{"id":15866,"date":"2020-08-06T13:37:28","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T13:37:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15866"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:45:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:45:58","slug":"agora-perceber-que-nao-e-capaz-de-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/agora-perceber-que-nao-e-capaz-de-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Agora percebo que n\u00e3o \u00e9s capaz de amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

As pessoas estavam sempre a dizer-me que nem todos nascemos para o amor. Mas eu recusava-me a aceitar isso. <\/span><\/p>\n

Acreditava que todos est\u00e1vamos destinados a amar e a ser amados, mas que algumas pessoas precisavam de mais tempo para descobrir essa capacidade.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 te conhecer.<\/b><\/p>\n

From the day you crossed my path, you were a closed person. It was obvious that you\u2019d built thick walls high around you and you didn\u2019t have any intention of letting anyone in.<\/span><\/p>\n

I knew nothing about your past. I still don\u2019t know if you had loved anyone before, if you were a different person before I met you.<\/span> <\/b><\/p>\n

I just know you didn\u2019t love me. And I always knew it.<\/b><\/p>\n

Isto era quase imposs\u00edvel de aceitar. Por isso, tentei mentir a mim pr\u00f3prio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fingi que me amavas, mas que eras apenas um homem de poucas palavras. Mas as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es tamb\u00e9m mostravam a tua indiferen\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, gostavas de mim, gostavas de passar tempo comigo e gostavas da minha companhia. <\/span>Mas tu nunca me amaste.<\/b><\/p>\n

Estava sempre a perguntar-me o que estava a fazer de errado. Eu era paciente, carinhoso e atencioso. <\/span>Eu dei-te tudo<\/span><\/a> e nunca pedi nada em troca e mesmo isso n\u00e3o foi suficiente.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t even ask you to love me back, because deep down, I knew that was impossible. I wished for it but I never expected it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estava sempre a imaginar diferentes cen\u00e1rios na minha cabe\u00e7a. Estava \u00e0 procura de desculpas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que estava t\u00e3o frio e fechado?<\/span><\/p>\n

Houve momentos em que me convenci de que existia algu\u00e9m que te magoou no passado e que te deixou assim. Deve ter havido uma mulher que te destruiu. <\/span><\/p>\n

Durante muito tempo, quis acreditar nisso. Era a \u00fanica explica\u00e7\u00e3o l\u00f3gica. Al\u00e9m disso, justificava-o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Na verdade, eras um rapaz sens\u00edvel, cheio de amor, que s\u00f3 estava \u00e0 espera que algu\u00e9m o curasse. Eras amargo por uma raz\u00e3o e nada disto foi culpa minha.<\/span><\/p>\n

But then I became jealous of that imaginary woman. What did she have that I didn\u2019t? <\/span><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que ela recebeu o teu amor? Ent\u00e3o desisti dessa ideia.<\/span><\/p>\n

After a lot of thought, I came to the conclusion that actually nobody had hurt you in the past. There didn\u2019t exist this mysterious woman who was responsible for all of my misery. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe nobody had loved you enough, so you couldn\u2019t know what love was all about. So I made it my mission to show you the greatness of love. I thought if I just loved you enough, I would soften your heart and sooner or later, you would love me back.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that didn\u2019t work either.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t help but wonder<\/span>\u2014<\/span>why wasn\u2019t I enough for you<\/span><\/a>? Havia alguma coisa que eu pudesse fazer para te fazer mudar de ideias? <\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o era suficientemente bonita? N\u00e3o era suficientemente interessante? Ou inteligente o suficiente? <\/span><\/p>\n

Qual era o problema? Era eu? Ou foi voc\u00ea?<\/span><\/p>\n

E, ao fim de muitos anos, fiquei cansado e nada me relaxava a n\u00e3o ser isto: <\/span>Relaxe profundamente agora com a indu\u00e7\u00e3o da bola de cristal. <\/a>Estava farto de esperar por algo que nunca iria acontecer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fiquei livre de todas as mentiras que estava sempre a contar a mim pr\u00f3prio. E deixei de ter esperan\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Foi uma das coisas mais dolorosas que tive de fazer, mas <\/span>Desisti de ti.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Apercebi-me <\/span>there wasn\u2019t anything I could to make you love me.<\/b> Ambos sabemos que eu tentei. E podia ter continuado a tentar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, infelizmente, nada teria mudado.<\/span><\/p>\n

And I am sorry. I really am. I am not sorry for me, despite all the pain I\u2019ve been through. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tenho pena de si<\/b>porque nunca experimentar\u00e3o as belezas do amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now I know that both of my theories about you were probably not true. I spent years racking my brains, trying to realize why you couldn\u2019t be different, why you couldn\u2019t love me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, na verdade, \u00e9 bastante simples<\/span>\u2014<\/span>n\u00e3o \u00e9s capaz de amar. E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que eu possa fazer sobre isso.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Agora
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People kept telling me that we were not all born for love. But I refused to accept that. I believed that we were all destined to love and to be loved but that there are some people who needed more time to discover that capacity. Until I met you. From the day you crossed my…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121676,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15866","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Now-I-Realize-That-You-Are-Not-Capable-Of-Love-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15866","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15866"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15866\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121676"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15866"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15866"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15866"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}