{"id":15624,"date":"2020-03-02T12:34:30","date_gmt":"2020-03-02T12:34:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15624"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:26:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:26:13","slug":"5-coisas-que-o-manipulador-emocional-disfarca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-que-o-manipulador-emocional-disfarca\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ele faz estas 5 coisas, ele \u00e9 um manipulador emocional disfar\u00e7ado"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve heard this story millions of times before. A girl meets a boy, the boy is perfect, the girl falls helplessly in love, the boy reveals his true face, and the girl is heartbroken.<\/p>\n

I bet not only you\u2019ve heard this before, but you\u2019ve been through this shit and you got hurt. You got hurt badly.<\/p>\n

You probably don\u2019t want to have anything to do with men anymore. You\u2019re disappointed and you\u2019re angry with yourself. You\u2019re frustrated because you let yourself fall for his tricks.<\/p>\n

You let him deceive you and lie to you. You\u2019re furious because you didn\u2019t see it in time. You baixar a guarda<\/a> e entrou sorrateiramente no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to move on after someone takes your heart and tears it into thousands of shreds. The pain is enormous.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You want to smile\u2014you have to smile because you don\u2019t want anyone to see how much you\u2019re hurting.<\/p>\n

Mas cada sorriso teu magoa-te ainda mais. Cada sorriso for\u00e7ado no teu rosto perfura o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mas tens de saber que ningu\u00e9m tem esse tipo de poder sobre ti. Ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de o controlar e manipular.<\/p>\n

He did, for a moment, but you\u2019ve seen it and you got out.<\/p>\n

This time, it was too late to save yourself from all the pain, but hopefully, by reading these signs, you won\u2019t make the same mistake next time.<\/p>\n

Ele vai fazer-te sentir culpado<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He will make you feel like shit in anything that you do. You\u2019ll have the constant feeling that your every move is completely wrong.<\/p>\n

A culpa \u00e9 a sua maior arma contra si para conseguir o que quer.<\/p>\n

Se quiseres fazer algo por ti, ele deixa-te fazer, mas com olhos tristes de cachorrinho.<\/p>\n

Ele vai fazer-se de v\u00edtima<\/a>, so you feel sorry for him and once more choose to ignore your feelings to force you to be with him and take care his feelings don\u2019t get hurt.<\/p>\n

He would be perfectly fine if you didn\u2019t stay with him, but his ego would be hurt because things didn\u2019t play his way.<\/p>\n

He will respect you \u2013 in the beginning<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why his act is so brilliant. He will be perfect from the beginning.<\/p>\n

He will give you the world. He will respect you and move mountains for you. He will be the man you\u2019ve always dreamed of being with.<\/p>\n

Ele vai prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo o que disseres, mas n\u00e3o porque se preocupe, mas porque \u00e9 um idiota que te quer manipular para fazeres tudo o que ele quer, para te comportares como ele quer.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll think he is listening to you because yes, he is that perfect of an actor, when actually, he is just a manipulator in disguise, lying and deceiving to get what he wants.<\/p>\n

He will promise you the world and do\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Nada! Apenas palavras vazias e falsas promessas pat\u00e9ticas saem da sua boca.<\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, ele promete-te tudo e sabes o que recebes? N\u00e3o recebes nada e, para come\u00e7ar, ele nunca quis dar-te nada.<\/p>\n

He will always say one thing to get your hopes up and then he\u2019ll walk all over his words and do whatever he was planning to do anyway.<\/p>\n

Your feelings don\u2019t matter\u2014they never mattered.<\/p>\n

His \u2018help-mask\u2019 is on<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll be gentle, sweet. He\u2019ll be the stranger on the street that helps you get your things together after someone knocked you over in a hurry.<\/p>\n

He will be your \u2018Hollywood moment\u2019 of love at first sight.<\/p>\n

Only your story won\u2019t have a happy ending. Your story will be heartbreaking and painful. And he?<\/p>\n

Ele seguir\u00e1 em frente, encontrar\u00e1 outra v\u00edtima para se armar em bom samaritano.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 a v\u00edtima<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O seu favorito t\u00e1tica<\/a> para vos manipular, a sua arma mais forte. Estas pessoas s\u00e3o muito inteligentes e astutas.<\/p>\n

Sabem exatamente o que dizer e quando. Sabem transformar todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es em seu proveito, porque sabem mentir no preciso momento em que precisam de o fazer.<\/p>\n

He will play the victim every time he wants something and he sees he can\u2019t have it.<\/p>\n

Presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o se vires isto: sempre que est\u00e1s a ganhar uma discuss\u00e3o em que ele est\u00e1 em pior posi\u00e7\u00e3o porque est\u00e1 errado, de repente, d\u00e1s por ti a sentir pena dele e sentes-te uma merda.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s because he played you and made himself a victim.<\/p>\n

At the end of every situation similar to this one, you will feel bad because you\u2019ve hurt him and you\u2019ll forget why you were mad in the first place\u2014what he\u2019s wanted all along.<\/p>\n

A manipula\u00e7\u00e3o emocional \u00e9 horr\u00edvel porque as feridas curam, as n\u00f3doas negras desaparecem, mas as palavras duras e os truques psicol\u00f3gicos deixam a nossa mente temperada e, uma vez temperada a nossa mente, toda a nossa configura\u00e7\u00e3o foi alterada, a nossa personalidade n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma.<\/p>\n

Essa dor fica para sempre e deixa-nos cautelosos e assustados para o resto da nossa vida.<\/p>\n

You can heal, but you\u2019ll never forget. You can tell yourself that you are okay, but you are not.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o at\u00e9 decidires perdoar-te a ti pr\u00f3pria e a ele. S\u00f3 quando decidires seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve heard this story millions of times before. A girl meets a boy, the boy is perfect, the girl falls helplessly in love, the boy reveals his true face, and the girl is heartbroken. I bet not only you\u2019ve heard this before, but you\u2019ve been through this shit and you got hurt. You got hurt…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":84721,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15624","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/If-He-Does-These-5-Things-Hes-An-Emotional-Manipulator-In-Disguise.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15624","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15624"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15624\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84721"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15624"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15624"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15624"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}