{"id":15619,"date":"2018-03-02T11:23:32","date_gmt":"2018-03-02T11:23:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15619"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:18:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:18:02","slug":"5-tipos-de-vampiros-emocionais-que-lidam-com-o-problema","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-tipos-de-vampiros-emocionais-que-lidam-com-o-problema\/","title":{"rendered":"5 tipos de vampiros emocionais (como identific\u00e1-los e lidar com eles)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Relationships are difficult as it is, but what about when you\u2019re in love with an emotional vampire? What happens when he takes away all the energy you have left? How are you going to survive the healing if you are unable to get up from the bed in the morning?<\/p>\n

Well, you fight, you work with what you\u2019ve got and you survive. You get better; you heal. It\u2019s like learning to walk all over again. It takes a long time and it\u2019s painful, but finally, you walk again and you forget that you weren\u2019t able to get up for a long time.<\/p>\n

Estes vampiros emocionais t\u00eam o poder de nos fazer sentir indignos e inam\u00e1vel<\/a>. Eles encontrar\u00e3o sempre uma forma de o fazer sentir-se mal consigo pr\u00f3prio. Esta \u00e9 a sua principal arma para o controlar. Mas como existem diferentes tipos de vampiros emocionais, eles fazem a mesma coisa, mas de formas diferentes.<\/p>\n

Estes s\u00e3o os tipos e o que deve fazer para se defender:<\/p>\n

1. O narcisista<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

The most famous of them all is Beyonc\u00e9 of the singing world. Narcissists are extremely dangerous. The most important person for them is themselves. They are people who are incapable of loving anyone. They can care for someone\u2014as long as that someone does everything they want. They are attention seekers and they crave admiration. When they walk into the room, they want all eyes on them and they enjoy it so much. They will lie, deceive and hurt you, just to get exactly what they want. These dangerous manipulators feel no remorse as they can\u2019t feel love.<\/p>\n

Como lidar com eles:<\/strong><\/em> Keep your desires sensible. These are highly dangerous individuals. Never trust them with your feelings or let your self-esteem get into their hands. Don\u2019t think they can change and fall helplessly in love, because they can\u2019t and you can\u2019t change them\u2014no matter what you do. Women often fall in that trap. Don\u2019t trust them with your feelings and never let them in, because if you do, you\u2019ll get emotionally attached and in the end terribly hurt.<\/p>\n

2. O divisor<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

They are absolute champions in keeping you on an emotional roller coaster. One day, they are going to love you the most and the other one, they are going to hate you\u2014depends on what you did to make him feel that way. And since he is an emotional vampire, you did nothing wrong. You just did something he doesn\u2019t approve or doesn\u2019t like, so he turns his back on you that instant.<\/p>\n

Como lidar com eles:<\/strong><\/em> Eles emocionalmente<\/a> attack you every chance you get and the most important thing for you is to be ready to defend yourself. Don\u2019t make any eye contact while they are screaming at you, don\u2019t give them any reason to go any further. Build a wall around yourself that will protect you from their behavior. And the last and most important tip, just leave that person. Your life could be so much better than it is because of him.<\/p>\n

3. A v\u00edtima<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

The whole world is against them. They are always the underdogs in everything they do. Even if you offer them a solution, they will find an excuse not to go through with it. The only solution for them is to do what they want you to, so they could be happy. If you are in a relationship with \u2018The Victim\u2019, your life will turn into hell and if you know someone like this, you\u2019ll probably avoid their calls and messages.<\/p>\n

Como lidar com eles:<\/strong><\/em> There is a way of protecting yourself from this kind of people. There are a few body language signs that will let them know that you just don\u2019t want to discuss whatever is that they want with you. You can cross your arms and turn your gaze away, thus letting them know that you are not inviting them into your personal space. If you are in a relationship with someone like this, don\u2019t let them speak unless they decide to listen to your solution. If they keep turning you down, refuse to talk about that theme in general.<\/p>\n

4. O cr\u00edtico<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

No matter what you do, they will find fault with it. They will criticize you all the time to undermine you and make you feel like you aren\u2019t good enough. Even when you do something right, they will set the bar even higher so you never reach it. They will expect too much of you by setting ridiculously high standards which are impossible to fulfill.<\/p>\n

Como lidar com eles:<\/strong><\/em> Don\u2019t take any of the words they say personally. They are just meant to hurt you and none of them are even true. You shouldn\u2019t defend yourself because that will only show him that he has managed to get to you with his provocations. Don\u2019t give him any reason to think you\u2019re hurt and in that way encourage him to criticize you some more.<\/p>\n

5. O falador constante<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

These people don\u2019t have any interest in what you\u2019ve got to say. The only thing they want to do is to talk and talk. They have the need to say everything they want about themselves and when it\u2019s your turn, they don\u2019t let you and even if they do, they don\u2019t really listen to you, they pretend.<\/p>\n

Como lidar com eles:<\/strong><\/em> They don\u2019t know how to pick up on subtle signs that you don\u2019t want them to talk anymore, so you have to be vocal and interrupt them. Try to do it politely with an excuse\u2014that works the best\u2014or if it\u2019s someone close to you, like a family member, just stop him and explain why. Going crazy on them and yelling won\u2019t have any results.<\/p>\n

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