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<\/p>\nFoi o seu ex que acabou com tudo. Ele deixou-a e decidiu que era altura de seguirem caminhos diferentes.<\/p>\n
Mas agora, de repente, ele age como se fosse o contr\u00e1rio. Fala mal de ti, insulta-te sempre que tem oportunidade e sabota a tua nova vida.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s more than obvious that this man can\u2019t stand your guts. Naturally, you can\u2019t help but wonder: \u201c<\/b>Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex me odeia?<\/b> when he dumped me?\u201d I mean, his behavior makes no sense whatsoever!<\/b><\/p>\n
Well, if you dig a little deeper under the surface, you\u2019ll find out why he feels this way.<\/p>\n
Here are the possible reasons hidden behind your ex partner\u2019s hatred:<\/p>\n
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One of the first reasons why your ex-partner can\u2019t stand your guts is the fact that you\u2019ve avan\u00e7ou demasiado depressa<\/a>. Well, at least, that\u2019s what he thinks. You two might not be together for months but for one reason or another, he thinks that it\u2019s too soon for you to iniciar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n Maybe he hasn\u2019t been thinking about you so much since you two broke up. No entanto, assim que soube que andavas com outra pessoa, come\u00e7ou a odiar-te.<\/b><\/p>\n This man is clearly angry because you moved on and he hasn\u2019t managed to find a healthy relationship since he left you. Nevertheless, he had a hard time processing his anger and turned it into hatred.<\/p>\n One thing is for sure: if your ex-boyfriend hates you, he is jealous of your new relationship. Your ex feels that this new guy in your life is making you happy and he\u2019d die to be in his place.<\/p>\n Quando se pergunta porque \u00e9 que o meu ex me odeia quando me deixou, tem de ir mais fundo para obter uma resposta verdadeira. Confie em mim quando lhe digo que h\u00e1 algo escondido por detr\u00e1s do seu \u00f3dio.<\/p>\n No seu caso, o mais prov\u00e1vel \u00e9 que ele arrepende-se da sua decis\u00e3o<\/a>. After all this time, your ex realized he\u2019s <\/b>cometeu o erro da sua vida<\/b><\/a> quando ele acabou contigo.<\/b><\/p>\n But of course, he wouldn\u2019t admit this, even if his life depended on it. He is probably too proud to face this fact by himself, let alone to admit it to you.<\/p>\n No fim de contas, o seu \u00f3dio n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com <\/b>fazer consigo<\/b>. He doesn\u2019t hate you\u2014 he hates himself and all the wrong choices he\u2019s made.<\/b><\/p>\n But he knows he can\u2019t change the past: what\u2019s done is done. So, instead of blaming himself for this whole mess, it\u2019s easier for him to redirect this hatred towards you.<\/p>\n Just because your romance didn\u2019t work out, it doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not allowed to hang out with your amigos comuns<\/a>. However, your ex-husband or boyfriend doesn\u2019t feel that way.<\/p>\n Whenever he finds out that they\u2019ve been spending time with you, his friends get an endless rant. He accuses them of picking your side and stabbing him in the back.<\/p>\n Mais uma vez, os sentimentos dele n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada a ver consigo. \u00c9 \u00f3bvio que o seu ex esperava que todos tomassem o partido dele e a abandonassem da mesma forma que ele.<\/b><\/p>\n Maybe these people didn\u2019t even choose sides. They just hoped to remain friends with both of you but he didn\u2019t allow it. This is especially true if these are the people he introduced you to.<\/b><\/p>\n Or they realized what he did to you and don\u2019t want to be friends with a man like that. Either way, it\u2018s clear that your ex wants you to be all alone, now that you\u2019ve lost him.<\/p>\n When there is a break-up, we all like to see ourselves as the good guys of the story\u2014 especially if we\u2019re the ones being dumped. However, the truth is frequently different. Guess what: just because your ex was the one to walk away, it doesn\u2019t mean that he is guilty for ending your relationship.<\/p>\n Eu sei que isto \u00e9 dif\u00edcil de engolir, mas h\u00e1 uma grande probabilidade de as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es terem causado a separa\u00e7\u00e3o; ele foi apenas o \u00fanico que p\u00f4s um ponto final no vosso romance.<\/b><\/p>\n Basically, your ex hates you because you broke his heart. He can\u2019t seem to forget all the bad things you did to him and he finds you responsible for the end of your relationship.<\/p>\n Of course, this doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that he\u2019s right. This might just be his perception of things and his version of reality.<\/b><\/p>\n But at the end of the day, you shouldn\u2019t rack your brain about this. He decided that you\u2019re the evil ex-girlfriend and things will stay that way, no matter what you do.<\/p>\n Whether you like to admit it or not, you\u2019re the one who made your ex hate you. It only appears that he lets go of your relationship but the truth is that he is still bothered by everything that went on between you two.<\/p>\n Even though he left you, he is still holding grudges over the things you did to him. There is obviously something he can\u2019t forgive you for.<\/p>\n Ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 o terr\u00edvel <\/b>desgosto<\/b> you\u2019ve put him through? (Yes, dumpers get their hearts broken as well.) Is it the fact that you failed to give him the <\/b>primeiro lugar<\/b> na sua vida?<\/b><\/p>\n Traiu-o enquanto estavam juntos? Talvez tenha sido apanhada, mas ele optou deliberadamente por n\u00e3o lhe contar nada.<\/b><\/p>\n It can be something that happened last week or last year. It can be something you find completely irrelevant to your relationship but it obviously hurt him and he can\u2019t forget it.<\/p>\n Here\u2019s one thing you must know about post-breakup behavior: just because you\u2019re no longer in a romantic relationship with someone, it doesn\u2019t mean that it\u2019s okay for you to betray their trust.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t go around telling your boyfriend\u2019s secrets and if you do, that makes you a bad person.<\/p>\n However, that\u2019s exactly what you did. You were probably angry about the way he left you and you shared everything you know about him with the world.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve only confined to your best friend\u2014 somehow, your words got to him.<\/p>\n Or you suddenly became friends with his arch enemies. Maybe you started hanging out with some guys you both “hated\u201d while you were together or even worse, you started dating someone who is off-limits, such as his BFF.<\/p>\n Technically, you didn’t do anything wrong\u2014 you didn\u2019t cheat on him. But deep down, you know you\u2019ve violated the <\/b>p\u00f3s-rutura<\/b> moral code and that\u2019s why he can\u2019t stand you!<\/b><\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex me odeia quando me deixou? Antes de responder a esta pergunta, deixe-me perguntar-lhe o seguinte: Tem andado a falar mal dele desde que acabaram?<\/p>\n I know you\u2019re going through a tough heartbreak. You probably hate him as well for the way he walked away from you.<\/p>\n Please don\u2019t go around telling people: \u201c<\/b>O meu ex-namorado<\/b> is a piece of trash,\u201d and stuff like that! It\u2019s one thing if your <\/b>melhor amigo<\/b> \u00e9 o \u00fanico que est\u00e1 a ouvir estas <\/b>discursos<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n However, if you\u2019re talking <\/b>coisas m\u00e1s<\/b> sobre ele ao seu <\/b>amigos comuns<\/b>ele vai descobrir!<\/b><\/p>\n Besides, you\u2019re not talking trash about him only\u2014 you\u2019re embarrassing yourself as well. Don\u2019t forget that this man was your choice\u2014 it\u2019s not like somebody forced you to be with him.<\/p>\n No matter what he did to you, always do your best to keep your dignity. This way, it only looks like you\u2019re more focused on him than on your own life and that equals desperation.<\/p>\n Muitos homens t\u00eam de sentir a sua aus\u00eancia para aprenderem a apreciar a sua presen\u00e7a.<\/b> It\u2019s like they\u2019re doomed or something, haha.<\/p>\n I mean, we\u2019re talking about a man who never appreciated you while he had you around. Instead of treating you the way you deserved, he acted as if you were replaceable.<\/p>\n But now, when he realized that you\u2019re one of a kind, everything changed.<\/p>\n I know what you must think\u2014 you\u2019d expect him to beg for you to come back. Instead, he acts as if he hates you.<\/p>\n Onde \u00e9 que est\u00e1 a l\u00f3gica? Bem, deixem-me explicar-vos como \u00e9 que as coisas funcionam aqui.<\/p>\n Este homem odeia mesmo o facto de <\/b>apercebeu-se do que perdeu<\/b><\/a>. Ele continua <\/b>\u00e0 sua procura noutras mulheres<\/b><\/a> but he finally realized that you\u2019re nowhere to be found.<\/b><\/p>\n At the end of the day, he knows that he can\u2019t have you back. His pride doesn\u2019t let him beg you for forgiveness so he chooses to hate you instead!<\/p>\n There is one thing your ex-partner will never forgive you for: the fact that you stopped loving him. It doesn\u2019t matter if he still has feelings for you or not\u2014 deep down, this man expects you to spend the rest of your life grieving the end of your relationship.<\/p>\n Mesmo que entre numa <\/b>nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b>, he expects to remain in your heart forever. He hopes that you\u2019ll remember him when you\u2019re old and wrinkled and always think of him as the love of your life.<\/b><\/p>\n What happens when his dreams burst like a bubble? What happens when he understands that this scenario is unlikely to happen and that you\u2019ve already stopped loving him?<\/p>\n Bem, esta constata\u00e7\u00e3o destr\u00f3i-lhe o ego fr\u00e1gil. Em vez de ficar feliz por terem acabado com as coisas como dois adultos, ele escolhe odiar-te.<\/p>\n Quero dizer, como \u00e9 que tiveste a dec\u00eancia de o apagar do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o? Claro que, de alguma forma, ele ignora o facto de ter sido ele a dar-te com os p\u00e9s!<\/b><\/p>\n On the other hand, if you spent all of this time trying to get your ex back, that would probably satisfy his ego. Luckily for you, that didn\u2019t happen!<\/p>\n Lembras-te de eu te ter dito que o teu o ex \u00e9 ciumento<\/a> of your new relationship, when you asked me: \u201cWhy did my ex hate me when he dumped me?\u201d the first time? Well, there is more than one way for this man to be jealous.<\/p>\n Por vezes, o teu ex tem ci\u00fames de tudo o que conseguiste desde que te deixou. Ou deverei dizer inveja?<\/p>\n De qualquer forma, this guy clearly expected for your life to be over the moment he walked away from you. He didn\u2019t expect for you to <\/b>voltar atr\u00e1s<\/b> para seguir a pista t\u00e3o pouco tempo depois da separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n However, that\u2019s exactly what you did. You didn\u2019t lament over your sad destiny and you didn\u2019t beg him to take you back.<\/p>\n Tomou a sua pr\u00f3pria vida nas suas m\u00e3os e come\u00e7ou a trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n You look better than ever. You got a new, better job, you\u2019ve hit the gym, you\u2019re traveling and you\u2019ve finally started enjoying life.<\/p>\n What about him? Well, he\u2019s still a sorry piece of garbage he\u2019s always been.<\/p>\n You\u2019re clearly more successful than him and he hates you because of it.<\/p>\n Are you still friends with your ex on social media? If not, check whether he\u2019s following you from a Finsta or another fake account.<\/p>\n Se ele a vir a divertir-se \u00e0 grande em toda a sua <\/b>redes sociais<\/b>Se o seu \u00f3dio n\u00e3o for o mais forte, pode ser essa a raz\u00e3o do seu \u00f3dio.<\/b> Quero dizer, ele acabou contigo e tu publicaste um selfie sensual<\/a> the very next day. Or even worse, you\u2019re posting new men all the time.<\/p>\n But what did he expect? I suppose he hoped that you\u2019ll be posting sad songs and nostalgic quotes so all of your subscribers and followers know that you\u2019re heartbroken.<\/p>\n Another thing that might bother him are your status updates in which you talk trash about him. You\u2019re probably not tagging him or even naming him but you keep on posting quotes about a shitty ex.<\/p>\n Or he just hates you because you blocked him and he can\u2019t see your posts anymore.<\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex me odeia quando me deixou? Bem, se foste nenhum contacto<\/a> logo ap\u00f3s a separa\u00e7\u00e3o, a\u00ed est\u00e1 a sua resposta.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not replying to his phone calls and text messages. You\u2019ve stopped showing up at places where you could run into him.<\/p>\n Desejou-lhe boa sorte na vida e foi tudo. He knows nothing about you and it looks like you\u2019ve really put a stop to this relationship.<\/b><\/p>\n Mas a melhor parte \u00e9 que isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma esp\u00e9cie de jogo mental que se tenta jogar para recuperar o seu ex<\/a>. You really want to leave him in the past, where he belongs\u2014 that\u2019s why you cut all ties.<\/p>\n It looks like you did exactly what he wanted you to do\u2014 you left him alone and you disappeared from his life. So, what is he upset about now?<\/p>\n H\u00e1 que ter consci\u00eancia de uma coisa: hatred and love are actually quite similar. To be exact, they\u2019re two sides of the same coin.<\/b><\/p>\n Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that, if your ex hates you, it means that in some twisted way, ele ainda te ama<\/a>. Hate is not the opposite of love – indifference is.<\/p>\n Este homem est\u00e1 dominado por uma masculinidade t\u00f3xica e tem dificuldade em admitir que ainda sente algo por si, especialmente porque foi ele que acabou com tudo.<\/p>\n So, it\u2019s easier for him to transform all of his love (especially if he knows it has become one-sided) into anger and hatred.<\/b><\/p>\n Se espera obter o teu ex de volta<\/a>, trust me you still have a chance. On the other hand, if he is indifferent, it means that he\u2019s really over you.<\/p>\n As long as he hates you, it means you\u2019re present in his heart. It means he is still thinking of you and wasting energy on you.<\/p>\n Se o seu <\/b>ex-marido<\/b> or ex-boyfriend talks trash about you, tries to \u201csteal\u201d your <\/b>melhores amigos<\/b> e os vira contra si, e usa todas as oportunidades que tem para o insultar, uma coisa \u00e9 certa: ele odeia-o. <\/b>But sadly, things don\u2019t end here.<\/p>\n Sempre que se encontram acidentalmente, ele olha para si de forma desagrad\u00e1vel. Esfor\u00e7a-se por humilh\u00e1-la e envergonh\u00e1-la e at\u00e9 diz \u00e0s pessoas que a odeia.<\/p>\n Apesar de n\u00e3o terem mantido contacto, ele continua a enviar-lhe mensagens de texto insultuosas. Mesmo quando lhe perguntas alguma coisa (por exemplo, se queres devolver as tuas coisas), ele \u00e9 sempre mal-educado.<\/p>\n Este homem revelou os teus segredos mais obscuros ao mundo inteiro. Ele discute com os vossos <\/b>amigos comuns<\/b> sempre que saem consigo e ele publica actualiza\u00e7\u00f5es de estado de raiva em todo o seu <\/b>redes sociais<\/b> contas.<\/b><\/p>\n Se consegue relacionar o seu ex-parceiro com a maioria destas coisas, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 margem para d\u00favidas: ele \u00e9 o seu odiador n\u00famero um!<\/p>\n Odiar o seu ex \u00e9 um sinal claro de que ainda tens sentimentos por ele<\/a>. Detesto ter de vos dizer isto, mas isto significa que you haven\u2019t moved on<\/a>.<\/p>\n Quer dizer, ele ainda est\u00e1 presente nos teus pensamentos. Da mesma forma que o teu amor por ele te consumia, este \u00f3dio avassalador faz agora o mesmo.<\/b><\/p>\n2. Arrepende-se da sua decis\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
3. Os vossos amigos em comum escolheram o vosso lado<\/h3>\n
4. A separa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 culpa sua<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n5. He can\u2019t forgive you<\/h3>\n
6. Tra\u00edste a sua confian\u00e7a<\/h3>\n
7. You\u2019re badmouthing him<\/h3>\n
8. Apercebeu-se do que tinha perdido<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n9. Deixaste de o amar<\/h3>\n
10. Ele tem ci\u00fames de ti<\/h3>\n
11. O seu comportamento nas redes sociais<\/h3>\n
12. N\u00e3o estabeleceu contacto<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n13. Ele ainda te ama<\/h3>\n
Como \u00e9 que se sabe se o ex nos odeia?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nO que significa odiar o seu ex?<\/h2>\n
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