{"id":15303,"date":"2020-11-26T14:21:34","date_gmt":"2020-11-26T14:21:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15303"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:05:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:05:10","slug":"8-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-nao-se-devem-fazer-de-dificeis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-nao-se-devem-fazer-de-dificeis\/","title":{"rendered":"8 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres n\u00e3o se devem fazer de dif\u00edceis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, I don&#8217;t believe in playing games right from the start when it comes to relationships. I mean, a relationship is hard as it is, right?<\/p>\n<p>There are two people trying so hard to find a balance and to communicate properly, so why make it harder by faking your feelings? It&#8217;s much easier to be upfront about how you feel than to calculate how many minutes you need to wait before you text him back.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why, for all my lady friends out there who think that playing hard to get is going to bring them success in their love life, here are some reasons to rethink that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Most men don&#8217;t &#8216;love the chase&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123379\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem insatisfeito a olhar para uma mulher\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/dissatisfied-man-looking-at-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re crushing on a guy who is ambitious and has plans for his life, he won&#8217;t want to waste time chasing a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.themodernman.com\/blog\/why-do-women-play-games.html\" rel=\"noopener\">girl who&#8217;s playing games with him<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ele quer uma mulher que sabe o que quer e vai atr\u00e1s disso. As raparigas jogam jogos, as mulheres agem.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He&#8217;ll be more interested<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123380\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente a conversar num restaurante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-talking-at-restaurant-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No outro dia, sentei-me com alguns dos meus amigos rapazes e eles disseram-me que, se virem uma mulher interessada neles, come\u00e7am a interessar-se mais por ela. Isso significa que ela viu algo neles que a fez apaixonar-se por eles.<\/p>\n<p>So playing hard to get only drives them away. It&#8217;s like knowing that she&#8217;s not interested enough to actually start a conversation.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It&#8217;s different<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123381\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sorridentes a conversar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-man-and-woman-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos concordamos que os homens adoram as mulheres que se destacam da multid\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/holden-desalles\/2014\/10\/15-guys-on-the-one-irresistible-thing-women-do-that-make-them-stand-out-from-the-rest\/\" rel=\"noopener\">mulheres que s\u00e3o diferentes das outras<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>So men are used to being the pursuers, that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s a challenge to meet a girl who doesn&#8217;t play hard to get. It&#8217;s interesting and it&#8217;s something new and it makes them want her even more.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele quer-te mesmo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123382\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal sorridente num caf\u00e9 de rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/smiling-couple-at-street-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he&#8217;s interested in you just because he can&#8217;t have you, he will be pursuing someone else the moment he sees that he has obtained your heart.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re honest about your feelings and he returns the favor, then you will know that he really does want you and he&#8217;s not playing games with you either.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">It doesn&#8217;t make you less feminine<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123383\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a conversar no parque\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/young-couple-talking-in-the-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a man plays the pursuer it means that he holds all the cards and that he\u2019s the dominant one, right? Wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Saying how you feel and being honest about what you think of someone isn&#8217;t a game of power. It&#8217;s about honesty.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Oportunidades perdidas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123384\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma jovem rapariga \u00e0 luz do ecr\u00e3 do smartphone\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/portrait-of-a-young-girl-in-the-light-of-the-smartphone-screen-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been daydreaming about that guy\u2019s butt for weeks but he can&#8217;t seem to take the hint that you&#8217;re interested in him, right? Well, how could he if you&#8217;re calculating how much time needs to pass between dates?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t just sit around<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-jogos-mentais-que-os-homens-toxicos-fazem-nas-relacoes\/\"> jogos mentais<\/a> with him, go out and get that butt! Otherwise you will miss out on so many wonderful men who are ready to love you, just because you weren&#8217;t able to show enough interest.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Tamb\u00e9m se respeitam a si pr\u00f3prios<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123385\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem confuso a olhar para a c\u00e2mara enquanto segura um telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/confused-man-looking-at-camera-while-holding-a-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not taking their side, but men do have a lot of self-respect. If they need to run after you for weeks, maybe even months because you are too insecure to say that you&#8217;re interested, then they will just walk away. It&#8217;s that easy.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Seja voc\u00ea mesmo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123386\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher sentam-se e conversam\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-man-and-a-woman-sit-and-talk-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando \u00e9 que gostar de algu\u00e9m se tornou um crime? Diverte-te, diverte-te! Sejam honestos sobre os vossos sentimentos e sobre quem s\u00e3o!<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no one out there who&#8217;s even nearly as wonderful as you are, so embrace it!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123388\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres n\u00e3o se devem fazer de dif\u00edceis\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To be honest, I don&#8217;t believe in playing games right from the start when it comes to relationships. I mean, a relationship is hard as it is, right? There are two people trying so hard to find a balance and to communicate properly, so why make it harder by faking your feelings? It&#8217;s much easier&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":123387,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15303","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/8-Reasons-Why-Women-SHOULDNT-Play-Hard-To-Get-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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