{"id":15493,"date":"2020-04-01T09:01:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-01T09:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15493"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:16:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:16:32","slug":"10-sinais-seguros-de-que-se-quer-algo-serio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-seguros-de-que-se-quer-algo-serio\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais seguros de que ele quer algo s\u00e9rio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Relationships are hard. And I mean, really hard. You are doing your best, trying to find a way to make it work, but sometimes, regardless of how hard we try, it just doesn\u2019t work out: he is not interested in a relationship; he is a player; there is no chemistry.<\/p>\n

There are countless reasons, but let\u2019s face it girls\u2014almost relationships and commitment phobes are the worst of them all.<\/p>\n

Fazem-nos sentir como a mulher mais sortuda do mundo e desaparecem quando as coisas se tornam s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not because something is wrong with us; it\u2019s because they are not ready to commit.<\/p>\n

E deixa-nos a pensar se todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais; deixa-nos a pensar se n\u00e3o seremos n\u00f3s os n\u00e3o am\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n

E fazer algu\u00e9m sentem que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o am\u00e1veis<\/a> \u00e9 a pior coisa que se pode fazer a uma pessoa.<\/strong> Acredita em mim, eu saberia.<\/p>\n

\"namorada<\/p>\n

We have all found ourselves stuck in front of the wall called \u2018what the hell do I do now?\u2019.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the point of a relationship where you are no longer dating casually, but you\u2019re still not sure if he is interested in getting serious.<\/p>\n

E o namoro j\u00e1 \u00e9 dif\u00edcil por si s\u00f3, sem toda esta d\u00favida sobre se somos ou n\u00e3o o par ideal.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se n\u00e3o est\u00e1 preparada para essa convers\u00e3o s\u00e9ria e embara\u00e7osa e para a ajudar com este problema, reunimos sinais de que ele quer algo s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t find any of these, feel free to walk away. No one deserves your time, unless they are willing to give you theirs.<\/p>\n

Ele arranja tempo para si<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t mean that kind of time where he comes to you late at night to have some action or that kind of time where you have to let him know days in advance, so he can fit it in his schedule.<\/p>\n

Ele muda os seus planos para si porque gosta verdadeiramente de passar tempo consigo.<\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 l\u00e1 fora com os amigos e repara que n\u00e3o te est\u00e1s a sentir bem e, quando d\u00e1s por ti, ele est\u00e1 mesmo ali ao teu lado, a fazer-te companhia at\u00e9 melhorares.<\/p>\n

Ele cancela os seus planos j\u00e1 feitos, para poder passar a noite consigo. E continua a respeitar o seu tempo a s\u00f3s e os seus limites.<\/p>\n

O fase de lua de mel<\/a> is amazing, we all know it. But even when it is over, he is still there\u2014making plans and going out of his way to make you happy.<\/p>\n

This is a sure sign he wants something serious with you because he already made you a part of his life even if he didn\u2019t say it to you. Sometimes, actions can tell so much more than words do.<\/p>\n

Ele mostra-te<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Em todo o lado e para toda a gente. Os jogadores v\u00e3o exibi-lo em restaurantes chiques e no bar, mas nunca o levar\u00e3o a sair com os amigos.<\/p>\n

Ou, ent\u00e3o, passar\u00e3o todo o tempo em casa consigo, porque h\u00e1 uma grande possibilidade de ele ter outros engates.<\/p>\n

Mas o homem que v\u00ea um futuro consigo nunca a esconder\u00e1. Lev\u00e1-la-\u00e1 para todo o lado porque est\u00e1 verdadeiramente orgulhoso e feliz por t\u00ea-la ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

Ele apresent\u00e1-la-\u00e1 aos seus amigos e familiares ou continuar\u00e1 a gabar-se de si e a insistir que eles est\u00e3o ansiosos por conhec\u00ea-la.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s a good sign he is up for a long-term relationship and not just a enganar-vos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If introducing you to his family is something he can\u2019t wait to do, there is no reason for you to worry anymore about him being serious.<\/p>\n

Ele leva-te aos seus lugares favoritos<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Todos n\u00f3s temos lugares favoritos onde vamos quando nos apetece contemplar e pensar, lugares onde vamos quando estamos tristes e lugares onde vamos quando queremos divertir-nos.<\/p>\n

Sharing those places with someone new in our lives is like sharing something deeply personal; it\u2019s like taking them to our childhood home. You don\u2019t take just everyone there.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ter a certeza de que a pessoa vai estar presente a longo prazo e que \u00e9 realmente o tipo de pessoa com quem queremos partilhar a nossa casa.<\/p>\n

If he took you to his favorite bar, appreciate the gesture, because it\u2019s kind of like letting you into his heart.<\/p>\n

Ele sentiu-se suficientemente \u00e0 vontade consigo para partilhar algo t\u00e3o \u00edntimo.<\/p>\n

And even if his favorite bar isn\u2019t the type of place you would go to, trust me: his love for it and enthusiasm for bringing you there will make you see it in a whole new way.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 o bar da esquina; ser\u00e1 um lugar s\u00f3 para voc\u00eas os dois. Algo como o vosso pr\u00f3prio peda\u00e7o de c\u00e9u.<\/p>\n

Mostra iniciativa<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Quer se trate de planear encontros ou de comunicar, ele n\u00e3o tem qualquer problema em ser o iniciador.<\/p>\n

You regularly wake up to the \u2018good morning\u2019 texts and there is no way you can go to sleep if he doesn\u2019t send you \u2018good night\u2019.<\/p>\n

Pode parecer que ele o faz a toda a gente e que est\u00e1 apenas a ser educado, mas acredite: ele est\u00e1 a faz\u00ea-lo porque quer mostrar-lhe que se preocupa consigo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No man will text multiple times without an answer if he isn\u2019t seriously hooked up to you.<\/p>\n

And with all of these ghosting trends, he makes sure that you don\u2019t have to worry about him disappearing.<\/p>\n

Ele faz com que nos sintamos desejados e especiais, porque realmente o somos.<\/p>\n

E quando se trata de encontros, ele consegue sempre surpreender-nos. Se n\u00e3o lhe apetecer sair, ele aparece em sua casa com gelado, vinho e uma lista de filmes para ver.<\/p>\n

Se lhe disseres que queres ir ao cinema, ele surpreende-te com os bilhetes.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because he listens to you when you are talking and even when what you are saying seems like nonsense, he will still remember it.<\/p>\n

Ele partilha o seu passado consigo<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here, no one feels like talking about their past with just anyone.<\/p>\n

Sim, falamos de mem\u00f3rias do liceu, de paixonetas e de algumas coisas mundanas, mas quando o assunto se torna profundo, mantemos a boca fechada at\u00e9 conhecermos melhor a outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

And sometimes, not even then do we decide to open up because they show us that they\u2019re not really worthy of sharing.<\/p>\n

Mas se ele partilhar o seu passado consigo, e refiro-me ao passado dos seus amantes, aos seus medos e aos seus maiores sonhos, ent\u00e3o ele est\u00e1 a falar muito a s\u00e9rio sobre si.<\/p>\n

Men don\u2019t usually open up, but if he opened up to you, that\u2019s the only sign you really need.<\/p>\n

Unless he did it like on the first date because that is a whole new level of seriousness. I\u2019m thinking more like seriously messed up.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t really want that kind of man who is too pushy and too eager about getting serious.<\/p>\n

Amor e compromisso<\/a> leva tempo e um pouco mais do que apenas um encontro.<\/p>\n

Perde-se a no\u00e7\u00e3o do tempo quando est\u00e3o juntos<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Quer esteja num restaurante chique, a fazer caminhadas ou simplesmente a relaxar em casa, o tempo passa a correr.<\/p>\n

You genuinely enjoy each other\u2019s company and you make memories every step of the way.<\/p>\n

A conversa flui e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 sil\u00eancios embara\u00e7osos, porque at\u00e9 gostamos do sil\u00eancio quando o partilhamos.<\/p>\n

He makes it all look so easy because he is truly interested in everything you have to say\u2014including your opinions, your memories and fears.<\/p>\n

He is all ears when you are talking and it seems like it\u2019s all he ever wanted to do.<\/p>\n

Ele quer saber mais sobre si e n\u00e3o apenas como correu o seu dia. Ele quer conhec\u00ea-la mais profundamente e abrir-se com ele \u00e9 como falar sobre o tempo.<\/p>\n

And he has no problem with opening up to you, too. This is a sign that spending time with you is something he wants to do for a longer run and he wouldn\u2019t mind if it ends up being a lifelong commitment.<\/p>\n

Tem-no em considera\u00e7\u00e3o quando toma decis\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Se reconheceu este sinal, parab\u00e9ns! Encontrou um homem que a ama e que a quer manter por perto.<\/p>\n

Ele ter\u00e1 sempre em considera\u00e7\u00e3o os seus desejos e necessidades quando fizer planos, porque tamb\u00e9m quer que seja feliz.<\/p>\n

Even if it\u2019s deciding when to take days off, he will ask you about it, because he wants to spend them with you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just another way of him showing how much he cares about you and how much he is actually serious about being with you.<\/p>\n

Os homens que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o l\u00e1 para um longo prazo nunca a ter\u00e3o em considera\u00e7\u00e3o, porque s\u00f3 se preocupam com eles pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

They will do as they please and just let you know what they decided. And, sometimes, they won\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s definitely not the type of man you want to have in your life because no matter how much you love them and how hard you try, they will never change.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o verdadeiras narcisistas<\/a> who only care about themselves. He will convince you otherwise and make you believe that he is truly there for you, but if you failed to find any of the signs from this list, I\u2019m afraid that he\u2019s only there for himself.<\/p>\n

Pede frequentemente a sua opini\u00e3o e respeita-a<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

The foundation of the strongest relationships is respect. It\u2019s the mutual admiration and trust we have in each other and without it, it\u2019s hard for a relationship to work out.<\/p>\n

If he asks for your opinion quite often and actually listens to what you have to say, you have his respect and it\u2019s a great sign of you two making it together.<\/p>\n

And if he changes his own opinion because of yours, it\u2019s even better.<\/p>\n

Significa que ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 um egoc\u00eantrico que acredita que \u00e9 o melhor que existe.<\/p>\n

It means that he respects your knowledge and isn\u2019t afraid to admit that he is not the smartest person on the planet.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real girls, we have all met someone like that. But if your man is truly amazed with your passions and the way you think, ele est\u00e1 apaixonado por ti verdadeira, louca e profundamente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019m not talking just about your body; I\u2019m talking about the whole package here. Body, heart AND mind.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tem qualquer problema em falar sobre o futuro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma boa maneira de saber o que raio se passa na cabe\u00e7a dele \u00e9 perguntar-lhe sobre o futuro, e n\u00e3o sobre o futuro da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ask him about his plans for work, about holidays and stuff like that. If he\u2019s already counted you in those plans, you don\u2019t have to look any further for signs of getting serious. He already is.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s truly amazing if you don\u2019t have to ask him about the future. If he talks about it with you and makes plans for a longer run, he already made up his mind.<\/p>\n

To him, it\u2019s no longer casual dating and it\u2019s not questionable if he is going to stay or not.<\/p>\n

He is sure of his feelings and all he does now is make sure you\u2019re on the same page with him. It\u2019s making you feel loved and safe in the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2018YOU\u2019 and \u2018I\u2019 became \u2018WE\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

He no longer talks about \u2018his\u2019 wishes and needs and there is no \u2018I\u2019. It\u2019s \u2018we\u2019 and you can actually feel he means it.<\/p>\n

He already sees you as one because that\u2019s what love is truly about. You are two individuals who are pieces of art for themselves, but together you make one hell of a masterpiece.<\/p>\n

Together you create something so much more than just two people being together, and that\u2019s something he already feels and makes sure you feel it too.<\/p>\n

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