Between men and women, men are more likely to cheat on their long-term relationship partners. Here are the common reasons 3 types of men have affairs, as well as tips on recognizing the signs when it\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n
Quais s\u00e3o os 3 tipos de homens que t\u00eam casos?<\/h2>\n
Todos os homens fazem batota? Mais exatamente, ser\u00e1 que todos os homens trairiam, se tivessem oportunidade?<\/p>\n
De acordo com um Inqu\u00e9rito Social Geral <\/a> e an\u00e1lise da demografia da infidelidade nos EUA, os homens casados s\u00e3o mais prov\u00e1vel<\/em> than married women to cheat, but the gap isn\u2019t as wide as you\u2019d think: 20% of men and 13% of women reported that they\u2019d had extramarital affairs.<\/strong><\/p>\n Even assuming that some men lied and didn\u2019t admit to unfaithfulness in the above-mentioned survey, it still doesn\u2019t mean that all men cheat.<\/p>\n De facto, apenas 3 tipos de homens t\u00eam casos: homens que se sentem mal amados e t\u00eam medo de deixar as suas mulheres, narcisistas e homens imaturos<\/b><\/a> que querem ter as duas coisas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Things are more complex than that, of course, so let\u2019s take a closer look at these 3 types of men who have affairs.<\/p>\n Calling him a coward might be harsh, but it\u2019s not as bad as him cheating on his wife. This type of cheater is usually a married man who has become disconnected from his wife but doesn\u2019t have the courage to end the relationship or work on repairing it.<\/strong><\/p>\n Things aren\u2019t always black and white. A man in an unhappy relationship isn\u2019t the only person to blame for the things that aren\u2019t working.<\/p>\n No entanto, ele tinha problemas de intimidade <\/a> e optou por lidar com os problemas da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o traindo o seu parceiro quando outras solu\u00e7\u00f5es poderiam ter conduzido a resultados diferentes.<\/strong><\/p>\n O problema com estas outras solu\u00e7\u00f5es, como confrontar o seu parceiro e comunicar abertamente, \u00e9 muito mais dif\u00edcil. Requer vulnerabilidade emocional e esfor\u00e7o<\/b>. It\u2019s far easier to start over and look for closeness elsewhere, potentially forcing the relationship to end.<\/p>\n O que \u00e9 que acontece aqui? Estas s\u00e3o as fases pelas quais ele passa.<\/p>\n \u2022 Something is missing from his relationship and his marriage<\/strong>. A vida aconteceu e ele e a mulher afastaram-se. A quantidade de amor e afeto que costumava receber da sua mulher desvaneceu-se com o tempo.<\/p>\n \u2022 His wife isn\u2019t who she used to be.<\/strong> She\u2019s not as loving, as caring, or as sexy as she once was. She doesn\u2019t give him the attention he needs. He feels like she no longer cares about his emotional and sexual needs or what’s going on with him.<\/p>\n \u2022 The falta de intimidade emocional e sexual<\/a><\/strong> faz com que ele sinta ressentimento em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua mulher e se desiluda com o seu casamento.<\/p>\n \u2022 He misses being desired.<\/strong> He wishes his wife would meet his needs, but he\u2019s afraid to talk to her. Maybe she\u2019s a nag or a bully, or she\u2019s kind and sweet. Either way, he\u2019s unhappy with her and fantasia com outra pessoa <\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 He decides to turn to affairs to fulfill his needs<\/strong>. He\u2019s looking for someone who seems interested in him as a person. He wants validation. He needs his ego stroked and for his sex life to become more exciting.<\/p>\n \u2022 The marriage is crumbling<\/strong>. Instead of communicating with his partner and working on his relationship or, if they can\u2019t work out, ending things, he decides to cheat. When he\u2019s caught, it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n \u2022 It\u2019s much easier to cheat to end his relationships<\/strong> instead of dealing with the issues directly. Even if they stay together, they won\u2019t be the same married couple they were before he had an affair.<\/p>\n Este tipo de comportamento \u00e9 o mesmo que desistir do casamento sem informar a mulher, para al\u00e9m de a magoar e trair a sua confian\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n Em poucas palavras, narcissists are people who are so selfish that they completely disregard other people\u2019s importance.<\/strong> This doesn\u2019t mean that they\u2019re inconsciente<\/em> of other people\u2019s needs and feelings, only that they\u2019re completely irrelevant to them unless they can be used.<\/p>\n Uma pessoa com perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica sente-se com direitos<\/strong> \u2013 to admiration and attention, to things and people \u2013 and he gets upset when he doesn\u2019t get what he believes he deserves.<\/p>\n Manipular e prejudicar os outros <\/a> \u00e9-lhe natural. He doesn\u2019t think about the impact of his behavior<\/strong> on other people \u2013 because other people aren\u2019t important.<\/p>\n This leads to behaviors that hurt his partner, and he doesn\u2019t see what the problem is.<\/p>\n He\u2019s capable of emotional compartmentalization and separates love from sex.<\/strong> In his case, separating love and sex doesn\u2019t mean that he can have sex with people he doesn\u2019t love, which isn\u2019t a problematic behavior in itself \u2013 it\u2019s that he considers sex completely inconsequential.<\/strong><\/p>\n Como \u00e9 que isto se aplica \u00e0 batota?<\/p>\n \u2022 He doesn\u2019t consider sex a matter of consequence<\/strong> and doesn\u2019t get why his partner would take his cheating to heart. He\u2019s capable of having sex with anyone without feeling anything, not only about the person but also the repercussions.<\/p>\n For example, he wouldn\u2019t understand why his one-night stand might hurt his primary relationship any more than simply having a conversation with another woman would. This doesn\u2019t excuse him \u2013 he still knows it\u2019s wrong, but he simply doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n \u2022 Sex in the affair means nothing to him<\/strong> \u2013 it just happens. When he sees an opportunity, he takes it. If a woman is open to his sexual advances, he sees no reason he shouldn\u2019t pursue an encounter or affair with her. It\u2019s just sex, after all, and instead of being a big deal, it\u2019s simply available.<\/p>\n Isto tamb\u00e9m pode levar \u00e0 depend\u00eancia sexual.<\/p>\n \u2022 Because sex is such a casual thing<\/strong> Para ele, subestima o quanto pode magoar a sua parceira com o seu comportamento. A sua falta de empatia pelos outros e a sua abordagem desinteressada e oportunista ao sexo podem lev\u00e1-lo a trair v\u00e1rias parceiras.<\/p>\n When he\u2019s involved in several affairs, he\u2019s using the women he\u2019s cheating with to meet his needs without considering theirs. Ele precisa de aten\u00e7\u00e3o constante das mulheres <\/a>e escolhe o que gosta em cada um deles, criando uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 medida.<\/p>\n \u2022 Even though he has no moral qualms<\/strong> Apesar de n\u00e3o se importar em magoar a sua parceira com o seu comportamento, este tipo de ad\u00faltero ainda est\u00e1 consciente de que \u00e9 errado e que ter\u00e1 certas consequ\u00eancias. Ele n\u00e3o tem remorsos, mas, em vez disso, sente-se excitado por se comportar mal.<\/p>\n He sees himself as a thrill-seeker, and the risk of getting caught makes him enjoy his affair even more. He likes it that he could get caught, but the fact that it\u2019s a chance to screw up his whole life doesn\u2019t matter to him.<\/p>\n This kind of cheater is in a relationship or marriage with someone he doesn\u2019t see as a partner but as a caretaker. In a way, ele v\u00ea a sua mulher como a sua m\u00e3e, e doesn\u2019t have the maturity<\/b><\/a> para resolver os seus problemas.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ele quer ter as duas coisas: uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1vel em casa com algu\u00e9m que cuide dele e uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o excitante fora do seu casamento. Por esta raz\u00e3o, age como um adolescente ou, mais exatamente, an immature mama\u2019s boy <\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 He says he’s in love with his wife, but he really likes the convenience<\/strong> and what he gets from her. He behaves like an adolescent: he\u2019s looking for independence, but he still wants his \u201cmom\u201d (his wife) to take care of him at home.<\/p>\n He enjoys the sneaking around that comes with cheating \u2013 he sees it as rebelling against the rules that his mom-wife has imposed<\/strong>. Todo o esfor\u00e7o e conspira\u00e7\u00e3o necess\u00e1rios para ter um caso secreto d\u00e3o-lhe a emo\u00e7\u00e3o de se safar com alguma coisa.<\/p>\n \u2022 To him, cheating is also a way of taking control.<\/strong> Because he sees his wife as someone responsible for him who does so much for him, making a decision without her feels like he\u2019s in charge. He\u2019s seeking validation and trying to increase his self-esteem by proving that he exists outside of his marriage.<\/p>\n \u2022 He doesn\u2019t like his daily life.<\/strong> He might be married to a wife who makes him feel inadequate, or he simply sees her that way because he doesn\u2019t like that she reacts when comporta-se de forma imatura<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 If o parceiro tem pouco desejo sexual<\/a> or isn’t interested in sex<\/strong> tanto quanto ele, pode acabar por sentir uma frustra\u00e7\u00e3o sexual que procura resolver fora do casamento. Em vez de falar com a mulher e tentar resolver o problema, decide trair.<\/p>\n \u2022 He\u2019s another kind of cheater who compartmentalizes his sex life.<\/strong> He separates people into those he loves and those he has sex with, or more accurately, he thinks that there\u2019s \u2018wife sex\u2019 and \u2018lover sex,\u2019 or believes that his A sua mulher \u00e9 para o amor, e a sua parceira \u00e9 para o sexo.<\/strong><\/p>\n He judges people by their sexual behavior, and he\u2019s ashamed of some of his desires.<\/strong> Because he doesn\u2019t want to be married to a woman who does certain things and behaves in a certain way, he\u2019d never talk to his partner about his desires or ask her to fulfill them.<\/p>\n Isto leva a que o sexo com a sua mulher seja aborrecido e insatisfat\u00f3rio<\/strong>. Se acrescentarmos a isso o facto de ele ver a mulher todos os dias numa variedade de contextos menos sensuais, a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com a sua companheira de caso parece uma refei\u00e7\u00e3o de batota durante uma dieta.<\/p>\n The woman he\u2019s cheating with seems like a glamorous, sexual being who wears lingerie and perfume and is willing to do that thing he\u2019d never ask his wife to. O sexo com ela \u00e9 \u00f3timo devido \u00e0 sua falta de inibi\u00e7\u00f5es, com o aspeto adicional da fantasia e da transgress\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n Os homens que t\u00eam casos exibem muitas bandeiras vermelhas e sinais que podem ser facilmente ignorados. Sometimes the person who\u2019s being cheated on subconsciously turns a blind eye and plays ignorant on purpose.<\/strong><\/p>\n Keeping up with an affair isn\u2019t simple \u2013 trying to keep it hidden means lots of acting, strategizing, and remembering to keep his story straight. Still, when you don\u2019t want something to be true, it becomes easy to ignore the warning signs that he\u2019s cheating<\/a>.<\/p>\n When a man displays several of the following signs, there\u2019s a chance that he\u2019s engaging in an affair.<\/p>\n \u2022 Lack of interest in sex<\/strong>. If he\u2019s suddenly less interested or not interested in sex with his wife at all, it can mean that he\u2019s getting what he needs elsewhere.<\/p>\n \u2022 Different sexual behavior.<\/strong> When you do have sex, he does things he\u2019s never done before, even if he\u2019s not usually the experimental type.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious phone use.<\/strong> Some examples are: hiding his phone, always keeping it on silent, not answering when you\u2019re around, always texting, being unable to reach him on the phone at certain times, change in use of social media apps, and receiving calls he says are from the wrong number, etc.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious computer use.<\/strong> Ele pode esconder a utiliza\u00e7\u00e3o do computador, desligar o computador ou minimizar uma janela quando se aproxima, utilizar o computador \u00e0 noite enquanto dorme, limpar o hist\u00f3rico do browser, deixar de utilizar dispositivos partilhados, etc.<\/p>\n \u2022 Sudden interest in his appearance<\/strong>. Se ele come\u00e7ar a vestir-se melhor ou a usar col\u00f3nia, tiver um novo penteado, come\u00e7ar a fazer exerc\u00edcio ou fizer uma dieta, pode ser a warning sign that he\u2019s cheating on you<\/a> e quer parecer melhor para o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n \u2022 Works longer hours,<\/strong> mas quando lhe perguntamos como est\u00e3o as coisas no trabalho, ele s\u00f3 tem respostas vagas.<\/p>\n \u2022 Starts going out with friends.<\/strong> If he says that he\u2019s meeting friends more often than he used to, he might not be meeting them at all.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suddenly can\u2019t account for his time.<\/strong> He might pick up new hobbies or interests that require his time but doesn\u2019t want to talk about it.<\/p>\n \u2022 Suspicious money issues.<\/strong> He suddenly spends more money but doesn\u2019t talk about it, or he stops making plans that would require you to spend a higher amount of money, such as going on vacation together.<\/p>\n \u2022 You stop doing things together.<\/strong> You don\u2019t hang out, visit other people together, or spend time with family. You feel like he avoids you.<\/p>\n \u2022 You know he lies to you.<\/strong> He obviously lies or acts secretive. He\u2019s anxious when you ask him questions.<\/p>\n \u2022 He behaves oddly.<\/strong> Something is off in his behavior. He\u2019s negative, defensive, distant, and critical. He picks fights and has mood swings.<\/p>\n \u2022 Gaslighting.<\/strong> He gets angry if you ask him about cheating. He tells you you\u2019re imagining things, or he accuses you of cheating.<\/p>\n \u2022 Your gut feeling says he\u2019s cheating.<\/strong> Even if you don\u2019t acknowledge the things you\u2019ve noticed out loud, if you pick up suspicious changes in his everyday behavior, your intuition will tell you that something is going on. Trust your instincts.<\/p>\n A \u00fanica resposta verdadeira \u00e9 porque assim o querem.<\/p>\n Pode haver um milh\u00e3o de desculpas que ele pode usar para fazer batota, um milh\u00e3o de maneiras de justificar porque \u00e9 que era a \u00fanica coisa que podia fazer, mas nenhuma delas \u00e9 a verdadeira raz\u00e3o. H\u00e1 muitas causas subjacentes que podem levar \u00e0 batota, mas no final, as pessoas fazem batota<\/b> porque o escolhem fazer<\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\n He might claim that he\u2019s not built for monogamy, that he has mental issues that caused it, or it was in the heat of the moment. Yes, there\u2019s always a problem with the relationship or a problem with the person that leads to cheating, but a raz\u00e3o pela qual os homens t\u00eam casos \u00e9 simples: <\/strong>porque decidem fazer batota e fazem-no.<\/strong><\/p>\n O facto \u00e9 que most men don’t stop cheating because they feel guilty or because they don’t want to be that person anymore but because they get caught<\/strong> diz-lhe tudo o que precisa de saber sobre o que os homens que t\u00eam casos pensam realmente sobre a trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Men who don\u2019t cheat are men who have chosen not to cheat.<\/strong> Instead, they deal with the problems that cheaters claim are what lead them to having affairs in emotionally mature and productive ways that don\u2019t cause their wives pain.<\/p>\n Existem diferentes tipos de casos porque as pessoas procuram coisas diferentes fora das suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es prim\u00e1rias. There are things that some people don\u2019t even consider cheating, while they can cause heartbreak in others.<\/strong> Aqui est\u00e3o algumas tipos de batota<\/a> em que as pessoas se envolvem.<\/p>\n Um caso emocional<\/a> n\u00e3o tem intimidade sexual, mas envolve uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional com outra pessoa. Pode desenvolver-se entre colegas de trabalho, amigos ou conhecidos e, com o tempo, pode criar danos duradouros na rela\u00e7\u00e3o com o parceiro que est\u00e1 a ser tra\u00eddo.<\/p>\n At first, it can be justified as being \u2018just friends,\u2019 but the emotional intimacy involved in this kind of relationship often oversteps the boundaries of friendship.<\/strong> When he\u2019s closer and more fond of his \u2018just friend\u2019 than his wife, conta como batota <\/a>, and it can\u2019t be denied that it\u2019s an affair.<\/p>\n Um caso amoroso pode desenvolver-se a partir de um caso emocional ou porque um homem inicia uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica e sexual com outra mulher. It\u2019s a love affair that would be considered normal if he didn\u2019t have a wife who he is knowingly hurting by being in another relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n He can try to justify it by blaming it on the magic of falling in love or claiming that his wife doesn\u2019t understand him as much as the other woman. This type of affair often lasts for a long time and can be on and off.<\/p>\n Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o puramente sexual, como uma aventura ou um encontro de uma noite, raramente acontece uma vez. Um homem que trai a sua mulher desta forma muitas vezes desenvolve um padr\u00e3o de comportamento e continua a envolver-se neste tipo de caso.<\/strong><\/p>\n Em muitos casos, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problemas no seu casamento, mas a raz\u00e3o pela qual ele se envolve em sexo extraconjugal \u00e9 porque tem uma oportunidade e aproveita-a.<\/strong> Por vezes, arrepende-se destes casos e tenta parar, mas acaba por voltar a eles.<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 o caso em que o homem quer manter-se casado e continuar o seu caso durante muito tempo. Quando um homem quer estar em rela\u00e7\u00f5es com a mulher e com o parceiro do caso<\/strong>, he\u2019ll jump through hoops to keep his affair hidden.<\/p>\n Ele quer todos os benef\u00edcios que estas duas rela\u00e7\u00f5es oferecem.<\/strong> His affair partner doesn\u2019t understand that he\u2019s using her <\/a>. She often believes that he\u2019ll eventually leave his wife, but if forced to choose, he\u2019ll stay with his wife.<\/p>\n Este \u00e9 o tipo de caso em que o traidor quer conseguir algo ao ter um caso.<\/strong> Uma das raz\u00f5es pode ser para se vingar da mulher que o traiu.<\/p>\n Another situation is if he\u2019s trying to get caught and cause the end of his marriage. If he doesn\u2019t have the courage to leave his wife, he might get her to leave him by cheating on her and making it easy for her to find out.<\/p>\n1. O cobarde negligenciado<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. O narcisista oportunista<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n3. The immature mama’s boy<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nQuais s\u00e3o os sinais de alerta de um traidor?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPorque \u00e9 que os homens traem mesmo que te amem?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nQuais s\u00e3o os diferentes tipos de assuntos?<\/h2>\n
1. O caso emocional<\/h3>\n
2. O caso rom\u00e2ntico<\/h3>\n
3. O caso de sexo casual<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. The \u2018mistress\u2019 affair<\/h3>\n
5. The \u2018make a point\u2019 affair<\/h3>\n
It\u2019s All About Choices<\/h2>\n