{"id":15322,"date":"2020-07-27T09:21:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T09:21:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15322"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:01:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:01:36","slug":"6-formas-de-o-traidor-se-fazer-de-vitima","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-formas-de-o-traidor-se-fazer-de-vitima\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneiras de lidar com um traidor que se faz de v\u00edtima"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 \u00e9 mau o suficiente ser tra\u00eddo, mas ser retratado como um vil\u00e3o e acusado como a raz\u00e3o da trai\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um n\u00edvel totalmente diferente de mau.<\/p>\n

And the worst part is that most of us know how it feels to be blamed for someone\u2019s cheating, how it feels to feel guilty for it.<\/p>\n

Confrontar um batoteiro<\/a> is bad as it is but when you\u2019re planning on doing it, you need to get ready for his victim card playing as well.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him convince you that you are the one to blame, don\u2019t let him guilt-trip you into apologizing. Follow these steps when confronting him and get him out of your life as quickly as possible.<\/p>\n

Sadness doesn\u2019t justify cheating\u2014make sure he hears it loud and clear<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por muito dif\u00edceis que sejam os vossos problemas, a batota nunca \u00e9 a solu\u00e7\u00e3o. Se h\u00e1 um problema, resolvam-no juntos. Se falta alguma coisa, procurem-na em conjunto.<\/p>\n

Ir atr\u00e1s das tuas costas para encontrar o que quer que seja que ele est\u00e1 a perder \u00e9 o pior tipo de trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Sure, it\u2019s easier to go around fucking others and blaming it on your relationship but if you truly want your relationship to make it, you stay and you fight.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3s don\u2019t give up on people easily but sometimes they\u2019re just not worth the fight<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Dizer-lhe como se sente<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be afraid of sharing your emotions; tell him all about it. He went on a cheating spree because he was down? Then let him know how you feel now.<\/p>\n

Let him know how it feels to be broken by the one person who\u2019s supposed to hold you together.<\/p>\n

Diga-lhe como se sente quando a \u00fanica pessoa que o pode impedir de chorar \u00e9 a pessoa que o fez chorar.<\/p>\n

Quando estavas em baixo, continuaste a ser fiel<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Everyone has rough days, everyone has days when they don\u2019t think they can make it out of bed. But it still doesn\u2019t mean that you cheat on him because that\u2019s not what love is about.<\/p>\n

Since when is it okay to cheat just because you\u2019re missing something in your relationship? It\u2019s not. Nor will it ever be.<\/p>\n

Certifique-se de que ele sabe disso. Certifique-se de que ele se lembra bem disso porque voc\u00eas est\u00e3o juntos nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Se lhe faltava alguma coisa, tamb\u00e9m lhe faltava a si, mas mesmo assim manteve-se fiel.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a-o pensar na situa\u00e7\u00e3o inversa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

There is a possibility that he actually feels like a victim, so ask him how he would feel if you cheated on him. He won\u2019t be feeling like a victim much longer, trust me.<\/p>\n

Porque, seja qual for o problema, se quiserem resolv\u00ea-lo, conseguem. Trair \u00e9 assassinar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Utilizar provas se as tiver<\/h2>\n

\"namorada<\/p>\n

Se tiver alguma prova de que ele a traiu, use-a. Se tiver uma fotografia dele a desfrutar da companhia de outra mulher, use-a contra ele.<\/p>\n

The happy-looking man on the photo sure as hell doesn\u2019t look like a victim.<\/p>\n

Eu sei, d\u00f3i ver algu\u00e9m que amamos com outra pessoa, mas ele fazer-se de v\u00edtima \u00e9 ainda mais doloroso.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t listen to him<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Haver\u00e1 realmente alguma coisa que ele possa dizer para compensar o que fez? Haver\u00e1 alguma coisa que possa reparar o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido e a vossa confian\u00e7a?<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 te pode magoar mais e fazer com que te sintas pior por ele te ter tra\u00eddo. Querida, nada o impedir\u00e1 de a perseguir se ele realmente o quiser<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Just because he is incapable of loving and committing to you, doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not worthy of being loved.<\/p>\n

If you already made up your mind about walking away, don\u2019t waste another second on him. He\u2019s not worth it anyway.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s bad enough to be cheated on but to be portrayed as a villain and accused as the reason for their cheating is a whole other level of bad. And the worst part is that most of us know how it feels to be blamed for someone\u2019s cheating, how it feels to feel guilty for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":97299,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/6-Ways-To-Deal-With-A-Cheater-Who-Plays-The-Victim.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15322\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}