas o que realmente me quebrou foi o facto de ele ter escolhido deixar-me para estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Even when that happened, I didn\u2019t want to accept the facts, so I kept thinking you were only one to blame for everything.<\/p>\n

Para mim, foste a causa de todas as minhas desgra\u00e7as. Por outro lado, eu continuava a justific\u00e1-lo, tentar encontrar desculpas<\/a> por tudo o que tinha feito.<\/p>\n

And I kept waiting for him to come back. I was convincing myself that he wanted to come back to me but that you weren\u2019t letting him.<\/p>\n

I was constantly comparing myself to you. What did you have and I didn\u2019t? How come I couldn\u2019t keep him by my side? I hated you and I started hating myself, as well.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 agora \u00e9 que vejo como fui tolo.<\/p>\n

It took me more time than I would like to admit, but finally, I came to my senses. I won\u2019t be talking about everything I went through in that period.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 vos digo que estava a um passo de enlouquecer. E quando vi que estava prestes a atingir o fundo do po\u00e7o, de alguma forma, enfrentei a realidade.<\/p>\n

Enfrentar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio foi uma das coisas mais dif\u00edceis de fazer, mas foi mais do que eficiente. E foi libertador.<\/a><\/p>\n

Depois de muita introspe\u00e7\u00e3o, percebi que a culpa nunca foi sua. Ele era um homem adulto que tomava as suas pr\u00f3prias decis\u00f5es e a decis\u00e3o dele era estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Nobody can force anyone to cheat on their partner. And after all, I was no one to you, so you didn\u2019t have the responsibility to take care of my emotions. But, he did.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This was the man who spent years of his life with me and he was the one who should\u2019ve thought how his actions would affect me.<\/p>\n

But, he didn\u2019t. He never once looked back, to think about the pain he has caused me.<\/p>\n

Enquanto eu estava a tentar juntar os meus peda\u00e7os, ele estava mais feliz do que nunca.<\/p>\n

Ele continuou a viver a sua vida, enquanto eu fiquei presa no passado e no futuro imagin\u00e1rio que tinha planeado com ele.<\/p>\n

E odiava-vos aos dois por isso. Fiquei obcecado por voc\u00eas os dois, \u00e0 espera que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se desmoronasse, para me poder gabar.<\/p>\n

Pensei que ver-vos aos dois infelizes era a \u00fanica coisa que me podia dar satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Then I realized that my happiness shouldn\u2019t depend on anyone else. The only person that could affect my happiness was me.<\/p>\n

Fui eu que criei a minha vida e, enquanto me mantivesse agarrada ao ressentimento, nunca poderia avan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

E finalmente encontrei a for\u00e7a para vos perdoar a ambos.<\/p>\n

E foi a melhor coisa que alguma vez fiz.<\/p>\n

Apercebi-me<\/a> Eu tinha sido vosso prisioneiro, sem que nenhum de v\u00f3s o soubesse.<\/p>\n

E quando finalmente segui em frente e olhei para a minha rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia, foi a primeira vez que a vi claramente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I remembered all of the times this guy had let me down, every time he had hurt me, every time he hadn\u2019t respected me and every time he hadn\u2019t loved me enough.<\/p>\n

How come I didn\u2019t see these things before? I was probably blinded, not by love for him, but by hatred for you.<\/p>\n

I thought that the emotional pain I\u2019ve been through was the worst thing that could have happened to me. But, it turned out to be the best.<\/p>\n

If this hadn\u2019t happened, I would never have known how strong and brave I really am. I would never have been aware of my true strength and worth.<\/p>\n

Nunca teria sabido como deveria ser o amor e teria passado o resto da minha vida a contentar-me com menos.<\/p>\n

Porque agora sei que este tipo nunca me mereceu e tudo o que eu lhe estava a dar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve taught me that there are some things and people which are not worthy of our regret.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve taught me never to allow a man to complete me, until I become a complete person on my own.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve taught me that when we hate, we become prisoners of that hate. You\u2019ve taught me that forgiveness is the only way towards liberation.<\/p>\n

E, mais importante, ensinou-me que ningu\u00e9m me pode amar enquanto eu n\u00e3o aprender a amar-me a mim pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

If it hadn\u2019t been for you, I would never have experienced the love I am feeling now.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Nunca teria conhecido um homem que fez de mim a mulher mais feliz do mundo.<\/p>\n

Estou grata porque finalmente sou amada e respeitada da forma que todas as mulheres deveriam ser.<\/p>\n

When I think about it, you saved me. If it weren\u2019t for you, I would probably have spent the rest of my life with someone who didn\u2019t know how to love me enough and who didn\u2019t know how to respect my love.<\/p>\n

Isn\u2019t life strange? I never thought I would end up thanking a woman for stealing my boyfriend, but here I am doing exactly that.<\/p>\n

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I am writing this to you, to the girl my ex-boyfriend cheated on me with. To the girl who stole him from me, stealing my happiness and desire to live. To you, who broke me and ruined my life. At least, this was that I thought you did. When he first cheated on me with…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":106097,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/To-The-Girl-Who-Stole-My-Man-I-Cant-Thank-You-Enough.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/106097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}