{"id":159421,"date":"2022-10-31T17:07:35","date_gmt":"2022-10-31T17:07:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159421"},"modified":"2022-12-08T21:07:51","modified_gmt":"2022-12-08T21:07:51","slug":"namorar-um-militar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-um-militar\/","title":{"rendered":"Tudo o que precisa de saber sobre namorar um militar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Namorar um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is tough. You\u2019ll face challenges that can, at some point, become too much to handle. You\u2019ll be tested \u2013 your patience, your adaptability and your feelings. <\/span><b>You\u2019ll experience a lot of uncertainty and worry.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por esta raz\u00e3o, antes de entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>certificar-se de que gosta mesmo dele <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2013 enough to have faith that he\u2019s worth dealing with everything you\u2019ll learn about today.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se eventualmente se casarem com o vosso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">parceiro militar,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as coisas v\u00e3o mudar nalguns aspectos. Como <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f4njuge militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>you\u2019ll be expected to make more sacrifices<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mas alguns aspectos da sua vida tornar-se-\u00e3o mais f\u00e1ceis.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So if you\u2019ve fallen for <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">um homem de uniforme<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">eis o que precisa de saber.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-things-to-expect-when-dating-a-military-man\"><b>10 coisas a esperar quando se namora um <\/b><b>Militar<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging.jpg\" alt=\"Casal de militares sentados no exterior a abra\u00e7arem-se\" class=\"wp-image-159474\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-sitting-outside-hugging-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ll be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">antecipado<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> convosco: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> isn&#8217;t for everyone. But if the guy you&#8217;ve fallen for is a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">membro do servi\u00e7o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, it&#8217;s good to be informed and <\/span><b>saber o que esperar<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here&#8217;s everything you should know about dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 the truth about what it\u2019s like and <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dicas \u00fateis<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para o ajudar a navegar nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-his-job-comes-first\"><b>1. O seu trabalho est\u00e1 em primeiro lugar<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando namorar com um membro dos EUA <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For\u00e7as Armadas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 Army, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marinha<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, Guarda Costeira, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For\u00e7a A\u00e9rea<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or Marine Corps \u2013 <\/span><b>tem de aceitar que o trabalho dele est\u00e1 em primeiro lugar<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">His job isn&#8217;t like a typical job. Long hours don\u2019t mean that dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 como namorar com um workaholic obcecado pelo trabalho. Um viciado em trabalho pode ser dedicado ao seu emprego, mas continua a ter controlo sobre as suas escolhas e pode reduzir o seu hor\u00e1rio se quiser.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Being in the military means that if he\u2019s told to go, he goes. He has no say in this, so it doesn\u2019t matter what either of you wants.<\/span><b> N\u00e3o pode haver compromissos quando se trata do seu trabalho.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-your-personal-lives-come-second-to-serving-the-country\"><b>O seu <\/b><b>vida pessoal<\/b><b> \u00e9 mais importante do que servir o pa\u00eds<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019ll be gone more than he\u2019s home; unavailable more than he\u2019s available. If the military calls, he won&#8217;t be there on <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anivers\u00e1rios<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">anivers\u00e1rios<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e outras ocasi\u00f5es especiais.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tem de levar o seu trabalho muito a s\u00e9rio, esfor\u00e7ando-se por evitar cometer erros, pois estes podem custar-lhe caro. Pode escolher entre aceitar este facto e terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o porque <\/span><b>it\u2019s non-negotiable<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you choose to stay, you\u2019ll never be able to count on him being around and your plans will always be subject to change. The military can require that he works different hours than planned, so <\/span><b>\u00e9 preciso habituar-se \u00e0 incerteza<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-a-stable-job\"><b>Um emprego est\u00e1vel<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, being in the military has many perks, the most important being job security. If a soldier performs as required and doesn&#8217;t do something that will get him dismissed, it&#8217;s <\/span><b>um emprego com o qual pode contar<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The pay is good and he doesn\u2019t have to worry about losing his job, so h<\/span><b>e pode fazer planos a longo prazo que dependem da seguran\u00e7a financeira<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al\u00e9m disso, um emprego nas for\u00e7as armadas tem excelentes benef\u00edcios, incluindo os que s\u00e3o concedidos ao c\u00f4njuge.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-you-can-t-avoid-difficult-choices\"><b>2. You can\u2019t avoid difficult choices<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background.jpg\" alt=\"homem sentado na cama com uma mulher ao fundo\" class=\"wp-image-159477\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-sitting-on-bed-with-woman-in-background-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O ex\u00e9rcito est\u00e1 em primeiro lugar, por isso muitos <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/9-compromissos-que-nunca-fazem-a-relacao\/\"><b>compromissos que ocorrem em rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00edpicas<\/b><\/a><b> s\u00e3o imposs\u00edveis<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Normalmente, quando os parceiros t\u00eam oportunidades diferentes, a escolha mais saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 chegar a acordo sobre o que ser\u00e1 mais ben\u00e9fico para ambos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, if your paths are going in different directions, he\u2019ll never follow yours. Your education or career will never take priority over his job. <\/span><b>Pode optar por ir para onde ele vai, esperar por ele ou acabar com as coisas<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Membros do servi\u00e7o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> se mexe muito, por isso, quando ele tem de mudar de base, fica ou segue-o? Talvez tenhas de <\/span><b>decidir entre desistir da sua vida como a conhece e a rela\u00e7\u00e3o com ele.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You\u2019d have to leave your family, friends, school, job, lifestyle and more to stay with him.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If your plans don\u2019t clash with his job, nothing has to change, but whenever there\u2019s a compromise to be made regarding your life together, <\/span><b>ser\u00e1s sempre tu a ter de ceder<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-rushing-into-marriage\"><b>Apressar o casamento<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O estilo de vida militar significa que <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">casais militares<\/span> <b>casam mais cedo do que os casais civis.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> A raz\u00e3o para se apressar o casamento \u00e9 poder passar mais tempo um com o outro e por causa dos muitos benef\u00edcios dispon\u00edveis ap\u00f3s um casamento. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">membro do servi\u00e7o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> casa-se.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uma vez terminado o curso <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorada militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> para <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">esposa de militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>you\u2019ll have access to various benefits <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that weren\u2019t available prior to your marriage. On the other hand, you\u2019ll also face new challenges.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Single soldiers must live in the barracks and only after getting married can they <\/span><b>mudar para uma casa<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You&#8217;ll have a choice between military housing or living off-base.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Even though you don&#8217;t get paid, the housing and cost-of-living allowances for a soldier increase when he gets married, so he will receive <\/span><b>um sal\u00e1rio mais elevado<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 You&#8217;ll get educational assistance, recreational opportunities, healthcare, childcare and housing benefits. If you\u2019re considering starting a family with a soldier, it&#8217;s much easier if you&#8217;re married.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 It becomes <\/span><b>mais f\u00e1cil de manter o contacto<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and, in case of a family emergency, your spouse can be sent home and receive assistance. None of this is available until you&#8217;re legally married.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 However, <\/span><b>muitos<\/b> <b>c\u00f4njuges de militares<\/b><b> est\u00e3o desempregados<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> devido ao estilo de vida exigente que torna dif\u00edcil encontrar e manter um emprego.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-you-ll-have-to-be-independent-and-self-reliant\"><b>3. You\u2019ll have to be independent and self-reliant<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se tem de ter o seu parceiro sempre por perto, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">membro do servi\u00e7o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> n\u00e3o \u00e9 para si. Ser<\/span><b> independente<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> far\u00e1 com que o <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorada militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou o estilo de vida do c\u00f4njuge muito mais f\u00e1cil de gerir.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s of great importance that you don&#8217;t focus entirely on him. While he&#8217;s away, <\/span><b>deve fazer as coisas que s\u00e3o importantes para si<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> em vez de p\u00f4r a sua vida em suspenso para ficar \u00e0 espera dele.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Developing your own interests and connections can be challenging. Making friends, organizing your life or developing your career will be difficult because you&#8217;re never long enough in one place to put down roots.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Choosing a profession you can do anywhere<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, tais como <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bloguista<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O seu assistente virtual, instrutor, pode ajud\u00e1-lo a evitar a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de ter de come\u00e7ar de novo sempre que muda de casa.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> <\/b>- <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/passatempos-para-mulheres-na-casa-dos-30-anos\/\"><b>Desenvolver passatempos<\/b><\/a><b>,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> staying busy and focusing on learning new things can fill your time and help you grow. Find something that fulfills you, so that you can live your life independently from your boyfriend or spouse. You&#8217;ll miss him, but you\u2019ll know that you can handle it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 This will also <\/span><b>ajudar a sentir menos a falta dele e a preocupar-se menos<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when you don&#8217;t know if he&#8217;s safe.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Additionally, if he knows that you can cope and take care of yourself while he&#8217;s away, his time away will be much easier on him because <\/span><b>he won&#8217;t have to worry as much<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 In <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fam\u00edlias militares<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, <\/span><b>a parentalidade a solo \u00e9 sempre uma possibilidade<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. If you have a child, at times you&#8217;ll feel like a single parent because of how often your partner is absent. You should be prepared for this, emotionally, mentally and practically.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>RELACIONADO: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/passatempos-para-mulheres-na-casa-dos-20-anos\/\"><b>55 passatempos empoderadores para mulheres na casa dos 20 anos<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-it-s-a-long-distance-relationship\"><b>4. It&#8217;s a <\/b><b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher que trabalha durante a noite para responder ao seu namorado \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia\" class=\"wp-image-159478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/woman-working-at-night-responding-to-her-long-distance-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Amor militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> needs a lot of patience. Soldiers go away and you can never be sure when they\u2019ll be back. He\u2019ll leave for training, duty, mission, course; all pretty regularly. <\/span><b>Membros do servi\u00e7o<\/b><b> can\u2019t refuse to go,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you must accept this. Otherwise, your relationship can\u2019t last.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A lot of your time will be spent apart, and even when he\u2019s home, <\/span><b>a partida est\u00e1 sempre \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia de uma chamada telef\u00f3nica<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Often, you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re in <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-que-ninguem-conta-aos-relacionamentos-a-distancia\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he\u2019s deployed, you won\u2019t be able to come with him. <\/span><b>Podem estar separados durante meses. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He\u2019s going to miss plans and special occasions and won\u2019t be available when you need him. At best, you might be able to text him or talk to him, but it\u2019s not guaranteed.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Going through deployment is tough, especially because it lasts for a long time. You can\u2019t count on being able to reach him because sometimes there are no channels of communication.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While you\u2019re dating, you can <\/span><b>saber o que esperar se casar com ele<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and what your future will look like. You\u2019ll always be the one who has to make sacrifices, and you never come first.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Para um <\/b><b>militar<\/b><b>O trabalho dele \u00e9 o mais importante. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At\u00e9 que ele deixe o servi\u00e7o e se torne um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">veterin\u00e1rio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">n\u00e3o tem qualquer controlo sobre a sua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>RELACIONADO: <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacionamento-a-distancia-teste-final-amor\/\"><b>11 dicas para relacionamentos \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia que v\u00e3o aproxim\u00e1-los ainda mais<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-infidelity\"><b>Infidelidade<\/b><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u00e1 que salientar que, infelizmente, <\/span><b>alguns militares <\/b><b>membros do servi\u00e7o<\/b><b> acabar <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relacao-a-distancia-com-traicao\/\"><b>trair os seus c\u00f4njuges<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> durante a aus\u00eancia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O stress, a solid\u00e3o e a camaradagem nascida de circunst\u00e2ncias \u00fanicas podem resultar em infidelidade. Um soldado pode racionaliz\u00e1-la com <\/span><b>acreditar que o seu parceiro no estrangeiro est\u00e1 a trair<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sobre eles.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c9 claro que nem todos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">membros do servi\u00e7o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cheat on their significant others. Still, you should be aware that it happens before your relationship gets serious, especially if you don\u2019t have complete confidence in the man you\u2019re dating.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-you-ll-be-lonely\"><b>5. You&#8217;ll be lonely<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You won\u2019t only be alone, but you\u2019ll also get lonely. Dating and especially being married to a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 muito diferente de sair com um civil.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 Moving away to be with him will send you <\/span><b>longe dos seus entes queridos<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 If you live near them, you still might face <\/span><b>rea\u00e7\u00e3o negativa e falta de compreens\u00e3o <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">por causa das escolhas que tem de fazer para se manter na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 People who don\u2019t know anything about military relationships might not be able to grasp what your life is like. You\u2019ll feel like <\/span><b>no one understands what you\u2019re going through<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because outsiders can\u2019t relate to the world you live in.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>\u2022 Connecting with your boyfriend or husband might be challenging<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Os soldados s\u00e3o treinados para esconder a sua vulnerabilidade, por isso pode demorar algum tempo at\u00e9 que ele se abra consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 After you create an <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-maneiras-de-estabelecer-uma-ligacao-emocional-mais-profunda-com-o-seu-homem\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">v\u00ednculo afetivo<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019re not done building your relationship;<\/span><b> \u00e9 preciso trabalhar para isso<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o tempo que quiser que dure.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 During long periods of waiting, when you don\u2019t hear from him for weeks, the feelings of worry and insecurity will become overwhelming.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 If your partner <\/span><b>doesn\u2019t want to talk<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about his experiences after returning home, it\u2019s because he needs time to process what he\u2019s been through.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, it\u2019s not uncommon for <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f4njuges de militares<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to believe that the reason their partner doesn\u2019t want to talk is their fault. This kind of thinking can make you feel even worse because you\u2019re already feeling isolated, but things will get better <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-marido-ignora-me-10-maneiras-de-fazer-com-que-ele-se-abra-consigo\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">quando ele se abre para si<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-life-on-the-move\"><b>6. A vida em movimento<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out.jpg\" alt=\"mudan\u00e7a de casal\" class=\"wp-image-159472\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/couple-moving-out-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Conhece-se um soldado atrav\u00e9s de um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">site de encontros online<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou numa aplica\u00e7\u00e3o, e come\u00e7am a namorar. As coisas est\u00e3o a ficar s\u00e9rias, at\u00e9 que um dia,<\/span><b> he tells you that he\u2019s moving away<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. O que fazer? Est\u00e1 disposta a mudar-se com ele? Vai optar por estar numa <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-problemas-das-relacoes-a-distancia-e-como-faze-las-funcionar\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Continuar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is going to be a challenge if you\u2019re not committed enough to move with him or you don\u2019t want to do it. Dating a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">membro do servi\u00e7o<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> tem uma data de validade se quiser viver num local espec\u00edfico.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso com um militar significa que <\/span><b>you can\u2019t put down roots anywhere<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> because a PCS can come at any time. PCS is an acronym that stands for Permanent Change of Station \u2013 a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.armymwr.com\/about-us\/army-terms\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">termo militar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that means he\u2019s being relocated and that you\u2019re moving.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It can take you to a different state, across the country or anywhere in the world. If you like to travel and enjoy meeting lots of new people, you\u2019ll love this aspect of being a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f4njuge militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but if you\u2019d like to settle down, it\u2019s going to be tough.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Fazer amizade com outros <\/b><b>c\u00f4njuges de militares<\/b> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">onde quer que fique \u00e9 a melhor coisa que pode fazer depois de mudar de casa, pois pode poupar-lhe muitas dores de cabe\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They\u2019ve been where you are now, so they can share their experience with you and give you advice. More importantly, <\/span><b>compreendem como \u00e9 a sua vida<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> da forma como mais ningu\u00e9m o faz, para que nos possam fazer sentir como se pertenc\u00eassemos a ela.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-rules-and-etiquette\"><b>7. Regras e etiqueta<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando se torna um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">c\u00f4njuge militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, you\u2019ll be expected to follow various rules. They include:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Following protocol on base<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. For example, observing ceremony while the national anthem and colors are playing and showing respect when you see the raising of the flag (stop doing whatever you\u2019ve been doing, stand, face the flag and put your right hand over your heart.)<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Behavior in daily life<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. For example, you should always stay on the left side while walking with your partner so that he\u2019s able to salute if you encounter a senior officer.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Protocol for formal events<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">como os bailes militares obrigat\u00f3rios.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Proper attire<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. N\u00e3o usar roupas reveladoras ou inapropriadas.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 Respecting the uniform<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Ningu\u00e9m, exceto <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pessoal militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 autorizado a us\u00e1-lo; deve comportar-se adequadamente enquanto o seu parceiro o estiver a usar.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b> \u2022 OPSEC awareness<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. OPSEC stands for Operations Security \u2013 exists to protect U.S. operations. Being mindful of OPSEC means that <\/span><b>you\u2019re not allowed to share anything that might lead to potential enemies discovering critical information<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, you\u2019re not allowed to talk about your spouse\u2019s job on social media, make his address publicly available, share pictures that might show the location of the base, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-um-homem-arabe\/\">Como \u00e9 namorar um homem \u00e1rabe? (Um guia completo)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-military-friends\"><b>8. Amigos militares<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends.jpg\" alt=\"homem a conviver com os seus amigos\" class=\"wp-image-159479\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/man-hanging-out-with-his-friends-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">comunidade militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e9 muito unida. Depois de passarem por momentos dif\u00edceis juntos, <\/span><b>membros do servi\u00e7o<\/b><b> podem at\u00e9 tornar-se mais pr\u00f3ximos do que a fam\u00edlia<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Their lives depend on having each other\u2019s backs, so their bonds are unique and strong.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you\u2019re with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, rapidamente se descobre que os seus colegas de trabalho s\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m seus amigos. Eles socializam nas horas de folga e <\/span><b>they\u2019ll drop everything for each other<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You\u2019ll be seeing these people often, so learn to get along with them or build friendships of your own with some of them.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you dislike some of his military friends, learn to at least tolerate them. You\u2019ll often feel like you don\u2019t fit in, but do your best to make friends. You might also develop relationships with his friends\u2019 spouses along the way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Fam\u00edlias militares<\/b><b> defenderem-se uns aos outros<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">que aprender\u00e1 assim que precisar de alguma coisa.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-no-control-over-your-life\"><b>9. N\u00e3o ter controlo sobre a sua vida<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Muitos aspectos da sua vida estar\u00e3o fora do seu controlo. Esta pode ser a parte mais dif\u00edcil de estar com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>\u2022 Someone else decides where you live<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. A deslocaliza\u00e7\u00e3o aleat\u00f3ria significa que temos de nos mudar, mesmo que gostemos do s\u00edtio onde estamos. O sentimento de casa j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 ligado a um lugar.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 His <\/span><b>aus\u00eancia frequente e prolongada<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">s mean plans that change all the time, vacation available only when you\u2019re allowed, and not being able to count on him.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2022 The constant <\/span><b>incerteza e preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que a sua vida est\u00e1 em risco quando parte em miss\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many aspects of your life will be decided by other people. You have to accept it, but don\u2019t endure it in silence \u2013 <\/span><b>pedir apoio<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> da sua pr\u00f3pria fam\u00edlia e de outras <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fam\u00edlias militares<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. When you\u2019re feeling frustrated, sometimes it\u2019s enough to know that someone understands.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Al\u00e9m disso, existem<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/installations.militaryonesource.mil\/?looking-for-a=program\/program-service=26\/focus=program\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">v\u00e1rios recursos oficiais<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que podem prestar ajuda quando precisar, bem como grupos de apoio a c\u00f4njuges de militares.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-emotionally-demanding-lifestyle\"><b>10. Estilo de vida emocionalmente exigente<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands.jpg\" alt=\"Casal de militares de m\u00e3os dadas\" class=\"wp-image-159476\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-holding-hands-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O utilizador deve ser <\/span><b>est\u00e1vel, flex\u00edvel e adapt\u00e1vel <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">if you\u2019re to thrive in a relationship with a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>While you\u2019re dating, you don\u2019t have any rights<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that will make your relationship easier. If you move to be with him, you have to pay for everything yourself. You might have to leave your education or job behind. If he leaves on deployment, you won\u2019t receive any information from official sources.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><b>Se se casar, algumas destas coisas mudam<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. On the other hand, you commit to an incredibly demanding lifestyle. Loneliness, lack of communication, lack of support, unfriendly attitudes \u2013 you might be overwhelmed the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">primeira vez<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you realize what you\u2019re in for, but soon enough, you\u2019ll learn how to handle it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando o seu namorado ou c\u00f4njuge \u00e9 destacado, <\/span><b>nada \u00e9 certo<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Not knowing whether he\u2019s safe or not is incredibly exhausting and scary. Information can be scarce or non-existent, so there will be <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dias maus<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> when all you\u2019re left with is worry.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even though your partner has to be emotionally strong to do what he does, he\u2019ll need lots of <\/span><b>compreens\u00e3o e apoio emocional<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. As experi\u00eancias militares s\u00e3o stressantes e podem afetar a sua sa\u00fade mental. Esteja l\u00e1 para ele e ou\u00e7a-o quando ele precisar.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por mais exigente que seja a vida de um c\u00f4njuge de militar, <\/span><b>ultrapassar os desafios que enfrenta ajuda-o a crescer e a aprender<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/namorar-um-irlandes\/\">19 coisas para saber antes de sair com um irland\u00eas<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-in-closing\"><b>No encerramento<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child.jpg\" alt=\"Casal de militares a tomar conta do seu filho\" class=\"wp-image-159475\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-1536x1018.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-735x487.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-335x222.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-347x230.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-520x345.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-640x424.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/Military-couple-watching-their-child-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Achas que consegues lidar com um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o militar<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? <\/span><b>Namorar um <\/b><b>militar<\/b><b> envolve um conjunto de desafios<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, but if you\u2019re prepared and know what to expect, it\u2019s easier to adjust.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apesar de todas as dificuldades, se o seu militar gostar de si e voc\u00ea tamb\u00e9m gostar dele, t\u00eam a possibilidade de ser um dos casais de militares que fazem com que tudo funcione. Como em qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o, <\/span><b>se houver vontade, comunica\u00e7\u00e3o e amor, podem encontrar a felicidade um com o outro.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Tudo o que precisa de saber sobre o namoro com um militar Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-160131\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Everything-You-Need-To-Know-About-Dating-A-Military-Man-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating a military man is tough. 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