{"id":157489,"date":"2022-08-31T07:27:42","date_gmt":"2022-08-31T07:27:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=157489"},"modified":"2023-03-23T05:57:25","modified_gmt":"2023-03-23T05:57:25","slug":"porque-e-que-o-meu-amigo-me-esta-a-ignorar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-o-meu-amigo-me-esta-a-ignorar\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que o meu amigo me est\u00e1 a ignorar? 20 raz\u00f5es e solu\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As amizades s\u00e3o diferentes das rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas num aspeto importante: resistem muito mais facilmente \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia e \u00e0 falta de contacto. <strong>Os seus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos fazem parte da sua fam\u00edlia alargada<\/strong> \u2013 these kinds of relationships don\u2019t follow the same progression as the one with your partner, so the expectations are different.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean these relationships are unimportant, but there\u2019s an understanding about<strong> as vossas vidas movem-se separadamente at\u00e9 convergirem de vez em quando e terem a oportunidade de passar algum tempo juntos.<\/strong> Encontrar velhos amigos pode reavivar amizades e n\u00e3o ter not\u00edcias do seu melhor amigo durante uma semana raramente \u00e9 motivo de preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Still, when your friend fails to call you back more than a couple of times in a row and leaves your texts on read so often that you start to wonder, \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d there might be problems in your friendship with this person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pode ser voc\u00ea, pode ser eles ou pode n\u00e3o ser nada.<\/strong> Let\u2019s take a close look at all of these possibilities and figure out what to do in each case.<\/p>\n<h2>Porque \u00e9 que o meu amigo me est\u00e1 a ignorar? 20 raz\u00f5es e como lidar com elas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157492\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call.jpg\" alt=\"mulher \u00e0 espera de uma chamada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-waiting-for-a-call-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When your best friend isn\u2019t answering your phone calls or replying to your texts, you can\u2019t help but wonder why. Your first reaction is probably to worry that something might have happened to them, but then you check and see that they\u2019ve been online an hour ago, so you start to worry for entirely different reasons.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you usually keep in touch with your friend regularly, it\u2019s understandable if you\u2019re confused and frustrated.<\/strong> You need to know what\u2019s going on because you care for your friend and being kept in the dark by them is worse than being ghosted by someone you\u2019ve been dating.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of sitting around going crazy, thinking, \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d your best choice is to think closely about what\u2019s been going on with the two of you before they started ignoring you. <strong>A verdadeira raz\u00e3o ser\u00e1 \u00f3bvia se examinarem honesta e atentamente a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eis algumas perguntas a fazer a si pr\u00f3prio que o podem orientar para a resposta.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is it the first time this has happened or is there a pattern of behavior?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>Houve uma discuss\u00e3o ou aconteceu do nada?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Has your friend been having problems \u2013 personal, relationship, work?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>O seu amigo tem problemas de sa\u00fade mental que o possam levar a afastar-se?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is your friend usually an outgoing person or <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-minha-melhor-amiga-e-introvertida-e-eu-nao-podia-pedir-uma-pessoa-melhor\/\">um introvertido que precisa frequentemente de estar sozinho?<\/a><\/p>\n<p>- <strong>O seu amigo come\u00e7ou recentemente a sair com algu\u00e9m?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Have either of you done something that might hurt the other person?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>\u00c9 sempre um de voc\u00eas que inicia o contacto ou mant\u00e9m a amizade?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Has your friendship been rocky recently?<\/p>\n<p>- <strong>S\u00e3o ambos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amigos-falsos-vs-amigos-verdadeiros\/\">amigos reais e verdadeiros<\/a> um ao outro?<\/strong> Isto pode ser dif\u00edcil de encarar, mas sabe a resposta.<\/p>\n<p>After you\u2019ve thought about these questions and gone through the list below, you\u2019ll have an idea of what\u2019s going on and how to deal with it. Once you do, you can decide how to address the issue.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Your friend isn&#8217;t actually ignoring you<\/h3>\n<p>Most people are closer to their dearest friends than to most of their family members \u2013 after all, close friends are the family you\u2019ve chosen. <strong>It\u2019s not unusual to feel that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-melhor-amiga-nao-irmas-sangue-irmas-coracao\/\">o teu melhor amigo \u00e9 a tua irm\u00e3 de cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> ou o teu irm\u00e3o em todos os aspectos importantes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So, if you need your friend at the moment but they\u2019re not available, you might feel like they\u2019re ignoring you even when they\u2019re not. When you\u2019re feeling vulnerable and looking for the person you can trust and confide in, it\u2019s easy to feel ignored if they don\u2019t respond in the way you want them to.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Comece por analisar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o no seu todo e no seu contexto. <strong>How different is your friend\u2019s behavior from the baseline?<\/strong> If you talk every day and you haven\u2019t heard from them for two, is it a reason to worry?<\/p>\n<p><strong>What\u2019s your mental and emotional state like?<\/strong> Consider if you might be overthinking things because you\u2019re feeling needy. Before you confront your friend, ensure that they\u2019re actually ignoring you and not simply unavailable because they have to attend to their own needs.<\/p>\n<h3>2. O teu amigo est\u00e1 ocupado<\/h3>\n<p>As amizades dos adultos s\u00e3o diferentes das que tinha quando era crian\u00e7a ou estudante do liceu. Durante esses per\u00edodos da sua vida, faz amizade com pessoas que est\u00e3o perto de si todos os dias e cujo quotidiano \u00e9 semelhante ao seu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quando crescemos, temos de nos concentrar na nossa pr\u00f3pria vida e as nossas amizades mudam.<\/strong> They\u2019re no longer based on the amount of time you spend together, but you realize that your true friends are people who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ao-meu-melhor-amigo-que-me-apoiou-quando-mais-ninguem-o-fez\/\">est\u00e3o ao vosso lado quando precisam deles.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If your friend seems to be ignoring you, they might just be busy with something in their own life and don\u2019t have time to focus on you. This doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t care about you, but that, at the moment, they\u2019re simply too busy to give you time.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Even if you think that a true friend should never be too busy to at least send a \u201cttyl\u201d text because that\u2019s what you would do, take a moment and remember a time when you were swamped at work or too engrossed in a new job or a big project, or even just overwhelmed with daily life.<\/p>\n<p>On days like those, time flies and it\u2019s easy to forget about everything that isn\u2019t the problem at hand. Give your friend the benefit of the doubt, but<strong> let them know that you\u2019d like them to acknowledge you when you contact them next time you talk to each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>3. Your friend has problems they can&#8217;t share with you<\/h3>\n<p>Your friend might have problems that they don\u2019t feel like they can talk to you about or that are too personal to share with anyone at all. This could include marriage problems that they need to work on with their spouse, health issues they\u2019re facing or money problems.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re the kind of person who likes to share your burdens, it might seem like your friend doesn\u2019t trust you, but that\u2019s not true.<\/strong> Simplesmente preferem manter certas coisas em privado ou entre aqueles que s\u00e3o afectados por elas. Pode ter a certeza de que o seu amigo vir\u00e1 ter consigo se ou quando puder.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Respect your friend\u2019s boundaries. Don\u2019t ask your mutual friends if they know what\u2019s going on \u2013 let your friend come to you when they\u2019re ready. <strong>Text them something that tells them that they can count on you and don\u2019t push.<\/strong> Don\u2019t try to make them feel guilty or like they have to talk to you.<\/p>\n<h3>4. They&#8217;re hiding because they&#8217;re going through something<\/h3>\n<p>Some people withdraw when problems arise and they don\u2019t talk to others until they\u2019re okay with what they\u2019re going through.<strong> Os problemas habituais que podem fazer com que algu\u00e9m evite falar sobre eles s\u00e3o coisas que desafiam as suas cren\u00e7as e valores ou a sua autoimagem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o o deixar entrar n\u00e3o \u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-o-teu-amigo-nao-quer-saber-de-ti\/\">a sign your friend doesn&#8217;t care about you<\/a>mas que se debate com determinados problemas. Pode ser dif\u00edcil perceber quando \u00e9 que esta pode ser a raz\u00e3o pela qual o seu amigo o est\u00e1 a ignorar, e <strong>a sua resposta est\u00e1 na sua personalidade e hist\u00f3ria.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>If your friend doesn\u2019t like talking about certain issues or if they\u2019re prone to depression and avoidant moods, <strong>they might be hiding until they\u2019ve dealt with a problem, so pushing won\u2019t give you the result you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The only thing you can do is make sure that your friend knows that they can come to you if they need to \u2013 if that\u2019s how you feel \u2013 and to be understanding if they can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h3>5. O seu amigo est\u00e1 recentemente apaixonado e concentrado no seu interesse amoroso<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157493\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend.png\" alt=\"mulher a ser ignorada pela sua amiga\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend.png 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1024x678.png 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-768x509.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-960x636.png 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1080x716.png 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1200x795.png 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-1536x1018.png 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-735x487.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-335x222.png 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-347x230.png 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-520x345.png 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-640x424.png 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-being-ignored-by-her-friend-150x99.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Muitas pessoas ficam um pouco obcecadas com o seu parceiro no in\u00edcio de uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <strong>When you\u2019re newly in love, the last thing on your mind is thinking about how anyone else is feeling and your whole focus is on your new girlfriend or boyfriend.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando se trata de escolher entre o seu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-teu-melhor-amigo-vs-o-amor-da-tua-vida\/\">best friend vs. the person you\u2019re dating<\/a> to give your attention to, early in the relationship everyone hopes their friends can understand that they\u2019re just a distraction at that moment.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>If your friend has been mentioning someone they like a lot and then suddenly gone missing, chances are that they found out the other person feels the same and they\u2019re too busy for anything except their new love.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s up to you how you approach this when you talk to your friend, but be sure not to argue with them about this or make them feel that they\u2019ve done something bad.<\/strong> Diga ao seu amigo que tem saudades dele sem o obrigar a escolher.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Your friend thinks you&#8217;re mad at them<\/h3>\n<p>O seu amigo tem alguma raz\u00e3o para pensar que pode estar zangado com ele? <strong>If you argued before they went missing, they might think you\u2019re angry and don\u2019t know how to talk to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Facing your loved ones when you believe they\u2019re mad at you can be extremely difficult if you don\u2019t know how to deal with it. If there is unsolved conflict between you, your friend could simply be afraid.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019re not angry with your friend, make sure they know it. Text them something funny or plainly tell them that you\u2019re good. In case you are angry, but you\u2019d still like to talk to them, be honest about that as well.<\/p>\n<h3>7. They&#8217;ve had enough of your behavior<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe your friend is ignoring you because you&#8217;ve pushed them too far. If you repeatedly do things that your friend dislikes, it\u2019s possible that they\u2019ve had enough.<strong> You might not even know what it is, if you lack self-awareness or if you don\u2019t communicate with each other effectively.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This can be a dangerous situation if you\u2019re both stubborn and unwilling to back up. If your friend feels that your friendship isn\u2019t worth it because they doubt that you\u2019re willing to change and become a better friend, they might refuse to even try, so they\u2019re ignoring you.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio ter uma conversa para lidar com esta quest\u00e3o e tem de estar disposto a aceitar a possibilidade de o seu comportamento ter causado uma rutura. <strong>If your friendship is important to you, don\u2019t be defensive if your friend points out something you do that they dislike.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, pense em <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deves-tratar-os-teus-melhores-amigos\/\">como deves tratar os teus melhores amigos<\/a> e cultivar a vossa amizade.<\/p>\n<h3>8. A vossa amizade tem tudo a ver convosco<\/h3>\n<p>If your friend feels that you\u2019re self-absorbed and that their only role is to be an audience to your monologues, they might have decided they\u2019re not doing it anymore. Finding out if this is the case can be difficult because your friend might not think that they can tell you how they feel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You must examine yourself, your behavior and your friendship closely and openly and honestly ask yourself, \u201cIs it me?\u201d<\/strong> If your friend feels like you\u2019re not interested in them and what\u2019s going on in their life, you might come to a point where they don\u2019t want to be friends any longer.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>When a friend starts to pull back because they\u2019re unhappy in the friendship, you must figure out if this is true by being completely honest with yourself. You already know if you\u2019ve been using them not to feel lonely or to have someone to go out with and not because you care for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se quiser resolver este problema, tem de aprender a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-sinais-que-provam-que-encontraste-o-teu-melhor-amigo-para-a-vida\/\">ser um bom amigo<\/a> que presta aten\u00e7\u00e3o e oferece apoio.<\/strong> If you don\u2019t particularly care, still consider changing it and deepening your friendship because you can experience things you can\u2019t in a superficial one.<\/p>\n<h3>9. You&#8217;re holding them back<\/h3>\n<p>One of the reasons why your friend might be pulling away and ignoring you is if you\u2019ve been unsupportive and they feel like you\u2019re holding them back from what they want in life. This can often happen in friendships that begin early in life and continue for years.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you\u2019re used to your friend being in the same situation as you, you might hold them back when they try to move forward.<\/strong> Por exemplo, pode desencoraj\u00e1-lo de se mudar quando isso seria bom para ele, porque quer mant\u00ea-lo por perto. Outro exemplo: se ambos t\u00eam um estilo de vida pouco saud\u00e1vel, pode fazer com que ele se sinta mal por tentar mudar.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Has your friend been trying to change and you\u2019ve been trying to make them feel like they can\u2019t because then it will only be you who\u2019s not working on yourself?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pense na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o sem pretens\u00f5es e seja honesto sobre o que ganha com ela.<\/strong> If it\u2019s validation of your own negative behaviors, consider doing things that will improve your emotional state or your mental health.<\/p>\n<p>Opte por ser solid\u00e1rio e deixe que o seu amigo o inspire em vez de o impedir.<\/p>\n<h3>10. You&#8217;re too demanding or clingy<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 perto de uma janela e a escrever no telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/woman-standing-near-a-window-and-typing-on-phone-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Do you often demand attention, time or something else from your friend and you\u2019re used to getting it? If you often depend on your friend and get frustrated when they prioritize their own life, <strong>it\u2019s possible that they\u2019re ignoring you because they can\u2019t deal with you at the moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p><strong>Aprender a satisfazer as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-de-ser-pegajoso-e-carente-8-maneiras-de-o-fazer\/\">deixar de ser pegajoso<\/a> to stop making your friend feel like they\u2019re not a good friend if they choose themselves.<\/strong> Isto pode arruinar amizades, por isso, se gostas do teu amigo, tens de trabalhar nesse sentido.<\/p>\n<p>If your friend ignores you instead of being able to tell you that they can\u2019t help you at the moment, they feel like you won\u2019t take it well so they\u2019re not even trying.<\/p>\n<h3>11. A tua amizade \u00e9 diferente daquilo em que acreditas<\/h3>\n<p>Se acha que encontrou um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/verdadeira-alma-gemea-amizade\/\">alma g\u00e9mea amizade<\/a>mas o seu amigo raramente pensa em si fora do trabalho, dos encontros de grupo ou de outro ambiente em que habitualmente se v\u00eaem, <strong>as suas expectativas podem ser demasiado elevadas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes when you meet someone you like and want to be friends with, you might start moving too fast and trying to quickly create a connection. If you and the other person aren\u2019t in the same place, they might find it overwhelming.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Quer sair mais com eles, mas eles parecem sempre surpreendidos quando os contacta e raramente aceitam?<\/p>\n<p>Pense h\u00e1 quanto tempo conhece essa pessoa e se a falta de contacto \u00e9 t\u00e3o significativa para ela como \u00e9 para si.<strong> Se pensa nele como um amigo \u00edntimo e ele pensa em si como um conhecido, talvez seja altura de aceitar a realidade e abrandar ou seguir em frente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>12. O teu amigo tem ci\u00fames de ti<\/h3>\n<p>If your friend doesn\u2019t like who they are, they might be jealous of you and avoid you because you remind them of their own shortcomings. If they\u2019re<strong> sentir-se inseguro ao seu lado<\/strong> because you\u2019re moving forward or because you\u2019re doing things they can\u2019t, they don\u2019t want a reminder so they might be distancing themselves.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean that your friend means to hurt you, but it\u2019s a sign that they\u2019re unhappy with themselves.<strong> Se sabe como dizer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-estas-confuso-sobre-quem-sao-os-teus-verdadeiros-amigos-le-isto\/\">quem s\u00e3o os teus verdadeiros amigos<\/a>, you\u2019ll be able to decide if this friendship is worth fighting for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Help your friend if you believe that they\u2019re going through a rough patch, but if you know that they\u2019re just toxic, it\u2019s best to let them ignore you and go about your own life.<\/p>\n<h3>13. They&#8217;ve been a fake friend all along<\/h3>\n<p>People can always tell when they\u2019re involved in relationships that aren\u2019t good for them, but there are reasons why we stay in those relationships.<strong> If you\u2019ve been ignoring your intuition and accepted a one-sided friendship, this might be your chance to change things.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>H\u00e1 muitos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-um-falso-amigo\/\">sinais de um falso amigo<\/a> that can tell you if someone you care for doesn\u2019t have your best interests in mind.<strong> Se essa pessoa nunca foi um amigo para si, a dist\u00e2ncia pode ser exatamente o que precisava para se escolher e seguir em frente.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>14. O teu amigo \u00e9 t\u00f3xico<\/h3>\n<p>Passar tempo com o seu amigo deixa-o frequentemente exausto? Ele usa t\u00e9cnicas de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o, como o tratamento do sil\u00eancio ou a armadilha da culpa, para conseguir o que quer de si? Fazem-lhe elogios sem fundamento?<\/p>\n<p>If the answers to these questions are \u2018yes\u2019, you\u2019re dealing with a toxic friend.<strong> Se este tipo de pessoa o ignora, pode ser um jogo de poder e uma tentativa de obter algo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Use this chance and turn things around \u2013<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-se-distanciar-de-alguem\/\"> distanciar-se<\/a> from someone who isn\u2019t good for you and decide to let go of this friendship because it\u2019s only hurting you.<\/strong> If you\u2019ve stuck with them because you feel lonely, now you\u2019ll have the motivation and the emotional space to connect with someone else.<\/p>\n<h3>15. Tu \u00e9s t\u00f3xico<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157495\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres numa amizade t\u00f3xica\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-women-in-a-toxic-friendship-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might think that you\u2019re besties, but are you really as good of a friend as you think?<\/p>\n<p>Are you critical, dismissive or controlling? Do you only contact them when you need something or when you\u2019re bored? Do you think of them as competition? <strong>Se assim for, pode ser o amigo t\u00f3xico desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re ignoring you because they\u2019re tired of playing along and need space.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Most people don\u2019t decide to be toxic in relationships, but it happens because of insecurities and self-esteem problems.<strong> Trabalhar sobre si pr\u00f3prio e tentar desenvolver a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/qualidades-de-um-melhor-amigo-10-caracteristicas-essenciais-para-procurar-num-melhor-amigo\/\">qualidades de um melhor amigo<\/a><\/strong> que deseja noutra pessoa e perceber que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam duas faces.<\/p>\n<h3>16. You&#8217;ve done something to hurt them<\/h3>\n<p>Maybe you said something without thinking or you did something that you knew would cause your friend pain, but if you\u2019ve hurt your friend, they might not want to talk to you for a while or at all.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Of course, intent matters, but even if you didn\u2019t mean to hurt them, it still happened and your friend is either done with you or needs time to deal with it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Pe\u00e7a desculpa cara a cara e seja sincero.<strong> \u2018I&#8217;m sorry\u2019 without genuine honesty and regret is nothing.<\/strong> Assuma a responsabilidade pelos seus actos e esteja determinado a n\u00e3o os repetir se quiser salvar a sua amizade.<\/p>\n<h3>17. They&#8217;ve done something that would hurt you if you found out<\/h3>\n<p>Perhaps your friend feels guilty about something they\u2019ve done, so they\u2019re avoiding you. If they did something that they know would cause you pain if you knew, it might be the reason why they\u2019re ignoring you \u2013 <strong>o teu amigo tem medo que tu descubras.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Por exemplo, se o seu amigo come\u00e7ou a namorar com a sua ex, de quem voc\u00ea gostava, ele sabe que isso o deixaria triste, ou algo semelhante que ele sabia que o magoaria.<strong> Depois de descobrir o que se passa, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio analisar atentamente os seus sentimentos e as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pense se a pessoa o fez apesar de saber que o iria magoar e se teve a op\u00e7\u00e3o de n\u00e3o o fazer, e como se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso.<\/p>\n<h3>18. They&#8217;ve replaced you<\/h3>\n<p>Your friend stopped replying to your texts, so you\u2019re worried and you check their social media to see if they\u2019re around, only to find out that they\u2019re having a blast with new friends doing something you talked about doing together.<\/p>\n<p>Some people are flaky and easily change without consideration of other people\u2019s feelings. <strong>Para pessoas assim, os outros n\u00e3o passam de entretenimento e n\u00e3o s\u00e3o verdadeiramente importantes para elas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>Se <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-o-teu-amigo-nao-te-respeita\/\">your friend doesn\u2019t respect you<\/a> enough to let you know when they change their mind and leave you hanging, you\u2019re better off without them. It\u2019s important not to accept their excuses if they offer any because this is a sign of not being able to rely on them.<\/p>\n<h3>19. They don&#8217;t want to be friends any more<\/h3>\n<p>Eles <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-que-a-rapariga-usou-como-melhor-amiga\/\">costumava ser o teu melhor amigo<\/a>, but recently it feels like they\u2019re never around. When you contact them, they\u2019re curt and eager to get away.<\/p>\n<p>They might not be rude to you, but you feel like they\u2019d rather do anything but spend time with you.<\/p>\n<p>It might be something related to your actions, something connected with what\u2019s going on in their lives or something completely different \u2013 whatever the reason,<strong> querem acabar com a vossa amizade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>You can\u2019t force anyone to like you and if someone is not interested in being your friend any longer, let them go. <strong>Approach it the same way you\u2019d approach a breakup of a romantic relationship and protect your feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>20. You&#8217;re drifting apart<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-157496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"dois amigos a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/two-friends-talking-in-a-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, chega uma altura em que as diferen\u00e7as de estilos de vida, a mudan\u00e7a de prioridades ou simplesmente o facto de nos tornarmos pessoas diferentes faz com que as amizades terminem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When both of you are slowly drifting apart, you might be trying to preserve what you\u2019ve had, but it\u2019s not working.<\/strong> Tentar for\u00e7ar as coisas a ficarem na mesma pode acabar em amargura e ressentimento.<\/p>\n<h4>SOLU\u00c7\u00c3O:<\/h4>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been friends for a long time, it might be difficult to accept that you\u2019re not the way you used to be, but instead of thinking in all-or-nothing terms, think of it as a change.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to explicitly end things or forget about this person, but<strong> stop thinking of them as your best friend and someone who\u2019ll be there when you need them and vice versa.<\/strong> Dar um passo atr\u00e1s na <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/diferentes-niveis-de-amizade\/\">desenvolvimento da amizade,<\/a> accept that you\u2019re less close and let things go.<\/p>\n<h2>Conclus\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s natural to miss your friend when they\u2019re not talking to you and to be hurt and if you don\u2019t know why it\u2019s happening. The easiest way to figure out the answer to the question \u201cWhy is my friend ignoring me?\u201d would be to ask them, but even if they\u2019ve locked you out completely, there\u2019s still a way to pinpoint the reason.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 preciso ter consci\u00eancia de si pr\u00f3prio e ser honesto consigo mesmo e pensar na sua amizade<\/strong>. Usually, if there\u2019s a problem, all the signs are already there. In some cases, you\u2019ll have to accept that your relationship has come to an end and that the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on.<\/p>\n<p>If it was your behavior that caused your friend to distance themselves, this could be the motivation you need to think about it and decide how it should change. If your friend is going through something, let them know that they can rely on you and come to you when they\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Porque \u00e9 que o meu amigo me ignora? 20 raz\u00f5es e solu\u00e7\u00f5es Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-162642\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friendships are different from romantic relationships in one significant way: they can withstand distance and lack of contact far more easily. Your close friends are a part of your extended family \u2013 these kinds of relationships don\u2019t follow the same progression as the one with your partner, so the expectations are different. This doesn\u2019t mean&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":157497,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-157489","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Why-Is-My-Friend-Ignoring-Me-20-Reasons-And-Solutions-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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