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<\/p>\nWhat do you do when you’re bored? Do you look at your phone, open a social media app, scroll for a while, close it, then immediately open it again?<\/p>\n
Mesmo sabendo que nada de novo aconteceu no segundo que demorou a sair e a reabrir a aplica\u00e7\u00e3o, continua a preferir fazer algo que sabe ser in\u00fatil a ficar sozinho com os seus pensamentos.<\/p>\n
If you choose to dull your mind when boredom strikes rather than taking your time to figure out what you actually want to do, you’re robbing yourself of the opportunity to do something that’s actually fun or meaningful.<\/p>\n
Why is life so boring? Because you’re disengaged instead of doing things that excite you. Things like passively consuming content or doing things you don’t really have a desire to do, instead of engaging in something meaningful, is a waste of your precious time.<\/p>\n
Em vez de evitar o t\u00e9dio a todo o custo, use-o como inspira\u00e7\u00e3o para encontrar algo em que se empenhar.<\/p>\n
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Em primeiro lugar, antes de abordar a quest\u00e3o de saber porque \u00e9 que a vida \u00e9 t\u00e3o aborrecida, deve excluir a hip\u00f3tese de depress\u00e3o. A perda de interesse pelas coisas e actividades de que gosta \u00e9 um dos seus sintomas mais comuns.<\/p>\n
Para mais informa\u00e7\u00f5es, consultar s\u00edtio Web do Instituto Nacional de Sa\u00fade Mental<\/a>. If you suspect that this is what you’re struggling with, please contact your health care provider who will refer you to a psychiatrist.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re depressed, you should prestar especial aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos cuidados pessoais<\/a>. And if you’re not depressed, how come you think of life as boring?<\/p>\n A vida \u00e9 intrinsecamente complicada e fascinante, por isso, que raz\u00e3o existe para a sua incapacidade de encontrar algo que o excite e cative? O t\u00e9dio \u00e9 um sinal.<\/p>\n Being bored tells you that you’re not doing anything useful or meaningful at the moment. If this feeling persists for a long time, you start to feel that life is boring, when in fact, you’re spending it without looking for meaning.<\/p>\n Quem diria que algo t\u00e3o comum como o t\u00e9dio pode ser t\u00e3o revelador? Isto \u00e9 o que o sentimento de t\u00e9dio pode dizer sobre a sua vida.<\/p>\n One of the reasons your life is boring is because you don\u2019t see past the familiar and avoid doing new things. You don\u2019t push yourself at work, you\u2019re never the one who suggests (and goes through with) a friend gathering and you don\u2019t make the first move when needed.<\/p>\n Some people prefer doing things on their own, but if it becomes the standard, you\u2019re at a risk of becoming isolated. You\u2019re living your life on your own, co-existing rather than living with other people. Even when you\u2019re doing things with someone, you don\u2019t really share the experience \u2013 you\u2019re just doing things next to each other.<\/p>\n Maybe you sit around and it occurs to you that you could go out tonight, and you know just the friend you\u2019d like to see. But you don\u2019t send a text inviting them out because the whole thing is too much effort. You can\u2019t be bothered to make plans, get ready, get together, spend time with others \u2013 you\u2019d rather stay home and not do anything.<\/p>\n Because of our busy lives, a person\u2019s social circle is often limited to the people they live with and people they see at work, so they become a part of the environment as opposed to someone to share your life with.<\/p>\n A intera\u00e7\u00e3o social que partilha com as pessoas \u00e9 superficial, pelo que as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es nunca se aprofundam e, com o tempo fica-se s\u00f3.<\/a><\/p>\n People who have a lot of friends aren\u2019t popular \u2018just because\u2019. The reason they have people in their lives is their effort to maintain their relationships. If you never think of contacting people just to keep in touch, your relationships will decay.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t just wait for someone to think of you, be the one to send that text asking someone how they are.<\/p>\n It\u2019s easier to just not do things and you\u2019re choosing the easy option. You justify it to yourself and others with meaningless excuses, without stopping to think how you\u2019re robbing yourself of experiences and feelings because it seems like too much effort at the moment.<\/p>\n Sure, fun things happen at home too, but being in the same environment all the time is monotonous and uninspiring. If you leave your house only when you have to, rut sets in and you can have a hard time changing your habits. Next time you\u2019re browsing Netflix for something to waste time on, put on your shoes and go for a walk instead.<\/p>\n Unless you reach for excitement, it won\u2019t come on its own. Sitting around waiting for something to happen is the biggest fun-killer there is. Figure out what would energize you, and go for it. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/p>\n You want to laugh? Call a friend who shares your sense of humor and get together, go see the funniest movie currently at the theaters, or do the thing that\u2019s always hilarious when you do it.<\/p>\n Por outras palavras, nunca se faz nada. Este \u00e9 um dos maiores culpados do t\u00e9dio. Quanto mais passivo for, mais aborrecida se tornar\u00e1 a sua vida. Deve pensar em si pr\u00f3prio como a personagem principal da sua vida, aquele que move o enredo com as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Routine isn\u2019t just doing the same things day in, day out, it\u2019s also doing things in the same way. Even your favorite thing to do would lose its charm if you do it in the same way every time. Add some variety in your daily activities. Change your route to work, get strawberry instead of chocolate ice-cream, listen to a podcast instead of watching a TV-show.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: 80 Coisas divertidas para fazer e s\u00edtios onde ir quando se est\u00e1 aborrecido<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n You don\u2019t have to be artistic to be creative, just make something. Cook something you\u2019ve never tried before, try on clothing combinations you wouldn\u2019t normally wear, take a picture of what you see every time you leave your front door. There are hundreds of ways to be creative if you open yourself up to it.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re stagnating physically, mentally and emotionally, your every day becomes the same and your life loses its luster. Expand your area of movement beyond work and home. Travel. Change your hair. Learn a new language. Choose having a meaningful conversation over playing video games.<\/p>\n Fa\u00e7a coisas que tornem os seus dias diferentes uns dos outros e que o tornem uma pessoa diferente do que era ontem.<\/p>\n It\u2019s fine to have favorites, but you need variety to grow. Learning new skills, meeting new people and going to new places is the antidote to boredom. If your life is a boring slug through everyday obligations, change it by changing the things you do.<\/p>\n Start with something small you can do today: visit a coffee shop you\u2019ve never been to, order something you\u2019ve never had before and strike up a conversation with a stranger.<\/p>\n In addition to not doing anything new, you\u2019re doing the same things too much. Not only are your days routine, but your habits have replaced enjoyment. Because of your obligations and lack of time, you do things that are quick and easy. If you start doing the same things less, it will make your life less boring.<\/p>\n This is one of the main causes of boredom. If you do things just because you\u2019re used to them, because they\u2019re expected of you, because you\u2019ve convinced yourself that this is how it goes, you can\u2019t lead a meaningful life. Boredom tells you this: you\u2019re bored because you don\u2019t do things you actually want to do.<\/p>\n In addition to not doing what you want, you\u2019re also not refusing to do things you don\u2019t want. Taking up responsibilities you can do without and accepting things that bring nothing into your life is holding you back. You don\u2019t have energy and time to do the things you want because you\u2019re stuck doing things you don\u2019t want to do.<\/p>\n Instead of creating your reality, you react to whatever happens. Life without passion must be boring, because if you\u2019re not living with a purpose, you don\u2019t care. You must be the one to direct your life, because no one else knows you better than you know yourself and how to viva a sua melhor vida.<\/a><\/p>\n The saying goes that only boring people are bored, but the real problem is that you\u2019re wasting time on not doing what matters. Live life by doing things that contribute to your well-being and that move you forward and you\u2019ll realize that it\u2019s not boring.<\/p>\n Endless scrolling on your phone without even taking in what you\u2019re looking at, mind-numbing binging of TV shows that you don\u2019t even enjoy, consuming whatever\u2019s offered to you \u2013 these activities are stealing your time and destroying your drive.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re bored, choose self-improvement over killing time.<\/p>\n If you never step out of your comfort zone, stagnation is inevitable. A life which doesn\u2019t change can\u2019t be an exciting life. Comfort means choosing the path of least resistance. Yes, it\u2019s easy, but it\u2019s so boring. Start changing today by doing something you\u2019ve been putting off.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: 40 passatempos para introvertidos: Divertir-se sozinho e com amigos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n If you want to make life less boring, do something you don\u2019t think you can do or something you keep telling yourself isn\u2019t for you. Do something that\u2019s hard. If you\u2019re not sure what that is, take up a new hobby that involves something you\u2019re insecure about.<\/p>\n Take a dance class, write a story, start training for a marathon \u2013 all that matters is to do something that will push you.<\/p>\n Not taking risks doesn\u2019t imply wisdom, it shows fear. If you stop yourself from taking opportunities when they come along, how will you move a step further and create your own? You must embrace the fear that comes with the unknown if you want a more interesting life.<\/p>\n A boa not\u00edcia \u00e9 que fazer avan\u00e7ar a sua vida se torna mais f\u00e1cil ap\u00f3s a primeira tentativa. Habituamo-nos a ser desafiados e come\u00e7amos a procur\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n Pode encarar a vida como uma rotina di\u00e1ria com pouco tempo livre, ou pode encontrar prazer em cada passo do caminho. Uma abordagem otimista pode tornar a sua vida di\u00e1ria muito mais interessante. Facilite a sua pr\u00f3pria vida injectando algo de divertido em tudo o que faz.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t suffer because you have to clean your bathroom. Play upbeat music that makes you happy, sing and dance along while you do it and change your view of the experience.<\/p>\n If you find gratitude in your life, you\u2019ll like it much more. Become aware of what makes your life good and count your blessings.<\/p>\n For example, even boredom can be something to be grateful for. Have you ever heard of the saying, \u201cMay you have an interesting life,\u201c which is a curse disguised as a blessing? The catch is that a boring life is a peaceful life, and an interesting one is full of trouble.<\/p>\n Pode olhar para o seu t\u00e9dio como algo pelo qual deve estar grato, mas, melhor ainda, pode consider\u00e1-lo uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o porque o inspira a querer mais.<\/p>\n Some people naturally feel the excitement in every moment, but if you don\u2019t, it\u2019s something you can learn. As long as you\u2019re doing things \u2013 alone or in a group of people, at home or somewhere else, because you have to or because you\u2019ve chosen to do them \u2013 you can find something about each moment that can be interesting.<\/p>\n Children can find fun in everything and enjoy life even if they\u2019re just standing around. The reason they can do this is because they make the most of every moment and the most of life as they live it. When they run around, they run as fast as they can. When they play, they give it their all. When they eat, they don\u2019t care if they get messy.<\/p>\n As we grow up, we become burdened with things we have to do. Young people are busy with school and adults are under pressure at work, and we forget how to let ourselves go. Awaken your inner child and start enjoying the life you\u2019re living.<\/p>\n You deserve better than to live a boring life. If you feel like this, it\u2019s a sign that you\u2019re not giving yourself what you deserve. You\u2019re hurting yourself by wasting your time and doing unimportant things. Make choices that contribute to your mental, physical and bem-estar emocional<\/a>. Quando se sentir aborrecido, pare e descubra o que precisa, depois fa\u00e7a-o.<\/p>\n Make an effort and take risks. Take that road trip you\u2019ve always wanted to take. Finally start going to the gym. Ask your crush on a date. If your life is boring, it\u2019s a sign that you\u2019re not doing enough. Boredom tells you that you lack fulfillment because you\u2019re not doing what matters enough to make an effort.<\/p>\n No matter what you do, give it your all. This is how you live with passion and get everything you can from every moment. Boredom is a sign that you\u2019re doing things half-way. Don\u2019t rob yourself from success and excitement by being superficial. In every situation, ask yourself, how can this be more than it is, and do it.<\/p>\n Being passive and reactive won\u2019t get you anywhere. Life won\u2019t knock at your door \u2013 you must get out there and make it happen. The longer you wait, the more bored you will get, until you start to ask the question, \u201cWhy is life so boring?\u201d<\/p>\n Tens de assumir a responsabilidade pela tua pr\u00f3pria vida.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: O que fazer no domingo: Aqui est\u00e3o 100 ideias refrescantes<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n Embrace boredom, because it\u2019s telling you to get up and do things. You probably already have your answer on how to find meaning after going over the reasons why life is so boring for you, but the following tips should make it clearer.<\/p>\n You’re bored for a reason: it’s a warning sign that you’re missing something. Whenever you choose to ignore it by looking for any mindless distraction instead of actually figuring out what it is, you’re wasting an opportunity for personal growth.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re bored, you feel like you want to do something and find meaning in it. Trying to kill boredom with distractions and mindless time-wasters just makes you unfulfilled. Stop trying to forget you\u2019re bored \u2013 instead, do something that you actually enjoy and that makes you feel fulfilled.<\/p>\n The way to grow as a person is to continually experience new things. As you grow and change, the life you live changes and you embrace the world around you as it becomes different too. If you\u2019re stuck in one place, no matter how beautiful or interesting it is, you\u2019ll become bored with it.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no big philosophy here \u2013 the answer is to just do things. When someone asks you to hang out, say yes. Tomorrow when you come home from work, choose active rest over watching TV. Look up what\u2019s going on in your city and take part. Fazer com que cada dia conte.<\/a><\/p>\n You\u2019re in control of your life. Once you understand this, your outlook will change and with it the way you live. There\u2019s always a choice, you only have to look at things in terms of what they contribute to your life.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not limited by what the world is offering you, only by what you let yourself take. Don\u2019t let social pressure leave you with regrets. A meaningful life is a life of passion, so choose to do things that bring you a sense of joy, accomplishment and fulfillment.<\/p>\n Engage in life and become active instead of trudging along the beaten path. When your days are all the same, you start feeling trapped and without direction. Routine in itself isn\u2019t a bad thing, but if your entire life is predictable, boredom inevitably sets in.<\/p>\n Crie uma rotina que contribua para os seus objectivos. Fa\u00e7a o que o faz prosperar, e n\u00e3o apenas para passar o tempo. Fa\u00e7a coisas que sejam \u00fateis ou significativas: coisas que lhe d\u00eaem alegria, coisas que o fa\u00e7am avan\u00e7ar e coisas que o ajudem a melhorar.<\/p>\n Appreciate the moment you\u2019re living in. Stop looking for stimuli to entertain you when you\u2019re bored. Instead, ask yourself, \u201cWhat do I really want to do right now?\u201d and do that. Finding this answer might be tricky, so it\u2019s much easier to look for distractions.<\/p>\n30 coisas que o t\u00e9dio nos diz sobre a nossa vida<\/h3>\n
1. You don’t take initiative<\/h4>\n
2. You don’t involve other people in your life<\/h4>\n
3. You can’t be bothered to make plans<\/h4>\n
4. You don’t connect to people<\/h4>\n
5. You’re not keeping in touch with people<\/h4>\n
6. You’re looking for excuses not to do things<\/h4>\n
7. You don’t go out<\/h4>\n
8. You don’t seek out fun<\/h4>\n
9. You don’t take action<\/h4>\n
\n10. Faz as coisas de forma rotineira<\/p>\n11. You’re never creative<\/h4>\n
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<\/p>\n12. You’re always in the same place<\/h4>\n
13. Nunca experimentas nada de novo<\/h4>\n
14. You’re doing the same things over and over<\/h4>\n
15. You’re not doing the things you want<\/h4>\n
16. You’re not saying \u2018no\u2019 to things<\/h4>\n
17. You’re not following your passion<\/h4>\n
18. You’re doing unimportant things<\/h4>\n
19. Perde tempo em actividades sem sentido<\/h4>\n
20. You’re stuck in your comfort zone<\/h4>\n
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<\/p>\n21. You don’t challenge yourself<\/h4>\n
22. You don’t take opportunities<\/h4>\n
23. You’re not enjoying the little things<\/h4>\n
24. You don’t appreciate what you have<\/h4>\n
25. You don’t find excitement in everyday life<\/h4>\n
26. You’re not in touch with your inner child<\/h4>\n
27. You’re not taking care of yourself<\/h4>\n
28. You\u2019re not making an effort<\/h4>\n
29. You’re not making the most out of a situation<\/h4>\n
30. Fica \u00e0 espera que as coisas aconte\u00e7am<\/h4>\n
Como encontrar um sentido e uma dire\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Deixar de lutar contra o t\u00e9dio<\/h4>\n
2. Fazer coisas<\/h4>\n
3. Fazer as suas pr\u00f3prias escolhas<\/h4>\n
4. Fazer uma pausa na rotina<\/h4>\n
5. Estar atento<\/h4>\n