{"id":156609,"date":"2022-08-02T08:31:29","date_gmt":"2022-08-02T08:31:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156609"},"modified":"2022-11-26T11:29:10","modified_gmt":"2022-11-26T11:29:10","slug":"como-deixar-de-ser-toxico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-de-ser-toxico\/","title":{"rendered":"Como deixar de ser t\u00f3xico: torne-se mais gentil e mais feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most people don\u2019t intend to do things that hurt people, but it happens to all of us anyway.<strong> Se se encontra repetidamente em situa\u00e7\u00f5es que se agravam e acaba por se comportar de uma forma t\u00f3xica, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que existam alguns problemas subjacentes que o levam a agir dessa forma.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The good news is that if you\u2019re trying to find out how to stop being toxic, you\u2019re aware of the problems in your behavior patterns and want to change. Realizing that you do things that hurt others \u2013 knowingly or unknowingly \u2013 is only the first step. <strong>Admitir o facto e decidir fazer algo a esse respeito \u00e9 muito mais importante.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re serious about changing and becoming a kinder and happier person, nothing can stand in your way of achieving it. There will be setbacks, and you\u2019ll make mistakes, but as long as you don\u2019t give up, you can get rid of your toxic habits and create new ones.<\/p>\n<h2>Como deixar de ser t\u00f3xico: 13 passos para a liberdade<\/h2>\n<p>Estar no lado recetor de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-comportamentos-toxicos-que-destroem-uma-relacao\/\">comportamento t\u00f3xico<\/a> is painful, but doing it feels no better. The fact that bad behavior feels bad on both ends doesn\u2019t justify it \u2013 <strong>mas pode ser o que inspira algu\u00e9m que magoa as pessoas a mudar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ser\u00e1 que algo pequeno e insignificante o pode despoletar e faz\u00ea-lo explodir com algu\u00e9m? Procura sempre desculpas para as coisas m\u00e1s que faz? A culpa dos seus problemas \u00e9 sempre de outra pessoa?<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re aware that you have these and similar thought and behavior patterns, you\u2019re also aware that they\u2019re toxic.<\/strong> We all have bad days when we\u2019re grumpy and irritable. If these days are more frequent than neutral or good ones, there\u2019s a problem that needs to be addressed.<\/p>\n<p>During episodes of toxic behavior, you might feel like you have no control over your actions, but you know that when it\u2019s all over, you\u2019ll feel guilt and self-loathing.<strong> You don\u2019t want to hurt people, but you feel like you can\u2019t help yourself in the heat of the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If this describes you, here\u2019s how to stop being toxic.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Reconhecer o seu comportamento<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-156612\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita a pensar enquanto est\u00e1 junto \u00e0 janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>By simply looking up how to stop being a toxic person, you\u2019ve already begun the journey to self-improvement. Even if you\u2019ve only just realized that there\u2019s a problem with your behavior and haven\u2019t made any changes yet, you\u2019re miles ahead of where you were yesterday.<\/p>\n<p>Pode demorar algum tempo a tomar medidas concretas, mas o caminho para mudar o seu comportamento come\u00e7a com a auto-consci\u00eancia.<strong> Accepting that you\u2019re someone who has hurt people isn\u2019t easy.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Acknowledging your behavior and realizing that you genuinely don\u2019t want to act in a toxic manner anymore is how you actually make the decision to do better. <strong>Once you admit to yourself that you\u2019re toxic and that you don\u2019t want to be is when you start moving away from<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-sinais-de-uma-pessoa-negativa\/\"> uma personalidade negativa<\/a><\/strong> para uma mais am\u00e1vel, mais carinhosa.<\/p>\n<p>The change won\u2019t happen overnight \u2013 you\u2019ll fall into old habits a few times, but as long as the willingness to be less toxic is present, you can return to the right path towards inner peace and healthy relationships.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Explorar as raz\u00f5es subjacentes \u00e0s suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n<p>What\u2019s the reason for your toxic behavior? <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/caracteristicas-toxicas\/\">Tra\u00e7os t\u00f3xicos<\/a> e comportamentos como o gaslighting, os ci\u00fames, as tend\u00eancias narc\u00edsicas, a compara\u00e7\u00e3o com os outros ou o comportamento controlador s\u00e3o frequentemente causados por inseguran\u00e7as.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When they struggle with low self-esteem and lack of self-worth, some people turn to toxic behavior because they don\u2019t know how to cope with their feelings. Negative feelings about your own value and insecurities are the most common cause of toxic behavior.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Outra raz\u00e3o que leva as pessoas a atacar \u00e9 o facto de se sentirem infelizes com as suas vidas<\/strong>. If you don\u2019t like your job or relationships, if you have problems or are generally unhappy with where you\u2019re at in life, your way of dealing with it might be to resort to toxic behaviors instead of working on what you can change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Carefully examine your emotions and circumstances to find out what\u2019s at the root of your actions.<\/strong> When you\u2019re able to pinpoint the origin of your negativity, you will be able to start dealing with it.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Come\u00e7ar a trabalhar nas suas inseguran\u00e7as e problemas<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-156613\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria com \u00f3culos sentada em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After you identify the root cause of your toxic behavior, if you\u2019re truly determined to make your life better,<strong> \u00e9 preciso come\u00e7ar a lidar com isso.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A forma como age em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos outros \u00e9 causada pela sua atitude em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua pr\u00f3pria vida. Quando a sua satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o com a forma como vive aumentar, ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil ser uma pessoa mais bondosa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As duas coisas mais importantes para o seu bem-estar e sa\u00fade mental s\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/auto-cuidado-emocional\/\">amor-pr\u00f3prio e cuidados pessoais<\/a><\/strong>. You must accept that you have value as a human being and do what\u2019s best for you. This goes beyond just pampering yourself or being gentle with yourself. On the contrary, it means having the determination to do whatever it takes to improve your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Amarmo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios significa aceitar quem somos e estar em paz com isso.<\/strong> It doesn\u2019t mean that you should stop growing, only that you have to appreciate yourself and your feelings and treat yourself like someone you love: by doing things that are good for you.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 disto que se trata o autocuidado.<strong> Por vezes significa ter calma e parar por um momento, mas outras vezes significa obrigar-se a levantar-se e fazer o que tem de ser feito<\/strong>. Baseia-se na capacidade de reconhecer e satisfazer as suas necessidades e distinguir os desejos genu\u00ednos da satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o moment\u00e2nea.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Aceitar a responsabilidade pelo seu comportamento<\/h3>\n<p>A transfer\u00eancia de culpas \u00e9 uma componente do comportamento t\u00f3xico. <strong>When you blame others for your life, your actions, your problems, or anything else, you\u2019re refusing to accept that you make choices that have consequences.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You must deal with the fact that the reason for your behavior isn\u2019t that you\u2019re a victim of your upbringing, your circumstances, or the other person.<strong> It\u2019s only you who decides what you do and how you act<\/strong>. Even if you\u2019re in a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacao-toxica\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> with another toxic person, neither of you is to blame for the other\u2019s actions.<\/p>\n<p>Quando compreenderes isto completamente, ganhar\u00e1s poder. <strong>If it\u2019s you who is responsible for your choices, it means that you have the power to choose differently.<\/strong> Nothing is making you act a certain way, and it\u2019s up to you to decide how to approach any person or situation.<\/p>\n<p>You can decide to be kind to your loved ones, see the good in people, and start each day with the commitment to improvement \u2013 <strong>quando se aceita a responsabilidade pelo seu comportamento, todas estas coisas est\u00e3o ao seu alcance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>5. Tomar uma decis\u00e3o consciente de fazer melhor<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-156614\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand.jpg\" alt=\"mulher atenta sentada no sof\u00e1 com o telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-sofa-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After you find out why you\u2019re toxic, and while you\u2019re doing things to change those reasons, you can immediately start focusing on changing your behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Isto significa que <strong>decidir conscientemente deixar de ser t\u00f3xico e comprometer-se a desenvolver h\u00e1bitos novos e positivos<\/strong>. Identifique quando e de que forma age de forma t\u00f3xica e decida conscientemente parar quando o fizer.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you know you\u2019re jealous, manipulative, dishonest, attention-seeking, confrontational, or there\u2019s another of the many possible harmful behaviors you\u2019ve recognized in yourself \u2013 <strong>when you feel like you\u2019re about to do it, make your best effort to stop.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s unavoidable that you\u2019ll experience moments when old habits spring up. It takes a while to adopt new ways of thinking and doing things, no matter how determined you are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t be hard on yourself if you stumble, but also don\u2019t let it be the first step towards giving up.<\/strong> Aceite simplesmente que isso aconteceu, pe\u00e7a desculpa se o deve a algu\u00e9m e continue.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Estabelecer e respeitar limites<\/h3>\n<p>Set boundaries to protect yourself and respect other people\u2019s boundaries so that they feel safe around you. <strong>Os limites s\u00e3o absolutamente necess\u00e1rios para a sua sa\u00fade mental e bem-estar.<\/strong> Definir os seus limites para dizer \u00e0s outras pessoas como podem agir \u00e0 sua volta para que se sinta seguro \u00e9 a base para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-diferencas-entre-uma-relacao-saudavel-e-toxica\/\">rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Toxic behavior often includes an unwillingness to respect other people\u2019s boundaries<strong>. If your toxic traits include crossing other people\u2019s boundaries, you must work on it<\/strong>. Ou\u00e7a quando as outras pessoas o informam dos seus limites e aceite os limites delas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Um aspeto importante a ter em conta sobre os limites \u00e9 o facto de estes mudarem.<\/strong> Something that was okay with you in the past doesn\u2019t have to be okay right now. This applies to other people as well. This is why it\u2019s important to communicate and respect each other\u2019s words and feelings.<\/p>\n<h3>7. Deixar as coisas correr<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-156615\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a relaxar no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-relaxing-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Realize that you don\u2019t have to react to everything. People sometimes say things for no reason, and if one of your toxic behaviors is to have an intense reaction to other people\u2019s words and actions, find a way to sometimes let things go.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Muitas vezes, quest\u00f5es sem import\u00e2ncia causam problemas e discuss\u00f5es.<\/strong> Think before you react: are other people\u2019s actions and words genuinely problematic, or are you just irritable at the moment? <strong>Stop criticizing others for every single thing you don\u2019t like about them.<\/strong> Em vez disso, aceite-os tal como s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If your goal is to stop being toxic, you must let go of the idea that you\u2019re always right. Not only that, but<strong> \u00e9 preciso aprender a fazer compromissos, mesmo em situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que se tem efetivamente raz\u00e3o.<\/strong> Um conselho importante sobre relacionamentos que deve ter sempre presente \u00e9 que, no final do dia, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-argumentos-que-sinalizam-o-inicio-do-fim\/\">perder uma discuss\u00e3o \u00e9 melhor do que perder uma pessoa<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>8. Concentrar-se nos aspectos positivos<\/h3>\n<p>Os seus pensamentos t\u00eam um grande impacto nos seus sentimentos e nas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. <strong>Os pensamentos negativos est\u00e3o muitas vezes por detr\u00e1s de comportamentos t\u00f3xicos.<\/strong> Ver as coisas a preto e branco, generalizar, rotular as pessoas e julgar as situa\u00e7\u00f5es pelas suas reac\u00e7\u00f5es emocionais podem ter um grande impacto na forma como age.<\/p>\n<p>Aprender a lidar com os pensamentos negativos e, em vez disso, concentrar-se no lado positivo das pessoas e das situa\u00e7\u00f5es pode ter um grande efeito na forma como se sente e age. <strong>You\u2019d be surprised by how powerful clear intent to focus on the positives can be.<\/strong> By choosing to see the good in everything, you\u2019re increasing your chances of the good happening.<\/p>\n<p>An optimistic outlook makes it less likely that you\u2019ll react in a negative way when interacting with other people. <strong>If you choose to expect good vibes from someone, you won\u2019t judge them from the start, but instead, try to see where they\u2019re coming from.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>9. Praticar conscientemente a bondade<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-156616\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight.jpg\" alt=\"mulher medita na praia \u00e0 luz do sol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-meditates-on-the-beach-in-sunlight-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Kindness is the opposite of toxicity \u2013 <strong>when you consciously choose to treat people with compassion, there\u2019s no place for toxic behaviors.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Em vez de tentar culpar, manipular, controlar, julgar ou criticar as pessoas, <strong>optar por compreender, apoiar e aceitar as pessoas e os seus sentimentos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Learn to understand others\u2019 feelings and develop empathy. This approach will dramatically change your relationships with anyone you come into contact with.<\/p>\n<p>Quando algu\u00e9m \u00e9 acidentalmente mal-educado consigo, uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica pode ser ficar imediatamente zangado e discutir com a pessoa. Isto deixa-o a si e \u00e0 outra pessoa inevitavelmente irritados, exaustos e com o dia arruinado.<\/p>\n<p>Pelo contr\u00e1rio,<strong> if you respond to the other person\u2019s rude behavior with kindness, you\u2019ll stop them in their tracks and make them change their demeanor.<\/strong> Se optar por pensar no ponto de vista dessa pessoa, a sua compreens\u00e3o pode inverter a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t get angry, and there will be no argument. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/escolher-sempre-a-bondade\/\">Escolhendo a bondade<\/a>, you didn\u2019t act in a toxic manner, and your day isn\u2019t ruined.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>10. Esperar bondade<\/h3>\n<p>Ser gentil com os outros pode mudar profundamente a sua atitude e as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Mas sabia que<strong> se anteciparmos sempre que os outros tamb\u00e9m ser\u00e3o simp\u00e1ticos para n\u00f3s, \u00e9 igualmente poderoso?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you offer kindness and assume that it will be returned, you won\u2019t see a reason to behave in a toxic manner.<strong> Dar \u00e0s pessoas o benef\u00edcio da d\u00favida.<\/strong> Mesmo quando eles cometem erros, assuma que a sua inten\u00e7\u00e3o era ser gentil.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A maioria das pessoas julga-se a si pr\u00f3pria pela sua inten\u00e7\u00e3o e os outros pelo efeito das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong> If you hurt someone and didn\u2019t mean it, you\u2019ve still hurt them. You can flip this idea and assume that when people do something you might not like, their intent wasn\u2019t to hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>A hostilidade e o julgamento s\u00e3o alguns sinais de comportamento t\u00f3xico. <strong>Optar por reagir com compreens\u00e3o em vez de assumir que a pessoa fez algo de prop\u00f3sito d\u00e1-lhe a oportunidade de a conhecer melhor e de aprofundar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>11. Ser mais vulner\u00e1vel<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-156617\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz sentada no ch\u00e3o com o telem\u00f3vel na m\u00e3o\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/happy-woman-sitting-on-the-floor-with-mobile-phone-in-hand-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>As pessoas t\u00f3xicas s\u00e3o frequentemente guiadas pelos seus egos. <strong>Seja honesto sobre os seus sentimentos em vez de se recusar a admitir qualquer coisa que considere ser uma fraqueza.<\/strong> Don\u2019t insist on maintaining a picture of how you should act or be. Instead, be sincere and show who you really are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re used to wearing a mask, learning how to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/emocionalmente-vulneravel\/\">mostrar a vulnerabilidade<\/a> ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil, mas acabar\u00e1 por mudar a vida.<\/strong> To stop being toxic, remember that continuing to pretend that you\u2019re something you\u2019re not will make it impossible to develop truly deep relationships.<\/p>\n<p>Colocar o seu ego em primeiro lugar \u00e9 t\u00f3xico porque o impede de crescer e de se desenvolver.<strong> Mostre \u00e0s pessoas os seus defeitos em vez de os esconder a todo o custo.<\/strong> Of course, it\u2019s okay to keep an appropriate distance with co-workers, but when spending time with friends, family members, or anyone else you\u2019re close to, don\u2019t hide.<\/p>\n<h3>12. Comunicar melhor<\/h3>\n<p>One of the signs of a toxic person is that they don\u2019t communicate in a straightforward manner.<strong> It\u2019s vital that you learn healthy communication if you want to stop being toxic.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ser<strong> direto, honesto e disposto a assumir compromissos<\/strong> \u00e9 a diferen\u00e7a entre rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis e n\u00e3o saud\u00e1veis. A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica \u00e9 o oposto disso. Se se esfor\u00e7ar por lidar com as suas caracter\u00edsticas t\u00f3xicas, ser\u00e1 mais f\u00e1cil lidar com os problemas de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>As long as you\u2019re not trying to one-up your conversation partner and instead connect with them, you can avoid toxic communication, such as:<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Blame.<\/h4>\n<p>Instead of rushing to blame the other person for your feelings, calmly explain why you feel a certain way. If something bothers you in the other person\u2019s behavior, let them know without making them feel guilty about it.<strong> Escolha compreender em vez de culpar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Not listening.<\/h4>\n<p>When you\u2019re communicating with someone, pay attention to them and them only. Don\u2019t allow your mind to wander, and don\u2019t let yourself be distracted. If you\u2019re only waiting on your turn to speak instead of actually listening to what they\u2019re saying, you\u2019re not giving the other person a chance to have their turn.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Being defensive.<\/h4>\n<p>Isto est\u00e1 relacionado com o facto de n\u00e3o ser capaz de assumir responsabilidades. Se deixar de ouvir e ficar na defensiva quando fala com algu\u00e9m e essa pessoa menciona as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, isso significa que v\u00ea os coment\u00e1rios dessa pessoa como uma amea\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Sarcasm.<\/h4>\n<p>O sarcasmo com o objetivo de gozar \u00e9 uma forma de abuso emocional.<strong> Avoid using it unless it\u2019s clear to everyone that it\u2019s good-natured and its purpose isn\u2019t to hurt anyone.<\/strong> Even if you don\u2019t use sarcasm in a malicious way, avoid it because some people take things at face value. It can be especially harmful on social media, where the tone is difficult to determine.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Gaslighting.<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/gaslighting-8-exemplos-de-abuso-mental-brutal\/\">Gaslighting \u00e9 uma t\u00e9cnica de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> that you might not even be aware you\u2019re using. <strong>O objetivo do gaslighting \u00e9 estabelecer o controlo, fazendo com que algu\u00e9m questione o seu julgamento.<\/strong> Some behaviors that you might not even realize count as gaslighting are talking about the other person\u2019s past mistakes to make your point, playing the victim, or comparing them to someone else.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Passive-aggressive behavior.<\/h4>\n<p>N\u00e3o dizer o que se quer dizer, o tratamento de sil\u00eancio e a obstru\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e3o exemplos de comportamentos de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o passivo-agressivos. As pessoas geralmente fazem isso <strong>porque acham que a outra pessoa j\u00e1 deveria saber como se sentem sem que lhes seja dito<\/strong>o que \u00e9 sempre um erro de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h4>\u2022 Not admitting your mistakes.<\/h4>\n<p>Apologize quickly and sincerely when you\u2019ve done something wrong. This is the best way to deal with whatever happened and put it behind you. Some people would rather break up than apologize, putting their egos ahead of everything else, which is a clear example of toxic behavior.<\/p>\n<h3>13. Praticar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o plena<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-156618\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a sentir-se relaxada no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O comportamento t\u00f3xico atinge frequentemente o seu auge no calor do momento, quando<strong> you become overwhelmed with anger and can\u2019t stop yourself from acting in a way you know you\u2019ll regret as soon as it\u2019s over.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Regularmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-se-sente-em-baixo-experimente-a-atencao-plena\/\">praticar a aten\u00e7\u00e3o plena<\/a> will help you recognize your negative thoughts and become aware of what you\u2019re doing even when you\u2019re feeling upset. <strong>Se quiser parar o seu comportamento t\u00f3xico, a aten\u00e7\u00e3o plena pode ser \u00fatil para o ensinar a concentrar-se no momento presente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mindfulness significa estar totalmente presente e consciente dos seus sentimentos e ac\u00e7\u00f5es, em vez de se deixar provocar pelo que est\u00e1 a acontecer \u00e0 sua volta. Quanto mais praticar, mais f\u00e1cil se torna. Tornar-se capaz de permanecer no momento ajudar\u00e1 a reduzir significativamente o comportamento t\u00f3xico causado pela raiva.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being aware of your surroundings and your reactions, as well as being able to handle them, will greatly reduce toxic reactions that come up when you\u2019re overwhelmed.<\/strong> When you observe the moment instead of letting yourself explode, you\u2019ll be able to control your reactions.<\/p>\n<h2>Em resumo<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019ve decided to find out how to stop being toxic, it means you\u2019re aware of your behavior. <strong>Este \u00e9 um \u00f3timo sinal de que quer mudar, e quando as pessoas querem algo, fazem um esfor\u00e7o para o conseguir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Para acabar com o seu comportamento t\u00f3xico, comece por descobrir o que o provoca. Para a maioria das pessoas,<strong> it\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-coisas-que-faz-inconscientemente-e-que-revelam-as-suas-insegurancas\/\">causada por inseguran\u00e7as<\/a> e infelicidade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Once you begin to deal with this and focus on your wellness, you\u2019ll be able to consciously stop yourself from being toxic in your daily life.<\/p>\n<p>Este processo n\u00e3o \u00e9 de modo algum f\u00e1cil, mas<strong> if you persevere and keep working on being kinder to yourself and to others, you\u2019ll develop healthy habits that will help you form healthy relationships.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-158779\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como deixar de ser t\u00f3xico e tornar-se mais gentil e feliz Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-735x1103.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-223x335.jpg 223w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-231x347.jpg 231w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-347x520.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-512x768.jpg 512w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/How-To-Stop-Being-Toxic-Become-Kinder-And-Happier-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people don\u2019t intend to do things that hurt people, but it happens to all of us anyway. If you repeatedly find yourself in situations that escalate, and you end up behaving in a toxic way, there are probably some underlying issues making you act like that. 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