{"id":156795,"date":"2022-08-09T12:21:50","date_gmt":"2022-08-09T12:21:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=156795"},"modified":"2022-08-19T06:10:54","modified_gmt":"2022-08-19T06:10:54","slug":"como-salvar-um-casamento-quando-so-um-esta-a-tentar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-salvar-um-casamento-quando-so-um-esta-a-tentar\/","title":{"rendered":"Como salvar um casamento quando s\u00f3 um est\u00e1 a tentar"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ningu\u00e9m se casa com a inten\u00e7\u00e3o de se divorciar, mas a triste verdade \u00e9 que os casamentos falham frequentemente. No entanto, a op\u00e7\u00e3o do div\u00f3rcio \u00e9 muito prefer\u00edvel a ser condenado a uma vida de infelicidade<\/strong>, preso num casamento que o est\u00e1 a tornar miser\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Marriages, like other relationships, can reach a point where they become damaged beyond repair. Clearly, you don\u2019t want your marriage to reach this point, otherwise you wouldn\u2019t be here. If you\u2019re wondering how to save a marriage when only one is trying, you\u2019re already ahead. <\/strong>Until both partners have given up, there\u2019s hope.<\/p>\n

Saving your marriage will be hard work, but it\u2019s not impossible. As long as you\u2019re determined to do whatever needs to be done to mend your relationship, you have reason to keep going.<\/p>\n

Seguem-se algumas dicas \u00fateis para facilitar os seus esfor\u00e7os e aumentar as probabilidades de sucesso.<\/p>\n

Como salvar um casamento quando s\u00f3 um est\u00e1 a tentar?<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

When one partner wants to leave a troubled marriage and the other one desperately wants to save it, it may seem that there is a rift between them that\u2019s impossible to repair. How to save a marriage when only one is trying?<\/p>\n

Porque cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 diferente, there isn\u2019t a one-size-fits-all kind of solution<\/strong>. Still, the following tips should lead you towards defining the exact steps to take as long as you\u2019re willing to do your best.<\/p>\n

1. Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio porque \u00e9 que quer salvar o seu casamento<\/h3>\n

\u00c9 dif\u00edcil salvar um casamento com a plena coopera\u00e7\u00e3o de ambos os parceiros. Salvar um casamento sozinho \u00e9 uma tarefa enorme.<\/strong> Your first step should be to make sure you\u2019re determined to do this for the right reasons.<\/p>\n

Ask yourself, \u201cWhy do I want to save my marriage?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Is it the vows you\u2019ve taken?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Do you want to stay together for the kids?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is it that you don’t want to go through divorce?<\/p>\n

\u2022 Are you ashamed of your marriage failing?<\/p>\n

All of these reasons are wrong because if you think this way, your heart isn\u2019t in it. The only real reason you should endure in your efforts to save your marriage is se voc\u00ea e o seu c\u00f4njuge se amam e acredita que \u00e9 poss\u00edvel um casamento feliz entre voc\u00eas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you believe that you must stay married for any reason that isn\u2019t about choosing your spouse as someone to share your life with, happiness will always be out of reach. Nenhum destes factores externos pode compensar a falta de amor e de empenho.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You should be with someone who chooses to love you, even if at this point they\u2019re not taking part in salvar o vosso casamento.<\/a><\/p>\n

Pensem se alguma vez se empenharam totalmente no vosso casamento e se deram tudo por ele. Se o fizeram, onde \u00e9 que as coisas correram mal e o que devem fazer para as corrigir?<\/p>\n

2. Pense se o seu casamento pode ser salvo<\/h3>\n

After you\u2019ve thought about your reasons for saving your marriage and decided that you want to keep going, you must ask yourself se o seu casamento pode ou n\u00e3o ser salvo de todo<\/strong>, especially since you\u2019re the only one who is trying.<\/p>\n

Os problemas conjugais acontecem em todos os casamentos, mas se tiverem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, podem ser resolvidos.<\/strong> A toxic marriage can’t be saved. Sure, it can be patched, but it would take a lot of effort on both sides to really heal it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is your relationship toxic or has it simply started dissolving from neglect?<\/strong> Mesmo os pequenos problemas que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o resolvidos durante muito tempo podem arrastar-se e contaminar outras partes da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Para descobrir se o casamento pode ser salvo, \u00e9 preciso come\u00e7ar por considerar se os problemas podem ser resolvidos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Is your partner even aware that your marriage is failing?<\/strong> If your partner isn\u2019t paying attention, they might not even be aware that you feel like your marriage is in danger.<\/p>\n

Marriages don’t end only in explosions \u2013 sometimes they fade away until they stop being marriages. When things come this far, things end or go on without being a real marriage for years, making both partners miserable.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your partner explicitly wants out, do you know why?<\/strong> Is it something you\u2019ve done or a change in their feelings? If either of you is constantly criticizing the other or showing contempt, you might be moving from a troubled towards unhappy marriage.<\/p>\n

Why ask all these questions and think about it so much? Because it\u2019s important to establish whether your marriage gives you more happiness than misery. No relationship is always harmonious, but os aspectos positivos devem ser mais importantes do que os negativos para que vale a pena salvar o vosso casamento.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

3. Identificar os verdadeiros problemas<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

To be able to solve marriage problems, you must learn what they are in the first place. When insignificant little things you disagree about turn into fights with your loved one, there must be underlying causes you\u2019re either not aware of or not acknowledging.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 dois tipos de problemas num casamento:<\/p>\n

1. Problems that can\u2019t be solved.<\/h4>\n

Estes problemas est\u00e3o frequentemente relacionados com diferen\u00e7as de valores ou de ac\u00e7\u00f5es de um ou de ambos os parceiros.<\/strong> If your non-negotiables \u2013 core values you can never budge on \u2013 don\u2019t match or if either of you has betrayed the other in ways that can\u2019t be forgiven, it\u2019s nearly impossible to have a happy relationship.<\/p>\n

For example, if one of you has dreamed about being a parent and can\u2019t part from that dream, but the other one can\u2019t have children, conseguem encontrar uma forma de chegar a um compromisso sobre esta quest\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/p>\n

These are some problems which are either impossible or difficult to solve. If you\u2019re facing these, there\u2019s a high chance that o vosso casamento pode acabar em div\u00f3rcio.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022 Abusive behavior on either side.<\/strong> Se um dos dois estiver a abusar das emo\u00e7\u00f5es ou a sujeitar o outro a maus tratos f\u00edsicos, os vossos problemas podem ser demasiado dif\u00edceis de resolver.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Money issues.<\/strong> Os problemas financeiros podem ser muito prejudiciais para um casamento. As diferen\u00e7as de rendimentos, as d\u00edvidas, os h\u00e1bitos de consumo, as decis\u00f5es sobre grandes compras, etc. podem ter um efeito negativo num casamento.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Communication problems.<\/strong> Se n\u00e3o come\u00e7arem a trabalhar as vossas capacidades de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, o vosso casamento continuar\u00e1 a ser inst\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Lack of affection and intimacy.<\/strong> A perda de intimidade emocional e f\u00edsica faz com que um casamento se sinta frio e pouco acolhedor. Isto leva frequentemente \u00e0 infidelidade e a outros comportamentos prejudiciais.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Fighting all the time.<\/strong> Discutir constantemente sem encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um sinal de problemas de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e de falta de vontade de lidar com os seus problemas.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Different values.<\/strong> Unless you agree on your most basic values, it\u2019s difficult to understand each other.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Substance abuse.<\/strong> When either partner has a problem with drugs or alcohol, they come first. Until this is dealt with, it\u2019s impossible to work on the relationship.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Sexual incompatibility.<\/strong> Se, por exemplo, uma pessoa for aventureira e a outra preferir a rotina, a falta de compatibilidade sexual pode lev\u00e1-las a procurar companhia sexual noutro lugar ou deix\u00e1-las insatisfeitas com a sua vida sexual.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Difference in goals.<\/strong> Os caminhos que percorreis t\u00eam de estar alinhados, caso contr\u00e1rio, ele divide-se em dois e leva-vos com ele.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Mental health and personal problems.<\/strong> Getting help from your loved ones is useful when struggling with mental health issues, but marriage problems can\u2019t be dealt with at the same time.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Problems with each other’s families.<\/strong> Hating each other\u2019s families can cause conflict in multiple ways.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Infidelity.<\/strong> Um c\u00f4njuge que trai o outro uma vez j\u00e1 \u00e9 suficientemente mau, mas um caso pode arruinar o casamento ainda mais facilmente. \u00c9 poss\u00edvel ficar junto depois de uma infidelidade<\/a>mas \u00e9 preciso dedica\u00e7\u00e3o e trabalho \u00e1rduo.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Choosing something over each other.<\/strong> Por exemplo, escolher um emprego numa cidade diferente enquanto o seu c\u00f4njuge n\u00e3o o pode acompanhar \u00e9 um sinal de que lhe d\u00e1 mais valor do que a ele.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Falling out of love.<\/strong> Unfortunately, it happens when both spouses aren\u2019t focused on making the marriage thrive. Unless you\u2019re making an effort and working on your marriage every day, passionate love of the early days won\u2019t have a chance to turn into stable love and partnership, but it will simply fade away.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 10 erros comuns na reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o do casamento a evitar ap\u00f3s a infidelidade<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

2. Problemas que podem ser resolvidos<\/h4>\n

Este tipo de problemas envolve desacordos sobre algo em que se pode chegar a um compromisso. S\u00e3o problemas normais, muitas vezes causados pelo stress, que ocorrem em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis e n\u00e3o apenas nos casamentos falhados.<\/p>\n

Trabalhar em problemas que podem ser resolvidos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Often, a number of small problems accumulate over a long period of time and create a distance between spouses. No matter how seemingly small these issues are, they still can\u2019t be ignored.<\/p>\n

Luckily, solving these kinds of problems doesn\u2019t take too much hard work \u2013 as long as you decide you want to change this, it only takes a little effort. Se partilham valores e se amam, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel salvar o vosso casamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Realize what won’t help<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Forcing your partner to stay will just push them away quicker. Any method which makes your spouse feel tricked or coerced into staying won\u2019t give you the happy marriage you should have. Trying to force reconciliation won\u2019t work.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, you deserve to be with someone who\u2019s with you because they want to be and not because you made them stay.<\/p>\n

Os seguintes m\u00e9todos nunca funcionam:<\/p>\n

\u2022 Manipulation.<\/strong> Lying, guilt trips, pressure, and controlling behavior will push your partner away even sooner. Don\u2019t allow yourself to be manipulated either.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Desperation.<\/strong> Fazer tudo o que a sua mulher ou marido quer, implorar, ser pegajoso e outros tipos de comportamento para chantagear emocionalmente o seu c\u00f4njuge.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Involving other people.<\/strong> Apart from your marriage counselor, no one should be involved in your relationship, especially while you\u2019re trying to save it. Friends, in-laws or family will always be biased and only make the situation more difficult.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 10 maneiras de o reconquistar (sem parecer desesperada)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Trabalhar sobre si pr\u00f3prio<\/h3>\n

Ambos os parceiros desempenham um papel na maioria dos problemas da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Em vez de p\u00f4r a culpa toda no seu c\u00f4njuge, aceitar a sua parte da culpa.<\/strong> Don\u2019t only think about your marriage problems as something you need to change your spouse\u2019s mind about, but consider in what ways you should change your behavior to help.<\/p>\n

Own your role and figure out what you\u2019re doing that hurts your marriage<\/strong>. Find out how you\u2019re responsible for your situation instead of thinking about how your partner has to change. You\u2019re powerless in that regard, but you can do a lot by focusing on yourself.<\/p>\n

Become aware of your own feelings. Don\u2019t indulge in negative thoughts and blame your partner internally.<\/p>\n

Muda o que precisa de ser mudado para que gostes mais de quem \u00e9s.<\/strong> Volte a ser quem \u00e9 enquanto pessoa sem ter em conta a sua vida amorosa e sem expectativas em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu c\u00f4njuge.<\/p>\n

Work on yourself first and focus on becoming yourself \u2013 coincidentally, it\u2019s a pessoa por quem o seu c\u00f4njuge se apaixonou<\/strong>. Mudando o foco do seu c\u00f4njuge para si pr\u00f3prio e fazendo mudan\u00e7as positivas, o seu comportamento come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a mudar tamb\u00e9m.<\/strong><\/p>\n

6. Comunicar com o seu c\u00f4njuge<\/h3>\n

Se os vossos problemas chegaram at\u00e9 aqui, \u00e9 porque t\u00eam definitivamente um problema de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o no vosso casamento. A falta de capacidade de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o pode t\u00ea-lo impedido de resolver v\u00e1rios problemas que poderiam ter sido resolvidos facilmente se tivesse sabido como os abordar.<\/p>\n

Se nunca falou sobre os seus problemas ou n\u00e3o o suficiente ou n\u00e3o da forma correcta, por mais pequenos que possam parecer, eles continuam a persistir, causando mais problemas.<\/strong> It\u2019s possible that your spouse doesn\u2019t even realize how far your problems have gone, so they can\u2019t help you save your marriage even if they wanted to.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Good communication skills start with seeking to compreender primeiro e ser compreendido depois<\/strong>. Try to understand each other\u2019s perspective instead of proving a point or being defensive.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Listen actively,<\/strong> making your spouse feel heard. When they do, they\u2019ll be more eager to talk to you.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don’t focus on blaming each other<\/strong>, but on solving your problems. Righting every wrong isn\u2019t important, your relationship is.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t insult your spouse<\/strong>, don\u2019t be condescending and don\u2019t make your spouse think that you feel contempt for them. Be accepting and understanding, showing empathy and willingness to forgive.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Learn to fight productively and fairly<\/strong>. Fighting is normal, but it\u2019s important that you know how to fight.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t raise old issues<\/strong> which have lost their meaning by now. If you keep rehashing the same issues, however, it means that there\u2019s an underlying problem. O ressentimento mata os casamentos.<\/a><\/p>\n

\u2022 Don\u2019t focus on the negative<\/strong> \u2013 instead, be kind and considerate, giving your partner a sign of your good will and love.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make sure your spouse knows that you\u2019re being honest<\/strong>. if you\u2019re completely open with them, they\u2019ll understand you better and might decide to join you in saving your marriage.<\/p>\n

7. Dar-lhes tempo e espa\u00e7o<\/h3>\n

When a married couple mentions the word \u2018separation\u2019, it might seem like a signal that they\u2019re giving up and getting ready for a divorce, but it\u2019s not true \u2013 it doesn\u2019t have to mean that o vosso casamento acabou.<\/a><\/p>\n

While you don\u2019t have to move out and get separated fully, dar espa\u00e7o ao seu c\u00f4njuge pode ajudar a salvar o seu casamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Criar dist\u00e2ncia com o objetivo de ter e dar espa\u00e7o permite ao seu c\u00f4njuge pensar em si e na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o por si pr\u00f3prio e tomar decis\u00f5es ao seu pr\u00f3prio ritmo. Seja paciente e deixe o seu c\u00f4njuge fazer o que tem de fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You might feel like you\u2019re running out of time if your spouse has decided to stop trying. There\u2019s a ticking clock somewhere, it\u2019s running fast and you can\u2019t see it. If you\u2019re lacking time, let your spouse know<\/strong>. Diga-lhes que precisa de mais tempo para tratar de tudo.<\/p>\n

Utilize este tempo n\u00e3o s\u00f3 para resolver os problemas do seu casamento, mas tamb\u00e9m para se concentrar nos seus pr\u00f3prios objectivos e mudar o seu comportamento.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do it because of the expectations you\u2019re placing on your spouse, but for your personal development. By becoming someone you like more, you\u2019re giving your spouse a chance to appreciate you more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re both willing, make time for each other to talk or to reconnect to each other.<\/p>\n

8. Reatar a liga\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu c\u00f4njuge<\/h3>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Relationships are alive and need nurturing. Being happily married needs work every day to maintain the relationship. If you\u2019ve been neglecting your relationship, it\u2019s reasonable to expect that it\u2019s going to weaken.<\/p>\n

To save your marriage, you must make your spouse want to try again. If you\u2019ve been working on yourself and learning how to communicate, after giving your spouse space, try to reconnect with them when they\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Decide to start fresh<\/strong>. Talk about your problems and work on solving them, but leave behind grudges and thinking about who\u2019s to blame.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Try to understand their point of view.<\/strong> Que problemas pessoais tem o seu c\u00f4njuge? Aceite e seja gentil.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Be honest and transparent.<\/strong> Communicate openly: honestly and fully tell your spouse how you feel. Tell them everything \u2013 don\u2019t omit thoughts and feelings or avoid talking about actions you wish you could ignore. Complete honesty is necessary when you\u2019re rebuilding trust.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Take it step by step.<\/strong> Pequenos passos em frente ao longo do tempo v\u00e3o aproxim\u00e1-los novamente, da mesma forma que pequenos problemas os afastaram. Mostre apre\u00e7o por cada passo em frente.<\/p>\n

- Concentrar-se no que \u00e9 positivo.<\/a><\/strong> A base do trabalho para salvar o seu casamento \u00e9 trabalhar nos vossos problemas e encontrar solu\u00e7\u00f5es que vos fa\u00e7am felizes a ambos.<\/p>\n

No entanto, em vez de se concentrarem nos aspectos negativos da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, devem concentrar-se nas coisas boas que ainda existem entre voc\u00eas: o amor e a vontade de viverem juntos.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Learn to love each other again<\/strong>. Relive your most precious memories with each other, not by lamenting the way things were, but to remember the feelings you once showed each other freely. Remember why you\u2019re in the relationship.<\/p>\n

The intensity and flavor of yours or your spouse\u2019s feelings might have changed, but as long as there is love between you, keeping your marriage alive is possible. Show your love, through words and actions.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Reawaken attraction.<\/strong> Os seres humanos sentem-se atra\u00eddos uns pelos outros: quando a atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica e emocional est\u00e1 num n\u00edvel elevado, apaixonamo-nos. Voltem a ligar-se um ao outro, construindo de novo uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre v\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

9. Ir ao aconselhamento de casais<\/h3>\n

Visiting a couples therapist is useful even if your spouse refuses to attend. It\u2019s your best shot of finding the best solution to your relationship problems. O aconselhamento individual \u00e9 t\u00e3o \u00fatil para o casamento como o aconselhamento de casais.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Encare-o como uma forma de aprender e trabalhar sobre si pr\u00f3prio, em vez de encontrar a resposta sobre como convencer o seu c\u00f4njuge a ficar. Um especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e1 preparado para o guiar tamb\u00e9m na sua viagem pessoal, centrando-se especificamente na forma como se sente e se comporta no seu casamento.<\/p>\n

RELACIONADO: 10 perguntas a fazer ao seu c\u00f4njuge antes de ir a um aconselhamento matrimonial<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

10. Accept it if you don\u2019t succeed<\/h3>\n

Whether you\u2019re the only one trying or you\u2019re both working on your marriage, sometimes it just isn\u2019t meant to happen. When couples therapy doesn\u2019t help, when communication problems can\u2019t be overcome and you can\u2019t reach each other, if it comes to it, aceitar o fim.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Se depois de ter feito tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para reparar um casamento desfeito<\/a> things don\u2019t work out and you decide to end things, keep in mind that divorce is a far better option than being trapped in a loveless and unhappy marriage.<\/p>\n

Algumas raz\u00f5es para deixar de tentar s\u00e3o:<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your marriage is nothing but struggle.<\/strong> Quando as coisas m\u00e1s superam as boas, talvez seja altura de desistir.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you think your spouse’s reasons for distance are wrong.<\/strong> If you disagree with the reason they feel this way, you might have some issues which can\u2019t be fixed.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If your spouse thinks your attempts at fixing it are ridiculous.<\/strong> This means that they don\u2019t intend to try at all and the very idea is laughable to them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you’re not friends any longer.<\/strong> Spouses are supposed to be best friends, but if they\u2019re not friends at all any more, the distance has grown too far.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If thoughts of the future fill you with dread.<\/strong> If you can\u2019t smile while thinking about where you and your partner will be in a year\u2019s time, you\u2019re not looking forward to spending time with them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you never have sex.<\/strong> Salvo qualquer problema que ambos conhe\u00e7am e aceitem, a falta de intimidade com o seu c\u00f4njuge<\/a> \u00e9 motivo de preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\u2022 If you’re close to someone else.<\/strong> Se um dos dois est\u00e1 a aproximar-se de outra pessoa, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que as suas prioridades se tenham desviado da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

How to save a marriage when only one is trying before it\u2019s too late?<\/p>\n

First, make sure you know why you want to save it and be honest to yourself whether it\u2019s worth saving or not.<\/strong> Sometimes people stay married for the wrong reasons, but if you\u2019ve decided that your marriage must survive, you have a difficult task ahead of you.<\/p>\n

O aconselhamento matrimonial deve ser um dos vossos primeiros passos<\/strong>. Independentemente de o seu c\u00f4njuge frequentar ou n\u00e3o a consulta, um profissional pode orient\u00e1-lo no sentido de identificar os verdadeiros problemas do seu casamento e ajud\u00e1-lo a encontrar solu\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Trabalhar em si pr\u00f3prio e melhorar a sua comunica\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu c\u00f4njuge far\u00e1 mais do que pensa pelo seu casamento<\/strong>. Aceite a sua cara-metade e tente ver o seu lado para que seja poss\u00edvel restabelecer a liga\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

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