{"id":15813,"date":"2020-08-06T11:41:05","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T11:41:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15813"},"modified":"2022-01-24T12:50:20","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T12:50:20","slug":"exs-regressam-6-principais-razoes-para-querer-voltar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/exs-regressam-6-principais-razoes-para-querer-voltar\/","title":{"rendered":"6 raz\u00f5es reais pelas quais os homens voltam quase sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas as mulheres j\u00e1 passaram pela mesma merda pelo menos uma vez na vida.<\/p>\n

Tinha um rapaz, havia qu\u00edmica, ele estava sempre a telefonar-lhe e a enviar-lhe mensagens, talvez at\u00e9 tenham namorado durante algum tempo e depois ele desapareceu no ar.<\/p>\n

Ele desapareceu, como se tivesse desaparecido da face da Terra.<\/p>\n

Sentir-se rejeitado pode queimar a sua confian\u00e7a. A ideia de algu\u00e9m que se vai embora para se afastar de n\u00f3s faz-nos pensar: “What did I do wrong?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Like the feeling of being unwanted isn’t enough, he also left without an explanation, without a closure.<\/p>\n

Espancado at\u00e9 ao ch\u00e3o, recusando-se a acreditar novamente no amor, tem de passar pelo fases da cura emocional<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Tens de passar pelo inferno de esquecer que ele existe para poderes dar-te outra oportunidade de amor.<\/p>\n

Tem de chorar na sua cama, tem de estar zangada com o mundo e consigo pr\u00f3pria por se ter apaixonado por um homem emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel. Tem de aprender a sorrir de novo e a perdoar-se por ter cometido tal erro.<\/p>\n

This seems like a lot of work to do and it is. It’s a process every person has to go through at least once in a lifetime. You wish you don’t, but most of us do.<\/p>\n

No entanto, acabamos por aprender a ultrapassar tudo isso. Aprende-se a curar e a perdoar. Aprende-se a deixar o passado para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Depois de finalmente encontrar a paz, adivinha quem volta a bater \u00e0 sua porta?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Oh yeah, it\u2019s him. Now, all of a sudden that you\u2019ve dealt with the fact you are not together anymore, he comes back.<\/p>\n

Ele aparece como se nada tivesse acontecido, como se estivessem apenas a fazer uma pausa porque tinham de tratar dos vossos pr\u00f3prios problemas.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que os homens fazem isso? Porque \u00e9 que decidem voltar<\/a> right that moment when you’ve finally moved on?<\/em><\/p>\n

S\u00e3o solit\u00e1rios<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll probably text you first, using the excuse that they just want to see how you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n

O que se passa \u00e9 que se est\u00e3o a sentir sozinhos e em baixo e precisam de saber que ainda se preocupam, que pelo menos algu\u00e9m se preocupa com eles.<\/p>\n

E a melhor maneira de o conseguir \u00e9 voltar a entrar em contacto consigo.<\/p>\n

Algumas mulheres acreditam neles e na sua s\u00fabita mudan\u00e7a de opini\u00e3o e pensam que os homens como eles querem mesmo voltar a namorar e sentem-se lisonjeadas por um homem se aproximar primeiro, mas na maioria dos casos n\u00e3o foi por isso que o contactaram.<\/p>\n

They probably contacted you just because they are lonely and in fact, they don’t need anything other than a lousy text back from you.<\/p>\n

Querem sentir-se importantes e querem saber que ainda o t\u00eam.<\/p>\n

Querem conforto<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o a passar por uma fase dif\u00edcil e precisam de apoio emocional.<\/p>\n

Agora, tu \u00e9s a \u00faltima coisa que ele tinha e, apesar de terem acabado, tinham uma esp\u00e9cie de liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional e de compreens\u00e3o um pelo outro.<\/p>\n

Ele quer aproveitar-se disso. Ele s\u00f3 te quer de volta porque precisa de conforto, de um ombro para chorar.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll probably vent out all of his problems on you and disappear again, like he did the first time.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t fall for that, especially after you\u2019ve been through hell and back to get over him. Men like him never change.<\/p>\n

Precisam de confirma\u00e7\u00e3o da sua autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Being single can provoke some nasty feelings in you. You can feel unwanted and ugly when the truth is far from it but somehow you can\u2019t shake off that lousy feeling.<\/p>\n

Essa \u00e9 uma das raz\u00f5es pelas quais o teu ex te quer de volta. Provavelmente ele sente-se uma merda, a sua auto-confian\u00e7a est\u00e1 abaixo de zero e ele quer alguma valida\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 melhor lugar para o encontrar do que consigo, do que voltar a algo que ele j\u00e1 conhece.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall into this trap because this is a selfish act. He doesn\u2019t want you back for you, but for himself, to make himself feel better.<\/p>\n

Esqueceram-se da raz\u00e3o pela qual se separaram em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

There was a reason people break up. He was unhappy, and maybe he told you what the problem was, maybe he didn’t but it doesn\u2019t matter anyway.<\/p>\n

O facto \u00e9 que your relationship didn\u2019t work out<\/a> por alguma raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mas agora, de repente, ele quer-te de volta. Sabes o que acontece normalmente?<\/p>\n

Passado algum tempo, a solid\u00e3o e a falta de apoio emocional levam-no a pensar na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o passada e em como era boa.<\/p>\n

Time heals all wounds, that\u2019s true, but it also idealizes the past.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what he is doing. He is remembering only the good things in your relationship and he is probably wondering why you broke up in the first place.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s the trick; then you get back together, and after the initial thrill of the new relationship wears off, the old problems come barging in and you remember why you broke up.<\/p>\n

This, of course, leads to yet another break-up, where you\u2019ll have even bigger problems to deal with.<\/p>\n

Eles s\u00f3 querem sexo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This one is easy. Men like him only want to get back with you because they want sex. He\u2019s stuck in a bit of a dry spell and he wants some action on the side.<\/p>\n

Logically, you are the first person he\u2019ll come running to because he thinks you give in easily since you are probably still emotionally attached to him.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stoop that low because he\u2019ll just use you and toss you away like he did the first time.<\/p>\n

Perceberam que cometeram um erro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This is the least probable one, but we’ll give it a try. Maybe he truly realized he made a mistake and he regrets his past actions and he realmente<\/em> quer-te de volta.<\/p>\n

Maybe he was completely miserable from the moment he broke up with you but he didn\u2019t know how to get you back.<\/p>\n

If you see that his intentions are true, if you see that he is not broken, insecure or just lonely, then he’s probably come to his senses and he wants to admit what a jerk he was for letting you go.<\/p>\n

But in the end, you are the one who decides whether you\u2019re going to give him another chance or not. you have to be damn sure about him if you take him back.<\/p>\n

if you’re not, you’re risking another heartbreak, some more tears and a long healing road ahead.<\/p>\n

\"6<\/p>\n

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