{"id":15911,"date":"2018-03-07T10:55:46","date_gmt":"2018-03-07T10:55:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15911"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:14:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:14:18","slug":"carta-aberta-do-rapazinho-de-merda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-do-rapazinho-de-merda\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma Carta Aberta Ao Cabr\u00e3o de Quem J\u00e1 Cuidei"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando recordo esse tempo contigo na minha cabe\u00e7a, sinto-me como se estivesse sob uma esp\u00e9cie de feiti\u00e7o. Devia estar, porque estava a agir completamente fora do meu car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n

I lost all control I had over myself. All I knew was you, all I craved was you, and I couldn’t snap out of it\u2014no matter what you did, I was always there.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3s demo-nos bem desde o in\u00edcio. Senti que podia confiar em ti. Abri-me contigo t\u00e3o facilmente e na altura tinha dificuldade em abrir-me com estranhos. <\/b><\/p>\n

Acho que me parecias familiar. N\u00e3o fazia ideia que ias trair a minha confian\u00e7a t\u00e3o facilmente. N\u00e3o fazia ideia de que n\u00e3o passavas de um cabr\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n

Eu devia saber. Nunca pass\u00e1mos por isso fase de lua de mel<\/a> de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Os jogos come\u00e7aram de imediato.<\/p>\n

I would text you and you would answer in a few hours or even a few days. You would always come back with some lame excuses why you couldn’t answer right away.<\/p>\n

You were so good at telling lies that I would hang on to every word you said. It was like my common sense abandoned me and I couldn’t think for myself anymore.<\/p>\n

Acho que queria tanto acreditar em ti que at\u00e9 as mentiras mais comuns pareciam a pura verdade.<\/p>\n

A maior parte das vezes, quando combin\u00e1vamos encontrar-nos ou fazer algo juntos, cancelavas \u00e0 \u00faltima hora.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 me ligavas quando te era conveniente, de prefer\u00eancia a altas horas da noite, quando n\u00e3o t\u00ednhamos mais nada para fazer sen\u00e3o estar no meu apartamento. E mesmo antes de apareceres, eu sabia que \u00edamos acabar na minha cama, por mais que eu tentasse n\u00e3o o fazer.<\/p>\n

I couldn’t resist you. We had chemistry, we had tens\u00e3o sexual<\/a> t\u00e3o forte que o meu corpo se arrepiava sempre que te via.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 para n\u00e3o falar que, quando t\u00ednhamos algum tipo de contacto f\u00edsico, eu s\u00f3 te queria mais e mais. Estava viciado em ti e na paix\u00e3o que provocavas dentro de mim.<\/p>\n

Acho que a combina\u00e7\u00e3o das tuas palavras doces e da tua paix\u00e3o foi o que me deixou t\u00e3o viciada em ti. Quanto mais tempo pass\u00e1vamos juntos, mais eu me interessava.<\/p>\n

Apaixonei-me tanto e t\u00e3o intensamente por ti que me perdi no processo.<\/p>\n

O mais triste de tudo \u00e9 que nunca foste meu como eu fui tua. Eu dei tudo de mim e tudo o que recebi em troca foram mentiras, jogos e enganos. Brincaste comigo como se eu fosse uma marioneta num fio que se movia ao teu comando.<\/b><\/p>\n

E mexi-me como queria, ao ponto de a corda com que me segurava come\u00e7ar a doer. Chorava at\u00e9 adormecer sempre que me falhavas de alguma forma.<\/p>\n

De repente, percebi que s\u00f3 estava a receber migalhas do teu afeto. Sempre me deste o suficiente para me agarrar, mas nunca demasiado.<\/p>\n

I guess my tears woke me up. They cleared my view and I could see you were nothing more than a fuckboy playing with my feelings like they didn\u2019t mean anything.<\/p>\n

I had to leave, even though I wanted to stay. I just couldn’t put up with your games anymore.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I won’t lie, it was hard at first but in the end, it was the best thing I ever did. I know you thought I would come back.<\/p>\n

I even thought I would come back, on one of those lonely nights when your name would light up my screen. But I resisted, I fought with myself and I just repeated to myself, ” He will never change,” and, ” You deserve better.”<\/p>\n

E sabes que mais? Eu tinha raz\u00e3o. Eu merecia melhor e encontrei algu\u00e9m melhor. Algu\u00e9m que manda mensagens imediatamente. Algu\u00e9m que nunca desmarca os nossos planos sem uma raz\u00e3o leg\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o tenha medo de me chamar namorada. Algu\u00e9m que se orgulha de estar comigo. Algu\u00e9m que nunca \u00e9 a causa das minhas l\u00e1grimas; \u00e9 ele que as enxuga. Ele \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que se preocupa comigo tanto quanto eu me preocupo com ele.<\/p>\n

Lamento que nunca o tenhas experimentado, mas acho que \u00e9s incapaz de sentir. N\u00e3o estou a dizer isto para ser m\u00e1, estou a dizer isto na esperan\u00e7a de que leia isto e reflicta sobre as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

I hope you will see that you are on the wrong path. I hope for your sake, one day you will stop playing games and see that the beginning of true happiness is making the woman next to you happy. If you keep attracting fuckboys and other unavailable men in your life, maybe it\u2019s time to change your patterns.<\/p>\n

Descarregar Homens indispon\u00edveis V\u00edcio<\/i><\/a> and see how your patterns will change. It\u2019s time for a real and loving relationship with somebody worthy of you.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When I go back to that time with you in my head, I feel like I was under some kind of a spell. I must have been because I was acting completely out of character. I lost all control I had over myself. All I knew was you, all I craved was you, and I…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":119628,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15911","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Fuckboy-I-Once-Cared-For-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15911","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15911"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15911\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119628"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15911"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15911"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15911"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}