{"id":157477,"date":"2022-08-30T21:55:52","date_gmt":"2022-08-30T21:55:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157477"},"modified":"2023-03-23T06:04:12","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T06:04:12","slug":"como-dizer-a-alguem-que-nao-quer-ser-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-dizer-a-alguem-que-nao-quer-ser-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Como dizer a algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o quer ser amigo: 13 maneiras"},"content":{"rendered":"

I think all of you would agree that it\u2019s definitely not easy to end a friendship. However no one does it without good reason, but it still doesn\u2019t make it any easier.<\/p>\n

Today, I\u2019ll teach you how to tell someone you don\u2019t want to be friends with them anymore or at all. Para ser sincero, n\u00e3o existe uma forma indolor de o fazer porque, independentemente da forma como o fizer, pode haver algumas emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas e ressentimentos por parte da outra pessoa.<\/b><\/p>\n

Even though you can\u2019t do it painlessly, you can, and you should do it in the politest way possible.<\/i> Stay with me until the very end, and I\u2019ll show you how.<\/p>\n

Como dizer a algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o quer ser amigo: 13 maneiras<\/h2>\n

Definitivamente, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 maneira de acabar com uma amizade com algu\u00e9m de uma forma completamente inofensiva, mas pode faz\u00ea-lo tentando causar o m\u00ednimo de dor poss\u00edvel. E aqui est\u00e1 como:<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t dwell on it<\/h3>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

A Dra. Miriam Kirmayer, uma das maiores especialistas em <\/i>aconselhamento&psicologia<\/i>, diz que <\/i>terminar uma amizade<\/i> can leave devastating consequences on a person\u2019s <\/i>sa\u00fade mental<\/i>.<\/i> However, she also agrees that sometimes it\u2019s inevitable.<\/p>\n

If you have legit reasons to not want to be friends with someone or don\u2019t trust them enough to let them into your life, just do it. <\/b>Tome a decis\u00e3o por si pr\u00f3prio e fa\u00e7a-o.<\/p>\n

If you take too much time to think about it, the other person may already consider themselves your friend. And then, it\u2019ll be even harder to tell them you don\u2019t want to be friends with them.<\/p>\n

2. Tentar faz\u00ea-lo pessoalmente<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t be a coward. Don\u2019t hide behind social media or phone calls. Buck up and tell that person you don\u2019t want to be friends with them <\/b>pessoalmente<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Explique-lhes as suas raz\u00f5es e pe\u00e7a-lhes que tentem compreender. Al\u00e9m disso, tente ser emp\u00e1tico porque a outra pessoa pode n\u00e3o reagir bem.<\/p>\n

3. Escolher o momento e o local certos<\/h3>\n

Para al\u00e9m de o fazer <\/i>cara a cara<\/i>Deve tamb\u00e9m ter em aten\u00e7\u00e3o o momento e o local onde o faz. <\/i>Este tipo de coisas pode aliviar a sua dor quando se recusa a ser amigo deles.<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m sure you want to know when the right time and where the right place to end a friendship is. And I\u2019m sorry to have to tell you the bad news, but that\u2019s something no one can give you the right answer to.<\/p>\n

4. Please, just don\u2019t start ghosting them<\/h3>\n

Ghosting that person is the worst thing you can do to them. Declining or ending your friendship with them definitely won\u2019t hurt them as much as your ghosting would.<\/p>\n

O pior e mais doloroso \u00e9 quando algu\u00e9m come\u00e7a a evitar-nos sem motivo. <\/b>Verdade seja dita, isso \u00e9 algo que s\u00f3 os cobardes fazem.<\/p>\n

Talk to them. Tell them how you\u2019re feeling. You don\u2019t have to justify yourself or your actions and decisions, but the other person definitely deserves an explanation, the reason that made you end or decline your friendship with them.<\/i><\/p>\n

5. Take care of the other person\u2019s feelings<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

As I said, you need to be empathetic towards the other person\u2019s feelings. Okay, you don\u2019t like their vibe, or you simply don\u2019t trust them, but that still doesn’t give you the right to hurt their feelings.<\/p>\n

Be polite when choosing the words to tell them you don\u2019t want to be their friend.<\/b><\/p>\n

Este facto pode ter consequ\u00eancias graves para os seus <\/i>autoestima<\/i> because that person may start thinking they aren\u2019t good enough to be part of your life.<\/i><\/p>\n

6. Ser franco e honesto sobre as raz\u00f5es<\/h3>\n

The other person needs to know about the causes and reasons that brought you to this decision. It\u2019s their right, and if you want to be fair and ser a pessoa mais importante<\/a>, you\u2019ll give it to them.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t have any legit reason but your gut feeling that you shouldn\u2019t be friends with them, be <\/b>antecipado<\/b> e dizer-lhes a verdade.<\/b> Tens todo o direito de escolher quem queres que fa\u00e7a parte da tua vida.<\/p>\n

7. Esque\u00e7a a ideia de os culpar e envergonhar pelos seus actos il\u00edcitos<\/h3>\n

Even if they did something really bad to you, you shouldn\u2019t rub their nose in it or procurar vingan\u00e7a.<\/a> Termine a sua amizade, pe\u00e7a-lhe que saia da sua vida para sempre e siga em frente como se nunca o tivesse conhecido.<\/b><\/p>\n

Soon, they\u2019ll become an ex-friend, and you won\u2019t even remember them and their wrongdoings. Forgive them if you can, and do it for your own peace of mind. Seeking revenge or guardar rancor<\/a> s\u00f3 vos impedir\u00e1 de seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

8. Don\u2019t make excuses<\/h3>\n

N\u00e3o se trata de inventar uma desculpa esfarrapada. \u00c9 preciso ser corajoso e justo e falar com a outra pessoa honestamente.<\/i><\/p>\n

Arranjar desculpas faz de si um mentiroso e um cobarde.<\/b> Also, if this is the first time you’re breaking up with someone, you should get used to it because there will be many breakups you\u2019ll need to deal with in your life.<\/p>\n

9. Don\u2019t leave them with false hope<\/h3>\n

What does this mean? You make lame excuses, tell them how you are too busy right now and can\u2019t build any new relationships, blah, blah, blah. That\u2019s all nonsense, and it\u2019s definitely not the right way to end a friendship.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ser <\/b>antecipado<\/b> and tell them you don\u2019t want to be friends with them \u2013 not now, not ever.<\/b> Qualquer outra coisa que diga pode deix\u00e1-los com falsas esperan\u00e7as de que um dia possa mudar de ideias e acolh\u00ea-los na sua vida.<\/p>\n

10. Ouvir o que eles t\u00eam a dizer<\/h3>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re finished with what you have to say, you should listen to what they have to say. They may not have anything to say at all because your decision may have been out of the blue for them.<\/p>\n

If they start begging you to think about it or give them another chance to be part of your life, you shouldn\u2019t fall for it. Mant\u00e9m a tua decis\u00e3o, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/i><\/p>\n

11. Tornar-se indispon\u00edvel para eles<\/h3>\n

When you decline or end your friendship with them, you must become unavailable. Don\u2019t answer their phone calls or text messages.<\/p>\n

Once you leave things clear between you, then you\u2019re allowed to <\/b>fantasma<\/b> eles. <\/b>You need to show them that you\u2019re really serious about not wanting them in your life as a friend.<\/p>\n

It\u2019ll be difficult if you have <\/i>amigos em comum,<\/i> mas mesmo assim deve tentar fazer com que isso aconte\u00e7a. <\/i>If your group of friends invites both of you to their get-togethers, you should skip them and wait for one they\u2019re not invited to.<\/p>\n

12. Acabar com tudo para sempre<\/h3>\n

Ending a friendship is as hard as ending a romantic relationship. Even if they are different types of love, it\u2019s still love, and you can love a friend as much, as deeply, and as strongly as you love a significant other.<\/p>\n

No entanto, quando se decide p\u00f4r termo a algo, a decis\u00e3o deve ser definitiva. There is no point in going back on your word or to someone you know for sure doesn\u2019t deserve to be part of your life.<\/i><\/p>\n

Mesmo que essa pessoa continue a tentar fazer parte da sua vida, tem de tentar bloquear todas e cada uma das suas tentativas. <\/b>Permitir que eles voltem sempre que quiserem vai prejudic\u00e1-los a ambos.<\/p>\n

13. Seguir em frente e deix\u00e1-los no passado<\/h3>\n

Mesmo que fosse um bom amigo e precisasse de acabar com a vossa amizade<\/a> for some reason, you shouldn\u2019t dwell on it for too long. God removed them from your life because they weren\u2019t good for you.<\/i><\/p>\n

Now, it\u2019s time for you to<\/b> avan\u00e7ar<\/b><\/a>. <\/b>Surround yourself with your best friends, or if you haven\u2019t got any, go out and meet new people. You never know when you will run onto someone who\u2019ll become a close friend one day.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re an introvert, I\u2019m sure you have at least one close friend with whom you enjoy spending time at home. Invite them over, and I\u2019m sure they\u2019ll help you forget about the friend you need to kick out of your life.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Porque \u00e9 que o meu ex n\u00e3o quer ser meu amigo? (Explica\u00e7\u00e3o completa)<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

How Do You Tell Someone You Don’t Want To Be Friends Through Text?<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

If you decide to do it over social media after all, or you simply don\u2019t have any other option, you need to be careful about the words you choose to use. One simple word can hurt another person more than acabar com a vossa amizade.<\/a><\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t great with words, I\u2019ve got a few examples I found online, and you can use them to break up or end a friendship in the most painless way possible.<\/p>\n

1. \u201cHi. I really need some space from our friendship for a few weeks. I\u2019m overwhelmed and can\u2019t give you my full attention and support.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

2. \u201cI appreciate the invite, but my interests have shifted in the past few years, and I just feel like we\u2019ve drifted apart.\u201d<\/p>\n

3. \u201cI am really hurt by how you behaved with me. I thought of you as my best friend. I have always valued you, but this did not matter to you. I am no longer friends with you.\u201d<\/p>\n

4. \u201cNow that we\u2019re each in different places in life and have different interests, I think it\u2019s time we take some time apart to really explore our own individual paths.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

5. \u201cIt\u2019s hard to say this, but I have to be honest and put myself first and not continue this friendship.\u201d<\/p>\n

6. \u201cWe did say to each other that we would be friends forever. But now we can\u2019t be friends. I don\u2019t want to be in touch with a dishonest friend. I had never expected this kind of attitude from you. Goodbye forever!\u201d<\/p>\n

7. \u201cLately, I\u2019ve been feeling like we\u2019re into different things. I\u2019m really busy with my new job and want to move on from our friendship to focus on that and rediscover my own hobbies and passions.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

8. \u201cDue to recent conflict, I\u2019m choosing to end this friendship.\u201d<\/p>\n

9. \u201cOur friendship is no longer what it used to be. You have made new friends, and you seem much happier with them. Let\u2019s make the mutual decision to end our friendship as I don\u2019t want to be in a namesake friendship.\u201d<\/p>\n

10. \u201cI feel like we\u2019ve grown apart recently. We don\u2019t even like to do the same things anymore.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

11. \u201cI want to be completely transparent. I\u2019ve been angry since we saw each other. This tends to happen when we spend time together, so I can no longer be in this friendship.\u201d<\/p>\n

12. \u201cI don\u2019t want to be friends with you anymore. I trusted you so much, but you were not fair to me. It\u2019s better to be alone than to be with a friend I don\u2019t trust anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n

13. \u201cI don\u2019t want to be friends anymore. This isn\u2019t healthy for either of us.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

14. \u201cWe\u2019ve both grown so much, but not together.\u201d<\/p>\n

15. \u201cOur friendship has changed a lot over the last few months, and we are no longer close. I hate you for what you did to me, and I don\u2019t want to be friends with you anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n

16. \u201cI wish you the absolute best, but I can\u2019t support you as a friend anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n

17. \u201cI need space from our friendship. Distance will help both of us understand who and what is important to us.”<\/b><\/p>\n

18. \u201cI don\u2019t want to see you anymore. Please don\u2019t try to contact me.\u201d<\/p>\n

19. \u201cI hope you can understand that I can\u2019t be in this friendship anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n

20. \u201cI feel like this friendship isn\u2019t healthy for me.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

21. \u201cI don\u2019t feel like our relationship is helping me. You matter to me, but it\u2019s getting difficult for me to continue our friendship. I think the best would be to go our separate ways.\u201d<\/p>\n

22. I can\u2019t be in this friendship anymore. I want friends who understand and support me where I\u2019m at. I hope you find that, too.\u201d<\/p>\n

23. \u201cLife has changed so much for me. I\u2019ve done some self-reflection, and I think stepping back out into the world will look different for me.\u201d<\/p>\n

24. \u201cThis is how I feel. I don\u2019t want to argue about this, and I don\u2019t think we should be friends anymore.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

25. \u201cI’ve tried to have this conversation in person many times. But it’s clear you aren’t hearing me. I don’t want to be friends anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n

How Do You Say You Don’t Want To Be Friends Anymore?<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s way harder to end a friendship than to decline to be friends with someone. Se j\u00e1 construiu esse<\/i> v\u00ednculo de amizade,<\/i><\/a> it\u2019ll be harder to end it because <\/i>uma pessoa<\/i> vai acabar por se magoar.<\/i><\/p>\n

However, sometimes it\u2019s just necessary and justified to end a friendship and kick that friend out of your life. Yet again, you should do it in a polite and gentle way so you don\u2019t hurt the other person\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que tenham feito algo de mau, devemos sempre tentar ser a pessoa mais importante. <\/b>Don\u2019t even think about getting revenge \u2013 just end the friendship for good.<\/p>\n

Be honest with them and politely explain why you\u2019re breaking up your friendship. They may or may not understand your reasons, but it\u2019s their problem.<\/p>\n

Reflex\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

If you don\u2019t want to be friends with someone or you want to break up a friendship, you can\u2019t just start ghosting that person. You\u2019re an adult, and you should behave like one.<\/p>\n

Now, you have learned how to tell someone you don\u2019t want to be friends with them in a polite way, and you should use this knowledge.<\/p>\n

Ser <\/b>antecipado<\/b> e faz\u00ea-lo <\/b>cara a cara<\/b>. <\/b>If there is absolutely no chance of doing it in person, you\u2019re allowed to do it over social media, but you need to be even more careful and gentle if you choose to do it online.<\/p>\n

Em decl\u00ednio ou <\/i>terminar uma amizade<\/i> pode magoar uma pessoa <\/i>direto ao assunto<\/i> o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ficar\u00e1 partido. <\/i>Por isso, por favor, seja delicado e tente faz\u00ea-lo da forma menos dolorosa poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

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