{"id":159190,"date":"2022-10-28T10:23:34","date_gmt":"2022-10-28T10:23:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159190"},"modified":"2022-11-07T12:18:16","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T12:18:16","slug":"porque-e-que-as-pessoas-namoram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-as-pessoas-namoram\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que as pessoas namoram? 13 raz\u00f5es mais comuns e l\u00f3gicas"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019m sure we have all asked ourselves this one question at least once in our lives… Why do <\/span>pessoas data<\/span>? Why do we feel the need to find someone we\u2019ll build that emotional connection with?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And? Were you ever able to find the right answer to that question? I\u2019m sure you weren\u2019t, but today is your lucky day because that answer is about to be revealed in this article.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, a more important question you need to know the answer to is, \u201cWhy should people engage in <\/span>romantic relationships?\u201d<\/span> E s\u00f3 h\u00e1 uma raz\u00e3o para isso: o amor, claro.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se a sua raz\u00e3o for outra que n\u00e3o essa, deve realmente reconsiderar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/i>Otherwise, you\u2019ll never be able to maintain a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o significativa<\/span> com o seu parceiro ou qualquer outra pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque \u00e9 que as pessoas namoram: 13 raz\u00f5es<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Sem mais demoras, apresento-vos esta lista das raz\u00f5es mais comuns e frequentes pelas quais as pessoas<\/span> data<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o das necessidades emocionais<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Somos todos seres humanos emocionais com as nossas pr\u00f3prias<\/span> necessidades emocionais<\/span><\/a>. Entre essas necessidades, amar e ser amado s\u00e3o as mais importantes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Todos n\u00f3s queremos encontrar a nossa outra metade, algu\u00e9m que nos complete<\/b>. It\u2019s just a part of our nature and something our hearts deeply long for.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Outras necessidades emocionais que satisfazemos atrav\u00e9s de <\/span>namoro rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span> s\u00e3o o sentimento de liga\u00e7\u00e3o, o sentimento de perten\u00e7a a algu\u00e9m e o facto de ser apoiado, apreciado, compreendido e respeitado.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Namoro principalmente por estas raz\u00f5es, e espero que a maioria das outras pessoas tamb\u00e9m o fa\u00e7a.<\/span> I hope that one day, I\u2019ll find the kind of relationship that will make me feel like I\u2019m on cloud nine… <\/em><\/span><\/i>To find that one person who\u2019ll love me unselfishly and unconditionally and be able to fulfill all of my needs. And, of course, I\u2019ll try to reciprocate in the same way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Obter a compreens\u00e3o e o apoio de que todos precisamos<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Fechar <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span> e encontros permitem que as pessoas se liguem umas \u00e0s outras e fa\u00e7am <\/span>uns aos outros<\/span> sentir-se compreendido e apreciado. E todos n\u00f3s sabemos o quanto essas coisas significam para todos n\u00f3s.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s such a relief to know you have someone you can send a text message to in the middle of the night or simply whenever you feel bad or need someone to talk to.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s even better to know you can always count on that person understanding because you know they\u2019re the last one who would dare to judge you. <\/span><\/i>They may not always justify your actions, but they\u2019ll definitely try to find a way to understand them, all in the name of the love they feel for you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. O namoro como um <\/b>autoestima<\/b> impulso<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A verdade \u00e9 que todos entramos na <\/span>mundo dos encontros<\/span> como <\/span>jovens adultos<\/span> em <\/span>escola secund\u00e1ria,<\/span> e, nessas alturas, todos n\u00f3s nos debatemos um pouco com a fragilidade <\/span>autoestima<\/span>. No entanto, tudo isso muda quando entramos na idade adulta <\/span>vida amorosa<\/span>, melhorar a nossa <\/span>compet\u00eancias sociais<\/span> e encontrar aquela pessoa que nos motiva a sermos mais felizes com a nossa <\/span>vida pr\u00f3pria<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first time you notice your dating partner doesn\u2019t positively affect your self-esteem, you should stop dating them.<\/strong> <\/b>Sooner or later, it\u2019ll turn into a toxic type of relationship, and you\u2019ll end up hurt or lose your self-esteem completely.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Cuidar da sua vida social<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Alguns <\/span>pessoas data<\/span> simply because they want to meet new people and keep their social life flourishing. Of course, that can never happen if you don\u2019t put yourself out there in the <\/span>cena de encontros<\/span> e estar aberto a conhecer novas pessoas.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este tipo de pessoas tem capacidades sociais perfeitas e considera os encontros extremamente divertidos e interessantes. Passam todo o seu tempo livre em diferentes aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros, \u00e0 procura de novos parceiros de encontros.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re particularly interested in <\/span>sites de encontros<\/span> que oferecem o dobro ou <\/span>datas do grupo<\/span> porque consideram que \u00e9 a oportunidade perfeita para conhecerem muitas pessoas novas e alargarem o seu c\u00edrculo de amigos e conhecidos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Tentar compreender e conhecer o <\/b>sexo oposto<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Esta \u00e9 uma raz\u00e3o muito interessante para as pessoas namorarem. <\/span>Alguns de n\u00f3s usam os encontros simplesmente para conhecer o sexo oposto e descobrir quais s\u00e3o as suas prefer\u00eancias, perspectivas e formas de pensar.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pode ser por simples curiosidade ou porque pensam que isso os ajudaria a construir e manter <\/span>uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span><\/a> com algu\u00e9m do sexo oposto.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Medo da solid\u00e3o<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s admit it, we are all afraid of <\/strong><\/b>estar sozinho<\/b><\/strong><\/a> e solit\u00e1rio.<\/strong> <\/b>And it\u2019s definitely the most common reason why people date and engage in relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A maioria (ou diria mesmo todos) <\/span>pessoas solteiras<\/span> sentir-se muito mal em <\/span>Valentine\u2019s Day<\/span> and other important holidays because it\u2019s when we realize that we are all alone, and it scares us as hell.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You shouldn\u2019t hide or deny it. Sharing our lives with another person is simply a part of our nature, and we all want to feel that we belong to someone and have that person belongs to us too.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Relatives, family members, friends… <\/span>Sim, todas essas pessoas tamb\u00e9m fazem parte das nossas vidas, mas ter a nossa pessoa, aquela pessoa que est\u00e1 SEMPRE l\u00e1 para n\u00f3s, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, \u00e9 uma hist\u00f3ria completamente diferente, e todos n\u00f3s merecemos ter esse tipo de pessoa nas nossas vidas.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Sentimento de seguran\u00e7a<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Quer queiramos admiti-lo ou n\u00e3o, todos n\u00f3s ansiamos por estabilidade e seguran\u00e7a na vida. <\/span>Ou seja, todos n\u00f3s queremos encontrar aquela pessoa que nos far\u00e1 sentir seguros.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Queremos ser capazes de nos abrirmos e de nos ligarmos a eles emocionalmente. Queremos construir um lar com eles, um espa\u00e7o que seja seguro para n\u00f3s e tamb\u00e9m para a nossa futura fam\u00edlia.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. A emo\u00e7\u00e3o dos encontros em linha<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Pode n\u00e3o compreender, mas algumas pessoas gostam de <\/span>encontros em linha<\/span>. Gostam simplesmente de passar o tempo em diferentes <\/span>aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros<\/span> e conhecer novas pessoas.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t quite understand it, but we all have to admit that there is some kind of magic in first dates<\/strong>. <\/b>Cada vez que se sai para a rua <\/span>um primeiro encontro<\/span><\/a> with someone, you have those butterflies in your stomach because you simply don\u2019t know how it\u2019ll go.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And, of course, that moment when you get your crush\u2019s <\/span>n\u00famero de telefone<\/span> e os primeiros <\/span>chamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/span> e <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> can\u2019t be compared to anything else. Then you agree to <\/span>reunir-se<\/span> and meet in person, and that strange excitement mixed with nervousness you feel until you finally meet them simply can\u2019t be described in words.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Para desfrutar <\/b>sexo antes do casamento<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Some people are afraid of commitment, and that\u2019s why they don\u2019t indulge in serious relationships. However, they have physical needs and want to enjoy <\/span>sexo antes do casamento,<\/span> que se torna uma das principais raz\u00f5es pelas quais namoram com outras pessoas: para obter prazer f\u00edsico.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apesar de algumas pessoas e culturas ainda considerarem tabu o sexo antes do casamento, este tornou-se uma coisa completamente normal e aceit\u00e1vel no mundo moderno.<\/em> <\/span><\/i>That\u2019s why it\u2019s no wonder it also finds its place on our list of reasons why people date.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. A <\/b>forma de encontro<\/b> um poss\u00edvel <\/b>parceiro de vida<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Porque \u00e9 que <\/span>pessoas data<\/span>? The answer is actually quite simple because most of us date hoping we\u2019ll find our soulmate that way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t know on the <\/span>primeiro encontro<\/span> whether that person is the right one for you. That\u2019s why you date them, get to know them a bit deeper, and the time helps you realize whether they\u2019re really your soulmate or not.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O namoro foi uma experi\u00eancia positiva para muitas pessoas porque as ajudou a encontrar o seu parceiro de vida.<\/strong><\/b> <\/strong>Espero que um dia tamb\u00e9m possamos dizer o mesmo.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Tentam esquecer o ex que ainda amam<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Some of us spend (waste) so much time jumping from relationship to relationship, trying to forget an ex we are still in love with. However, that\u2019s not how things work, and it\u2019s definitely never the right way to delete someone from our hearts or minds.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re struggling with past relationship baggage, the best dating tip you\u2019ll ever get is to give yourself time.<\/strong><\/b> Don\u2019t immediately jump into a new relationship hoping it\u2019ll help you get rid of your feelings and forget about your ex.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trust me, it won\u2019t. <\/span>It may postpone your pain for a bit, but it\u2019ll come back to haunt you, that\u2019s for sure. <\/em><\/span><\/i>On the other hand, if you give yourself the proper time to grieve and confront your feelings, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll find a way to deal with them in the right way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Estatuto social<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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H\u00e1 pessoas que se preocupam profundamente com o estatuto social e o seu objetivo de vida \u00e9 serem ricas, famosas e terem um estilo de vida fant\u00e1stico.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they can\u2019t achieve it by themselves, they\u2019ll try to get it through their romantic partner. They\u2019ll start dating someone of a higher social status, and they think that will allow them to achieve all of their <\/span>objectivos de vida<\/span> e sonhos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Raz\u00f5es financeiras<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Infelizmente, esta \u00e9 a raz\u00e3o mais terr\u00edvel pela qual as pessoas<\/span> data,<\/span> and the worst thing is that it\u2019s also very common.<\/span> Sair com algu\u00e9m por dinheiro \u00e9 errado porque, acreditem, o dinheiro nunca vos poder\u00e1 dar felicidade sincera ou amor verdadeiro.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some people understand this sooner or later, but unfortunately, some never do and keep choosing the wrong partners because of it. And as long as they don\u2019t understand this, they will never be truly happy. Also, they will never be able to find their soulmate, which is the saddest thing of all.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque \u00e9 que \u00e9 importante namorar?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Deus criou-nos aos pares, e a melhor prova disso \u00e9 Ad\u00e3o e Eva. <\/span>He wanted us all to have our soulmates, our life partners, the people we\u2019re going to share and spend the rest of our lives with.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He didn\u2019t want us to be alone and lonely. God knows that being single is hard, especially as you get older. That is why He made a soulmate for each and every single one of us.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e9m disso, o namoro tem um impacto positivo em todas as esferas da nossa vida. Afecta tamb\u00e9m a nossa sa\u00fade mental, emocional e f\u00edsica.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

De facto, a principal <\/span>objetivo do namoro<\/span> is to make people feel like they aren\u2019t alone. To make us feel like we always have that one person, our partner, we can count on, no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que n\u00e3o se deve fazer no namoro?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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There are some things you shouldn\u2019t do when you\u2019re in a relationship with another person. Not only because that person might <\/span>romper<\/span> mas porque pode ferir os seus sentimentos e deix\u00e1-los emocionalmente incapacitados para sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lying, flirting with others, belittling, being violent, avoiding communication, neglecting your partner, and, of course, CHEATING… <\/b>Estas s\u00e3o todas as coisas que nunca deve fazer enquanto namora, a qualquer custo.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Besides that, if you want to maintain a healthy relationship with another person, you also shouldn\u2019t talk badly about their loved ones, focus only on yourself, set expectations that are too high, judge them, be unsupportive, and compare them to your ex-partners.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re doing these things, you should stop it immediately IF you want to keep the person you\u2019re dating in your life. Otherwise, they\u2019ll almost definitely run from you and very soon.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que acontece durante o namoro?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Simplesmente <\/span>sair,<\/span> passar algum tempo com a outra pessoa e conhec\u00ea-la <\/span>uns aos outros<\/span> um pouco mais profundo. Ao mesmo tempo que se conhecem, estabelecem uma certa liga\u00e7\u00e3o que, mais tarde, ser\u00e1 uma grande vantagem se decidirem passar do namoro para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o mais s\u00e9ria.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

After dating for some time, you\u2019re also able to figure out whether you\u2019re compatible or not.<\/b> Ou seja, se o seu parceiro \u00e9 realmente o <\/span>pessoa certa<\/span> para si.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you manage to build a connection and if you\u2019re compatible with the other person, you\u2019ll probably catch some feelings for them and sail into a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span> com eles.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, if you notice that there is no compatibility between you, you\u2019ll probably decide to let go of that person. You\u2019ll return to single life and continue your search for your soulmate.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para resumir tudo<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Porque \u00e9 que <\/span>pessoas data<\/span>? Atrav\u00e9s da minha pr\u00f3pria <\/span>experi\u00eancia de namoro<\/span> e a dos meus amigos mais pr\u00f3ximos, consegui descobrir as raz\u00f5es mais comuns. O facto \u00e9 que um <\/span>muitas pessoas<\/span> entrar <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas<\/span> por causa das suas necessidades emocionais, mas h\u00e1 quem tenha raz\u00f5es diferentes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why some of us are only interested in hookups while others long to establish a serious, <\/strong><\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/b><\/strong><\/a> com outra pessoa.<\/strong> <\/b>We all have our reasons, and we should respect each other\u2019s decisions and wishes.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, para se envolver numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica s\u00e9ria com algu\u00e9m, a sua principal raz\u00e3o deve ser o amor.<\/em><\/span><\/i> Se qualquer outra coisa representar uma raz\u00e3o ou motivo maior para namorar com algu\u00e9m, deve realmente reconsiderar as suas escolhas e pensar em terminar essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I\u2019m sure we have all asked ourselves this one question at least once in our lives… Why do people date? Why do we feel the need to find someone we\u2019ll build that emotional connection with? And? Were you ever able to find the right answer to that question? I\u2019m sure you weren\u2019t, but today is…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":159299,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-159190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Why-Do-People-Date-13-Most-Common-and-Logical-Reasons-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=159190"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/159190\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/159299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=159190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=159190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=159190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}