{"id":15732,"date":"2020-08-05T12:50:54","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T12:50:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15732"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:28:06","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:28:06","slug":"11-maneiras-de-uma-rapariga-que-foi-usada-amar-de-forma-diferente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/11-maneiras-de-uma-rapariga-que-foi-usada-amar-de-forma-diferente\/","title":{"rendered":"11 formas de amar diferentes para a rapariga que est\u00e1 habituada a estar sozinha"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sair com uma rapariga que est\u00e1 habituada a estar sozinha n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 como nada que tenha experimentado antes.<\/p>\n<p>Do you know why? Because she doesn\u2019t love like other girls, she doesn\u2019t behave like other girls and she doesn\u2019t think like other girls either.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-ama-uma-rapariga-que-esta-habituada-a-estar-sozinha\/\">This girl who\u2019s used to being on her<\/a> own has been through pretty much in life. And all she\u2019s been through, she went through it on her own.<\/p>\n<p>Provavelmente, ela levava uma vida completamente diferente da das raparigas normais e, sem d\u00favida, cultivava a sua vida de solteira. Ela sente-se bem sozinha.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s one of those girls who don\u2019t need a man to be happy or a relationship to be fulfilled. She\u2019s one of those who enter a relationship only when they meet someone who is worthy of them. Because girls like this never settle for less.<\/p>\n<p>Your best life decision will be to date this kind of a girl because the girl who\u2019s used to being on her own doesn\u2019t love like anything you\u2019ve experienced before.<\/p>\n<p>Namorar um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/13-razoes-para-namorar-com-uma-rapariga-que-ja-usou-o-desafio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">girl who\u2019s used to being on her own is such a challenge<\/a>. Ela ama de forma diferente.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. \u00c9 preciso algum tempo para que ela se habitue a si<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>She\u2019s used to being on her own. To have someone around will be a huge step out of her comfort zone. So, it will take her some time to get used to spending time with you and actually making plans with you.<\/p>\n<p>Also replying to your texts might come as a challenge at times because there will be moments where she\u2019ll see your messages and mentally replies but will probably forget to send an actual reply.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, they say a human gets used to everything, so she\u2019ll get used to having you around, too.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. You won\u2019t get everything you want straight away<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t expect to get boyfriend privileges before you actually become one. Before she actually welcomes you in, she\u2019ll want to know you\u2019re worthy of her. She\u2019ll want to know you won\u2019t mess her up and that you\u2019re not just one of those fuckboys who use women for their needs.<\/p>\n<p>As time passes and you show her you actually deserve her, she\u2019ll let you in step by step. The key is to not push things and allow them to flow naturally. In the meantime, you can check these <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-sinais-de-que-ela-esta-a-testar-te-para-decidir-se-es-um-bom-namorado\/\">sinais de que ela o est\u00e1 a testar <\/a>to decide if you&#8217;re boyfriend material.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. She\u2019ll want to show you she\u2019s independent<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The thing she\u2019s most proud of in her life is the place where she is now and the fact that she got there on her own. She\u2019ll want to show you she can do things on her own, that she can handle everything life throws at her and that she is always the last girl standing.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not only that she\u2019ll want to show it to you, she will feel the need to show you she can function on her own and that she doesn\u2019t owe you anything.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez isso prejudique a tua masculinidade aqui e ali, mas acredita em mim, ela precisa da sua independ\u00eancia para funcionar.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. She\u2019ll be stubborn<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Perhaps other girls were easily convinced, but with her that won\u2019t be the case. She won\u2019t change her opinion just to please you and in most cases, you won\u2019t be able to talk her out of doing some things she has already put her mind on.<\/p>\n<p>She has developed very a strong intuition and that\u2019s why you\u2019ll often see her doing things and behaving in ways unknown to you, but you\u2019ll just have to trust her.<\/p>\n<p>Let her do her thing because in the end, even if she makes a mistake, she won\u2019t have a problem to come and say it out loud.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. She\u2019ll need her space<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>What you must understand about her is that she has been on her own for quite some time. And now having someone who\u2019s crowding her will be too big a change for her.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why she\u2019ll always need some time and some space to do the things she loved doing on her own. If you\u2019re a clingy type of person, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-red-flags-screaming-leave-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">devia deix\u00e1-la em paz<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>When she gets into this state where she need her space, don\u2019t come at her asking if something is wrong. Everything is okay.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, aproveite para ter uma rapariga normal e use esse tempo extra para o passar com as pessoas que tinha na sua vida antes de ela entrar.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. She isn\u2019t insecure<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When you look at her, you\u2019ll be able to see that she no longer worries about what you think about her makeup, the way she dresses or if you like her or not.<\/p>\n<p>The most important is that she loves herself the way she is. She knows her worth isn\u2019t determined by other people\u2019s opinions but by her own.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you\u2019ll never see her insecure or afraid of judgments.<\/p>\n<p>She stopped allowing other\u2019s mean words to come close to her heart a long time ago. You\u2019ll basically be dating a girl who loves herself and that\u2019s so rare these days.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">7. She won\u2019t be afraid of you walking away<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If she falls for you, she\u2019ll love you with all her heart. But don\u2019t expect her to put up with hell just so she could keep you. Don\u2019t expect her to change or be someone else just to please you.<\/p>\n<p>And don\u2019t ever think that she\u2019ll beg you to stay. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/a-verdade-honesta-feita-de-perseguicao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">She\u2019s done chasing<\/a> pessoas.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t be afraid of you walking away. She\u2019ll love you, but she will never make you stay\u2014because she isn\u2019t afraid of being left alone; she\u2019s afraid of toxic relationships.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">8. Ela pode ser intimidante em alguns momentos<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s see things from this perspective: she loves herself, she has things going on for her, she made her life comfortable and her happiness depends only on her. Which man wouldn\u2019t be intimidated at least a bit from this kind of a woman?<\/p>\n<p>But this is a good thing. This is proof to you that she doesn\u2019t need anything but support and love from you. You can be certain that if she decides to love you, it will be with all her purest intentions.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">9. She\u2019ll try to hide her weaknesses from you<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it, no human is perfect. We all have our strong sides and we all have some weaknesses.<\/p>\n<p>O problema de uma rapariga assim \u00e9 que ela tentar\u00e1 esconder todos os seus defeitos e fraquezas do mundo e n\u00e3o apenas de si.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that she feels uncomfortable having them, but she\u2019ll want to hide from you that she\u2019s human.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll want a guy she loves to see her as a whole being who can overcome anything and who\u2019s flawless. It will take some time before she realizes she can bare her soul before you without feeling uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">10. She\u2019ll look lost at times<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Think about this: she\u2019s been on her own for quite some time now. Love isn\u2019t really a feeling she\u2019s familiar with.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, she\u2019s been kind to others and she loves her family and friends, but emotions like love towards a man are not really her cup of a tea\u2014or at least haven\u2019t been her thing lately.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, talvez ela seja desajeitada quando se trata de o amar ou de encontrar o seu caminho no mar de emo\u00e7\u00f5es que cada nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o traz consigo.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll look like she doesn\u2019t know how to behave and things might appear awkward for her sometimes, especially when it comes to introducing you to her friends. Give her some time to learn to swim in those waters.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">11. Ela nunca precisar\u00e1 de ti<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Esta rapariga deixou de precisar de pessoas h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n<p>So if she decides to love you, if she chooses you to be her partner, know that it\u2019s because she thinks you\u2019re worthy of her time, of her love, of her commitment and efforts.<\/p>\n<p>Know that when the girl who\u2019s used to being on her own chooses to love you, then you must be pretty special.<\/p>\n<p>Loving her won\u2019t be easy, but will be worthwhile. She\u2019ll show you what a true strong girl is like. She\u2019ll let you in only when she sees you\u2019re fit for each other.<\/p>\n<p>And with her, you\u2019ll see what it feels like to be loved by someone who loves herself. It will be like nothing you\u2019ve experienced before, but it will be a journey worth taking. I promise.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15735 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/courtney-clayton-395189-unsplash-1.jpg\" alt=\"11 formas de amar diferentes para a rapariga que est\u00e1 habituada a estar sozinha\" width=\"435\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/courtney-clayton-395189-unsplash-1.jpg 435w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/courtney-clayton-395189-unsplash-1-186x300.jpg 186w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/courtney-clayton-395189-unsplash-1-636x1024.jpg 636w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 435px) 100vw, 435px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating a girl who\u2019s used to being on her own will not be like anything you\u2019ve experienced before. Do you know why? Because she doesn\u2019t love like other girls, she doesn\u2019t behave like other girls and she doesn\u2019t think like other girls either. This girl who\u2019s used to being on her own has been through&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":15734,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15732","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/courtney-clayton-395189-unsplash.jpg",800,563,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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