{"id":15338,"date":"2020-06-27T09:40:41","date_gmt":"2020-06-27T09:40:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15338"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:22","slug":"alguma-vez-se-apaixonou-por-uma-rapariga-ansiosa-ler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/alguma-vez-se-apaixonou-por-uma-rapariga-ansiosa-ler\/","title":{"rendered":"Se alguma vez te apaixonares por uma rapariga ansiosa, l\u00ea isto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You have to know that anxiety consumes her. It takes every fiber of her being and it rules it. It can decide what she does and doesn\u2019t have to do. It rules over her.<\/p>\n<p>A ansiedade dela \u00e9 um medo constante que a controla completamente. Tens de saber isto; caso contr\u00e1rio, deixa-a ir.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>It\u2019s not easy to love an anxious girl. You have to be ready to be there for her every second of the hour, every day. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 preciso saber <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/christopher-lai\/2017\/03\/to-the-girl-who-has-a-hard-time-trusting-people-after-being-broken\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> ela tem dificuldade em confiar nas pessoas <\/a> , even you. She could love you the most but her anxiety won\u2019t let her show you.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que diga e mostre que a ama, ela pode n\u00e3o o dizer de volta, mesmo que o fa\u00e7a. Ela tem medo e constr\u00f3i muros enormes \u00e0 sua volta, n\u00e3o deixando ningu\u00e9m entrar.<\/p>\n<p>Ela nunca <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/nunca-deixa-de-estar-atento\/\"> baixa a guarda <\/a> porque ela nunca sabe quando \u00e9 que a ansiedade vai atacar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108122\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t sit and enjoy the sun because she never knows when the raging storm is going to come, bringing those dark, stormy clouds above her.<\/p>\n<p>Tens de compreender que ela ama de forma diferente. Ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 como toda a gente. Ao fim de algum tempo, ela vai come\u00e7ar a confiar em si e, quando isso acontecer, nunca mais o largar\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Ela vai amar-te como nunca ningu\u00e9m te amou.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You have to know that\u2026 <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela precisa de se sentir segura<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You have to know that she will run away if she sees even the smallest sign that you\u2019re making her do something she is uncomfortable doing.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard for her to love you in a way that you expect to be loved, as she doesn\u2019t know how to do that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108125\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"casal infeliz sentado na cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/unhappy-couple-sitting-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She would also like it but her anxiety won\u2019t let her. It dictates her life and her feelings. You have to know that she fights it but she can\u2019t win every time.<\/p>\n<p>Tem de saber que ela precisa de se sentir segura nos seus bra\u00e7os e que o vai amar, mas \u00e0 sua maneira.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u00c9 preciso mais tempo para ela se apaixonar<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ela \u00e9 demasiado cautelosa. Ela sopra no fogo mesmo que a chama j\u00e1 tenha sido extinta.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to relive her anxiety attacking her because she opened up to someone, trusted him and he betrayed her.<\/p>\n<p>She always has a safety net, something to rely on, just in case because she has been burned too many times. You have to know that she doesn\u2019t fall in love very easily.<\/p>\n<p>You will have to work twice as hard to get her to trust you and relax but once she does, you won\u2019t regret even one minute spent trying to win her over.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela tem problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-looking-up.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para cima\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-looking-up.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-looking-up-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-looking-up-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-looking-up-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/worried-woman-looking-up-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A sua ansiedade leva-a a abrir bem os olhos para procurar potenciais amea\u00e7as em todo o lado.<\/p>\n<p>She constantly overthinks things because she is scared of what kinds of scenarios can happen and she knows she can\u2019t affect any of them.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t trust anyone because she has been betrayed too many times and each time, her anxiety came knocking on her door, taking her into situations and states which she could not control.<\/p>\n<p>Ela tem medo que isto volte a acontecer.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela ama com todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You should know that when she loves, she goes all in. When she finally opens up to you and lets you into her heart, you\u2019re going to be there forever.<\/p>\n<p>But it won\u2019t be easy. Her mood will constantly change and she will need someone to be by her side and help her get through it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108128\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-man-hugging-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"jovem a abra\u00e7ar mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-man-hugging-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-man-hugging-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-man-hugging-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-man-hugging-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/young-man-hugging-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll need someone who\u2019ll help her fight that anxiety away from her.<\/p>\n<p>Basta ser paciente e compreensivo e ela retribuir-lhe-\u00e1 com o seu amor incondicional.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ela tem medo de confrontos<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t always fight. Her anxiety often doesn\u2019t allow her to because she knows that she\u2019ll lose each argument she gets involved in.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t stand someone yelling at her. Every harsh word buries her deeper in the ground, every nasty look makes her want to cry.<\/p>\n<p>Cada confronto evoca um epis\u00f3dio horr\u00edvel de ansiedade. \u00c9 preciso ter paci\u00eancia, porque essa \u00e9 a chave do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Se a amas, sabe que ela \u00e9 uma pessoa bonita por dentro que tem medo de sair.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108130\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-hugging-woman-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"homem a abra\u00e7ar mulher junto ao mar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-hugging-woman-by-the-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-hugging-woman-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-hugging-woman-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-hugging-woman-by-the-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/man-hugging-woman-by-the-sea-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ela tem medo deste mundo cruel e frio, tem medo de ser julgada, tem medo que as pessoas a olhem de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<p>Continue a ser a sua luz ao fundo do t\u00fanel, porque est\u00e1 a fazer um excelente trabalho. Encontre a for\u00e7a para continuar a ajud\u00e1-la a vencer a luta da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>And in the end, she\u2019ll see that you never wanted to hurt her and she\u2019ll turn into a happy and smiling girl, the girl she is deep inside.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever she\u2019s around you, she\u2019ll kick her anxiety to the ground because you will give her the strength to do so.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108133\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/If-You-Ever-Fall-In-Love-With-An-Anxious-Girl-Read-This-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se alguma vez te apaixonares por uma rapariga ansiosa, l\u00ea isto\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/If-You-Ever-Fall-In-Love-With-An-Anxious-Girl-Read-This-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/If-You-Ever-Fall-In-Love-With-An-Anxious-Girl-Read-This-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/If-You-Ever-Fall-In-Love-With-An-Anxious-Girl-Read-This-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/If-You-Ever-Fall-In-Love-With-An-Anxious-Girl-Read-This-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/If-You-Ever-Fall-In-Love-With-An-Anxious-Girl-Read-This-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You have to know that anxiety consumes her. It takes every fiber of her being and it rules it. It can decide what she does and doesn\u2019t have to do. It rules over her. Her anxiety is a constant fear that has complete control over her. You have to know this; otherwise, let her go&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":108132,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29634],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15338","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anxiety"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29634,"label":"anxiety"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/If-You-Ever-Fall-In-Love-With-An-Anxious-Girl-Read-This.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29634,"name":"anxiety","slug":"anxiety","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29634,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learning how to control your anxiety or help and understand your partner struggling with anxious thoughts will improve the quality of your life.","parent":22911,"count":30,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29634,"category_count":30,"category_description":"Learning how to control your anxiety or help and understand your partner struggling with anxious thoughts will improve the quality of your life.","cat_name":"anxiety","category_nicename":"anxiety","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15338","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15338"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15338\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/108132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15338"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15338"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15338"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}