{"id":15853,"date":"2018-03-06T13:27:22","date_gmt":"2018-03-06T13:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15853"},"modified":"2022-03-04T10:52:24","modified_gmt":"2022-03-04T10:52:24","slug":"significava-ficar-juntos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/significava-ficar-juntos\/","title":{"rendered":"Se estiv\u00e9ssemos destinados a estar, ter\u00edamos ficado juntos"},"content":{"rendered":"

I was always someone who believed in fairy tales. I thought true love could conquer and defeat everything and everyone, just if it was strong enough. I don\u2019t think I looked at life through rose-colored glasses<\/span>\u2014<\/span>Esperava que fosse dif\u00edcil e desafiante, mas acreditava em finais felizes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, acima de tudo, acreditei no nosso final feliz. <\/b><\/p>\n

Eu acreditava no destino. Sempre pensei que nada acontece sem uma raz\u00e3o e que todas as pessoas que se cruzam no nosso caminho t\u00eam um objetivo na nossa vida. Acreditava no destino e que tudo o que acontece na nossa vida est\u00e1 predestinado a acontecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas acima de tudo, acreditava que eras o meu destino.<\/b><\/p>\n

Eu acreditava em almas g\u00e9meas e acreditava que s\u00f3 havia uma pessoa destinada a ser para toda a gente. E aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer e onde a vida te levar, esta \u00e9 a pessoa certa para ti<\/span>\u2014<\/span>esta \u00e9 a tua pessoa para sempre<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, acima de tudo, acreditava que eras a minha alma g\u00e9mea.<\/b><\/p>\n

Acreditei que eras a pessoa certa para mim. Acreditei que est\u00e1vamos destinados a ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

When we first met, I put all of my cards on the table. When I saw you, I felt like I\u2019d known you for my entire life. I felt like you were the one I had been waiting for all along<\/span>\u2014<\/span>eras a pe\u00e7a que me faltava. Vi todos os sinais de que eras definitivamente a minha alma g\u00e9mea. <\/span><\/p>\n

O que t\u00ednhamos era<\/span> de cortar a respira\u00e7\u00e3o. Foi o que pensei na altura e \u00e9 o que continuo a pensar agora<\/span>\u2014<\/span>t\u00ednhamos um amor como nenhum outro. N\u00f3s <\/span>completaram-se mutuamente<\/span><\/a> de uma forma estranha, como se f\u00f4ssemos uma alma em dois corpos. Tudo era como nos filmes<\/span>\u2014<\/span>we finished off each other\u2019s sentences, we understood and supported each other. And most of all, am\u00e1vamo-nos<\/a> incondicionalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como eu disse, tudo era como nos filmes. Tudo, exceto o fim.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sempre que vemos duas pessoas que partilham um amor e uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o intensos como os nossos, esperamos que acabem juntos. Espera-se um final feliz. Mas o nosso foi tudo menos feliz.<\/span>
\n<\/span>If someone had asked me why we didn\u2019t work out, I swear I wouldn\u2019t know the answer. All I know is that we both got tired of fighting all the time. We got tired of each other\u2019s stubbornness, of each other\u2019s jealousy and each other\u2019s hot temper. We were so much alike and we started to hate our own flaws once we found them in one another. But if someone had asked me what the last straw was that killed us, I wouldn\u2019t know. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tudo o que sei \u00e9 que me odiei durante muito tempo por n\u00e3o me ter esfor\u00e7ado mais. Odiava-te ainda mais por teres seguido em frente<\/a> com a tua vida enquanto eu ainda estava a tentar recuperar o que restava de mim. E eu odiava o universo. Culpava o destino por tudo o que tinha acontecido, porque tinha a certeza de que est\u00e1vamos destinados a ficar juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n

You were my soulmate, my forever person, my love, my Mr. Right, so how come we didn\u2019t work out?<\/span><\/p>\n

Durante uma das minhas lamenta\u00e7\u00f5es, um amigo meu disse-me: <\/span>\u201cIf the two of you were meant to be, you would have stayed together.\u201d<\/b> No in\u00edcio, fiquei zangado com ela. Quem era ela para me dizer uma coisa dessas? Claro que est\u00e1vamos destinados a ficar juntos<\/span>\u2014<\/span>for God\u2019s sake, we were made for each other, everyone could see that. She just didn\u2019t understand it because she had never experienced something similar to our love.<\/span><\/p>\n

But after a while, I grew to realize that she was actually right. It was one of the hardest things I had to face in life, that we were really not meant to be. For me, it was more difficult to accept this notion than the fact that we didn\u2019t work out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esta constata\u00e7\u00e3o foi a que mais me ajudou. <\/span><\/p>\n

Apercebi-me que nunca poderia seguir em frente enquanto n\u00e3o parasse de olhar para o passado. <\/span><\/p>\n

I realized I had become trapped in thinking what could have been and what might have been. I was mourning all the years we wouldn\u2019t spend together more than the time we did spend side by side. I was crying about the house we would never move into, about the kids we would never have and about the future we would never have together. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tinha a certeza de que nunca mais poderia amar, at\u00e9 que isto me ajudou:  <\/span>Recupere aquele sentimento especial e aprenda a amar novamente<\/a>. E depois percebi que tudo isto estava a acontecer por causa da minha fixa\u00e7\u00e3o de que tu e eu est\u00e1vamos destinados a ficar juntos. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, na verdade, n\u00e3o \u00e9ramos. Apercebi-me que <\/span>you weren\u2019t right for mepor muito que eu quisesse que estivesses.<\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that we didn\u2019t love each other, because we did. We were just not made for each other. It is quite simple<\/span>\u2014<\/span>aqueles que est\u00e3o destinados a ficar juntos, ficam juntos.<\/b><\/p>\n

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