{"id":154154,"date":"2022-06-24T07:20:18","date_gmt":"2022-06-24T07:20:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=154154"},"modified":"2022-06-29T15:15:16","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T15:15:16","slug":"brilho-pos-separacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/brilho-pos-separacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Brilho p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o: 5 passos para uma pessoa mais feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Para muitas pessoas, as separa\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o dolorosas e desafiantes e n\u00e3o um motivo de alegria. <strong>\u00c9 dif\u00edcil escapar ao aperto de um desgosto, mesmo quando se sabe que foi para melhor.<\/strong> When you&#8217;re going through the grieving process \u2013 and that&#8217;s what dealing with a breakup often is \u2013 rebuilding yourself is the last thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<p><strong>On the other hand, some people are so relieved to be leaving a toxic relationship that they can&#8217;t wait to know what lies ahead, eager to embrace their new reality.<\/strong> For them, a breakup can be motivation to move forward and find out what life has to offer that wasn&#8217;t available until now.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re the second kind, the process of rebuilding yourself and moving on might come a little easier, but even if your breakup has left you hurt and nursing a broken heart, you&#8217;ll see how<strong> it&#8217;s possible to overcome the pain and find parts of yourself that you forgot about.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A post breakup glow up isn&#8217;t an easy task, but by taking care of yourself emotionally, mentally, and physically, it&#8217;s possible to not only heal but flourish.<\/p>\n<h2>Brilho p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o em 5 passos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-154163\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-woman-sitting-alone-on-a-mat-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a prerequisite to achieving a post breakup glow up: <strong>aceitar isso<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-altura-de-encerrar-finalmente-o-capitulo-sobre-ti-e-seguir-em-frente\/\"> a separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 definitiva<\/a> e remover o seu ex da sua vida<\/strong>. Protect your wounded heart and focus on yourself. This is a chance for personal growth and transformation. Remember that you&#8217;re better off without this person: adopt a new mindset that&#8217;s all about you.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s call this step zero.<\/p>\n<h3>Passo 0. Retire o seu ex da sua vida<\/h3>\n<p>Your personal development can&#8217;t begin if you&#8217;re hung up on your ex \u2013 the longer you pay them any attention, the more you&#8217;re hurting yourself and delaying the healing process. <strong>Don&#8217;t let your ex hold you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is going to be hard, but a complete purge is necessary to detox and start the healing process. If you&#8217;re constantly reminded of them or seeing what&#8217;s going on with them, you&#8217;ll keep getting hurt over and over again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Retirar completamente o seu ex da sua vida.<\/strong> Throw away any gifts they gave you, their stuff lying around, and anything that reminds you of them. Don&#8217;t meet up with your ex, and if anyone tries to talk to you about them, politely tell them you&#8217;re not interested.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-o-meu-ex-foi-por-isso-que-te-bloqueei\/\">Bloquear e apagar o seu n\u00famero de telefone<\/a>, deixe de os seguir e bloqueie-os em todas as redes sociais e fa\u00e7a o mesmo a qualquer pessoa ligada a eles.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t make yourself look at what they&#8217;re up to without you \u2013 you&#8217;ll only feel horrible, and the memories of how they hurt you in the first place will keep resurfacing. <strong>The time you&#8217;d use to stalk their social media is better used for self-reflection and thinking about your future goals.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Passo 1. Permita-se sentir a sua dor<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-154157\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blonde-woman-feeling-upset-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a parte mais dif\u00edcil, mas, infelizmente, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 atalhos. <strong>\u00c9 preciso passar por todo o processo e sentir todas as emo\u00e7\u00f5es complicadas e angustiantes para poder lidar com elas.<\/strong> Dar a si mesmo tempo e permiss\u00e3o para sentir a dor e o luto \u00e9 uma parte crucial da jornada em dire\u00e7\u00e3o a um brilho p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Feel your feelings<\/h4>\n<p>As coisas que sente ser\u00e3o turbulentas e desafiantes: m\u00e1goa, trai\u00e7\u00e3o, solid\u00e3o, desilus\u00e3o, vergonha, raiva. <strong>\u00c9 preciso deixar-se sentir todas elas se quiser libertar-se delas<\/strong>. After you\u2019ve recovered, you\u2019ll realize how empowering it is to deal with your negative emotions in a productive way and transform your pain into something beneficial.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There will be days when it&#8217;s going to seem like it&#8217;s getting a little easier, only for the anguish to come crashing down the next.<\/strong> Podes sentir-te sem esperan\u00e7a e querer desesperadamente adormecer os sentimentos avassaladores e deixar de sofrer de qualquer maneira que saibas, mas se aguentares s\u00f3 mais um pouco, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-dor-desaparecera\/\">a dor desaparecer\u00e1.<\/a><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Don&#8217;t take shortcuts<\/h4>\n<p>You&#8217;ll be tempted to engage in self-destructive behavior to cope on those days that seem darker and sweep those feelings under the rug, but<strong> you must resist if you don&#8217;t want to let the break up leave permanent emotional damage.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regra-de-nao-contacto-o-poder-do-silencio\/\">Don&#8217;t contact your ex<\/a> em qualquer circunst\u00e2ncia.<strong> Don&#8217;t act like you don&#8217;t care and that you&#8217;re over your ex before you really feel it.<\/strong> If you want to get over your breakup, you have to actually go through its stages. You\u2019ve experienced the end of a relationship with someone, and your connection with this person can&#8217;t immediately disappear.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Don&#8217;t give up<\/h4>\n<p>Deixe-se sentir toda a extens\u00e3o da sua tristeza. Lamente a sua perda. Sinta o vazio e permita-se sentir a falta de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o tem na sua vida.<strong> Chora at\u00e9 n\u00e3o teres mais l\u00e1grimas<\/strong>. Ouvir todas as can\u00e7\u00f5es tristes. D\u00ea tempo a si pr\u00f3prio e experimente os seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n<p>Little by little, you&#8217;ll feel the growth and change. <strong>One day, you&#8217;ll notice that the clouds are clearing up and that once again, you feel hope. <\/strong>Now is the time that you can see the path to self improvement and happiness. You&#8217;ve reached the stage where a positive change after hardship \u2013 also known as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-que-esta-a-passar-por-um-crescimento-pos-traumatico\/\">crescimento traum\u00e1tico<\/a> \u2013 is possible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando isso acontecer, felicite-se porque a primeira e mais dif\u00edcil etapa do seu crescimento est\u00e1 conclu\u00edda.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Passo 2. Iniciar o processo de cura<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-154158\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/sad-and-isolated-woman-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now that your feelings are easier to handle, you can begin healing. Your heart has been injured, and the worst is over, but it&#8217;s still bruised and needs to be treated gently and with care.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Give yourself time to heal<\/h4>\n<p>Pode ainda haver alguns dias maus. <strong>Seja compassivo consigo pr\u00f3prio e permita-se sentir e levar o seu tempo.<\/strong> Right now, you don&#8217;t need to dig deep and look for answers \u2013 while your wound is still fresh, you need all the self-love you can muster.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Coisas como a medita\u00e7\u00e3o, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/afirmacoes-de-amor-proprio\/\">afirma\u00e7\u00f5es de amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/a>A aten\u00e7\u00e3o plena pode ser muito \u00fatil.<\/strong> Ao manter-se firme e rodear-se de positividade, abre o caminho para recuperar totalmente a sua alegria.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Get support<\/h4>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to go through it alone. <strong>When you&#8217;re feeling hurt and heartbroken, rely on your loved ones to help you through it<\/strong>. Spend time with your family and best friends, and don&#8217;t be afraid to open up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Falar sobre a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o e os seus sentimentos com pessoas que o apoiam f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 sentir-se menos sozinho e sem esperan\u00e7a<\/strong>. Estar perto de pessoas que o amam recordar-lhe-\u00e1 que h\u00e1 outras coisas importantes na sua vida para al\u00e9m da sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o. Deixe-os ajudar.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Forgive yourself<\/h4>\n<p>Culpar-se pelo seu comportamento na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pelas coisas que correram mal ou pela rutura \u00e9 in\u00fatil. <strong>You didn&#8217;t ruin your relationship, and you don&#8217;t deserve to punish yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not uncommon to do things in a relationship that go against everything you are because you desperately want to hold on to your partner. You might feel like you betrayed yourself, but that&#8217;s not true \u2013 you did the only thing you could at that moment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O que quer que tenha acontecido, deve<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perdoa-te-a-ti-proprio-pelas-vezes-em-que-te-esqueceste-do-teu-proprio-valor\/\"> perdoar-se a si pr\u00f3prio<\/a> para poder seguir em frente.<\/strong> This is non-negotiable, and it might take some time. As long as you remember that you did the best you could and you deserve love and happiness, you&#8217;re on the right path.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Forgive your ex<\/h4>\n<p>When you&#8217;re at your lowest, your feelings for your ex might fluctuate between longing and hatred. Neither of these is helpful, and<strong> tens de aprender a deixar ir, para teu pr\u00f3prio bem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At first, it&#8217;s normal to want your ex to feel the same pain that you&#8217;re feeling, but those feelings will only hurt you further.<strong> \u00c9 compreens\u00edvel que odeie o seu ex pela dor que ele lhe causou, mas isso tamb\u00e9m tem a ver com o facto de se odiar a si pr\u00f3prio por permitir que ele o trate dessa forma.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Feeling like this is what makes you want to seek revenge, which won&#8217;t make you feel better but only prolong the whole experience. <strong>Para se livrar da sua raiva e ressentimento, deve perdoar o seu ex.<\/strong> Perceba que o comportamento deles n\u00e3o tem nada a ver consigo e liberte-se do passado.<\/p>\n<h3>Passo 3. Concentre-se na sua sa\u00fade mental<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-154159\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Young-woman-is-looking-out-the-window-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you feel like you&#8217;re over your breakup enough to be able to make sense of what happened, it&#8217;s time to start working on self-growth.<strong> It&#8217;s vital to first deal with the mental health issues that are holding you back and can cause you problems in future relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Regain your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/respeita-te-o-suficiente-para-te-afastares-de-um-homem-que-nao-ve-o-teu-valor\/\">respeito por si pr\u00f3prio<\/a><\/h4>\n<p>O primeiro passo para voltar a p\u00f4r a sua vida nos eixos \u00e9 trabalhar a sua autoestima. Se esteve numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com uma pessoa t\u00f3xica ou simplesmente achou a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o desencorajadora, a sua vis\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio pode estar distorcida e danificada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s easy to lose yourself in a relationship, to leave behind the things you love and people who mean a lot to you.<\/strong> Lembrarmo-nos de quem somos pode ser um processo longo, mas deve come\u00e7ar por nos respeitarmos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. <strong>Treat yourself the way you&#8217;d treat a friend in the same situation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Deixe que a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o seja um catalisador para a mudan\u00e7a. Esque\u00e7a a pessoa que o desrespeitou e o magoou.<strong> Use-o para se esfor\u00e7ar e encontrar a sua autoestima<\/strong>. Abra os olhos para o que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o lhe tirou e recupere-o.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Examine your negative thoughts<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-formas-eficazes-de-combater-os-pensamentos-irritantes\/\">Pensamentos negativos<\/a> s\u00e3o as coisas que dizemos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e que nos impedem de viver plenamente a nossa vida.<strong> They&#8217;re damaging and limiting, and you&#8217;d never say to another person the mean things you tell yourself.<\/strong> Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel pode agravar ainda mais estes pensamentos.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/chamar-nomes-numa-relacao\/\">Xingamentos<\/a> and insults, telling yourself that you&#8217;re not enough, that you don&#8217;t deserve something, that there&#8217;s no way someone would pick you over anyone else \u2013<strong> estas ideias podem impedir-nos de viver a nossa vida.<\/strong> Quando estes pensamentos passam diariamente pela nossa cabe\u00e7a, controlam-nos at\u00e9 nos afastarmos de tudo o que nos pode dar felicidade.<\/p>\n<p>You must change how you think: learn to recognize your negative thoughts and stop them as soon as they come. Most importantly, don&#8217;t believe them!<strong> Escolher o respeito por si pr\u00f3prio em vez da auto-avers\u00e3o.<\/strong> You&#8217;re a person, and therefore, you deserve to be happy.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Deal with your own toxic traits<\/h4>\n<p>This time of self-reflection won&#8217;t be used well unless you also examine your own behavior and qualities that contribute to the problems in your relationship. <strong>Quando perceber onde cometeu erros, pode come\u00e7ar a corrigi-los.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For instance, what is it that attracts you to people like your ex, or what makes you stay when a relationship doesn&#8217;t work? Why did you<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-permitir-que-alguem-o-trate-mal\/\"> deixar que o teu ex te trate mal<\/a>Porque \u00e9 que aceitou o seu comportamento? O que \u00e9 que te faz acreditar que o mereces?<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re honest with yourself about these things, you can apply what you\u2019ve learned to your<\/strong> <strong>a pr\u00f3xima rela\u00e7\u00e3o e evitar passar pela mesma coisa outra vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Discover your boundaries<\/h4>\n<p>After going through a breakup, you gain a new perspective and are more equipped to decide what you want and what you don&#8217;t want in a partner. Think of qualities your ex had that made your relationship difficult, as well as those that you didn&#8217;t mind.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Para al\u00e9m de saber que tipo de pessoa quer que o seu futuro parceiro seja, precisa de determinar o seu pr\u00f3prio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/limites-nas-relacoes\/\">limites pessoais<\/a><\/strong> \u2013 how you want to be treated and what you won&#8217;t accept. Be very serious about these boundaries and be prepared to enforce them.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Get therapy<\/h4>\n<p>Therapy isn&#8217;t only for when it&#8217;s completely impossible to deal with your problems on your own. It&#8217;s especially helpful during transitional periods like breakups.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Talking to someone you don&#8217;t know and who listens without prejudice can in itself be transformative<\/strong>Al\u00e9m disso, o terapeuta orienta-o e ajuda-o a encontrar solu\u00e7\u00f5es aparentemente \u00f3bvias que, de outra forma, estariam fora do seu alcance.<\/p>\n<h3>Passo 4. Leve a s\u00e9rio os cuidados pessoais<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-154160\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/young-blond-woman-outdoors-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Self-care doesn&#8217;t mean doing what&#8217;s most pleasant \u2013 it means <strong>doing what&#8217;s best for you<\/strong>. Sometimes it&#8217;s about pampering yourself, and sometimes it&#8217;s about making yourself do your chores. <strong>Self-care is kindness, but it&#8217;s also tough love<\/strong>e \u00e9 preciso ser honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio para saber de qual deles precisa neste momento.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Learn to meet your own needs<\/h4>\n<p>O que \u00e9 que precisava do seu ex (ou de qualquer outra pessoa) que a fez ficar com ele? <strong>Aprender a satisfazer as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades pode libert\u00e1-lo de depender emocionalmente de algu\u00e9m.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Precisas de respeito, por isso come\u00e7a por te respeitar a ti pr\u00f3prio. Precisas de amor, por isso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aprender-a-amarmo-nos-a-nos-proprios\/\">ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/a> Precisas de sentir que \u00e9s importante? Prove-o a si pr\u00f3prio. Para conseguir isto e muito mais, comece com pequenas coisas.<strong> Mostre amor a si pr\u00f3prio atrav\u00e9s de pequenos gestos e respeite-se a si pr\u00f3prio sendo honesto sobre o que sente.<\/strong> Encontre formas de satisfazer as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades da melhor maneira poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Assim, ser\u00e1 muito mais f\u00e1cil pedir aos outros aquilo que deseja.<\/strong> When you\u2019re confident that if you don&#8217;t get it from someone else, it&#8217;s not the end of the world because you know how to do it for yourself.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Date only yourself for a while<\/h4>\n<p>Until your heart has healed and you&#8217;re at peace with the breakup and happy with yourself,<strong> it&#8217;s important not to get into another relationship<\/strong>. You&#8217;ll miss your ex and repeat old patterns, which will hurt both you and the other person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Esta \u00e9 outra parte da aprendizagem de como satisfazer as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades<\/strong>. Saia e fa\u00e7a coisas divertidas sozinho. Passe tempo com os seus amigos e com as pessoas que poder\u00e1 ter negligenciado durante a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Expanda o seu c\u00edrculo social e crie o h\u00e1bito de sair com v\u00e1rias pessoas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Date yourself \u2013 do whatever it is that you want to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Prioritize your well-being<\/h4>\n<p>Seja diligente em manter-se saud\u00e1vel. <strong>Subestimamos o quanto a nossa sa\u00fade emocional e mental depende da nossa sa\u00fade f\u00edsica. <\/strong>Comer bem, dormir o suficiente e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-formas-de-aliviar-o-stress\/\">aprender a gerir o stress<\/a>, and you&#8217;ll be shocked at how much easier it is to deal with everything life throws at you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O seu bem-estar f\u00edsico e emocional deve ser a sua prioridade<\/strong>. Don&#8217;t compromise them for anyone. Learn to say no and have your own back. This will boost your health, your confidence, and your resilience.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 External glow up is optional<\/h4>\n<p>Does your glow up have to show on the outside? No. You can use your physical appearance to symbolize all the work you&#8217;ve done on the inside, but if you don&#8217;t want to do it, it doesn&#8217;t mean that you didn&#8217;t improve.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Eat healthy and exercise, but forget about &#8216;revenge body.&#8217;<\/strong> If your desire for change is an impetus that gets you to develop a healthy habit, it&#8217;s a good thing, but the idea that you have to become more attractive after a breakup is harmful and will only make things more difficult if you don\u2019t achieve it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O verdadeiro significado de um brilho p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/apaixone-se-por-curar-se-a-si-proprio\/\">leve o seu tempo para sarar<\/a> e cuida de ti.<\/strong> You&#8217;re enough. You&#8217;re doing the best you can, and you don&#8217;t have to prove anything to anyone. Your ex and your breakup don&#8217;t get any credit for whatever you manage to achieve.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por vezes, uma mudan\u00e7a f\u00edsica \u00e9 uma boa forma de o ajudar a ultrapassar o passado e a come\u00e7ar um novo cap\u00edtulo.<\/strong> You don&#8217;t have to get a makeover, but if it makes you happy, go for it. Get a new hairstyle, step up your skincare routine and focus on wellness, but do it to take care of yourself, not because it&#8217;s expected of you.<\/p>\n<h3>Etapa 5. Entre no seu futuro<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-154161\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/woman-using-laptop-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You spent your relationship helping your ex reach their goals, or you went with the flow and lived your life passively. Changing this isn&#8217;t about having to be enthusiastic about every day of your life but <strong>fazer o que o deixa feliz e ansioso por ver o que o futuro lhe traz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Focus on yourself<\/h4>\n<p>If you were used to going along and adjusting to your partner&#8217;s way of life, it might be hard to figure out how to put yourself first. How do you do it?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Concentrar-se em si pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 abra\u00e7ar a sua pr\u00f3pria vida e seguir os seus pr\u00f3prios desejos e necessidades<\/strong>. If you&#8217;ve been following the tips to achieve your glow up, you already have a clear idea of what they are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Com o seu ex desaparecido, ningu\u00e9m o impedir\u00e1 de fazer as coisas que quer.<\/strong> Travel to the spot you&#8217;ve been dreaming about, get that tattoo without someone nagging you about it, party with your friends, or stay in the whole day.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;re the only one who has a say about how you live your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Learn things and achieve goals<\/h4>\n<p>Utilize o seu tempo de forma sensata. Quando quiser passar tempo no seu telem\u00f3vel, em vez de percorrer o TikTok, veja um tutorial no YouTube. Ouve um podcast em l\u00edngua estrangeira ou aprende finalmente a desenhar ou a fazer as tuas pr\u00f3prias roupas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The reason why it&#8217;s a good idea to learn new things and do them is because<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/formas-de-se-concentrar-no-que-quer\/\"> alcan\u00e7ar objectivos<\/a> d\u00e1-nos uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de realiza\u00e7\u00e3o, que \u00e9 necess\u00e1ria para a felicidade.<\/strong> Se gosta do seu trabalho, pode realizar-se nele ou encontrar passatempos para expandir os seus interesses.<\/p>\n<p><strong>By feeling like you&#8217;re advancing, you&#8217;re moving forward in life rather than staying in one place while time passes.<\/strong> Seja qual for a sua escolha, encontre algo que a fa\u00e7a sentir-se assim.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Discover your joy<\/h4>\n<p>Este \u00e9 o passo mais importante de todo o processo de rejuvenescimento p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o: <strong>encontrar o que te faz feliz.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is almost one of those important existential questions, but finding the answer to it isn&#8217;t as complicated as in some other cases.<strong> Surge \u00e0 medida que experimentamos as coisas e descobrimos o que sentimos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a elas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to have a passion to be happy, but it helps because<strong> doing something you&#8217;re passionate about is a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-a-verdadeira-felicidade\/\">atalho para a felicidade<\/a>.<\/strong> Pode ser qualquer coisa: uma atividade criativa, estar com os amigos, ajudar as pessoas ou algo como maquilhar-se.<\/p>\n<p>Encontre coisas que o fa\u00e7am sorrir e fa\u00e7a o maior n\u00famero poss\u00edvel delas.<\/p>\n<h2>O brilho vem de dentro<\/h2>\n<p>After a breakup, there comes pain but also freedom. The relationship that was hurting you is finally over, and you&#8217;re free to be yourself. <strong>After you take your time to feel your sadness and anger, you&#8217;ll see that this is the opportunity to live your life the way you want, with no one holding you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O melhor conselho que pode receber nesta altura \u00e9 aprender com a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o. <strong>Refletir e descobrir coisas sobre si pr\u00f3prio<\/strong> \u2013 how you want to be treated and how you should move on. This is where your post breakup glow up begins.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ponha a sua vida no bom caminho fazendo o que quer e aprendendo a satisfazer as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades.<\/strong> Become the best version of yourself. If you focus on your recovery and not on what you&#8217;ve lost, for the first time in a while, you&#8217;ll feel like nothing is impossible.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-154504\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Brilho p\u00f3s-separa\u00e7\u00e3o 5 passos para uma pessoa mais feliz Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-735x1103.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-223x335.jpg 223w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-231x347.jpg 231w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-347x520.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-512x768.jpg 512w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For many people, breakups are painful and challenging rather than a cause for joy. The grip of heartbreak can be hard to escape, even when you know it was for the best. When you&#8217;re going through the grieving process \u2013 and that&#8217;s what dealing with a breakup often is \u2013 rebuilding yourself is the last&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":154162,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-154154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/06\/Post-Breakup-Glow-Up-5-Steps-To-A-Happier-You-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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