O seu caminho estava coberto de espinhos que a faziam sangrar mais, a cada passo que dava em dire\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 sua felicidade, \u00e0 sua fuga.<\/p>\n
Mas essas feridas sararam e deixaram de sangrar. Depois disso, ficou com cicatrizes que ficaram gravadas na sua pele como uma lembran\u00e7a daquilo por que tinha passado.<\/p>\n
Ela curou-se e aqui est\u00e1 como.<\/p>\n
Ela decidiu curar-se<\/h2>\n
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Aconteceu do nada. O seu mecanismo de prote\u00e7\u00e3o saltou e disparou, gritando que era agora ou nunca.<\/p>\n
Ela sabia que tinha de fazer alguma coisa. Estava farta de manipula\u00e7\u00f5es e de se sentir um peda\u00e7o de merda, indigna da vida.<\/p>\n
She knew that wasn\u2019t her and finally, she decided she would do something about it. She decided she would bring back her old self because no one had that kind of consuming power over her to make her stay in the condition she was in. She learned how to deal with narcissistic behavior. <\/p>\n
Ela livrou-se da toxicidade<\/h2>\n
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She is an empath and she has always walked in other people\u2019s shoes, trying to understand how they felt, so she walked in the shoes of her narcissist and that destruiu-a<\/a>. Ele derramou toxicidade no seu corpo e mente, mas ela sabia disso e sabia que tinha de se livrar dele.<\/p>\n Falou com as pessoas que a apoiaram em todas as fases do processo, juntou-se a grupos de apoio e conseguiu libertar-se da toxicidade dele.<\/p>\n It didn\u2019t happen overnight and it was painful but she was brave enough to take this step. This way, she was one step closer to healing completely.<\/p>\n She was feeling anxious because now all of a sudden there was no more fighting and screaming in her life. There was no one there to tell her what to do or manipulate and guilt-trip her into doing something she didn\u2019t want to do.<\/p>\n She wasn\u2019t observed and judged, she was finally free and she didn\u2019t know how to deal with it. It was all too much, too soon. Imagine that you\u2019ve been in bed for months and now that you are getting better, you feel you can walk and you want to walk, but you can\u2019t. Your body doesn\u2019t let you.<\/p>\n Her body didn\u2019t let her relax. It was still hurt and didn\u2019t know how to function again. So she gave it some time.<\/p>\n Ela encarou-a ansiedade<\/a> and her fears because she knew it wouldn\u2019t last forever. It was only a phase which would pass and she would come out of it as a winner.<\/p>\n She didn\u2019t hold her feelings inside her because she knew that would only destroy her more. She knew she wouldn\u2019t be able to continue pretending nothing had happened because she felt everything.<\/p>\n She couldn\u2019t turn off her feelings, she needed to accept them and be angry\u2014be angry at him for taking advantage of her and be angry at herself for letting him.<\/p>\n Sentia dores por todo o corpo, dores psicol\u00f3gicas que se transformaram em dores f\u00edsicas, e estava zangada com isso. Estava zangada consigo pr\u00f3pria porque tinha deixado o seu corpo sofrer, juntamente com o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e a sua alma.<\/p>\n Mas isso tamb\u00e9m passou e ela passou para o desafio seguinte.<\/p>\n She forgave herself because she knew it wasn\u2019t her fault. She knew he was sick and his manipulations were strictly designed to stray her from her path and bring her to him so he could perform his magic, and suck the blood out of her like the vampiro emocional<\/a> ele era.<\/p>\n She accepted he was toxic and his only goal was to hurt her; it\u2019s the way he functioned. She realized she had been used and she had fallen into a narcissistic trap, from which she barely escaped. She forgave herself because she didn\u2019t know any better.<\/p>\n Ela era uma pessoa emp\u00e1tica que s\u00f3 queria ajudar e fazer as pessoas sorrirem. No final, conseguiu, mas isso consumiu-a e deixou-a sem nada dentro de si para al\u00e9m de dor e sofrimento.<\/p>\n Finalmente assumiu a responsabilidade e admitiu que uma parte dela sabia o que se estava a passar desde o in\u00edcio, mas era muito mais f\u00e1cil acreditar que ele iria mudar e tornar tudo melhor novamente.<\/p>\n She fooled herself because it meant she didn\u2019t have to go through everything she did, she didn\u2019t have to be heartbroken, and she didn\u2019t have to take the path to recovering from a narcissist, which is extremely painful and long.<\/p>\n Os narcisistas voltam. Far\u00e3o tudo o que for preciso para a ter de volta. Mentem e tentam manipul\u00e1-la para que volte a confiar neles, para que volte para eles e eles possam abusar de si outra vez.<\/p>\nEla teve de lidar com a crise<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEla deixou-se zangar<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEla perdoou-se a si pr\u00f3pria aceitando a verdade<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEla confessou que sempre soube<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEla respeitou a regra de n\u00e3o contacto<\/h2>\n
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