{"id":154144,"date":"2022-06-24T06:55:30","date_gmt":"2022-06-24T06:55:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=154144"},"modified":"2022-06-28T08:28:06","modified_gmt":"2022-06-28T08:28:06","slug":"homem-crise-de-meia-idade-sintomas-casamento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-crise-de-meia-idade-sintomas-casamento\/","title":{"rendered":"13 Sintomas mais comuns da crise de meia-idade masculina Casamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sempre que penso numa crise de meia-idade nos homens, o filme Louco, Est\u00fapido, Amor<\/em> vem-me imediatamente \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

O filme descreve um homem num estado de desespero (depois de descobrir que a sua mulher o traiu). Em breve conhece o seu salvador (Ryan Gosling), que o ensina a atrair mulheres e o ajuda a recuperar a sua masculinidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It would be awesome if Ryan Gosling coached men going through a midlife crisis in real life as well, but unfortunately, most of them aren\u2019t so lucky. Passar por um casamento com sintomas de crise de meia-idade masculina pode ser um verdadeiro desafio para ambos os parceiros.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Um desejo s\u00fabito de excita\u00e7\u00e3o, falta de realiza\u00e7\u00e3o e de concretiza\u00e7\u00e3o, arrependimento, procura de juventude.<\/em>.. Estes s\u00e3o alguns dos principais sintomas da crise da meia-idade com que os homens t\u00eam de lidar.<\/p>\n

Below you\u2018ll find all you need to know about men going through male midlife crisis symptoms marriage, so stay tuned! ?<\/p>\n

Crise de meia-idade masculina Sintomas Casamento<\/h2>\n

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If you\u2019re a man unsure whether you\u2019re going through a midlife crisis or you have a partner who might be dealing with it, these signs and symptoms will answer your questions:<\/p>\n

1. Apatia e inquieta\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

Um dos maiores sinais de uma crise de meia-idade num homem \u00e9 o sentimento de apatia e inquieta\u00e7\u00e3o. Isto inclui a falta de motiva\u00e7\u00e3o e o facto de n\u00e3o se importar com nada do que se passa \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n

A apatia pode fazer com que o c\u00f4njuge se sinta negligenciado devido a uma diminui\u00e7\u00e3o significativa dos seus esfor\u00e7os.<\/strong> Isto significa que o seu casamento come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a carecer de afeto, de surpresas e de emo\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, surgem tamb\u00e9m epis\u00f3dios de inquieta\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00fabita com dificuldade em concentrar-se na tarefa que tem em m\u00e3os. Passar tempo com o c\u00f4njuge deixou de ser uma fonte de alegria porque os seus pensamentos vagueiam constantemente.<\/p>\n

2. NFA: Necessidade de Aventura<\/h3>\n

O desejo de mudar de vida \u00e9 omnipresente. Os sintomas da crise da meia-idade masculina no casamento incluem tamb\u00e9m a necessidade de aventura.<\/p>\n

Estes homens sentem-se presos numa rotina e est\u00e3o aborrecidos na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>\/casamento.<\/strong> J\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e3o interessados em ver filmes com os seus parceiros ou ir a restaurantes \u00e0s sextas-feiras \u00e0 noite.<\/p>\n

Querem experimentar algo novo, algo selvagem e diferente. Pode ser bungee jumping, excesso de velocidade e condu\u00e7\u00e3o agressiva, viajar para pa\u00edses inseguros, ou qualquer outra coisa.<\/p>\n

They feel this strong urge to change their lifestyles and start doing things they usually don\u2019t<\/strong>. Sim, isto tamb\u00e9m inclui ter casos, que explicarei em pormenor mais adiante.<\/p>\n

3. Medo de envelhecer<\/h3>\n

Almost every husband\u2019s midlife crisis can be summarized in the following sentence: \u201cOMG, I\u2019m so old, and day by day, I\u2019m getting older. Have I done everything I ever wanted in this life?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

O medo de envelhecer tamb\u00e9m pode ser despoletado pela morte de um familiar pr\u00f3ximo, de um amigo ou de um ente querido. For example, my friend\u2019s husband was triggered when his best friend suddenly died from complications of a heart attack.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s when the mid-life crisis inspired him to start questioning his life choices and make up for lost time. Fear of aging can be so severe that most men start making impulsive decisions.<\/p>\n

Deixam de pensar nas consequ\u00eancias ou de assumir a responsabilidade pelos seus actos.<\/strong> Their mind is simply focused on seizing the day and YOLO (because they don\u2019t have much time left).<\/p>\n

4. Mudan\u00e7as dram\u00e1ticas na apar\u00eancia<\/h3>\n

Uma mudan\u00e7a dr\u00e1stica na apar\u00eancia \u00e9 provavelmente um dos sintomas mais famosos da crise da meia-idade. It\u2019s when a man looks at himself in the mirror and realizes he\u2019s far from the man he used to be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Youthfulness and a toned body are a thing of the past and are their biggest concern these days. If they\u2018re not satisfied with their appearance, this can lower their self-esteem.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s how most of these men turn into homens que anseiam por aten\u00e7\u00e3o feminina constante<\/a>. Mudam o penteado, actualizam o guarda-roupa (compram algumas pe\u00e7as jovens) e come\u00e7am a ir ao gin\u00e1sio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Their goal is to postpone aging and feel like they\u2019re young, fresh, and funky again. This is especially true for men who were totally hot at a young age and now want to relive the good old days!<\/p>\n

5. Depress\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

Sim, uma crise de meia-idade masculina pode afetar muito a sua sa\u00fade mental. Sentimentos de solid\u00e3o e depress\u00e3o existencial<\/a> interferir na sua vida quotidiana e no seu casamento.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o prestam aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao c\u00f4njuge porque est\u00e3o concentrados no luto da sua juventude.<\/strong> If they suffer from a lack of accomplishment, they’ll feel like they\u2019re n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom.<\/a><\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o os sinais mais comuns de depress\u00e3o com que estes homens t\u00eam de lidar:<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Sleep changes<\/p>\n

\u2022 Changes in eating habits<\/p>\n

\u2022 Loss of interest in things they enjoyed before<\/p>\n

\u2022 Helplessness and hopelessness<\/p>\n

\u2022 Suicidal thoughts<\/p>\n

If you (or someone you know) are going through this, don\u2019t hesitate to seek professional help.<\/p>\n

6. Tomar decis\u00f5es impulsivas<\/h3>\n

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As fases de crise da meia-idade masculina s\u00e3o frequentemente preenchidas com a tomada de decis\u00f5es impulsivas. Desde comprar carros desportivos novos a compras excessivas, jogos de azar, etc.<\/p>\n

Tomar decis\u00f5es impulsivas tem tudo a ver com quebrar a rotina e satisfazer todos os seus desejos (incluindo os irracionais).<\/strong><\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say that they have dinner with their spouse, and all of a sudden, they decide not to show up because they want to go out and drink with their friends instead.<\/p>\n

Symptoms of a midlife crisis also include major changes like a career change. This doesn\u2019t have to be an impulsive decision if they\u2019ve been thinking about doing it for some time.<\/p>\n

7. Culpa<\/h3>\n

Quando penso em homens de meia-idade acorrentados pela culpa, penso em homens que se sentem culpados por n\u00e3o correrem riscos e ouvirem o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Perhaps they feel guilty for not committing to another woman because they weren\u2019t ready to back then<\/strong>. Agora, podem come\u00e7ar a pensar demasiado que seriam mais felizes com essa mulher do que com a sua atual parceira.<\/p>\n

Guilt and overthinking are the two biggest enemies of happiness because they force you to pursue a missing ingredient that often doesn\u2019t even exist.<\/p>\n

8. Ter casos (normalmente com mulheres mais jovens)<\/h3>\n

Porque \u00e9 que os homens traem?<\/a> Bem, uma das respostas a essa pergunta \u00e9 uma crise de meia-idade masculina!<\/p>\n

Since they\u2019re seeking adventure and making impulsive decisions, they often can\u2019t resist the temptation to be with another woman.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This has nothing to do with whether they\u2019re in a happy or unhappy marriage. Their desire to feel youthful again and \u201ctaste something new\u201d is the main culprit for this behavior.<\/p>\n

Olhar para outras mulheres online<\/a> and being with younger women makes them feel \u201cyoung\u201d and desired, which is exactly what men going through a midlife crisis seek.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, typically, it\u2019s an homem mais velho e mulher mais nova<\/a> combina\u00e7\u00e3o. Basta pensar em Richard Gere no filme Pretty Woman,<\/em> and you\u2019ll get the idea.<\/p>\n

9. Baixos n\u00edveis de resist\u00eancia<\/h3>\n

Baixos n\u00edveis de resist\u00eancia podem afetar todo o seu bem-estar. Se qualquer esfor\u00e7o f\u00edsico e mental prolongado os fizer sentir esgotados, a sua qualidade de vida e o seu casamento diminuem significativamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For example, let\u2019s say their spouse is interested in going hiking. Due to low stamina levels, their male partner might not be able to complete the challenge.<\/p>\n

Low stamina can also affect their mental health as well. E.g., Their performance in bed is far less, and it\u2019s not of the same quality as before.<\/p>\n

If a man thinks he\u2019s incapable of satisfying their partner, this will make him feel guilty and disappointed in himself.<\/strong> That\u2019s also one of the reasons they start working on their appearance and strength.<\/p>\n

10. Altera\u00e7\u00f5es de humor<\/h3>\n

For women, menopause is a surefire indicator of the beginning of a midlife crisis. For men, it\u2019s mostly mood swings and other things we\u2019ve listed so far.<\/p>\n

Deixem-me explicar melhor esta quest\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

As mudan\u00e7as de humor s\u00e3o como estar constantemente numa montanha-russa emocional.<\/strong> At one point, they\u2019re calm, everything seems perfect, and they\u2019re affectionate toward their partner.<\/p>\n

The next moment, they\u2019re restless, thinking of going on adventures (or cheating on their partner with a younger woman).<\/strong> Controlar as altera\u00e7\u00f5es de humor<\/a> \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, e a melhor solu\u00e7\u00e3o seria ir a aconselhamento de casais.<\/a><\/p>\n

11. Luta contra a intimidade<\/h3>\n

No que diz respeito \u00e0 sua vida sexual, os sintomas da crise da meia-idade masculina no casamento podem ser divididos em aumento ou diminui\u00e7\u00e3o do desejo sexual.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s when a man can\u2019t satisfy his needs because his sex drive is too high.<\/strong> Pode tamb\u00e9m acontecer que ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o consiga satisfazer as suas necessidades com o seu parceiro e comece a procurar outros.<\/p>\n

Contrariamente a isso, a diminui\u00e7\u00e3o da libido traz consigo os seus pr\u00f3prios problemas, tais como n\u00e3o conseguir satisfazer o parceiro = sentir-se desiludido.<\/strong> A casamento sem sexo<\/a> \u00e9 um dos problemas mais comuns no casamento.<\/p>\n

12. Problemas de toxicodepend\u00eancia<\/h3>\n

Os problemas de depend\u00eancia est\u00e3o sobretudo relacionados com a depress\u00e3o, que \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um dos sinais de alerta para a crise da meia-idade. Os problemas de depend\u00eancia incluem jogos de azar, compras excessivas e abuso de \u00e1lcool e outras subst\u00e2ncias.<\/p>\n

Escusado ser\u00e1 dizer que um c\u00f4njuge que lida com a depend\u00eancia pode ser um pesadelo para qualquer casamento.<\/strong> It\u2019s when all their effort goes into one thing: their addiction.<\/p>\n

Partners no longer talk about their relationship problems because they literally \u201cno longer exist.\u201d They\u2019re primarily focused on their addiction and other symptoms caused by going through a midlife crisis.<\/p>\n

13. Recordar constantemente a sua juventude<\/h3>\n

Casacos de cabedal, ir a concertos, beber com os amigos, mulheres (MUITAS mulheres). Estas s\u00e3o algumas das coisas em que pensam quando a nostalgia da juventude entra em a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

They can\u2019t deal with the fact they will no longer be seen as young, attractive, and with high stamina<\/strong>. Also, they\u2019ll grieve that they spent their best years finishing college, worrying about mortgages and other \u201clife things.\u201d<\/p>\n

And yes, that is why they\u2019ll try to defy the odds and start living a youthful lifestyle again that includes excessive drinking, careless attitude (being with other women?), and doing all the things they did before.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 9 maneiras de como os amigos destroem os casamentos e o que fazer a respeito<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 uma crise de meia-idade?<\/h2>\n

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I think a better question would be: What is a midlife crisis for a man? Well, it\u2019s a psychological crisis. It\u2019s often triggered by events linked with aging like questioning their own mortality, deaths of those close to them, and similar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Uma crise de meia-idade consiste em diferentes fases que podem ocorrer simultaneamente ou em intervalos diferentes. Por exemplo, uma pessoa pode, numa determinada altura, sentir-se culpada e, depois disso, estar demasiado concentrada em mudar a sua apar\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Ou podem estar concentrados nestas duas coisas ao mesmo tempo e tomar decis\u00f5es impulsivas.<\/strong> We\u2019re talking about changes in behavior and their relationship\/marriage that can be light, severe, or somewhere in the middle.<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que os homens entram em crise de meia-idade?<\/h2>\n

What is the average age for a male midlife crisis? The average midlife crisis age for men is 40\u201350. During this period, many men get triggered by major life events such as children leaving home as adults, becoming a grandpa for the first time, losing their loved ones…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Psych Central<\/a> afirma que \u201ca midlife crisis can be spurred by things such as age, trauma, or a change in some other benchmark against which we measure ourselves.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Estes acontecimentos e outros semelhantes recordam-lhes como a vida \u00e9 realmente curta. \u00c9 exatamente nessa altura que come\u00e7am a interrogar-se sobre a qualidade das suas vidas, sobre o ponto em que se encontram e se devem seguir uma dire\u00e7\u00e3o diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Too many questions and not so many answers. That\u2019s exactly what a midlife crisis is. It\u2019s a period of rethinking your past decisions and seeking change.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to note that not every man goes through a midlife crisis.<\/strong> Those who have fulfilled lives and don\u2019t regret anything won’t feel the urge to suddenly transform their lives.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que uma crise de meia-idade afecta o casamento?<\/h2>\n

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A midlife crisis affects marriage in a way that a partner desires to be more independent. They no longer think about making decisions as a couple \u2013 their sole focus is on themselves and not their unity with their spouse.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o concentrados na satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o das suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades, na realiza\u00e7\u00e3o dos seus sonhos (passados), na procura de aventura e na mudan\u00e7a de apar\u00eancia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Muitas vezes, sentem que o seu casamento n\u00e3o \u00e9 satisfat\u00f3rio. Por isso, come\u00e7am a procurar casos. Quando se trata de homens em crise de meia-idade, \u00e9 frequente procurarem outras mulheres mais jovens para se sentirem novamente jovens.<\/p>\n

Can A Marriage Survive A Man’s Midlife Crisis?<\/h2>\n

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Sure. A marriage can survive a man\u2019s midlife crisis if it\u2019s not severe. If we\u2019re talking about a crisis that includes having affairs, aka um marido traidor<\/a>Se o casal n\u00e3o perdoar, ser\u00e1 mais dif\u00edcil perdoar e voltar a juntar-se.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que a resposta \u00e0 pergunta, Vale a pena salvar o meu casamento?<\/em><\/a> \u00e9 individual para cada casal.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em suma, recomenda-se a terapia de casais ou a procura de ajuda de outros profissionais de sa\u00fade mental. Isto ajudar\u00e1 o homem a perceber o que se passa exatamente na sua cabe\u00e7a, para que possa compreend\u00ea-lo melhor.<\/p>\n

Quando ele tiver clareza, ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil resistir \u00e0s suas tenta\u00e7\u00f5es e a outras coisas que podem destruir o seu casamento<\/strong>. The focus should be on redirecting a man\u2019s mind to fighting for his marriage and not crying over his lost youth.<\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

Among all the listed male midlife crisis symptoms marriage, I\u2019d like to accentuate this one: Recorda\u00e7\u00e3o constante da juventude.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O que acontece \u00e9 que, quando os casais j\u00e1 n\u00e3o se comportam no seu casamento como antes, ficam presos numa rotina e come\u00e7am a lamentar os dias passados.<\/p>\n

That is why you should still go on dates (even if you\u2019ve been together for 40 years), pillow fight when you\u2019re bored, and act childish whenever you have the opportunity.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re both crian\u00e7as no cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>Mesmo numa idade mais avan\u00e7ada, n\u00e3o se arrepender\u00e1 de nada porque sabe que viveu a vida ao m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n

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