{"id":15468,"date":"2020-07-28T13:52:08","date_gmt":"2020-07-28T13:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15468"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:54:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:54:57","slug":"nao-se-pode-salvar-um-homem-que-nao-quer-ser-salvo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-se-pode-salvar-um-homem-que-nao-quer-ser-salvo\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o se pode salvar um homem que n\u00e3o quer ser salvo"},"content":{"rendered":"

What we want for others doesn\u2019t work unless they want it for themselves. – Bryant McGill<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Infelizmente, h\u00e1 tantas pessoas quebradas neste mundo e tantas pessoas que precisam de ser salvas ou, pelo menos, de orienta\u00e7\u00e3o. H\u00e1 tantas pessoas que querem curar-se mas n\u00e3o fazem ideia de como l\u00e1 chegar.<\/p>\n

I think that we\u2019re all a little bit broken. We\u2019ve all been through hell at some point <\/strong>de as nossas vidas e ca\u00edmos t\u00e3o fundo que fic\u00e1mos t\u00e3o desesperados e deix\u00e1mo-nos pensar que n\u00e3o havia sa\u00edda. <\/strong><\/p>\n

O que interessa \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s pass\u00e1mos por um inferno e sobrevivemos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Talvez por causa do caminho pesado que fomos obrigados a percorrer nas nossas vidas, sentimos que temos de facilitar o caminho \u00e0queles que amamos.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que todos n\u00f3s precisamos de caminhar com as nossas pr\u00f3prias verdades<\/a> e destinos, para podermos crescer e estarmos preparados para as coisas maiores da nossa vida.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, quando a vida coloca as pessoas sob demasiados testes, elas optam por n\u00e3o lutar contra eles e deixam-se levar pela corrente.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

But if you allow the things you go through in life determine what your life is going to look like, then what are you living? It\u2019s your task to take care of yourself and make sure you\u2019re happy.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o muitas as pessoas que est\u00e3o dispostas a faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s even worse than letting life carry you like the breeze carries the fallen leaf is this idea that people plant in their minds about how they can save everyone.<\/p>\n

Okay, yes, there are some people worth saving, there are people who need just a little bit of guidance, but not everyone can be saved and that\u2019s the ugly truth.<\/p>\n

Those who don\u2019t want to be saved can\u2019t be convinced into saving themselves.<\/p>\n

They say that you can only love broken people and hope they\u2019ll respond to that treatment. But sometimes even love can\u2019t make a man heal if he doesn\u2019t want to change.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se ele se recusa a ver que h\u00e1 algo de errado com ele, quem \u00e9 voc\u00ea para o convencer do contr\u00e1rio?<\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019re all aware of ourselves and if he thinks that there is nothing wrong with him, if he thinks he\u2019s okay, you\u2019ll just lose yourself in trying to convince him that he\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n

Se ele gosta de onde est\u00e1, quem \u00e9s tu para tentar mudar isso?<\/strong> Perhaps he doesn\u2019t know better, but perhaps he doesn\u2019t want better.<\/p>\n

It can be the case he\u2019s settling for less, but it can also be that he\u2019s perfectly happy with the place where his mind is at.<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t want to be saved, who are you to save him?<\/strong> There are people who are okay with their toxicity; there are people who\u2019d rather look away than face the truth.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 pessoas que querem continuar a fugir do que as est\u00e1 a magoar do que enfrentar a sua dor e assim faz\u00ea-la desaparecer.<\/p>\n

And there isn\u2019t a person whose loving or caring in this world who could change that.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

I know you\u2019re scared but you need to superar o medo de perder algu\u00e9m<\/a> who isn\u2019t good for you.<\/p>\n

And you need to stop giving all of you to someone who\u2019s toxic.<\/p>\n

Because if there is something wrong with him and he\u2019s refusing to acknowledge it, there is a high probability you\u2019ll get sucked into the vortex of his toxicity, too.<\/p>\n

Independentemente do quanto amas essa pessoa, deves colocar-te em primeiro lugar. Deves sempre cuidar de ti primeiro. Porque pode n\u00e3o haver ningu\u00e9m para te salvar quando precisares, sabes?<\/strong><\/p>\n

And you need to stop believing that story about how life has been too harsh on someone. It has been too harsh on all of us, but that\u2019s not an excuse to just go with the flow and be an asshole towards others.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente que conhecemos est\u00e1 a travar uma batalha interior. E embora fosse mais f\u00e1cil rendermo-nos, fomos trazidos a este mundo como lutadores.<\/p>\n

Assim deixar de lado a negatividade<\/a> and the futile battle of trying to save a man who doesn\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n

\"Discuss\u00e3o<\/p>\n

If your love doesn\u2019t make him want to change, if having you next to him doesn\u2019t changes things, if your efforts are in vain and he\u2019s oblivious to his state, it\u2019s not your task to save him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should never lose yourself in trying to save others. You should love them and if love isn\u2019t enough, then there isn\u2019t much more you can do.<\/p>\n

Ernest Hemingway disse: A coisa mais dolorosa \u00e9 perdermo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios no processo de amar demasiado algu\u00e9m e esquecermo-nos de que somos especiais.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Don\u2019t allow anyone, regardless of how much you love them, break you or change who you are.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let other people\u2019s pain make your spark shine a little less. Don\u2019t lose yourself in the process of trying to save a man who doesn\u2019t want to be saved. Save yourself.<\/p>\n

You cannot make someone understand a message they aren\u2019t ready to receive.<\/em> – May this be the lesson you\u2019ll remember for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

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What we want for others doesn\u2019t work unless they want it for themselves. – Bryant McGill Unfortunately, there are so many broken people in this world and so many people who need saving or at least guidance. There are so many people who want to heal but have no idea how to get there. I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95951,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15468","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/You-Can\u2019t-Save-A-Man-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Want-To-Be-Saved.jpg",800,547,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15468","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15468"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15468\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95951"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}