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<\/p>\nUma paixoneta \u00e9 um per\u00edodo breve e intenso de excita\u00e7\u00e3o que nos enche de expetativa e ansiedade. Mas porque \u00e9 que desaparece t\u00e3o rapidamente? Pode transformar-se em algo mais? Porque \u00e9 que quando se tem uma paixoneta parece que o cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 prestes a rebentar?<\/p>\n
How come you\u2019re daydreaming about someone one day and you can\u2019t remember what they look like the next? <\/b>Continue a ler para encontrar respostas a estas perguntas e todos os factos sobre paixonetas que alguma vez pensou que precisava de saber.<\/p>\nFactos fascinantes sobre as paixonetas<\/h2>\n
Here are all the facts about crushes you\u2019ve been curious about and answers to most common questions about why they feel the way they do.<\/p>\n
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Quando vemos a nossa paixoneta, o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o bate mais depressa e sentimos os joelhos a fraquejar. Mas sabias que isso acontece porque o seu corpo reage a <\/b>apaixonar-se<\/b> da mesma forma que o faria se estivesse em perigo<\/b>?<\/p>\n
O comportamento humano \u00e9 frequentemente causado por processos fisiol\u00f3gicos que ocorrem no nosso corpo. O facto de reparar na sua paix\u00e3o desencadeia a resposta de luta ou fuga. <\/b>That\u2019s why you feel like everything is going haywire when you have a crush.<\/p>\n
Have you ever experienced the following symptoms when you\u2019re around your crush?<\/p>\n
\u2022 You breathe faster<\/p>\n
\u2022 Your <\/b>batimento card\u00edaco<\/b> acelera<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 You become numb to pain<\/p>\n
\u2022 You have butterflies in your stomach<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 You feel more alert<\/p>\n
\u2022 You feel weak in the knees<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2022 Your focus increases<\/p>\n
\u2022 Your appetite lowers<\/b><\/p>\n
The fight-or-flight response is a physiological reaction to stressful situations \u2013 a perceived attack or a threat \u2013 and d\u00e1 vontade de fugir para garantir a sua sobreviv\u00eancia<\/b>, or if that’s impossible, to fight for your life.<\/p>\n
O corpo liberta as hormonas epinefrina<\/b> (tamb\u00e9m conhecida como adrenalina) e <\/b>norepinefrina<\/b>que trabalham em conjunto para aumentar o fluxo sangu\u00edneo em todo o corpo e redireccion\u00e1-lo para o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e os pulm\u00f5es. O seu corpo decomp\u00f5e a gordura e aumenta os n\u00edveis de glucose para lhe dar mais energia.<\/p>\n
The next time you run into your crush, hormones are the reason why you\u2019re so shaken up.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ve already learned that you’re getting dizzy when you see your crush because of adrenaline, but os neurotransmissores e as hormonas s\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m a raz\u00e3o pela qual ter uma paixoneta \u00e9 t\u00e3o bom.<\/b><\/p>\n\u2022 Dopamine<\/h4>\n
A dopamina \u00e9 um neurotransmissor: uma subst\u00e2ncia qu\u00edmica que actua como um mensageiro no c\u00e9rebro, controlando a forma como responde \u00e0 informa\u00e7\u00e3o recebida atrav\u00e9s dos seus sentidos. It’s connected to pleasure and motivation.<\/b><\/p>\n
When you see your crush, you get a hit of dopamine, and it feels like you got a reward. You become giddy and euphoric, so it’s no wonder you want more of this feeling. \u00c9 por isso que a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de ter uma paixoneta \u00e9 t\u00e3o inebriante.<\/b><\/p>\n\u2022 Oxytocin<\/h4>\n
Your body produces another hormone when you interact with your crush or as you\u2019re apaixonar-se<\/a>: oxitocina. It’s nicknamed ‘love hormone’ and ‘<\/b>acariciar<\/b> hormone’ <\/b>because when it’s released, it gives you a warm and comforting sense of well-being.<\/p>\n Now that you know that hormones are the cause of positive feelings about your crush, let\u2019s see if they\u2019re also the reason why your crush seems to be flawless.<\/p>\n A perce\u00e7\u00e3o da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o da sua paix\u00e3o \u00e9 causada por v\u00e1rias coisas. One of them is the fact that you don\u2019t really know them, so you can project all the qualities you like in a person onto them. <\/b>You don’t get a crush on someone you know well, but someone you’re just getting to know.<\/p>\n The novelty of getting to know someone you already think of as being just the way you like makes a crush exciting. As you\u2019re getting to know them, you feel uma sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de antecipa\u00e7\u00e3o alimentada pela sua pr\u00f3pria imagina\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n If they\u2019re just as you hoped your perfect person would be like, what else will you learn about them? A perfei\u00e7\u00e3o, a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de descoberta e <\/b>dopamina<\/b> combinam-se para criar algo viciante que te faz querer estar cada vez mais perto da tua paix\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n Don\u2019t you love having a crush? Your heart races when you see the object of your affection, you can\u2019t eat or sleep and all you can think about is them. You\u2019re obsessed with your crush \u2013 until you kind of forget they ever existed.<\/b><\/p>\n One of the often repeated \u2018interesting psychological facts about crushes\u2019 is that they last four months, but uma paix\u00e3o pode durar enquanto a mantiveres<\/b>. If you keep focusing on the person you\u2019re crushing on without bonding with them, you\u2019ll have a crush.<\/p>\n A crush is a fantasy \u2013 it\u2019s a combination of physical attraction and imagination.<\/b> N\u00e3o tem nada a ver com amor verdadeiro<\/a>. Quando se conhece a pessoa, o sentimento de amor pode desenvolver-se \u00e0 medida que se estabelece uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mental e emocional.<\/p>\n Se a paixoneta se prolongar por muito tempo, pode incluir um sentimento de limer\u00eancia. Limer\u00eancia<\/b> \u00e9 <\/b>paix\u00e3o<\/b> e obsess\u00e3o baseada inteiramente na fantasia constru\u00edda sobre a outra pessoa.<\/b> Provoca problemas de sa\u00fade mental e disfun\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n Um dos sinais subtis da limer\u00eancia \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que a outra pessoa o completar\u00e1. Esta o pensamento delirante pode ser causado pelo medo da verdadeira intimidade emocional<\/b>Por isso, torna-se ainda mais forte se o objeto do seu afeto for inating\u00edvel.<\/p>\n As paixonetas podem ser t\u00e3o saud\u00e1veis ou pouco saud\u00e1veis como as fizermos.<\/p>\n Desenvolver e ultrapassar paix\u00f5es \u00e9 divertido. Sentir atra\u00e7\u00e3o e <\/b>sentimentos positivos<\/b> sobre algu\u00e9m sem agir em conformidade \u00e9 ben\u00e9fico para o seu <\/b>sa\u00fade mental<\/b>. <\/b>Chemical reactions happening as you\u2019re crushing on someone lift your mood and enrich your fantasy life.<\/p>\n As paixonetas podem ajudar-nos a compreendermo-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, mas podem ser prejudiciais \u00e0 sa\u00fade se deixarmos que ditem o nosso comportamento<\/b>. Unless you\u2019re reasonably sure that the other person is interested, confessing your feelings can cause issues. You can end up in an awkward situation, especially se perderes o interesse quando conheceres a tua paix\u00e3o<\/b>como acontece frequentemente.<\/p>\n Outro poss\u00edvel problema causado pelo facto de ter uma paixoneta \u00e9 que pode levar-nos a ignorar os sinais de alerta numa fase inicial<\/b>. Because of the unrealistic picture you have of this person, you might go on idealizing them even if they turn out not to be anything like what you\u2019ve imagined.<\/p>\n \u00c9 assim que pode acabar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel<\/b>Mesmo que a paix\u00e3o se transforme noutra coisa.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO:<\/b> 14 <\/b>Factos psicol\u00f3gicos sobre almas g\u00e9meas<\/b> Que o podem surpreender<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n A melhor maneira de superar a sua paix\u00e3o<\/a> \u00e9 esperar. As paix\u00f5es acabam, de uma forma ou de outra.<\/p>\n Quando a paixoneta se transforma em amor, este desvanece-se. <\/b>O que isto significa \u00e9 que, quando conhecermos a realidade da nossa paixoneta, a hist\u00f3ria fict\u00edcia que constru\u00edmos sobre ela desvanece-se. Ou se desvanece ou se transforma noutra coisa.<\/p>\n Algumas paix\u00f5es transformam-se em rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Quando realmente estabelecer contacto com algu\u00e9m<\/b> \u2013 emotionally, physically and mentally \u2013 you don\u2019t feel the need to look for an idealized version you constructed in your mind.<\/p>\n Por outro lado, uma paixoneta que envolve o sentimento de limer\u00eancia pode durar anos. Este tipo de paixoneta \u00e9 uma indica\u00e7\u00e3o de problemas emocionais mais profundos<\/b> e podem precisar de ser tratadas em terapia.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve had a crush for a long time and feel that it negatively affects your life and mental health, a professional can help you uncover the reason why you\u2019ve been stuck in this situation.<\/p>\n So, what\u2019s the diferen\u00e7a entre amor e paix\u00e3o<\/a>? Podem coexistir?<\/p>\n A crush happens when you project your wishes onto another person and imagine that they have certain traits you’re attracted to. Os seus sentimentos em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a essa pessoa n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada a ver com ela<\/b> and everything to do with the image you’ve created.<\/p>\n You’re emotionally invested in this vers\u00e3o idealizada da sua paix\u00e3o<\/b> e as tuas hormonas est\u00e3o a tornar-te viciada nestes sentimentos. \u00c9 por isso que as paixonetas s\u00e3o divertidas e excitantes, mas desvanecem-se rapidamente.<\/p>\n O amor \u00e9 muito mais duradouro. Quando se ama algu\u00e9m, ama-se e aceita-se essa pessoa tal como ela \u00e9, com os seus defeitos e tudo. <\/b>A felicidade deles \u00e9 importante para si, n\u00e3o apenas a forma como o fazem sentir. Apaixonar-se tem a ver com conhecer algu\u00e9m e desenvolver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n O verdadeiro amor \u00e9 sobre liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional e intimidade<\/b>. It’s a feeling that depends on personal attachment and affection. Romantic love can develop from a crush, but a crush usually simply fades away.<\/p>\n You fantasize about your crush because that\u2019s all they are \u2013 a fantasy. A tua paixoneta \u00e9 uma pessoa diferente do que tu pensas que ela \u00e9<\/b>e as suas ideias sobre eles prov\u00eam da sua imagina\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Because your crush is an imaginary personality projected onto someone you\u2019re attracted to, it\u2019s only logical that you daydream about them: they\u2019re a fictional character in a fictional situation<\/b>.<\/p>\n Imaginary conversations and situations are better than real ones anyway. When you\u2019re fantasizing, you have control of the setting, the events and the other person\u2019s reactions<\/b>.<\/p>\n In real life, what you\u2019re imagining would probably go differently. You can\u2019t predict someone\u2019s behavior<\/b> e o que vai acontecer quando falar com eles, mas na sua imagina\u00e7\u00e3o, pode.<\/p>\n Daydreaming about your crush isn\u2019t harmful or unhealthy.<\/b> In fact, it\u2019s a fun and safe way to explore what you like, what you\u2019re attracted to and what you\u2019re looking for. The only danger lies in the possibility of focusing too much on your fantasies and ignoring your life.<\/p>\n You have a crush and suddenly, everything reminds you of them. Wherever you go, you see your crush\u2019s name, the same shirt as the one they\u2019ve worn last time you saw them and you hear their favorite song.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a reason for this. It sounds like one of those weird psychological facts, and it is.<\/p>\n It\u2019s called the Fen\u00f3meno Baader-Meinhof<\/b> and it\u2019s also known as the ilus\u00e3o de frequ\u00eancia<\/b>: when you become aware of something, you start noticing it everywhere. It was there all along, but you\u2019ve paid attention before.<\/p>\n For instance, if your best friend told you about getting a Shiba Inu, you\u2019ll start noticing this breed of dog em todo o lado<\/i>. O seu vizinho sempre teve um, mas nunca se apercebeu<\/b>. Now that you\u2019ve heard your friend\u2019s news, you\u2019re seeing them everywhere you go.<\/p>\n A tua paix\u00e3o \u00e9 interessante para ti, por isso presta muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o a tudo o que lhe diz respeito<\/b>. Not to mention that your crush is always on your mind \u2013 so it\u2019s not surprising that you\u2019re noticing things related to them even if you never really cared about them before.<\/p>\n Having a crush makes you a little bit obsessed. All the hormones and neurotransmitters are to blame \u2013 o esmagamento \u00e9 inebriante<\/b>. It\u2019s an addiction that rarely has negative consequences, so it\u2019s no wonder that it makes you want more.<\/p>\n Uma paix\u00e3o tem tanto de stressante como de excitante.<\/b> Luckily, it doesn\u2019t last a very long time. If you recognize yourself in the list below, congratulations, you have a crush.<\/p>\n \u2022 You think about them all the time. <\/b>You feel weird when you’re not thinking about your crush.<\/p>\n \u2022 Your life revolves around your crush. <\/b>Tudo o que se faz pode, de alguma forma, estar ligado a eles.<\/p>\n \u2022 You talk about them all the time. <\/b>There’s no conversation you can’t turn back around to your crush.<\/p>\n \u2022 You’re always on the lookout trying to spot them. <\/b>Sai com a \u00fanica inten\u00e7\u00e3o de encontrar a sua paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n \u2022 You fantasize about imaginary situations<\/b> entre ti e a tua paix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n \u2022 You over-analyze all your interactions with your crush. <\/b>Dissecamos todas as suas palavras e gestos tentando encontrar significados ocultos.<\/p>\n \u2022 You fazer suposi\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a><\/b> sobre os seus sentimentos e comportamentos que n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada a ver com a realidade.<\/p>\n \u2022 You’re way too invested in their <\/b>redes sociais<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022 You look for any excuse to talk to them <\/b>e cada conversa torna-se o foco do seu dia.<\/p>\n \u2022 You’re floating on cloud nine<\/b> em todos os momentos, exceto quando te preocupas com o facto de a tua paix\u00e3o n\u00e3o gostar de ti.<\/p>\n \u2022 You’re jealous<\/b> de qualquer pessoa que se aproxime deles.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO:<\/b> 50 perguntas para fazer \u00e0 sua paix\u00e3o e ajud\u00e1-la a abrir-se consigo<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n Here are more facts about crushes \u2013 these are bite-sized!<\/p>\n \u2022 One of the interesting crush facts is that sometimes they\u2019re not romantic at all \u2013 it can just be um sinal de que se quer aproximar de algu\u00e9m<\/b>.<\/p>\n \u2022 You might be crushing on someone and nunca ter qualquer desejo ou inten\u00e7\u00e3o de ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/b> com eles. De facto, isto aplica-se \u00e0 maioria das paix\u00f5es.<\/p>\n \u2022 It\u2019s possible to have uma paix\u00e3o de amigo<\/b>, although they might feel a little different: you fantasize about someone\u2019s personality and what it would feel like to hang out with them<\/p>\n \u2022 Romantic crushes are the most common, even when you don\u2019t want to fazer com que a tua paix\u00e3o goste de ti de novo<\/a>. As paixonetas s\u00e3o intensas, fazendo-nos sentir t\u00e3o concentrados em algu\u00e9m que nada mais importa.<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022 Your mostly likely crush? An acquaintance, a co-worker or a friend of a friend. The bottom line is that it\u2019s going to be someone you see around, but that you don\u2019t know very well<\/b>. Quando se gosta de o teu melhor amigo<\/a>, it\u2019s more than a crush.<\/p>\n \u2022 Real life<\/b> esmaga a batida <\/b>paix\u00f5es por celebridades<\/b>. Quando se conhece algu\u00e9m por quem se come\u00e7a a apaixonar, as estrelas de cinema perdem o seu atrativo.<\/p>\n \u2022 You\u2019re more likely to crush on someone with a <\/b>personalidade semelhante<\/b> como seu <\/b>\u2013 or someone you imaginar<\/i> has a similar personality. Similar interests and personality is a good indicator of romantic compatibility, whether you\u2019re crushing or falling in love.<\/p>\n \u2022 When you\u2019re crushing on someone, you tend to refletir o seu <\/b>linguagem corporal<\/b>. Fazemos isto subconscientemente para que se sintam mais confort\u00e1veis e para lhes mostrar como s\u00e3o parecidos.<\/p>\n \u2022 Taking mirroring a step further, tamb\u00e9m podes imitar a tua paix\u00e3o.<\/b> You\u2019re not doing this consciously, but you start to feel attracted to their hobbies or taste.<\/p>\n O objetivo \u00e9 fazer com que se sintam ligados uns aos outros e impressionar a sua paix\u00e3o<\/a> por ser o tipo de pessoa que partilha os seus interesses, mas it\u2019s not done to manipulate your crush. <\/b>Instead, it happens because you\u2019re so fascinated by your crush that everything about them fascinates you as well.<\/p>\n \u2022 If they manter <\/b>contacto visual<\/b> mais tempo do que o necess\u00e1rio<\/b>, it\u2019s a good sign that a tua paix\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m gosta de ti<\/a>. If their pupils dilate when they look at you, they like what they\u2019re seeing.<\/p>\n \u2022 High <\/b>autoestima<\/b> torna-o mais atraente.<\/b> If you appreciate yourself, you\u2019re signaling to the world that you deserve to be appreciated.<\/p>\n \u2022 Flirting increases <\/b>autoconfian\u00e7a,<\/b> deixa-o de bom humor e reduz o stress e os sentimentos negativos.<\/p>\n \u2022 Do you believe in amor \u00e0 primeira vista<\/a>? Se o fizer, pode ser que o experimente. N\u00e3o existem regras ou prazos para <\/b>apaixonar-se<\/b> \u2013 everyone has their own way and moves at their own pace.<\/p>\n \u2022 The anxiety you feel around your crush torna dif\u00edcil mentir-lhes<\/b>. De facto, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que partilhe mais do que o necess\u00e1rio para criar uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o mais r\u00e1pida com eles.<\/p>\n \u2022 When you\u2019re interested in someone, you\u2019re interested in everything about them. No topic that involves your crush could ever be boring: quer saber do que gostam e o que <\/b>they\u2019re<\/i><\/b> como.<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022 Conversely, tamb\u00e9m queres que a tua paix\u00e3o te conhe\u00e7a e goste de ti<\/b>Por isso, fala de si sempre que tem oportunidade e tenta apresentar-se de uma forma que a sua paix\u00e3o ache atraente.<\/p>\n \u2022 Having a crush or being in love makes you find the object of your affection mais atrativo <\/b>than you would if you didn\u2019t have feelings for them. The reason for this is that, when we like someone, we tend to focus on their good sides and ignore the bad sides.<\/p>\n \u2022 Your body goes into overdrive when you see your crush, so it doesn\u2019t surprise that you might tend to agir de forma desajeitada<\/b> \u00e0 volta deles. Ficamos nervosos e come\u00e7amos a mexer-nos.<\/p>\n \u2022 Talking to your crush is difficult:<\/b> pode continuar a adiar e, quando conseguir falar com eles, pode demorar v\u00e1rias tentativas at\u00e9 conseguir dizer uma frase. Pode ser uma luta.<\/p>\n3. Porque \u00e9 que a tua paix\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o perfeita?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n- <\/b>Proje\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Novelty<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Addiction<\/h4>\n
4. Quanto tempo duram as paixonetas?<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Fantasy<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Limerence<\/h4>\n
5. As paixonetas s\u00e3o saud\u00e1veis?<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Healthy<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Unhealthy<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Red flags<\/h4>\n
6. Quais s\u00e3o as melhores formas de ultrapassar uma paixoneta?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n\u2022 Love<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Limerence, continued<\/h4>\n
7. Qual \u00e9 a diferen\u00e7a entre uma paixoneta e o amor?<\/h3>\n
\u2022 Crush<\/h4>\n
\u2022 Love<\/h4>\n
8. Porque \u00e9 que sonhas acordado com a tua paix\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n
9. Porque \u00e9 que tudo te faz lembrar a tua paix\u00e3o?<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Quais s\u00e3o os sintomas de uma paixoneta?<\/h3>\n
Factos divertidos sobre as paixonetas e o amor<\/h2>\n
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