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<\/p>\nEm primeiro lugar: n\u00e3o h\u00e1 necessidade de se preocupar e de ficar ansioso se estiver atualmente numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o de \"preciso de espa\u00e7o\" com a sua namorada.<\/p>\n
The probability that it means the end of the relationship is low \u2013 it\u2019s more likely that she\u2019s actually trying to make your relationship work<\/b> by giving the both of you a chance to think about it. That, or she\u2019s going through some personal stuff.<\/p>\n
The chances of a breakup are low, but not zero, so if you had done something that could cause her to consider a breakup, you\u2019d probably already have a pretty good idea of what’s going on. In that case, se queres salvar a tua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, come\u00e7a a trabalhar no teu pedido de desculpas e fala a s\u00e9rio.<\/b><\/p>\n
So, if you hadn\u2019t messed up in some way, you\u2019re thinking, \u201cIf she says she needs time, how long should I wait before contacting my girlfriend?\u201d Truthfully, you should wait as long as you\u2019re willing to wait for her.<\/b><\/p>\n
Let\u2019s see what that means, how to know what\u2019s on her mind and what you should do.<\/p>\n
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Quando a sua namorada lhe diz que precisa de espa\u00e7o, v\u00ea-se inevitavelmente confrontado com um dilema: faz o que ela diz e respeita a sua vontade de se afastar ou mostra-lhe que se preocupa, contactando-a?<\/p>\n
Deve escolher sempre a primeira op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n
If she\u2019s honest about needing space, she\u2019ll appreciate that you\u2019re taking her wishes seriously instead of disrespecting her boundaries. If she\u2019s testing you to see if you\u2019ll fight for her in some imaginary struggle, you\u2019re refusing to play her games and base your relationship on deception.<\/p>\n
When you decide to give her the space she needs, you\u2019re now in another predicament. \u201cShe says she needs time. How long should I wait?\u201d you\u2019re probably thinking. Este <\/b>tipo de<\/i><\/b> tem uma resposta clara: uma semana a um m\u00eas.<\/b><\/p>\n
She might contact you sooner, and it\u2019s possible that she might need longer than a month, but the longer it takes, the more likely it is that she doesn\u2019t want to stay in the relationship. But it\u2019s \u2018kind of\u2019 because the answer to this question still depends on a number of factors which only you know.<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 How new is the relationship? If you\u2019ve been together for a while, you might be able to figure out what she wants.<\/p>\n
\u2022 Have you been having relationship problems? What happened before she asked for time?<\/p>\n
\u2022 How strong is your liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/a>? S\u00e3o honestos e sinceros um com o outro?<\/p>\n \u2022 How do you feel about her and do you know how she feels about you? Don\u2019t look for a solution by thinking in terms of what women want, but consider what ela<\/i> quer.<\/p>\n \u2022 How much do you trust her? Do you believe that she’ll come back?<\/p>\n \u2022 Did you do anything to hurt her?<\/p>\n Pense cuidadosamente nestas quest\u00f5es e depois espere o tempo que achar necess\u00e1rio.<\/b><\/p>\n Taking some time for yourself isn\u2019t a bad thing. Algum espa\u00e7o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b>Mas quando ela pede dist\u00e2ncia, \u00e9 assustador, porque nos faz recear que ela queira acabar com tudo.<\/p>\n When she talks to you about needing time, it\u2019s a good idea to ask her how much time she needs and what does <\/b>m\u00e9dia espacial<\/b> para ela.<\/b> Ela e voc\u00ea podem ter ideias diferentes sobre o que isso significa: talvez ela queira dizer que nos vemos menos ou que n\u00e3o nos vemos de todo.<\/p>\n Se quiser um rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>, you\u2019ll take her wishes into account. Don’t make her explain why, but ask her how she wants you to deal with it. Maybe your girlfriend wants occasional contact, maybe she wants none.<\/p>\n D\u00ea-lhe tempo para tratar do que precisa e, depois de decorrido o tempo que ela disse querer, contacte-a. If she still needs time, don\u2019t try to pressure her, but give her the additional time she needs.<\/b><\/p>\n Tentar perceber o que ficou por dizer pode facilmente tornar a sua vida amorosa muito complicada. Quando a tua namorada diz que precisa de tempo, o que \u00e9 que ela quer dizer?<\/b> Of course, the best way to find out is through honest communication, but if she\u2019s not ready to talk about it, you\u2019re left with worry.<\/p>\n Consulte esta lista de poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es pelas quais ela pode <\/b>precisar de tempo<\/b> pensar em como \u00e9 a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/b>You\u2019ll be able to find a lot of clues for what the real answer is if you closely think about your particular circumstances.<\/p>\n Sometimes when she says she needs alone time, she just needs some alone time and it has nothing to do with you or anyone else. When she needs space because she\u2019s busy, has a lot on her plate or she\u2019s simply tired, sometimes that’s all there is to it. There\u2019s no need to complicate the situation.<\/b><\/p>\n Ela pode ter problemas com a fam\u00edlia, algo que est\u00e1 a acontecer no trabalho ou problemas de sa\u00fade mental, pelo que precisa de tempo para lidar com isso. There\u2019s no need to be hurt that she isn\u2019t discussing these things with you<\/b> \u2013 maybe her way of working through her problems is that she needs to completely focus on them, so anyone\u2019s help might be unwelcome.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve been coming on too strong, she might be overwhelmed by you. If you spend too much time together, she might need time to feel like an individual instead of always being a part of a couple. Ela precisa de recuperar alguma da sua independ\u00eancia.<\/b><\/p>\n It might be tempting to take this to heart and get angry or offended, but accepting each other\u2019s boundaries is part of a healthy relationship. Right now she\u2019s setting hers, so by respecting them, you\u2019re creating a basis of a successful relationship.<\/p>\n Examine your behavior. Have you placed responsibility for your feelings on her? Did you say \u2018I love you\u2019 after you\u2019ve been dating for a month? Are you looking at her for validation instead of having confidence in your self-worth?<\/p>\n Quando algu\u00e9m \u00e9 carente e inseguro<\/b><\/a>Se n\u00e3o se sentirem \u00e0 vontade, tendem a afei\u00e7oar-se demasiado depressa aos seus parceiros rom\u00e2nticos.<\/b> You need to think hard about your behavior to figure out if you\u2019ve been acting that way. If you have, use the time apart to start working on your self-esteem.<\/p>\n Have you done something and when you tried to ask her to forgive you, all she said was \u201cI need space?\u201d If she\u2019s angry with you, don\u2019t just wait for her to forgive you and come back. Deve refletir sobre os seus actos, pensar em como a magoou, decidir <\/b>como a compensar<\/b><\/a> e preparar o seu pedido de desculpas.<\/b><\/p>\n When you apologize, you must mean it and accept responsibility for what you\u2019ve done. You must be prepared to make changes.<\/p>\n Ao dizer-lhe que precisa de tempo, ela pode estar a dar-lhe tempo porque acha que precisa de resolver algumas coisas. Pode estar preso a uma ex, pode ter dificuldade em comprometer-se, pode fazer repetidamente coisas que ela lhe pede para n\u00e3o fazer.<\/p>\n Think about what led to her asking for space \u2013 ela provavelmente j\u00e1 lhe disse qual era o problema.<\/b><\/p>\n She might have a problem she doesn\u2019t know how to talk about or she\u2019s afraid of how you might react. If you don\u2019t know como comunicar eficazmente <\/a>um com o outro, isso pode causar muitos problemas na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Ambos precisam de aprender a falar um com o outro. <\/b>It starts by listening and looking to understand each other without judgment. Let her know that you\u2019re willing to listen.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve only been dating for a while and you made it clear you want something serious, she might need time to think about it. Commitment is a big step which shouldn\u2019t be taken lightly.<\/b><\/p>\n It might be too soon or she\u2019s not looking for a serious relationship right now, so it\u2019s better to take a step back to make sure you\u2019re on the same page. If your values aren\u2019t the same, there\u2019s a chance that things won\u2019t work out, so don\u2019t uninstall your online dating apps just yet.<\/p>\n It\u2019s perfectly normal to have doubts about your feelings. Realizing how you feel about someone is sometimes easier when you\u2019re apart. If she\u2019s not sure about how she feels about you and your relationship, she made the decision to take some time and think about it.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t push and make her decide right away.<\/b> D\u00ea-lhe a oportunidade de dar sentido aos seus sentimentos e de descobrir o que realmente quer.<\/p>\n Como est\u00e1 a tratar a sua namorada? Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio e pense se lhe d\u00e1 regularmente afeto, se lhe mostra que a aprecia e se se esfor\u00e7a para que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione.<\/p>\n If she thinks you’ve been taking her for granted or that you don\u2019t listen to her, she\u2019s <\/b>infeliz na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a> e precisa de se afastar. <\/b>Esta \u00e9 a sua oportunidade de se comprometer a fazer mudan\u00e7as se quiser ficar com ela.<\/p>\n Relationships have their ups and downs. At the end of the day, it\u2019s important that there are more good than bad things about it because otherwise, what\u2019s the point? Se a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o o est\u00e1 a tornar infeliz e n\u00e3o o faz feliz, porqu\u00ea ficar?<\/b><\/p>\n Se a sua namorada est\u00e1 a passar pelo processo de descobrir o que sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ela precisa de tempo para pesar os pr\u00f3s e os contras e para se controlar.<\/p>\n Your girlfriend might be interested in someone else, but if that option isn\u2019t secure, she\u2019s keeping you on the hook in case things don\u2019t work out with them.<\/p>\n Have you ever noticed that she\u2019s showing interest in someone else, such as talking to them online a lot or talking about them like she can\u2019t help herself but bring them up? If you figure out for sure that you’re just a fallback for her, it\u2019s best to move on.<\/b><\/p>\n She might be testing you or trying to gain the upper hand in the relationship. If she\u2019s manipulative and does things to ensure that she has all the power, asking for space might be one of her tactics.<\/p>\n Someone like this isn\u2019t really interested in you, only in what you can give them.<\/b> Se she\u2019s playing games<\/a> with you, she doesn\u2019t take you seriously, so think honestly about her behavior so far and you\u2019ll be able to tell if she has feelings for you or if she\u2019s just using you.<\/p>\n Maybe she\u2019s not 100% sure that she wants to break up, but she\u2019s considering it, so she might be taking time to think about it and see what it\u2019s like to be on her own. Se pensar na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, poder\u00e1 encontrar alguns ind\u00edcios de que isto est\u00e1 a acontecer.<\/b><\/p>\n As coisas t\u00eam sido dif\u00edceis? Ela est\u00e1 claramente infeliz? Tem-se mostrado distante mesmo antes de pedir tempo? Estes podem ser sinais de que ela quer acabar com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Infelizmente, por vezes, precisar de tempo \u00e9 um c\u00f3digo para acabar consigo sem o dizer. Em vez de lhe dizer que quer <\/b>romper<\/b>, she\u2019s letting things fade away. <\/b>The reason she\u2019s doing it might be because she doesn\u2019t want to hurt your feelings, or she\u2019s being cowardly and letting time do what she should do herself.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: <\/b>8 maneiras de dar espa\u00e7o a algu\u00e9m e mant\u00ea-lo ao seu lado<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n Os seguintes conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es aplicam-se a qualquer situa\u00e7\u00e3o: uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de longa dura\u00e7\u00e3o, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia ou uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Your best bet for a positive outcome is if you show her care, honesty and respect, and don\u2019t try to force anything.<\/b><\/p>\n You\u2019ll achieve that by following these tips.<\/p>\n If your girlfriend asks you to give her space, then you should give her space. If you refuse, thinking that you must keep her close, you\u2019ll make her uncomfortable and push her away for sure. By respecting her wishes, you\u2019re showing that you respect <\/b>ela<\/i><\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n Pe\u00e7a-lhe para lhe dizer quanto tempo acha que precisa e de quanto espa\u00e7o precisa, mas don\u2019t interrogate her<\/b>, make her explain why and give you any definite answers because she doesn\u2019t have them either.<\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, disse que sim e concordou em deix\u00e1-la em paz durante algum tempo. Even though you want to make things better and get her to spend time with you again, don\u2019t try to force it. <\/b>If she told you that it\u2019s okay to contact her, you don\u2019t have to follow the \u2018no contact rule\u2019.<\/p>\n You can keep in touch, but don\u2019t call and text her all the time. Don\u2019t be desperate<\/b><\/a> e pedir-lhe que acabe com isso.<\/b> Don’t try to impress her so that she\u2019ll want to come back. If she’s not ready for a relationship<\/a>, trying to make her change her mind, guilt-trip her or tell you when she\u2019ll be done taking her time, you\u2019re only prolonging it<\/p>\n If this is the first time you\u2019ve been in this situation, you might be worried that this is really a breakup or that it\u2019s inevitable. Don\u2019t get angry and make any rash decisions. <\/b>H\u00e1 alguma hip\u00f3tese de ser, mas antes de decidir pensar nela como sua ex, pense se tem raz\u00f5es para acreditar nisso.<\/p>\n Aconteceu alguma coisa ou fizeste alguma coisa para que ela quisesse acabar contigo? If you can\u2019t think of anything, then give her the benefit of the doubt. <\/b>If you trust her, trust what she\u2019s saying. If you don\u2019t trust her, think about why that is and what you can do to change it. Use this time wisely.<\/p>\n A menos que ela precise de tempo para tratar de assuntos pessoais, esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o tem algo a ver com a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Tempo e espa\u00e7o<\/b> n\u00e3o far\u00e1 com que os seus problemas desapare\u00e7am por magia,<\/b> mas pode dar a ambos a oportunidade de reflectirem sobre si pr\u00f3prios, os seus problemas e a forma como contribu\u00edram para eles.<\/p>\n Deve participar na procura de solu\u00e7\u00f5es para os seus problemas, examinando honestamente como \u00e9 a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e como podem melhor\u00e1-la<\/b>. Unless you openly admit to yourself what your role in your relationship problems is in the first place, you can\u2019t figure out what doesn\u2019t work and how to fix it.<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que ela quer dizer quando diz que precisa de tempo?<\/h2>\n
1. Ela precisa de tempo para si pr\u00f3pria<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Ela tem problemas pessoais que n\u00e3o est\u00e3o relacionados consigo<\/h3>\n
3. Ela precisa de estar longe de si<\/h3>\n
4. She thinks you’re moving too fast<\/h3>\n
5. She’s angry with you<\/h3>\n
6. She thinks it’s you who needs time<\/h3>\n
7. She doesn’t know how to talk to you<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. She doesn’t want a serious relationship<\/h3>\n
9. She’s unsure of her feelings<\/h3>\n
10. She’s unhappy in your relationship<\/h3>\n
11. Ela quer decidir se a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o vale a pena<\/h3>\n
12. She’s interested in someone else<\/h3>\n
13. She’s playing games<\/h3>\n
14. She’s thinking of ending things<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n15. She’s thinks she’s letting you down gently<\/h3>\n
O que fazer quando uma rapariga diz que precisa de tempo para pensar?<\/h2>\n
1. Dar-lhe tempo e espa\u00e7o<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Don’t pressure her<\/h3>\n
3. Don’t think of it as a breakup<\/h3>\n
4. Refletir sobre a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
5. Trabalhar sobre si pr\u00f3prio<\/h3>\n
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