{"id":155878,"date":"2022-07-14T21:38:53","date_gmt":"2022-07-14T21:38:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=155878"},"modified":"2023-04-06T06:09:13","modified_gmt":"2023-04-06T06:09:13","slug":"gostos-e-aversoes-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/gostos-e-aversoes-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Intimidade de expressar gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

O compromisso \u00e9 um dos fundamentos das rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis a longo prazo. Demonstra willingness to find a common ground and accommodate your partner\u2019s needs, wants and preferences in a way that keeps both of you happy<\/b>.<\/p>\n

It sounds like this would be easy enough, but it isn\u2019t. People often continue to do things that bother their partners for one simple reason: they don\u2019t know how their significant other feels about their actions. Continuam a fazer algo que o seu parceiro <\/b>n\u00e3o gosta<\/b> because they\u2018re unaware that their behavior might be a problem.<\/b><\/p>\n

Unless you let your partner know about your likes and dislikes in a relationship, they can\u2019t know how the things they do affect you. This issue is caused by a lack of communication, which is the other pillar of happy relationships. When partners don\u2019t tell each other things, resentments accumulate until they cause even bigger problems.<\/b><\/p>\n

Continue a ler para descobrir que tipo de gostos e avers\u00f5es t\u00eam impacto numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e como discuti-los com o seu parceiro pode aproxim\u00e1-los.<\/p>\n

Exprimir os gostos e os desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

A identifica\u00e7\u00e3o das suas prefer\u00eancias depende muito do grau de consci\u00eancia que tem das suas valores, necessidades e limites. <\/b>Pode investir algum tempo a pensar naquilo de que gosta, mas a forma mais f\u00e1cil de saber o que sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a uma coisa \u00e9 reparar nela quando surge.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to enter a new relationship with a list of likes and dislikes \u2013 paying attention to your partner\u2019s actions and speaking up immediately will suffice.<\/b> Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/a> sobre como se sente faz toda a diferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

The way you relate to your partner influences how your relationship progresses. When you hold back and hide positive or negative feelings, you\u2019re robbing yourself of the chance to connect to your partner and make your relationship grow.<\/p>\n

O maior erro que pode cometer na forma como se relaciona com o seu parceiro \u00e9 esperar que ele leia a sua mente. <\/b>Anticipating your needs and wants and already knowing what you like doesn\u2019t prove that your partner loves you and cares for you.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea expressar gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n

Unmet needs create resentment and broken boundaries create distance. It\u2019s important not to ignore those needs that are not being met and boundaries being crossed because you otherwise like your relationship.<\/p>\n

As suas necessidades s\u00e3o muitas vezes inegoci\u00e1veis, e alguns dos seus gostos e <\/b>n\u00e3o gosta<\/b> s\u00e3o flex\u00edveis. <\/b>Isto significa que pode fazer ced\u00eancias em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a determinados aspectos, ao mesmo tempo que as suas necessidades s\u00e3o satisfeitas.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re honest and openly let your partner know who you are, what you need, want, like and <\/b>avers\u00e3o<\/b>, you\u2019re giving them a chance to love you for who you are.<\/b><\/p>\n

Saber argumentar de forma produtiva \u00e9 muito mais saud\u00e1vel do que manter as coisas no s\u00edtio. Os argumentos que visam a resolu\u00e7\u00e3o de problemas s\u00e3o<\/b> instrumentos de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>Por outro lado, guardar as coisas para si pr\u00f3prio leva ao ressentimento.<\/p>\n

Como expressar os gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n

A melhor abordagem \u00e9 faz\u00ea-lo imediatamente, diretamente e sem acusa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Trying to get your partner to do something through manipulation isn\u2019t the way to establish a connection. Pedir coisas diretamente e exprimir a sua <\/b>n\u00e3o gosta<\/b> s\u00e3o muito mais eficazes para conseguir o que se quer. Al\u00e9m disso, aproxima-o do seu parceiro.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sometimes you might not even be aware that you\u2019re being manipulative with your partner. Examples of manipulation include not saying \u2019yes\u2019 to keep the peace when you want to say \u2018no\u2019, and saying \u2018no\u2019 to punish or get something from your partner when you\u2019re fine with saying \u2018yes\u2019.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s far better to just say what\u2019s bothering you or what you need from your partner to make you happy. <\/b>Disagreements in a relationship aren\u2019t a problem. Hiding how you feel and expecting your partner to just know, is.<\/p>\n

For example, tell your partner, \u201cI don\u2019t like it when you leave your dirty socks on the floor, please put them in the hamper instead.\u201d When they do as you asked, thank them. After expressing yourself in this way enough times, you\u2019ll see the power of open communication.<\/p>\n

Rather than feeling passive-aggressive, you\u2019ll have the power to change things in your relationship for the better.<\/b><\/p>\n

Base dos gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa tem dois tipos de prefer\u00eancias quando se trata de romance: gostos e desgostos na escolha de um parceiro e gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Gostos e <\/b>avers\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> est\u00e3o intimamente relacionados com valores, necessidades e limites. <\/b>Even if you never openly discussed these important issues \u2013 and you must if you want a healthy relationship \u2013 your likes and dislikes will make them clear.<\/p>\n

O que procuramos quando escolhemos um parceiro raramente corresponde a uma pessoa real que conhecemos. Lots of very specific preferences become unimportant when you meet someone who doesn\u2019t fit the image you built up in your head and you still like them.<\/b><\/p>\n

Valores<\/h3>\n

Most people are okay when their partner doesn\u2019t check all the boxes when it comes to their likes and dislikes. This usually includes things like physical features and other qualities you\u2019d use to describe your \u2019type\u2019.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, a falta de correspond\u00eancia entre os valores pode tornar-se um problema grave, o que, por vezes, pode significar uma incompatibilidade irremedi\u00e1vel.<\/b> Os valores n\u00e3o s\u00e3o normalmente negoci\u00e1veis<\/a> in a relationship because they\u2019re crucially important to a person and rarely change.<\/p>\n

Certos valores permanecem os mesmos durante a maior parte da vida, e incluem:<\/p>\n

1. Fam\u00edlia<\/h4>\n

Family matters are one of the core values that can mean the end of a relationship if they don\u2018t match. Os casais raramente s\u00e3o capazes de chegar a um compromisso sobre quest\u00f5es relacionadas com a fam\u00edlia. <\/b>Se tentarem faz\u00ea-lo, \u00e9 frequente uma das pessoas ceder, o que leva a ressentimentos.<\/p>\n

Os valores relacionados com a fam\u00edlia incluem quest\u00f5es como a import\u00e2ncia da fam\u00edlia alargada, o grau de proximidade com ela que deseja viver e o grau de envolvimento na sua vida. No entanto, a grande quest\u00e3o que se coloca \u00e9 a de ter filhos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Whether or not you want to have them, when, how many \u2013 your attitudes about these can make or break a relationship.<\/p>\n

2. Religi\u00e3o<\/h4>\n

Muitas pessoas t\u00eam uma forte liga\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 religi\u00e3o e esta desempenha um papel importante nas suas vidas. Algumas pessoas s\u00f3 querem casar com pessoas da mesma f\u00e9, mas mesmo quando uma pessoa religiosa est\u00e1 aberta a ter um parceiro com cren\u00e7as diferentes, podem facilmente surgir tens\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

Isto torna-se especialmente problem\u00e1tico se tiverem filhos. Isso leva \u00e0 quest\u00e3o de como cri\u00e1-los e se os deixamos escolher por si pr\u00f3prios. <\/b>If the partners\u2019 religious extended families are involved, how will that influence their lives?<\/p>\n

3. Estilo de vida<\/h4>\n

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Alguns estilos de vida chocar\u00e3o, enquanto outros podem combinar-se apesar das diferen\u00e7as. O local e a forma como se vive pode ser comprometido se ambos os parceiros estiverem dispostos a fazer concess\u00f5es e a encontrar formas de passarem tempo de qualidade juntos.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re someone who loves to travel, while your partner doesn\u2019t like to leave the city they live in, you can probably compromise if your other values fit. Still, certain lifestyles can\u2019t really be reconciled, so make sure to talk to your partner about what\u2019s important to them.<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Finan\u00e7as<\/h4>\n

A forma como gosta de gastar o seu dinheiro pode n\u00e3o ser um tema de conversa rom\u00e2ntico, mas os problemas financeiros arru\u00ednam os casamentos<\/b>. If you like to save up and your partner likes to live large, it\u2019s very important to establish rules from the start.<\/p>\n

Tomar decis\u00f5es financeiras em conjunto \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio para<\/b> manter a confian\u00e7a<\/b><\/a> e mostrar-se preocupado com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b>. Muitas vezes, quando as atitudes em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s finan\u00e7as s\u00e3o diferentes, uma pessoa esconde as despesas, as contas, os rendimentos, etc., do seu parceiro, o que pode causar uma rutura profunda e numerosos problemas numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

5. Pap\u00e9is de g\u00e9nero<\/h4>\n

Attitudes towards gender roles have a direct impact on your relationship. Even if they\u2019re not immediately obvious, ideias diferentes sobre a forma como os parceiros se devem comportar na rela\u00e7\u00e3o com base no seu g\u00e9nero podem causar problemas <\/b>na estrada.<\/p>\n

For example, when a man has a traditional view of a relationship, he might be less involved in raising children as he believes that it\u2019s the wife\u2019s role. He might also not show appreciation to her efforts because he considers raising children and house chores her duty as opposed to hard work.<\/p>\n

6. Compromisso<\/h4>\n

Commitment doesn\u2019t have the same meaning for everyone. Comprometer-se significa prometer certas coisas ao seu parceiro, como amor, honestidade, confian\u00e7a e lealdade.<\/b><\/p>\n

Some people don\u2019t believe in having only one sexual and romantic partner, while it\u2019s a core value for others. Trying to compromise on this can lead to betrayal and cheating. For some, loyalty means standing behind your partner no matter what, while others have limits to what they accept.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 fundamental definir o que significa exatamente o compromisso para si e exprimir as suas atitudes e expectativas.<\/b><\/p>\n

Necessidades<\/h3>\n

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Para al\u00e9m das necessidades f\u00edsicas, todas as pessoas t\u00eam necessidades emocionais e espirituais que devem ser satisfeitas se quisermos ter uma vida feliz.<\/p>\n

People enter romantic relationships to have some of these needs met by their partner \u2013 needs such as love, appreciation and validation \u2013 but we\u2019re often unaware of what it is exactly that we <\/b>necessidade numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, o seu parceiro tem de ser capaz de satisfazer as suas necessidades, mas antes que isso possa acontecer, \u00e9 preciso saber quais s\u00e3o essas necessidades.<\/b> As necessidades podem mudar ao longo da vida. H\u00e1 necessidades fundamentais que a maioria das pessoas partilha, mas h\u00e1 outras que tem de descobrir por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Algumas das necessidades fundamentais da maioria das pessoas s\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

1. Afeto<\/h4>\n

A maioria das pessoas precisa de afeto por parte do seu parceiro rom\u00e2ntico e espera por isso. A \u00fanica forma de o conseguir \u00e9 comunicar como quer que o seu parceiro demonstre afeto por si.<\/b> Tell your partner what you need and how often, and what it is that you don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Some people love grand romantic gestures, gifts and surprises, while others don\u2019t. Diga ao seu parceiro se quer que ele exprima o seu amor por palavras, de que forma e com que frequ\u00eancia.<\/b><\/p>\n

Afeto f\u00edsico<\/a>A sua parceira pode nem sequer se lembrar de qualquer coisa, como abra\u00e7ar e dar as m\u00e3os, at\u00e9 que lhe diga que precisa disso, e ela pode estar mais do que disposta a faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

2. Aceita\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n

When your partner accepts you, they make you feel like you\u2019re an important part of their life. Ser aceite significa ter as suas opini\u00f5es, ideias e pontos de vista respeitados, mas tamb\u00e9m ter um sentimento de perten\u00e7a com o seu parceiro.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sentir-se aceite significa que se sente livre para ser voc\u00ea mesmo e partilhar os seus sonhos e esperan\u00e7as com o seu parceiro sem receio de julgamentos.<\/p>\n

3. Liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n

Para estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o, ambos os parceiros precisam de estar dispostos a abrir-se, a criar la\u00e7os e a partilhar os seus sentimentos mais profundos um com o outro. Liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/b><\/a> is more than physical attraction and having fun together. It\u2019s about not feeling alone in this world.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you feel connected to someone, you have deep understanding with the other person, and feel secure that they will always be there for you. It\u2019s a level of care that goes beyond the superficial \u2013 it\u2019s a genuine investment in the other person\u2019s needs, desires and emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n

4. Aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n

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When your partner makes you feel appreciated, they show their gratitude for your actions and how you treat them. When you know that your efforts aren\u2019t taken for granted, it motivates you to keep doing things that your partner appreciates.<\/p>\n

As formas de expressar apre\u00e7o s\u00e3o elogios, presentes atenciosos, palavras de gratid\u00e3o e reciprocidade. <\/b>Quando ambos os parceiros est\u00e3o dispostos a fazer coisas de que a outra pessoa gosta e a exprimir os seus sentimentos de apre\u00e7o, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se mais satisfat\u00f3ria para ambos.<\/p>\n

5. Valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n

Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, a valida\u00e7\u00e3o significa que se sente ouvido e compreendido mesmo quando n\u00e3o concorda com o seu parceiro. When the other person is able to accept your opinions and ideas even when they don\u2019t agree with them, they\u2019re<\/b> fazer com que se sinta valorizado<\/b><\/a> e aceite.<\/b><\/p>\n

O oposto de ver os seus pensamentos e sentimentos validados \u00e9 sentir-se desprezado e menosprezado. Quando o seu parceiro rejeita o que lhe diz sobre o que o faz sentir ou tro\u00e7a de algo que o entusiasma, afasta-o e torna-o relutante em voltar a partilhar.<\/p>\n

6. Seguran\u00e7a<\/h4>\n

Feeling safe with your partner and secure in your relationship in the moment and in the long term is the basis of trust and love. Not being secure in your partner\u2019s commitment to you and your relationship can lead to stress and anxiety.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to feel both emotional and physical safety around your partner. <\/b>Knowing for sure that your partner won\u2019t hurt you emotionally or physically plays a great role in feeling secure in your relationship.<\/p>\n

Se o seu parceiro mostrar sinais de abuso emocional e f\u00edsico, procure ajuda o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

7. Lealdade<\/h4>\n

Ser leal vai para al\u00e9m da fidelidade. Um parceiro leal \u00e9 algu\u00e9m em quem se pode sempre confiar para o apoiar. <\/b>When you\u2019re sure that your partner always has your back, your relationship makes you feel like you don\u2019t have to face anything alone.<\/p>\n

Confiar na lealdade do seu parceiro \u00e9 mais f\u00e1cil para algumas pessoas do que para outras. <\/b>Depending on your previous experience, it might be difficult to fully let go of doubts and to accept your partner\u2019s loyalty.<\/p>\n

Limites<\/h3>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Boundaries are what separate you from other people, including your partner. Don\u2019t think of this as a bad thing \u2013 no matter how much you love your partner and feel like a unit, you are still different people. Honoring each other\u2019s boundaries is a sign of love and respect.<\/b><\/p>\n

Os limites mant\u00eam-nos seguros<\/a> e tornar as rela\u00e7\u00f5es felizes e saud\u00e1veis. They define expectations and limits in your partner\u2019s behavior, which can change over time.<\/b> A quebra de limites leva a problemas na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pelo que a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 especialmente importante.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t always know your own boundaries, but you can recognize that they\u2019re being violated by identifying the areas in your life where you\u2019re experiencing issues. There are several types of boundaries.<\/p>\n

1. Limites f\u00edsicos<\/h4>\n

Os limites f\u00edsicos est\u00e3o relacionados com o seu espa\u00e7o e corpo. Incluem coisas como:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your personal space. <\/b>O qu\u00e3o perto algu\u00e9m pode chegar de si fisicamente.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Having privacy. <\/b>Passar tempo ou fazer algo que se quer fazer sozinho, sem intrus\u00f5es ou perguntas.<\/p>\n

\u2022 How it’s okay to touch you<\/b> e como n\u00e3o o \u00e9.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being able to meet your physical needs <\/b>nos seus pr\u00f3prios termos, por exemplo, a forma como descansa ou o que come e bebe.<\/p>\n

2. Limites sexuais<\/h4>\n

Respecting your sexual boundaries isn\u2019t only limited to consentimento<\/b> \u2013 it also means that you have full control of all aspects of your sexuality.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Sexual acts <\/b>you’re comfortable with.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Whether, when, where, and with whom you have sex.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Communication<\/b> about your sexual likes and dislikes and your partner’s sexual history.<\/p>\n

\u2022 How often<\/b> queres fazer sexo.<\/p>\n

\u2022 The kind of sexual contact <\/b>you’re comfortable with.<\/p>\n

\u2022 No pressure<\/b> to do anything sexual you’re uncomfortable with.<\/p>\n

3. Limites emocionais<\/h4>\n

Emotional boundaries are about your right to your own thoughts and feelings and not being held accountable for other people’s feelings.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not feeling responsible <\/b>for your partner\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having to talk <\/b>about something you’re not comfortable with.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not sacrificing your own needs <\/b>for your partner’s.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having someone else’s feelings dictate yours.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not being blamed <\/b>for other people’s problems.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having your feelings dismissed<\/b> e invalidada.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being able to say ‘no’ <\/b>e que seja respeitado.<\/p>\n

4. Limites pessoais<\/h4>\n

Outros limites pessoais<\/a> incluem v\u00e1rios aspectos da sua individualidade. Estes incluem:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Valuing your time. <\/b>Por exemplo, a frequ\u00eancia com que v\u00ea o seu parceiro ou o tempo que espera por ele.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not having to apologize <\/b>por pedir que os seus limites sejam cumpridos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 How you’re spoken to.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Being able to work<\/b> sem interfer\u00eancias.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Right to personal belongings <\/b>e independ\u00eancia financeira.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being listened to.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not being judged <\/b>por se recusar a fazer algo.<\/p>\n

Exemplos de gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Isto leva-nos aos gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Os seus valores, necessidades e limites criam as suas prefer\u00eancias na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tanto no que diz respeito a como quer que o seu parceiro seja e como quer que ele o trate e se comporte em determinadas situa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

Alguns dos seus gostos e avers\u00f5es s\u00e3o factores de rutura, enquanto outros s\u00e3o meras chatices ou tornam-no mais satisfeito com uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Eis alguns exemplos de prefer\u00eancias numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being on time and not keeping you waiting.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not staying in touch with their ex-girlfriend or boyfriend.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Giving you time to play video games or watch TV shows when you need to recharge on your own.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not posting your pictures on <\/b>redes sociais<\/b> a menos que o consultem primeiro.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not demanding you to talk about your previous relationships if you’re not emotionally ready.<\/p>\n

- Acariciar<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Being on good terms with your best friend.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Giving you gifts on special occasions, or giving you gifts for no reason.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not calling you certain nicknames.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Cleaning up after themselves.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Celebrating the anniversary of your <\/b>primeiro encontro<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Making effort in the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Responding to your questions in a polite way even if they’re upset.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Telling you about any turn-offs they might have.<\/p>\n

\u2022 When they don’t agree with you on something, instead of being angry, asking you <\/b>quest\u00f5es relacionadas<\/b> e a procurar formas de resolver os seus problemas.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Letting you know in advance when they want to go out with their bros or girlfriends on the day you usually go out.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being comfortable discussing any of your behavior they <\/b>avers\u00e3o<\/b> e <\/b>vice-versa<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Making you laugh.<\/p>\n

- N\u00e3o estou a chamar-lhe nomes<\/b><\/a> em argumentos.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Visiting your extended family over the weekend.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not comparing you to their <\/b>escola secund\u00e1ria<\/b> namorado(a), ex-c\u00f4njuge ou outros parceiros anteriores.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Showing empathy to others.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Being understanding.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Setting aside time to bond with each other.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Honesty.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Expressing their feelings in words.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Respecting your boundaries.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Working on their career.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Doing chores you don’t like and you doing chores they don’t like.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not trying to convince you of their religious beliefs.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Not judging your interests and hobbies.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Having deep conversations.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Showing forgiveness.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Not making big financial decisions without you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Surprising you with thoughtful gestures.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Letting you know if there’s a problem and discussing it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Respecting it when you need space.<\/b><\/p>\n

Como pode ver, os gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o abrangem um vasto leque de ac\u00e7\u00f5es e comportamentos, e seria imposs\u00edvel enumer\u00e1-los todos. A \u00fanica forma de saber como se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a algo e de lidar com isso \u00e9 prestando aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos seus sentimentos e comunicando com o seu parceiro.<\/b><\/p>\n

A intimidade de uma comunica\u00e7\u00e3o honesta<\/h2>\n

Exprimir os gostos e desgostos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ir\u00e1 criar confian\u00e7a, liga\u00e7\u00e3o e intimidade entre si e o seu parceiro. Quando perceber que pode conseguir o que quer da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o simplesmente falando, a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o vai mudar.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you\u2018re honest instead of bottling up negative emotions or trying to manipulate your partner into doing something, arguments will become a problem solving tool and not a way of getting the upper hand.<\/p>\n

Quando estabelecem que podem dizer um ao outro quando algo vos incomoda sem julgamento, a <\/b>muitas coisas<\/b> that you considered problems will only be topics that you still haven’t talked about.<\/b><\/p>\n

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