{"id":153718,"date":"2022-06-17T12:22:33","date_gmt":"2022-06-17T12:22:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=153718"},"modified":"2022-06-17T12:22:33","modified_gmt":"2022-06-17T12:22:33","slug":"durante-quanto-tempo-e-que-um-narcisista-o-ignora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/durante-quanto-tempo-e-que-um-narcisista-o-ignora\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo \u00e9 que um narcisista o vai ignorar? (+Porque \u00e9 que o fazem e como os fazer parar)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando uma pessoa normal lhe d\u00e1 o tratamento silencioso<\/a>, it probably means that they\u2019re too hurt to even talk to you or that they\u2019re trying to go no contact. But when a narcissist behaves like this, it\u2019s just one of their manipulation techniques.<\/p>\n

However, being aware of why they do it doesn\u2019t make you feel any better. Being familiar with this doesn\u2019t give you the answer to the question, \u201cHow long will a narcissist ignore you?\u201d<\/p>\n

Well, luckily, I will. And that\u2019s not all, folks. You\u2019ll also get a tutorial on how to act when this starts happening.<\/p>\n

Quanto tempo \u00e9 que um narcisista o vai ignorar?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m pode dizer o n\u00famero exato de dias que um narcisista o vai ignorar. No entanto, uma coisa \u00e9 certa: o tratamento narc\u00edsico do sil\u00eancio<\/a> acabar\u00e3o por parar e, mais tarde ou mais cedo, tentar\u00e3o voltar \u00e0 sua vida.<\/p>\n

A person with a narcissistic personality disorder will ignore you as long as it suits them. They will stop when they decide that your punishment is over or when they think that they\u2019ve regained control over you.<\/p>\n

The answer to the question, \u201cHow long will a narcissist ignore you?\u201d also depends on the stage your relationship is in. If you two have just started dating, it\u2019s safe to say they\u2019ll reach out in two weeks max.<\/p>\n

At this point, a narcissist knows that they can\u2019t afford to ignore you for too long. After all, they\u2019re not sure whether you\u2019re hooked on them completely or not. What if you fall out of love with them while they\u2019re gone and refuse to let them back in?<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if this is a long-term relationship, the silent treatment might last up to three months. At this point, they\u2019re certain that you\u2019re not going anywhere and that they can come back to you whenever they please, so they abuse this privilege.<\/p>\n

11 raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista o ignora<\/h2>\n

To figure out \u201cHow long will a narcissist ignore you?\u201d you have to understand why they do it in the first place. This applies to all people with NPD, including your narcissistic partner, pai narcisista<\/a>, irm\u00e3o, melhor amigo, colega de trabalho, etc.<\/p>\n

1. Parte do abuso narc\u00edsico<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve seen some of the other red flags or not, every life coach and relationship expert will tell you that the silent treatment alone is enough for someone to be classified as an emotional abuser. This doesn\u2019t mean that normal people don\u2019t ignore their loved ones from time to time, but what differentiates this from narcissistic behavior is why they do it.<\/p>\n

Um narcisista ignora-o deliberadamente como parte da sua abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a>. They\u2019re perfectly aware that this treatment is hurting you, and they continue to do it despite that.<\/p>\n

Actually, to be clear, that\u2019s exactly why pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> do it \u2013 because it is a way to hurt you!<\/p>\n

2. Desvalorizar o seu valor<\/h3>\n

Ser\u00e1 que n\u00e3o sou suficientemente digno para falarem comigo? O que \u00e9 que eu fiz de errado para ser tratado desta maneira? Ser\u00e1 que mere\u00e7o mesmo este tipo de tratamento?<\/em><\/p>\n

Quantas vezes estes e outros pensamentos semelhantes j\u00e1 lhe passaram pela cabe\u00e7a? Pois bem, a primeira vez que se fez a si pr\u00f3prio uma destas perguntas foi no momento em que o narco conseguiu o seu intento.<\/p>\n

O seu objetivo \u00e9 desvalorizar o seu valor, de uma forma ou de outra. E ignor\u00e1-lo acabar\u00e1 por destruir o seu bem-estar mental e sentimento de autoestima<\/a>.<\/p>\n

This is the message a narcissist is trying to send you: \u201cYou\u2019re not worthy of my reaction. You\u2019re not worthy of me, a supreme human being, even talking to you, let alone anything else.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

They hope that this silent treatment will destroy your self-confidence and convince you that you\u2019re good for nothing.<\/p>\n

3. Para o castigar<\/h3>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Everyone with a narcissistic personality disorder feels a sense of entitlement. Basically, they\u2019re entitled to do whatever they want, and everyone else is just there to do as they’re told.<\/p>\n

Por isso, quando se atreve a quebrar as suas regras imagin\u00e1rias e lhes d\u00e1 les\u00e3o narc\u00edsica<\/a>, all hell will break loose. Sometimes, they\u2019ll throw a temper tantrum, and sometimes, they\u2019ll ignore you \u201cto teach you a lesson.\u201d<\/p>\n

Their sick, twisted mind thinks they\u2019re doing you a favor by behaving like this. They\u2019re teaching how you should behave. They\u2019re showing you what is acceptable and what they will not tolerate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The worst thing is that, in most cases, they will actually succeed. The last thing you want is for them to shut down again, so you\u2019ll bow your head and do what you\u2019re told \u2013 just so you don\u2019t have to go through this agony again.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, they\u2019ve trained you to behave as they please.<\/p>\n

4. Aumento dos n\u00edveis de stress<\/h3>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter how long will a narcissist ignore you \u2013 even if it lasts a couple of hours, it will stress you out. And that\u2019s perfectly normal \u2013 after all, this is someone you love, and you can\u2019t stand them not talking to you out of the blue.<\/p>\n

Well, that\u2019s exactly what they want to achieve: to raise your stress levels. You\u2019ll be nervous and anxious while this is happening, and you\u2019ll wrongly assume that you feel this way because you can\u2019t live without them. Of course, all of that will increase your v\u00ednculo traum\u00e1tico<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you that this is just one of their manipulation tactics to ruin your mental health. They\u2019re deliberately doing this to make you sentir-se co-dependente<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

At this point, you\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just to get rid of this awful feeling. And if that means begging for a narc to come back, that\u2019s exactly what you\u2019re about to do.<\/p>\n

5. Para obter uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

There is one thing no narcissist can live without: attention. The only way for them to feel important is by getting their victim\u2019s reaction.<\/p>\n

After all, that\u2019s why they do all of this. If you\u2019d stay numb to their attempts, they would move on to someone else in no time.<\/p>\n

Basically, it doesn\u2019t matter how you\u2019ll react to this jogo passivo-agressivo<\/a>, as long as you give them some kind of reaction. You might cry, get angry, or even try making them jealous \u2013 it doesn\u2019t matter as far as they\u2019re concerned.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The only thing that matters to a covert narcissist is to feel powerful over their victim. Your reaction is what gives them control over you \u2013 and that\u2019s exactly what they\u2019ve been trying to get all this time.<\/p>\n

6. Causar drama<\/h3>\n

People with NPD will never admit to being guilty of manipulation, passive-aggressive behavior, and other forms of emotional abuse. On the contrary, they\u2019ll do their best to switch roles and make you the bad guy.<\/p>\n

Provocam-nos, batem-nos por baixo do cinto e usam formas sorrateiras de nos magoar. E depois, quando nos descontrolamos, acusam-nos de estarmos a exagerar e de sermos loucos.<\/p>\n

At the same time, they won\u2019t hesitate to tell you that you misinterpreted everything and that things didn\u2019t happen the way you think they did. Right there, you have a textbook example of the m\u00e9todo de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o chamado gaslighting<\/a>.<\/p>\n

O mesmo acontece quando nos ignoram. Levam-nos ao limite e v\u00eaem-nos enlouquecer, o que \u00e9 uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o perfeitamente normal.<\/p>\n

No entanto, that\u2019s when they accuse you of creating drama. Of course, they\u2019ll pretend like they can\u2019t stand it, while they actually enjoy every minute of drama in your rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dizem-lhe que estavam apenas a tentar evitar uma discuss\u00e3o, quando ambos sabem que, na realidade, estavam a bloque\u00e1-lo de prop\u00f3sito.<\/p>\n

7. Parte do seu jogo quente e frio<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Every narc loves playing games. At first, they\u2019ll bomba de amor<\/a> you. After that, there comes ghosting, followed by the big return. Of course, things don\u2019t end there \u2013 instead, this is just the beginning of an endless cycle of abuse that ends with your sa\u00fade mental destru\u00edda<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Well, if you\u2019re wondering, \u201cHow long will a narcissist ignore you?\u201d the answer is \u2013 until they\u2019re ready for the next phase in this jogo quente e frio.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

If you ask them, they\u2019re doing this to keep the spark in your relationship alive. Of course, this is not how normal people think, and that\u2019s one of the reasons they\u2019re far from normal.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that they\u2019re ignoring you to make the relationship more exciting when you two get back together.<\/p>\n

8. Acerto da nova oferta<\/h3>\n

Even though I\u2019m sure you see this as the worst possible scenario, O facto de o teu narc encontrar a pr\u00f3xima v\u00edtima adequada \u00e9, na verdade, uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o disfar\u00e7ada para ti.<\/strong> Tough break for this new person, but as far as you\u2019re concerned, it\u2019s a great thing because it means that you\u2019re off the hook.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that it\u2019s possible a narcissist is ignoring you because they\u2019ve found a new supply. They\u2019re practicing triangulation and are dragging a new, innocent person into your mess on purpose.<\/p>\n

9. Sentir-se querido e necess\u00e1rio<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se you\u2019re an empath<\/a>, you\u2019re the one who can give a narc exactly what they want: love, affection, and compassion. Even though they hide it, all narcissists are addicted to all of this.<\/p>\n

No entanto, no momento em que sentem o mais pequeno vest\u00edgio de neglig\u00eancia emocional<\/a>, they start ignoring you \u2013 just to test your love for them. Basically, they panic at the mere thought of you not loving them anymore, so they make a big fuss just to assure themselves that this is not true.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No momento em que o v\u00eaem de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido por causa de algo que fizeram, sentem-se novamente desejados e necess\u00e1rios.<\/p>\n

10. You\u2019ve figured them out<\/h3>\n

If a narc realizes that their victim has them all figured out, it\u2019s the end of their world. Therefore, if you get to the bottom of their behavior, it\u2019s quite possible that they\u2019re actually running away from you because they felt exposed and vulnerable.<\/p>\n

Neste caso, o narcisista n\u00e3o sabe o que fazer. Their manipulation tactics are obviously not working, and they can\u2019t lure you back into their trap.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Basically, the only thing they can do is disappear. But don\u2019t worry, they\u2019ll come back<\/a> sooner or later \u2013 they just need some more time to reorganize themselves and come up with a new strategy to play you once again.<\/p>\n

11. Porque podem<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This might sound harsh, but at the end of the day, you\u2019re enabling narcissistic behavior. Of course, I\u2019m not talking about physically rela\u00e7\u00f5es abusivas<\/a> onde se teme pela vida e se tem demasiado medo para pensar em afastar-se.<\/p>\n

However, in all other cases, you\u2019re letting them get away with all of this. They come back after ignoring you for some time, and you welcome them with open arms.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, what prevents a narcissist from repeating the entire cycle when they feel like it? You\u2019re clearly not planning to leave this narcissistic relationship, and they never feel any consequences for their actions.<\/p>\n

6 maneiras de fazer com que um narcisista pare de o ignorar<\/h2>\n

Now that you know the answer to the question, \u201cHow long will a narcissist ignore you?\u201d you\u2019re wondering how to make it stop. Well, trust me, after you apply some of these methods, you\u2019ll hear from them the next day.<\/p>\n

1. Compreender as suas raz\u00f5es<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Antes de agir, primeiro tem de perceber quais as raz\u00f5es pelas quais um narcisista o ignora, mencionadas acima, que se aplicam ao seu agressor.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t succeed in anything until you understand whether they\u2019re doing this to punish you for something, to regain control, or if this is just part of their ciclo de abuso emocional<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know that finding the core reason is not the easiest job in the world. Here\u2019s a tip to do it right: forget about your feelings for this person.<\/p>\n

Pretend that you\u2019re nothing but a passive bystander in this narcissistic relationship. How would you classify your narcisista dissimulado<\/a>? What would you say is the reason they\u2019re acting the way they are?<\/p>\n

2. Espelhar-se num narcisista<\/h3>\n

Em poucas palavras, espelhar um narcisista<\/a> means treating them how they treat you. This is difficult to achieve for normal people, especially if we\u2019re talking about a narc you care for deeply, despite everything. However, na maioria dos casos, esta \u00e9 a \u00fanica linguagem que as pessoas com NPD falam e compreendem.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Basically, if they\u2019re gaslighting you, you gaslight them back. If they\u2019re love bombing you, you love bomb them back. And, of course, if they\u2019re giving you the silent treatment, you ignore them back.<\/p>\n

This will leave a narcissist confused and lost. You\u2019ll ser mais esperto que eles<\/a>, and that\u2019s exactly where you want them to be.<\/p>\n

3. Trabalhar a sua autoestima<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Remember we talked about your abuser wanting to destroy your sense of self-worth at all costs, and that is why they\u2019re ignoring you in the first place? Well, it\u2019s your job to prove them wrong.<\/p>\n

E que melhor maneira de o fazer do que trabalhar a sua autoestima<\/a>? Mostre ao seu narcisista e, acima de tudo, a si pr\u00f3prio que o seu valor<\/a> doesn\u2019t depend on their presence in your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You are capable of being happy and self-confident without them around. They didn\u2019t succeed in convincing you that you\u2019re worthless or good enough and your self-image won\u2019t change just because they woke up in the morning and decided to ignore you.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t fall into the blame game trap<\/h3>\n

Be careful because every narcissist will do their best to make you think that you\u2019re responsible for this mess. According to this view, they would never ignore you if you treated them differently.<\/p>\n

Tudo \u00e9 culpa sua porque os provocou a fazer isto. Parece-lhe familiar?<\/p>\n

Tenho de vos avisar que um narc\u00f3tico vai continuar jogar o jogo da culpa<\/a>. Please, don\u2019t fall for it \u2013 it\u2019s a trap.<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t act like you\u2019re clueless<\/h3>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s another thing you shouldn\u2019t be doing while a narcissist is ignoring you: pretending to be clueless. Don\u2019t act like you have no idea what they\u2019re doing and, most importantly, what they\u2019re trying to achieve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, don\u2019t be afraid to speak your mind. Call them out on their actions and show them that you\u2019re perfectly aware of everything that\u2019s been going on. Trust me: that will shock them more than anything else.<\/p>\n

Significa que o seu disfarce foi descoberto e que t\u00eam de encontrar novas estrat\u00e9gias s\u00e9rias.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Agir sem se incomodar<\/h3>\n

Finally, the key is to act completely unbothered by everything that has happened. It\u2019s okay to say you\u2019re hurt if someone is ignoring you. However, that doesn\u2019t mean that your life is over.<\/p>\n

Even though I know you\u2019re hurting, please pretend to be completely unmoved and untouched by their behavior. Don\u2019t give them what they want \u2013 attention and proof that they\u2019ve made a serious impact on you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em vez de lhes enviar par\u00e1grafos longos e implorar-lhes que falem consigo, deixe-os em paz. Em vez de os perseguir e pedir uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o, seguir em frente sem conclus\u00e3o<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Trust me when I tell you that this is what will hurt them most. Once your narc sees that you couldn\u2019t care less about their silent treatment, they\u2019ll be at your doorstep the next day.<\/p>\n

O que fazer se um narcisista o ignora<\/h2>\n

A melhor coisa a fazer quando um narcisista o ignora \u00e9 ignor\u00e1-lo de volta.<\/strong> If you act like it\u2019s the end of the world, you\u2019re just giving them the green light to continue. You\u2019re making them feel important and giving them validation.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you act like you\u2019re completely unbothered by them stonewalling you, you cease to be their source of narcissistic supply.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que um narcisista fica louco quando o ignoramos?<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Sim, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa enlouquecer um narcisista<\/a> more than running into someone who doesn\u2019t only have them figured out but also has the ability to beat them at their own game. Ignoring a narcissist means giving them zero attention, and let\u2019s not forget that they can\u2019t live without getting attention.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Basically, when you ignore them, you\u2019re doing what they wanted to do to you: you\u2019re destroying their sense of self-worth and deepening their trauma bond.<\/p>\n

Even though this is not something you should be doing with normal people, sadly, sometimes, it\u2019s frequently the only technique to get at least some revenge on your narcissist.<\/p>\n

O que fazer quando um narcisista lhe d\u00e1 o tratamento do sil\u00eancio?<\/h2>\n

A melhor coisa a fazer quando um narcisista o ignora \u00e9 dar-lhe exatamente o que ele obviamente queria e ir embora nenhum contacto<\/a>.<\/strong> But going no contact doesn\u2019t only include phone calls and mensagens de texto<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It means you don\u2019t respond to their attempts to reach out, and most importantly, you ignore their flying monkeys (the people a narc uses to do the bullying for them), and you don\u2019t stalk their social media. You disappear from their life, sit back, and watch them desperately trying to crawl back into yours.<\/p>\n

Also, remember that this has to be an act of ghosting. You won\u2019t achieve anything if you announce you\u2019re leaving or give them an explanation for it.<\/p>\n

Para terminar:<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be focused on trying to figure out, \u201cHow long will a narcissist ignore you?\u201d As long as you sit and count the days from the last time they replied to your text messages, it means that your focus is still on them. And trust me, they feel it and see it as encouragement to keep up with the good work.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, trabalhe nas t\u00e1cticas que o ajudar\u00e3o a ferir emocionalmente o seu narcisista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Look, don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I assure you that I\u2019m not telling you that this is the right way to act. On the contrary, the only smart thing to do would be to escape this toxic relationship without ever looking back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, this is the only way to get out of this cycle of abuse once and for all. I won\u2019t lie to you: by doing all of the things mentioned above, you\u2019re only dragging yourself deeper into this mud you\u2019ve ended up in.<\/p>\n

No entanto, sei que dizer a algu\u00e9m para afastar-se<\/a> is much easier said than done. I\u2019m perfectly aware that you\u2019ve already chosen your path and that you\u2019ve decided to continue with these games.<\/p>\n

I know I can\u2019t change your mind, so I\u2019d rather give you instructions to show your abuser como o jogo \u00e9 jogado<\/a>!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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