{"id":15523,"date":"2018-03-02T07:39:59","date_gmt":"2018-03-02T07:39:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15523"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:20:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:20:54","slug":"nao-posso-amar-o-potencial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-posso-amar-o-potencial\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o posso estar apaixonado pelo teu potencial"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you can\u2019t see what I see, what the fuck am I doing here?<\/strong> I don\u2019t want to train you. You\u2019re not a puppy, you\u2019re a\u2026 I want to say \u2018man\u2019\u2014you look like a man, you smell like a man, and God help me you feel like a man but you, I\u2019m afraid, are still just a boy putting on a big man\u2019s suit and tie.<\/p>\n

A man knows what he wants. A man treats a woman like a queen. A man can settle down with a woman because he knows what\u2019s good, and he wants that. A man will not make you question your position in his life because he wants you to be there and is not afraid to show that by making room for you both physically and emotionally. Um homem v\u00ea que uma mulher cuida dele e depois volta-se e cuida dela porque quer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

This business where I am constantly pushing you up, encouraging you and believing that you can be better\u2026 it\u2019s fucking exhausting. And really, what are you doing for me? Besides something I can get anywhere\u2026<\/p>\n

V\u00eas como eu faria tudo por ti e tudo o que isso inspira em ti \u00e9 um desejo de ver at\u00e9 onde podes ir. Para ver o quanto eu realmente farei por ti.<\/strong> I\u2019m sitting here trying to figure out if I fell and bumped my Goddamn head. It\u2019s like a light went on in a dark room for only a minute, but the memory of what I saw still lingers. And I saw you. For just a brief moment. I saw you. I saw what you were carefully hiding. I saw a callousness in you that I can\u2019t unsee.<\/p>\n

All this time, I believed that you were capable of being more, but you don\u2019t want to be more. You are happy with your life and yourself just the way you are. That\u2019s the part I\u2019ve been missing this whole time. You are so perfect in every way; you have so much going for you\u2026 if you would just stop with the\u2026 and the\u2026 and there it is. All this fucking time I\u2019ve been falling in love with who I believe you could be and for that brief moment when I really saw you, I realized that was my mistake.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When someone tells you who they are, believe them. Don\u2019t expect more from them than they are willing or capable of giving.<\/strong> Disseste-me o que esperar de ti, mas depois fizeste-me acreditar que havia um potencial para mais. Um dia. Se eu jogasse bem as minhas cartas. Ent\u00e3o joguei a m\u00e3o que me deste, como um profissional no circuito. Eu fiz bluff e tornei-me na melhor namorada que nunca tiveste.<\/strong> But it\u2019s all about the game to you. It doesn\u2019t matter who wins or loses\u2026 you just want to play. I\u2019m too damn old, and too damn fly for that shit. I\u2019mma fold this hand, cut my losses and and find someone who can play at the big boy table.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be in love with your potential. I can\u2019t be in love with who I think you could be.<\/strong> If I am going to continue in this with you\u2026 I have to accept you as you are and quite frankly, I don\u2019t like what that says about me if I do. I deserve to be with the kind of man I know you could be, but until you grow into him, I need to find a man who\u2019s realized his own potential.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If you can\u2019t see what I see, what the fuck am I doing here? I don\u2019t want to train you. You\u2019re not a puppy, you\u2019re a\u2026 I want to say \u2018man\u2019\u2014you look like a man, you smell like a man, and God help me you feel like a man but you, I\u2019m afraid, are still…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":15525,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15523","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/atikh-bana-114121.jpg",800,555,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15523","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15523"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15523\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15525"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15523"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15523"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15523"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}