{"id":15642,"date":"2020-08-02T13:38:10","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T13:38:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15642"},"modified":"2022-01-17T15:33:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T15:33:20","slug":"deu-tudo-e-nao-recebeu-nada-em-troca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deu-tudo-e-nao-recebeu-nada-em-troca\/","title":{"rendered":"Dei-te tudo o que tinha e n\u00e3o recebi nada em troca"},"content":{"rendered":"

Foste o primeiro homem que amei verdadeiramente. Tive namorados antes de ti, mas nenhum deles conseguiu despertar as emo\u00e7\u00f5es que tu despertaste dentro de mim.<\/p>\n

While I was with you, I only belonged to you and nothing and nobody else existed. You had me completely. It was like I ceased to exist \u2014 I was no longer a woman, a daughter, a friend.<\/p>\n

O meu \u00fanico papel na vida era o de tua namorada. E esse foi o meu erro n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n

Deste sentido \u00e0 minha vida.<\/b> I simply forgot that I existed before I met you \u2014 I thought I couldn\u2019t breathe without you around me and you convinced me that you felt the same. You convinced me that you needed me and that you could never picture your life without me in it.<\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, o meu objetivo na vida era fazer-te sorrir <\/a> . O teu bem-estar era a \u00fanica coisa importante para mim.<\/p>\n

Esqueci-me dos meus amigos e at\u00e9 da minha fam\u00edlia, mas a pessoa de quem mais me esqueci foi de mim. Esqueci-me completamente de mim e das minhas necessidades, concentrando-me apenas em ti.<\/p>\n

E demorei muito tempo a perceber que n\u00e3o me estava a dar nada em troca.<\/p>\n

I guess I was blinded by the intensity of my love for you and I didn\u2019t notice how badly you were treating me.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

People close to me kept telling me that you didn\u2019t love me and that you were only using me but I didn\u2019t believe them.<\/p>\n

Although everything was pretty much clear, I simply refused to believe that you didn\u2019t deserve all of the sacrifices I made for you. I refused to admit that you didn\u2019t deserve me <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Mas, com o tempo, apercebi-me de que nunca correspondeste aos meus esfor\u00e7os. Apercebi-me que eu era o \u00fanico que estava constantemente a dar e n\u00e3o recebia nada.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing clear \u2014 I am not talking about anything material here. I gave you my time, my love, my patience, my energy\u2026 my everything. I didn\u2019t want expensive gifts, all I wanted was your loyalty and love.<\/p>\n

E n\u00e3o recebi nada em troca. Na verdade, fui usado e aproveitaram-me de mim.<\/p>\n

Apercebi-me que s\u00f3 era bom para ti quando precisavas de mim. Quando estavas em apuros ou quando passavas por momentos dif\u00edceis, eu era a primeira pessoa a quem ligavas.<\/p>\n

You knew I would leave everyone and everything behind to be there for you. You knew you were the center of my universe and that there was nothing I wouldn\u2019t do for you. And you used it very well to your advantage.<\/p>\n

But the moment the storm was over and as soon as you\u2019d get back on track, you would forget about me.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Claro que continuavas a ter-me ao teu lado mas, de repente, tudo e todos eram mais importantes do que eu.<\/p>\n

I was always there when you needed someone to share your sadness with but when you were happy, I wasn\u2019t even in the back of your mind.<\/p>\n

E quando precisei de ti, n\u00e3o estavas em lado nenhum.<\/b> To you, my problems and issues were irrelevant and foolish. I didn\u2019t want to admit it but deep down, I knew I could never rely on you.<\/p>\n

Eu sou exatamente o oposto. Para mim, \u00e9 natural ajudar aqueles que amamos. Sou o tipo de rapariga que fica ao lado do seu homem e \u00e9 o seu pilar de for\u00e7a, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/p>\n

Sabias que eu nunca te deixaria para tr\u00e1s e sabias que eu estava pronto para estar ao teu lado nos bons e maus momentos.<\/p>\n

But what you obviously didn\u2019t know is that you were expected to act the same. You should have at least tried to match my efforts but you couldn\u2019t do even that.<\/p>\n

A parceria m\u00fatua \u00e9 o objetivo de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Claro que h\u00e1 alturas em que um dos parceiros d\u00e1 mais e recebe menos e vice-versa e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado nisso.<\/p>\n

But this wasn\u2019t our situation; I was ready to move mountains for you and you weren\u2019t ready to move your finger for me.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Recusava-me a admiti-lo, mas agora sei que nunca me amaste de verdade. Gostavas da minha aten\u00e7\u00e3o e gostavas de ter algu\u00e9m que te amasse incondicionalmente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Abri-me completamente contigo e sempre foste uma prioridade para mim.<\/b> E eu nunca pedi muito. Podem dizer que eu era insegura, mas a verdade \u00e9 que eu precisava de alguma valida\u00e7\u00e3o da vossa parte. Precisava de me sentir importante para ti, precisava de um gesto que provasse que me amavas e que apreciavas tudo o que eu fazia por ti.<\/p>\n

E o que \u00e9 que eu ganhei? Um namorado que nunca esteve l\u00e1 para mim quando eu mais precisava dele. Um namorado que sempre me considerou o seu ombro para chorar, a sua rede de seguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Tenho um namorado que sempre me tratou como Eu era apenas uma op\u00e7\u00e3o para ele <\/a> . Tenho um namorado que vem sempre ter comigo quando n\u00e3o tem mais nenhum s\u00edtio para onde ir.<\/p>\n

I got a boyfriend who obviously couldn\u2019t love me the way I expected. And a boyfriend who was never sincere enough to tell me that and to let me go.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tenho nada. <\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Dei-te<\/p>\n

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