Now, it\u2019s time to make some confessions. I was in the \u2018my boyfriend won\u2019t cut ties with his ex\u2019 kind of relationship once and it was heartbreaking. That\u2019s why I understand all of you who are or were going through the same hell.<\/p>\n
Fortunately, I have managed to get out of that hell and today, that man is my fiance. By following these tips below, you\u2019ll manage to get out of it too.<\/p>\n
Mostrei ao meu namorado o quanto o contacto dele com a ex me magoa, e isso f\u00ea-lo cortar o contacto. At that moment, he chose me and proved to me that I\u2019m the only one for him<\/em>. E espero que os vossos fa\u00e7am o mesmo.<\/p>\n Being in this kind of situation is really a big deal. You simply don\u2019t know what to think about it and what to do. Luckily for you, I\u2019m here to help you. Follow these tips below and you\u2019ll make your man cut ties with his ex-girlfriend.<\/p>\n This is the first and most important step. Calm down and don\u2019t act in the heat of the moment. Otherwise, you\u2019ll only make a huge mistake that you\u2019ll regret in the end.<\/p>\n Reserve algum tempo para si pr\u00f3prio e pense nisso. Think about the reasons your boyfriend won\u2019t cut ties with his ex and think about your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you really love your man, you\u2019ll have patience and try to be understanding. I know it can really be frustrating but if he says they\u2019re just friends, there is not much you can do about it.<\/p>\n Jealousy can seriously damage your self-esteem. If you start suspecting your man is seeing or has feelings for another woman, you\u2019ll immediately think that it\u2019s because of you and it\u2019ll damage your confidence.<\/p>\n That is something you shouldn\u2019t allow, no matter what. Having a good self-esteem will protect you from so many bad things in life and it\u2019ll also push you to accomplish everything you ever dreamed about.<\/em><\/p>\n If you lose it, you\u2019ll be a great target for other people to hurt you.<\/strong> Show his ex that you\u2019re confident about yourself, your man and your love. Make it clear that you\u2019re standing behind him, no matter what and that your love is so strong that nothing and none can ruin it.<\/p>\n Relacionadas: 9 maneiras pelas quais o ci\u00fame destr\u00f3i seu relacionamento<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n I know it\u2019s not easy to go through this but you need to pay attention to your general well-being. Se continuar obcecado com isso, a sua sa\u00fade emocional e mental ficar\u00e1 completamente arruinada.<\/strong><\/p>\n D\u00ea tempo ao tempo e tente confiar no seu homem. Se ele disser que n\u00e3o se passa nada entre ele e a ex-namorada, confie na palavra dele. O tempo dir\u00e1 se ele foi realmente honesto consigo ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n You can\u2019t and shouldn\u2019t go through this all alone. You should form a support group or talk to a person you\u2019ll be able to share your feelings and fears with.<\/p>\n Pode ser um amigo comum ou um membro da fam\u00edlia. Se optar por um amigo comum, deve pedir a opini\u00e3o dele sobre a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o, porque provavelmente ele sabe algo mais sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior do seu homem.<\/em><\/p>\n Deixe que as pessoas que lhe s\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximas o ajudem.<\/strong> Don\u2019t keep such painful things to yourself because, sooner or later, it\u2019ll all come out on the surface, explode and have terrible consequences.<\/p>\n This is very important. And the answer to this question will definitely reveal whether the fact your boyfriend didn\u2019t cut ties with his ex is a red flag or not.<\/p>\n If they were in a serious, lasting relationship and they broke up only a while ago, it\u2019s possible that they still have feelings for each other.<\/strong> Even if they think they don\u2019t, they\u2019ll always remind each other of those memories they had together and that may awaken the old flame.<\/p>\n If their relationship was very short, if they didn\u2019t even bond as romantic lovers, they probably decided it\u2019s better for them to be friends. In this case, you really have nothing to worry about.<\/p>\n Insecurities, insecurities… Frankly, we all have them and we all hate them from our gut. They make you see some things that don\u2019t exist in reality.<\/p>\n Se tem uma baixa autoestima, isso pode lev\u00e1-lo a pensar que a sua o homem vai deixar-te por outra<\/a>.<\/strong> That\u2019s why it\u2019s no wonder you\u2019re jealous of his ex he still didn\u2019t cut ties with.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you need to find a way to silenciar as suas inseguran\u00e7as<\/a>. Prove a eles, a si pr\u00f3prio e a todos os outros que o seu amor \u00e9 muito maior do que as suas inseguran\u00e7as e tudo o mais que est\u00e1 a impedir a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Sabe que tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 que o seu namorado e a ex dele t\u00eam neste momento? De que \u00e9 que eles falam?<\/p>\n Se falarem da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou de coisas por que passaram juntos, h\u00e1 definitivamente algo de suspeito.<\/strong><\/p>\n Por outro lado, se falarem de coisas importantes ou simplesmente como amigos, pode ficar descansado porque provavelmente n\u00e3o se passa nada.<\/p>\n I know it\u2019s not very common but there are cases where two partners decide to stay friends when they end their romantic relationship. Pode parecer estranho, mas talvez o seu namorado e a ex dele s\u00e3o de facto amigos<\/a> and that\u2019s the reason they\u2019re still in contact.<\/strong><\/p>\n Of course, they probably aren\u2019t best friends and they don\u2019t speak 24\/7, but they may be friends that text or speak every now and then<\/em>. Se o seu homem diz que \u00e9 assim entre eles, deve acreditar nele.<\/p>\n It\u2019s hard to understand and even more difficult to accept, but you\u2019ll need to do it if you want to maintain your relationship.<\/p>\n Sei que isto \u00e9 dif\u00edcil porque os teus sentimentos est\u00e3o no meio de tudo. No entanto, tens de tentar manter uma perspetiva realista e ver as coisas como elas realmente s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n You love your man and, of course, you\u2019re jealous because he\u2019s still in contact with his ex.<\/strong> However, don\u2019t allow your jealousy to blind you and make you do things that you will only regret later.<\/p>\n By keeping a realistic perspective, you\u2019ll also keep your relationship alive. If you start imagining things that aren\u2019t there, you\u2019ll put your relationship in serious danger.<\/p>\n If your boyfriend talks with his ex-girlfriend only when they find themselves at the same place, he\u2019s probably doing it out of courtesy. However, if they talk and text almost every day, then there is probably something going on between them. O seu homem pode voltar a juntar-se \u00e0 ex.<\/a><\/p>\n But, even if that\u2019s true, even if they speak very often, you still can\u2019t accuse him of anything because you don\u2019t have any proof. He isn\u2019t doing anything behind your back, he\u2019s only talking with her.<\/strong><\/p>\n Se acus\u00e1-lo de batota<\/a> only because he didn\u2019t cut ties with his ex-girlfriend, that may hurt him deeply.<\/em> So, don\u2019t take any serious steps if you don\u2019t have strong proof for it.<\/p>\n This can be very difficult to cope with, especially if you\u2019re in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/a>. O seu parceiro est\u00e1 longe de si e essas d\u00favidas que tem est\u00e3o a mat\u00e1-lo lentamente todos os dias e sente que n\u00e3o pode fazer absolutamente nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n If you allow those doubts to harm your relationship, it will only mean that you never sincerely loved your man in the first place and that your relationship isn\u2019t strong enough to survive it.<\/em><\/p>\n When two people love each other, they trust one another despite everyone and everything else. They don\u2019t ignore their issues but they always\u00a0 try to find a way to deal with them in a healthy way.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t have a strong reason to doubt the fidelity of your man, give him the benefit of the doubt. After all, you\u2019re still with him despite the fact he didn\u2019t cut ties with a sua ex-mulher<\/a>\/namorada, e isso mostra que, de certa forma, ainda confia nele.<\/p>\n Seja compreensiva, tenha paci\u00eancia e mostre ao seu homem que confia plenamente nele.<\/strong> However, let him also know that if he betrays that trust, he\u2019ll lose you forever.<\/p>\n Isto \u00e9 algo que muitas pessoas fazem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica. Dar ultimatos<\/a> \u00e9 um dos erros mais comuns numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que leva a uma rutura definitiva.<\/p>\n Quando se ama verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m, fazer-lhe um ultimato para que escolha entre si e outra pessoa \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que se deve fazer<\/strong>. H\u00e1 muitas outras formas de resolver problemas entre si e a sua cara-metade do que dar ultimatos.<\/p>\n O seu ultimato pode deix\u00e1-lo zangado e ele pode escolher a outra pessoa para a irritar. Esse ultimato pode custar-lhe apenas a perda do homem que ama.<\/p>\n I\u2019m not generally up for snooping through someone\u2019s private things, however, when you\u2019re in this kind of \u2018my boyfriend won\u2019t cut ties with his ex\u2019 situation, you should check his phone.<\/p>\n Consulte o seu WhatsApp, Snapchat, Facebook e outras redes sociais. Talvez a prova da infidelidade dele esteja \u00e0 sua espera no telem\u00f3vel dele.<\/strong> Se encontrar mensagens de texto estranhas entre ele e a ex-namorada ou provas de que andavam a fazer sexting, deve acabar com ele o mais depressa poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n However, be very careful because he shouldn\u2019t catch you snooping through his phone. He\u2019ll know then that tem problemas de confian\u00e7a<\/a> e isso pode prejudicar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n Did he ever tell or show you that he\u2019s afraid of losing you? If he has, you have nothing to worry about because your man obviously loves you and his relationship with his ex-girlfriend is simply platonic.<\/p>\n Por outro lado, se ele nunca lhe mostrou isso, deve recordar-lhe como seria a sua vida se a perdesse.<\/strong> Deves dar-lhe uma raz\u00e3o para pensar em perder-te e talvez isso o assuste.<\/p>\n He\u2019s probably used to you and he thinks you won\u2019t ever leave him.<\/em> However, once you show him that it\u2019s a possibility if he keeps disrespecting you by talking with his ex, he\u2019ll show you whether he\u2019s medo de te perder<\/a> ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Ask yourself a simple question; \u2018Does he really love me?\u2019. If you aren\u2019t 100% sure about the way your man feels about you, it\u2019s a huge red flag that he doesn\u2019t really love you.<\/a><\/p>\n Those kinds of trust issues can\u2019t be tolerated in a rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a><\/strong>.<\/a> It\u2019s better to break up than to keep smothering both of you with doubts.<\/p>\n And if you find a clear sign that you\u2019re dating a cheater, you should immediately leave him. Actually, the first time you run into proof that he\u2019s being unfaithful to you, you should end your relationship.<\/p>\n Se o perdoar e se mantiver nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, s\u00f3 vai continuar a partir o seu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em> Sometimes, going away and moving on is the hardest thing to do. But it\u2019s also the only choice you have.<\/p>\n It\u2019s okay but under specific circumstances. If their relationship was long ago and if it wasn\u2019t serious or didn\u2019t last for too long, they probably didn\u2019t even bond like lovers but more like friends and in that situation, it is okay.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if they have just ended their relationship and if it was something serious, then it\u2019s not okay for them to stay friends or to stay in contact<\/strong>. It\u2019ll bother their new partners for sure.<\/p>\n If their new girlfriend\/boyfriend doesn\u2019t agree with it, they should immediately end contact with their ex. Devem faz\u00ea-lo pelo amor e respeito que sentem pelo seu novo parceiro.<\/em><\/p>\n Of course, if they still have feelings for their former lover, then it\u2019s a different story. They shouldn\u2019t even engage in a new relationship if sentem algo pelo seu ex.<\/a><\/p>\nMy Boyfriend Won\u2019t Cut Ties With His Ex: 16 Tips To Deal With It<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n1. Antes de mais, acalme-se<\/h3>\n
2. Don\u2019t let it affect your self-esteem<\/h3>\n
3. Proteger a sua sa\u00fade emocional e mental<\/h3>\n
4. Falar com os vossos amigos em comum sobre o assunto<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n5. Como era a rela\u00e7\u00e3o entre eles?<\/h3>\n
6. Don\u2019t let your insecurities make you misunderstand things<\/h3>\n
7. De que \u00e9 que ele fala com a ex-namorada?<\/h3>\n
8. Tentar compreender a sua amizade<\/h3>\n
9. Tentar ser e manter-se realista<\/h3>\n
10. Nunca o acuse de batota sem uma prova leg\u00edtima<\/h3>\n
11. Don\u2019t let it destroy your relationship<\/h3>\n
12. Dar-lhe o benef\u00edcio da d\u00favida<\/h3>\n
13. NUNCA lhe d\u00ea ultimatos<\/h3>\n
14. Bisbilhotar as suas mensagens de texto<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n15. Ele tem medo de a perder?<\/h3>\n
16. Saber quando deixar ir e acabar<\/h3>\n
\u00c9 correto que um parceiro continue a falar com o seu ex?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nComo saber se ele ainda ama a ex?<\/h2>\n
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