{"id":15919,"date":"2020-10-07T11:06:43","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T11:06:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15919"},"modified":"2022-07-15T07:56:40","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T07:56:40","slug":"finalmente-a-apanhar-pecas-em-movimento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/finalmente-a-apanhar-pecas-em-movimento\/","title":{"rendered":"Este sou eu, finalmente a apanhar os peda\u00e7os e a seguir em frente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sempre esperei que esse dia chegasse e que eu pudesse ser livre. A bela sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de realiza\u00e7\u00e3o apoderou-se de mim no momento em que percebi que tinha finalmente reunido for\u00e7as para pegar em todos os meus peda\u00e7os que foram deixados \u00e0 sua porta e seguir em frente. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/por-favor-nao-me-odeiem-por-seguir-em-frente\/\">Estou a seguir em frente<\/a>, finalmente.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este sou eu. A vers\u00e3o pequena e fr\u00e1gil de mim pr\u00f3prio. <\/b> The one you said was too weak for this harsh world. I want you to look again and see me rise above everything I have been through. I&#8217;m packing my stuff. I&#8217;m leaving.<\/p>\n<p>Does it sound intimidating now that you know that the little, shy and weak girl you&#8217;ve been using to please your every need is finally able to move on and do something that will make her happy?<\/p>\n<p>A ideia de eu estar feliz faz-te pensar no teu julgamento? Quando disseste que <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/blue-sarno\/2017\/09\/im-learning-how-to-be-happy-without-you\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> Nunca poderia ser feliz sem ti <\/a> Acreditei mesmo em ti, mas olha para mim agora. A minha vida nunca foi t\u00e3o bonita.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t mistake this strength and this amount of self-respect to last too long, because I will break. I will be honest with you, I will break at one point.<\/p>\n<p>But I won&#8217;t come back. I won&#8217;t ever come back. When one day every atom of my body is screaming for your touch and my ears are aching to hear your voice, I will suffer alone in my room, far away from you. You won&#8217;t even know that it&#8217;s happening.<\/p>\n<p><b>Esta sou eu, finalmente a encontrar-me.<\/b> Perdi tudo quando estava contigo. Perdi o brilho da minha pele e a luz dos meus olhos. Perdi todos aqueles belos momentos de alegria e a minha gargalhada que tanto gostava tamb\u00e9m se foi.<\/p>\n<p>Some moments I&#8217;d be standing in front of the mirror, not recognizing that dead body standing in front of me. Today, I am looking that strong woman right in the eye and the mirror doesn&#8217;t frighten me anymore. It encourages me to hold my hands up straight and to catch all the pieces of me I once called my own.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123703 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher de cabelo castanho comprido ri-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/a-woman-with-long-brown-hair-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Este sou eu, finalmente a afastar-me. <\/b> Olha bem para mim, pela \u00faltima vez. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-razoes-pelas-quais-uma-mulher-forte-se-vai-embora-e-nunca-mais-volta\/\"> Nunca mais ver\u00e1s isto <\/a> face this close. Maybe you\u2019ll see it in a stranger or in that stranger across the street who kind of looks a bit familiar as well.<\/p>\n<p>That person will be me and you will regret the moment you let this happen. You&#8217;ll remember all those times you let me fall for you without you catching me. You&#8217;ll remember the way you&#8217;d look at me with your cold eyes while I was trying to explain to you that the books you burned were the books I was given for my birthday; my grandmother still thinks I have them.<\/p>\n<p><b>Este sou eu, finalmente a ver a verdade.<\/b> Tu nunca me amaste. Usaste-me para tornar a tua vida um pouco menos miser\u00e1vel. Era muito mais f\u00e1cil fazer-me sofrer do que ver o caminho <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-minha-vida-esta-a-desmoronar-se\/\">a sua vida estava a desmoronar-se.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Sem emprego, sem vida, sem alma. S\u00f3 te restam arrependimentos e remorsos. Ainda bem que eu vi a verdade e que n\u00e3o me deixei cair ainda mais nas tuas mentiras e manipula\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n<p><b>Isto sou eu, a ser livre.<\/b> Haver\u00e1 alturas em que me lembrarei de ti e em que me magoar\u00e1s, algures no fundo do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, onde coloco todas as pessoas que um dia significaram algo para mim (h\u00e1 muito tempo).<\/p>\n<p>Mas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/libertar-se-do-abuso-emocional\/\"> Serei livre <\/a> . Vou libertar-me das tuas m\u00e3os torturantes e das tuas palavras pungentes. Neste momento, estou a libertar-me das tuas garras e estou a recuperar.<\/p>\n<p><b>Esta sou eu, finalmente a apanhar os peda\u00e7os e a seguir em frente. Finalmente reuni for\u00e7as.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-123702 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Me-Finally-Picking-Up-The-Pieces-And-Moving-On-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Este sou eu, finalmente a apanhar os peda\u00e7os e a seguir em frente\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Me-Finally-Picking-Up-The-Pieces-And-Moving-On-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Me-Finally-Picking-Up-The-Pieces-And-Moving-On-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Me-Finally-Picking-Up-The-Pieces-And-Moving-On-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Me-Finally-Picking-Up-The-Pieces-And-Moving-On-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Me-Finally-Picking-Up-The-Pieces-And-Moving-On-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had always hoped that this day would come and that I could be free. The beautiful feeling of fulfillment came over me the moment I realized that I had finally gathered up the strength to pick up all my broken pieces that were left in front of your door and to move on. I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":123701,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/This-Is-Me-Finally-Picking-Up-The-Pieces-And-Moving-On-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15919"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15919\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123701"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}