It\u2019s pretty ironic since they\u2019re the ones who caused the breakup and who didn\u2019t consider their partner to be enough.<\/p>\n
And now, when they\u2019ve gotten exactly what they wanted, they start to miss them.<\/p>\n
11 raz\u00f5es pelas quais os traidores sentem falta do seu ex<\/h2>\n
Porque \u00e9 que isto acontece? Quais s\u00e3o as principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais os traidores sentem falta do seu ex?<\/strong><\/p>\n Here\u2019s something every cheater will have a hard time admitting: they doubt their decision. They still haven\u2019t reached the conclusion that they made a horrible mistake when they fooled around behind your back. Or, to be exact \u2013 they haven\u2019t admitted this to themselves.<\/p>\n No entanto, a auto-d\u00favida est\u00e1, sem d\u00favida, presente. Repetem toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o na sua cabe\u00e7a, tentando perceber onde \u00e9 que as coisas correram mal.<\/strong><\/p>\n Mas, em vez de se culparem a si pr\u00f3prios, como deviam, fazem tudo para encontrar a desculpa perfeita para a sua transgress\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quando o tra\u00edram, pensaram que era a melhor coisa que podiam fazer. Quando se afastou da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o teve d\u00favidas sobre se estava a fazer a coisa certa.<\/p>\n No entanto, foi agora que come\u00e7aram a sentir a tua aus\u00eancia pela primeira vez nas suas vidas, come\u00e7aram a sentir a tua falta<\/a> como o inferno. E este sentimento fazia-os duvidar de tudo o que faziam.<\/p>\n This type of cheater doesn\u2019t regret what they did \u2013 at least, not yet. But they sure are getting there.<\/p>\n Os traidores t\u00eam saudades do seu ex a s\u00e9rio, ou sentem apenas nostalgia dos bons velhos tempos?<\/strong><\/p>\n Look, your relationship has been anything but perfect. It obviously wasn\u2019t enough for your cheating ex; otherwise, he wouldn\u2019t have searched for happiness outside of it.<\/p>\n However, a human being\u2019s mind is a strange thing. Temos tend\u00eancia para olhar para o passado com \u00f3culos cor-de-rosa. De alguma forma, conseguimos sentir nostalgia mesmo em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos maus momentos das nossas vidas.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on in your adulterer\u2019s mind. They can\u2019t help but remember the good old days.<\/p>\n All of a sudden, it\u2019s like they forgot the reasons they cheated on you. They only feel nostalgia for the time when they fell in love with you.<\/p>\n E a verdade \u00e9 que eles querem esses tempos de volta. They want the honeymoon phase to last forever, convinced that they wouldn\u2019t cheat if that were the case.<\/strong><\/p>\n When someone commits adultery, they think that they\u2019re running away from a relationship that got stuck in a rut. They\u2019re bored<\/a> of living the same, monotonous life every day. And in most cases, they\u2019re looking for some excitement.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 this isn\u2019t an excuse for what they did. I\u2019m only trying to explain what was going on inside their heads.<\/p>\n E eles ficam mesmo entusiasmados. No in\u00edcio, a sua nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o era s\u00f3 arco-\u00edris e flores.<\/p>\n Mas o que acontece quando este novo romance se torna semelhante \u00e0quele de que fugiram? O que acontece quando come\u00e7am a enfrentar discuss\u00f5es constantes, quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a e outros problemas?<\/strong><\/p>\n Well, that\u2019s when they realize they miss you. They realize that things didn\u2019t go as planned and that they\u2019ve made the biggest mistake of their lives.<\/p>\n It looks like they haven\u2019t managed to build a healthy relationship with yet another person. Hmm, whose fault could that possibly be? LOL.<\/p>\n No matter how ruthlessly they\u2019ve behaved, deep down, your cheater knows that they left you heartbroken. They might act like they don\u2019t care about hurting you, but deep down, they know that this was the wrong thing to have done.<\/strong><\/p>\n And they\u2019re sorry for the way things went. No, this doesn\u2019t mean that they want you back, especially if they\u2019re happy in their new relationship.<\/p>\n At the end of the day, it doesn\u2019t even mean that they\u2019re sorry for committing adultery in the first place. The bottom line is that they\u2019re sorry for hurting you.<\/p>\n They have no romantic feelings for you anymore, but they\u2019re still human beings with some conscience.<\/p>\n In this case, they don\u2019t miss you in the way you assume they do. They\u2019re haunted by what they did, and that prevents them from being happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n Basically, they\u2019re terribly sorry for breaking your heart, and they want you to know that. This person wants your forgiveness.<\/p>\n Olha, ningu\u00e9m te est\u00e1 a dizer que tens de perdoar o seu traidor<\/a>. O que eles fizeram foi terrivelmente errado, e a \u00faltima coisa que merecem de si \u00e9 compaix\u00e3o.<\/p>\n However, sometimes it\u2019s a boa ideia para perdoar<\/a>. O perd\u00e3o far\u00e1 de ti uma pessoa melhor. Ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a livrar-se dos seus dem\u00f3nios.<\/p>\n It will help you be less angry and resentful. It will be beneficial for your mental health, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n But hey, the important thing is to do everything at your own pace. Don\u2019t let anyone push you into forgiving them \u2013 do it if and when you\u2019re ready.<\/p>\n When a cheater tells you they miss you, you think to yourself that they\u2019ve finally realized o que perderam<\/a>. The other woman or man they\u2019re with now can\u2019t possibly give them what they need. Besides, this is proof that they love you and that this was nothing but a huge mistake.<\/p>\n Est\u00e1 bem, eu percebo porque pensas assim. No final do dia, queres mesmo que as coisas acabem assim.<\/p>\n No entanto, se um o traidor quer-te de volta<\/a>, it doesn\u2019t have to mean that they\u2019re doing it because they still love you. In some cases, you\u2019re apenas mais c\u00f3modo<\/a> para eles, e voltar para si tornaria a vida deles muito mais f\u00e1cil.<\/strong><\/p>\n The other woman (or a man) doesn\u2019t give a damn about their needs. They don\u2019t take care of them the way you did.<\/p>\n Voc\u00ea e a sua ex-mulher ou marido t\u00eam filhos juntos. E apesar de n\u00e3o ter qualquer problema com o facto de eles verem os filhos, eles continuam a sentir-se exclu\u00eddos.<\/p>\n Now they feel left out of your family, and they can\u2019t stand that.<\/p>\n But is this possible only if you have children? What if it was just the two of you? Well, that fact didn\u2019t make you any less of a family.<\/p>\n The truth is that they don\u2019t necessarily miss you as a romantic partner. Maybe they miss everything else they had in you: a family member and a best friend.<\/strong><\/p>\n They obviously didn\u2019t succeed in building a home with the other woman or man. They might still be in a relationship with them, but they don\u2019t see them as their family. And they probably never will.<\/p>\n Os traidores sentem falta do seu ex quando provam do seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio? Claro que sim.<\/p>\n Karma got to your ex, and they\u2019re going through the same heartbreak you felt. It looks like their new girlfriend or boyfriend cheated on them as well.<\/p>\n You didn\u2019t do anything to get your revenge. However, sooner than you might have hoped, they experienced the same pain. And now, they know exactly how you felt.<\/strong><\/p>\n Isso f\u00ea-los perceber o que tinham feito. E fez com que sentissem a tua falta.<\/p>\n After all, you\u2019re the only person they have no trust issues with \u2013 the only person who would never betray them. You were the only human being in their lives who never did them any harm.<\/p>\n Well, what can you do about it? That\u2019s right, absolutely nothing. You know what they say: o karma \u00e9 uma cabra<\/a> s\u00f3 se fores.<\/p>\n All those women (or men), all those clubs, and dating apps are clearly not enough. They don\u2019t necessarily have to go to bed alone every night, but the company they have can\u2019t fill the void inside their heart.<\/p>\n It looks like everyone abandoned them. Well, at least everyone that matters \u2013 I\u2019m not counting the one-night stands they have.<\/strong><\/p>\n Os seus melhores amigos, familiares e toda a gente est\u00e1 a julgar o seu comportamento. Eles n\u00e3o t\u00eam ningu\u00e9m com quem falar. Ningu\u00e9m parece compreend\u00ea-los como tu.<\/strong><\/p>\n This person has nobody to go to. They don’t have anyone to call in the middle of the night when the despair gets to them.<\/p>\n I hate to break it to you, but this doesn\u2019t mean much, and it actually sounds better than it is. This is nothing but a sign that you\u2019re their last resort \u2013 the person they go to when everyone else abandons them.<\/p>\n Do cheaters miss their ex, or do they just think of them in certain moments? In most cases, it\u2019s the latter.<\/strong><\/p>\n Regardless of the way the breakup happened, you and your ex spent a lot of time together, and you shared some beautiful moments. It doesn\u2019t mean that they still love you just because they think of you every now and then.<\/p>\n Talvez tenham ouvido uma can\u00e7\u00e3o que costumavam dan\u00e7ar. Ou viram algu\u00e9m que se parecia contigo quando se conheceram. Talvez algu\u00e9m lhes tenha perguntado por ti, e foi a\u00ed que se perderam.<\/p>\n Either way, the point is that this person missed you at a certain moment. But they\u2019re not missing you all the time.<\/p>\n Ok, ent\u00e3o fizeste tudo de acordo com as regras. Foste nenhum contacto<\/a> no momento em que descobriu a trai\u00e7\u00e3o, e nunca mais olhou para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n You went through a massive heartbreak \u2013 there is no doubt about that. However, you never allowed them to see the pain that\u2019s been consuming you.<\/p>\n Se algu\u00e9m perguntou ou consultou as suas mensagens e estados em aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de redes sociais<\/a>, everyone would assume that you\u2019re having the time of your life.<\/p>\n You\u2019re going out with your friends, started working out, you\u2019re partying and traveling. You\u2019ve even gotten back into the dating pool. Basically, you live as if your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend ever existed.<\/strong><\/p>\n And that\u2019s exactly what\u2019s killing them. They\u2019re jealous<\/a> of these new people in your life, especially if they assume that you\u2019ve gotten into a new relationship. And this jealousy makes them miss you more than ever.<\/p>\n Does this mean that you\u2019re their only true love? Hell no! This is just a red flag that your ex\u2019s ego is broken.<\/p>\n They\u2019ve always looked at you as their possession. And they can\u2019t believe that you had the courage to move on with your life after they betrayed you in the worst possible way.<\/p>\n I mean, what did they expect? That you\u2019d cease to exist just because they couldn\u2019t keep it in their pants? LOL.<\/p>\n Tudo o que eles queriam era escapar \u00e0 aborrecida rela\u00e7\u00e3o monog\u00e2mica que tinham consigo. Arriscaram tudo e lan\u00e7aram-se no desconhecido.<\/p>\n And they had their share of fun. But now, when the adrenaline is gone, the cheater realizes something: they desperately want to go back to their comfort zone \u2013 to the relationship they had with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re the only person in the world who makes them feel at ease. Your love feels like home to them.<\/p>\n You\u2019ve had no trouble letting go. You left them to go out into the world, looking for something new, for something that would make them feel alive.<\/p>\n No entanto, assim que o fizeram, aperceberam-se que queriam voltar a sentir-se seguros. Querem voltar para si, mas pelas raz\u00f5es erradas.<\/p>\n No, this is not your dream come true. This doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re their true love. On the contrary \u2013 they want you back because they\u2019re certain that you won\u2019t hurt them.<\/p>\n They know what to expect in your boring, monogamous relationship. There is no fear, no anticipation… they\u2019re safe. So do you really want someone to be with you because of this?<\/p>\n Os traidores sentem mesmo a falta do seu ex, ou h\u00e1 sempre algo mais escondido por detr\u00e1s disso? Bem, I have to admit that a small portion of adulterers without a hidden motif do exist \u2013 all they want is a segunda oportunidade<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n Somewhere along the road, this person realized they couldn\u2019t live without you. It was hard for them to admit this, but you\u2019ve been their soulmate from the first day you two met. You\u2019re the one, and no one else can take your place.<\/p>\n Mesmo que n\u00e3o acredite neles, eles est\u00e3o a dizer a verdade. A culpa est\u00e1 a com\u00ea-los vivos, e tudo o que eles querem \u00e9 o seu perd\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n They want things to go back to the way they used to be. And they\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes to make that happen.<\/strong><\/p>\n Here they are, begging you just to give them a chance to show you that they\u2019ve changed.<\/p>\n Vai dar-lhes<\/a>? Well, you\u2019re the only one who can make that call.<\/p>\n O que \u00e9 que fez quando descobriu que o seu ex a estava a trair? Fez o maior dos dramas, lutou com a outra mulher\/homem e implorou ao seu SO que n\u00e3o a deixasse?<\/p>\n Ou lidou com isso com dignidade? Desejou-lhes boa sorte e nunca olhou para tr\u00e1s, apesar de estar destro\u00e7ado por dentro?<\/p>\n Se for esse o caso, est\u00e1 a destruir a sua auto-confian\u00e7a. You showed them that you can make it without them just fine and that you don\u2019t need them in your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n Claro que esperavam que fosse destru\u00eddo. Esperavam que mostrassem algo para al\u00e9m de indiferen\u00e7a.<\/strong><\/p>\n E agora, quando lhes d\u00e1s uma cara fria, de repente come\u00e7am a sentir a tua falta.<\/p>\n Trust me, this is not love \u2013 it\u2019s their ego quebrado<\/a>. Eles s\u00f3 querem provar que podem ter-te quando quiserem.<\/p>\n Sim, os batoteiros s\u00e3o suscept\u00edveis de lamentam os seus assuntos<\/a><\/strong>. But here\u2019s the harsh truth: in most cases, they don\u2019t regret cheating.<\/p>\n They don\u2019t regret meeting this other person, sleeping with them, let alone falling in love with them. As far as that part is concerned, they would probably do it all over again. I mean, they did it because they wanted to \u2013 nobody forced them to cheat.<\/p>\n No entanto, arrependem-se de o ter magoado. They do regret getting into a new relationship that didn\u2019t turn out to be what they expected. They do regret getting caught.<\/strong><\/p>\n E h\u00e1 uma grande diferen\u00e7a entre estes arrependimentos.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re wondering como se sente um batoteiro<\/a> depois de fazer batota, a resposta \u00e9 que tudo depende da pessoa.<\/p>\n Alguns batoteiros sentem uma descarga de adrenalina nas veias.<\/strong> They\u2019ve succeeded, once again. They feel like a superhero who went through with a secret mission and didn\u2019t get caught by the enemy.<\/p>\n At the same time, their self-esteem blows out of proportion. They\u2019re not only attractive and desirable, but they\u2019re also capable, sneaky, smart, and cunning. What a combination! People who feel this way after cheating are usually narcissists.<\/p>\n Por outro lado, alguns ad\u00falteros enfrentam uma vergonha incr\u00edvel, medo, ansiedade e culpa depois de ser infiel<\/a>.<\/strong> They\u2019re ashamed for not being able to control their urges. They are ashamed for not knowing better and for betraying their principles.<\/p>\n Sentem-se culpados pelo vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. Sentem-se culpados por terem magoado a pessoa que mais os amava, por terem feito mal a um homem ou a uma mulher de bem que lhes deu a sua confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n Alguns batoteiros sentem ansiedade e medo de serem apanhados.<\/strong> They\u2019re certain that their SO will find out about their affair and walk out on them right away.<\/p>\n Existem duas opini\u00f5es opostas relativamente a esta quest\u00e3o. Alguns dizem que a resposta \u00e9 sim, enquanto outros se op\u00f5em a ela.<\/p>\n Someone who loves you doesn\u2019t cheat on you. Someone who loves you won\u2019t lay eyes on another person.<\/p>\n In fact, they\u2019d rather spend the rest of their life alone than with someone else. They couldn\u2019t and wouldn\u2019t break your heart, even if their life depended on it.<\/p>\n At least, that\u2019s how things should be, right? Well, sadly, in most cases, this sounds like a fairytale. And real life is nothing like a fairytale.<\/p>\n Na vida real, as pessoas enganam as pessoas que amam<\/a>. In real life, people love their partners and, despite that, visit dating sites to find a new girlfriend or boyfriend, go to social media and like other people\u2019s pics, or go clubbing to flirt with someone they\u2019ve met for the first time.<\/strong><\/p>\n A falta de amor rom\u00e2ntico n\u00e3o \u00e9 a \u00fanica raz\u00e3o pela qual as pessoas fazem batota<\/a>. Muitas pessoas fazem-no porque anseiam por satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, outras por causa das suas inseguran\u00e7as e outras ainda fazem batota num momento de fraqueza. Mas em todos estes cen\u00e1rios, os traidores continuam a amar o seu parceiro principal.<\/p>\n Why did you want to know the answer to the question, \u201cDo cheaters miss their ex?\u201d Be honest!<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c9 porque o seu ex-namorado ou namorada que o trai d\u00e1 sinais de que sente a sua falta? Ent\u00e3o, e se ele sentir?<\/strong><\/p>\n I hope you\u2019re not thinking of recuperar o seu ex<\/a> just because they\u2019ve shown some signs of remorse. Why didn\u2019t they think of the consequences of their actions in time?<\/p>\n1. Auto-d\u00favida<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. Nostalgia<\/h3>\n
3. Things didn\u2019t work out the way they planned<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Eles querem o teu perd\u00e3o<\/h3>\n
Deve perdoar-lhes?<\/h4>\n
5. You\u2019re more convenient<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. T\u00eam saudades da fam\u00edlia<\/h3>\n
7. O karma apanhou-os<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. They\u2019re lonely, and you\u2019re their last resort<\/h3>\n
9. Algo fez com que se lembrassem de si<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. They\u2019re jealous<\/h3>\n
Porque \u00e9 que eles t\u00eam ci\u00fames?<\/h4>\n
11. You\u2019re their comfort zone<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nO que \u00e9 que isto significa?<\/h4>\n
12. Querem uma segunda oportunidade<\/h3>\n
13. Destruiu a sua autoestima<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\nOs traidores arrependem-se?<\/h2>\n
Como \u00e9 que os traidores se sentem depois da trai\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n
As pessoas que traem continuam a amar o seu parceiro?<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nPara terminar:<\/h2>\n
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