{"id":15958,"date":"2020-06-07T13:17:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T13:17:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15958"},"modified":"2022-02-20T22:47:07","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T22:47:07","slug":"carta-aberta-o-homem-nunca-sera-meu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-o-homem-nunca-sera-meu\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta ao homem que nunca ser\u00e1 meu"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o estava mesmo \u00e0 espera desta. Como \u00e9 que eu poderia saber que tu significarias tanto para mim? <\/span><\/p>\n

Como n\u00e3o me apaixonar pelos teus olhos brilhantes quando olhas para mim, pelo teu sorriso perfeito e doce e pelos teus toques que me fazem sentir como nunca senti antes?<\/span><\/p>\n

I admit it\u2014<\/i><\/b>Apaixonei-me por ti<\/i><\/b><\/a>, sem sequer saber disso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Apaixonei-me tanto por ti que me perdi completamente na tentativa de fazer com que reparasses em mim. E durante todo este tempo, recusei-me a acreditar que nunca serias minha. Costumava sonhar acordada connosco e com a nossa vida futura perfeita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estava a pensar que nos \u00edamos casar, ter filhos e viver felizes para sempre.<\/span><\/p>\n

I thought that you are what I have been seeking for such a long time and that you will never disappoint me. But you did. And it broke my heart into pieces so small that it can\u2019t be fixed anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Fiquei com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o a sangrar, implorando que olhasses para mim e me curasses com um s\u00f3 toque.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I was begging you to stay with me because my pride didn\u2019t mean anything to me compared to my love for you. <\/span><\/p>\n

I<\/span> was ready to do anything for the man of my dreams. And I didn\u2019t care what others will say about that as long as I was happy. The thing was that I couldn\u2019t get what I craved the most because you didn\u2019t feel even half of what I felt.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know that I was thinking about you the whole day and that I would totally lose myself when you would pass near me. <\/span><\/p>\n

With every word from your mouth, I was melting, even if it was just \u2018hi\u2019 while you were passing by. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sempre que te via, o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o batia mais depressa e parecia que ia desmaiar.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Estava t\u00e3o nervosa a tentar impressionar-te, mas nunca consegui aproximar-me de ti o suficiente para que me tivesses em considera\u00e7\u00e3o<\/i><\/b>. <\/span><\/p>\n

For you, I was just a cute girl that you would have fun with when your wife wasn\u2019t there. <\/span><\/p>\n

E sabes qual foi a pior parte? Eu estava satisfeito por ter apenas um pouco de ti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Era melhor ter um peda\u00e7o de ti do que n\u00e3o te ter de todo. E isso tamb\u00e9m funcionou para ti. Tinhas-me sempre que querias e eu comportava-me como se fosse a minha \u00faltima vez de cada vez que estava contigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Too bad that I didn\u2019t know that you will never be mine\u2014not because it wasn\u2019t possible but because you didn\u2019t want that. <\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t think about me as someone you can spend the rest of your life with. <\/span><\/p>\n

You just wanted to have me when you wanted and you didn\u2019t think about my needs. And my only need wasn\u2019t that I sleep with you, hug you or kiss you. <\/span><\/p>\n

A minha necessidade essencial era ter-te como a minha melhor amiga, a minha alma g\u00e9mea e a minha cara-metade<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Queria que lutasses por mim<\/span><\/a>, but you couldn\u2019t even do that. You were a coward for making me fall for you, knowing that you would never reciprocate with the same emotions. <\/span><\/p>\n

Viu uma grande oportunidade e aproveitou-a sem sequer perguntar o que eu queria. E eu apenas esperei<\/span>nte o vosso amor. Apenas isso. Mas n\u00e3o viste como eu era incr\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see my fun spirit, my cheerful temperament and my support for you when you needed it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deixaste de ver todas as coisas boas de mim porque s\u00f3 estavas interessado em explorar o meu corpo em vez do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

And the main problem was that we didn\u2019t want the same things.  <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9ramos dois mundos diferentes que nunca se poderiam entender.<\/i><\/b> And even if I don\u2019t know why our paths crossed, Ainda estou contente por te ter conhecido<\/a>. N\u00e3o por tua causa, mas por causa da li\u00e7\u00e3o de vida que aprendi enquanto estive contigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aprendi que a forma como me trataste n\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma como um homem apaixonado deve tratar a sua mulher.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

Being in love is much more than that\u2014much more love, affection, and support.<\/span><\/p>\n

It means not trying to mold your lady into someone who she doesn\u2019t want to be, just so you could be happy. It is accepting the one you love just the way they are and not trying to change them unless they want it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, if you ever read this letter, I want you to know that I was crazy in love with you and I don\u2019t regret that. <\/span><\/p>\n

In the end, no matter how hard you try, you really can\u2019t control your feelings. You can just go with the flow or let everything go.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 que experimentei as duas op\u00e7\u00f5es e gostei mais da segunda. <\/span>Quando te deixo ir<\/span><\/a>Finalmente encontrei-me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Finalmente, comecei a amar-me de novo e, para ser sincera, esse \u00e9 o \u00fanico amor de que preciso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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