{"id":159752,"date":"2022-11-14T20:04:57","date_gmt":"2022-11-14T20:04:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159752"},"modified":"2023-02-09T08:01:31","modified_gmt":"2023-02-09T08:01:31","slug":"perguntas-a-fazer-a-um-burlao-romantico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perguntas-a-fazer-a-um-burlao-romantico\/","title":{"rendered":"18 perguntas reveladoras para fazer a um vigarista de romances"},"content":{"rendered":"

Esquemas de encontros online<\/em> e as fraudes tornaram-se cada vez mais comuns na Internet. Acontece praticamente todos os dias a centenas de pessoas em todo o mundo.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And it\u2019s not that those people are stupid or naive. It\u2019s simply that scammers have become genuine online <\/strong>vigaristas<\/strong> e profissionais.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Para o proteger, decidi compilar estas perguntas reveladoras para fazer a um burl\u00e3o do romance e escrevi este guia para o ajudar a desmascarar sempre um burl\u00e3o do namoro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, you shouldn\u2019t only expose them, you need to outsmart them, and I\u2019ve left you a few tips for that too. My only goal is to make you online dating scams-proof, and I hope I\u2019ll achieve that with this article!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10 perguntas de aquecimento para fazer a um <\/strong>Golpista de romance<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t immediately hit them with some tough, exposing questions. \u00c9 preciso aquecer com alguma regularidade,<\/em> <\/em>quest\u00f5es pessoais<\/em><\/a> para que possa executar um <\/em>inqu\u00e9rito pessoal<\/em> enquanto eles pensam ingenuamente que s\u00f3 os quer conhecer melhor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por isso, eis as perguntas mais comuns que as pessoas se esquecem de fazer aos seus potenciais namorados em sites de encontros e que podem ajud\u00e1-las a expor um potencial burl\u00e3o do romance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Qual \u00e9 a sua <\/strong>nome do meio<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll agree that this isn\u2019t a very common question people ask each other when they start texting and conhecermo-nos uns aos outros<\/a>. But that\u2019s the point, to catch them by surprise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They may come up with a name immediately \u2013 that\u2019s not difficult. <\/strong>However, you need to ask them a few more questions about their middle name, and you\u2019ll see how nervous it\u2019ll make them if they\u2019re lying to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por exemplo, pode perguntar-lhes como adquiriram esse nome, quem lho deu ou qual o significado desse nome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they take some time before replying, it\u2019s a <\/em>bandeira vermelha de que eles<\/em> estavam a procurar o significado do nome no Google e a tentar inventar uma hist\u00f3ria sobre como tinham conseguido o seu <\/em>nome do meio<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Que idade tens?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Okay, I know what you\u2019ll say now. It\u2019s easy to make up a number and lie about your age to some unknown person online.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, there are some ways you can figure out whether the person you\u2019re texting is really lying about their age or not. For example, you can check whether that number matches what they wrote on their dating app profile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Onde \u00e9 que vive?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Esta pergunta parece, \u00e0 partida, muito comum quando duas pessoas est\u00e3o a conhecer-se<\/a>. No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 que se pode descobrir muito com ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re dealing with a <\/strong>golpista de encontros<\/strong>, they\u2019ll probably choose a different city than yours because they don\u2019t want you to know you live in the same city.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, when they say in which city they live, you should Google it and pretend you know a lot about it because you\u2019ve visited it or went on a holiday there once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Oh, conheces o (inserir nome)?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Se disserem que vivem numa cidade pequena ou numa zona da cidade que conhece, pode perguntar-lhes sobre uma pessoa famosa que tamb\u00e9m viva a\u00ed ou sobre alguns edif\u00edcios famosos, restaurantes, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they don\u2019t know that person or building, it\u2019s a <\/em>bandeira vermelha<\/em> they\u2019re lying to you.<\/em> Mas \u00e9 preciso pensar em algo que seja conhecido por quase toda a gente que vive nessa cidade\/zona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Onde nasceste e onde cresceste?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s okay to ask someone you\u2019re getting to know where they currently live. However, it\u2019s a bit strange to ask them where they were born or spent their childhood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you notice that the other person avoids that question or misses some details when talking about their childhood, it\u2019s a potential <\/em>bandeira vermelha<\/em> you\u2019re dealing with a <\/em>burl\u00e3o do romance<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Onde \u00e9 que terminou <\/strong>escola secund\u00e1ria<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Na verdade, deve perguntar-lhes quando e onde terminaram o liceu. Quando obtiver esses pormenores, pode ir para esse <\/strong>escola secund\u00e1ria<\/strong> e perguntar sobre eles.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If it\u2019s a real person, someone there will know something about them. And this question shouldn\u2019t make them suspect anything because it\u2019s just a common question people ask when they\u2019re getting to know someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. O que \u00e9 que faz na vida?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The truth is, if it\u2019s not um perfil falso<\/a>, this question may be strange to them. They may start thinking that you want to know about their finances because you\u2019re into material things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, if you have already encountered a few red flags that you\u2019re texting with a romance scammer, you need to ask them this question.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se disserem que trabalham na <\/em>McDonald\u2019s<\/em>, deve perguntar-lhes onde, qual <\/em>McDonald\u2019s<\/em> precisamente, e ir l\u00e1 e perguntar sobre eles a outros empregados. <\/em>If they say they don\u2019t know anyone by that name, you can consider yourself a potential victim of a romance scammer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t just allow them to mention what they do, what their business occupation is because they may lie about it.<\/strong> For example, if they say they\u2019re an oil rig worker, you need to bombard them with a few follow-up questions that will reveal more info about their job.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Qual \u00e9 o seu estado de relacionamento atual?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019ll probably say they\u2019re single because otherwise, it would be awkward if they have a dating site profile. However, you need to interrogate them about their love life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How many partners have they had, when and why did they break up with their ex-partner, what kind of people are they into, and what qualities does their future partner need to have…<\/em> All those questions will help you realize what kind of person you\u2019re dealing with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Tem animais de estima\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This is a very common question people ask when they want to get to know someone. However, these kinds of details from their private life may really help you figure out whether they\u2019re making things up about themselves or if they are who they say they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And don\u2019t allow them to answer your question with a simple yes\/no answer.<\/strong> Pergunte-lhes mais pormenores sobre o animal, como, por exemplo, onde o adquiriram, qual o nome do animal de estima\u00e7\u00e3o e esse tipo de perguntas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Como \u00e9 o teu dia?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll ask them this question just to find out more information about them, how they spend their day, where they go, where they eat, and those kinds of things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They may lie about all those things, but they may also tell the truth because they won\u2019t think you\u2019re asking them these questions because you have doubts about their true identity.<\/em> E esses pormenores sobre a sua vida privada podem ajud\u00e1-lo a revelar a sua verdadeira identidade e a exp\u00f4-lo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Um burl\u00e3o pode apaixonar-se pela sua v\u00edtima? A verdade revelada<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

8 perguntas reveladoras para fazer a um <\/strong>Golpista de romance<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

After you\u2019re done with these regular warm-up questions, you should heat things by starting to ask some revealing questions. If you notice too many red flags in their answers, you\u2019re probably dealing with a fake dating profile, and you should block them before they scam you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Pode dar-me o seu <\/strong>n\u00famero de telefone<\/strong> para podermos ser <\/strong>em contacto<\/strong> regularmente?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re dealing with a romance scammer, they will probably make up an excuse not to give you their real phone number. If they\u2019re a professional <\/strong>vigarista<\/strong>, they may buy a new phone and a new number that they\u2019ll get rid of once they finish scamming you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, if they give you their phone number, you should send them a text message when they least expect it. And also, give them a call at an unusual time because it\u2019s a way to catch them in their lies \u2013 IF they\u2019re really lying to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. What\u2019s your <\/strong>fam\u00edlia como<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 preciso faz\u00ea-los falar sobre a sua fam\u00edlia. Podem constituir um <\/strong>hist\u00f3ria antiga<\/strong> about their family, but they\u2019ll miss some details. <\/strong>That\u2019s why you need to focus on those precise details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tamb\u00e9m deve olhar para as fotografias do perfil e verificar se tem alguma da sua fam\u00edlia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or, you can ask them to send you a few. If you think it\u2019s too weird to ask them that immediately, you can send them a pic of your family, and if their profile isn\u2019t fake, they\u2019ll probably reply with a photo of theirs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Quem \u00e9 o teu favorito <\/strong>membro da fam\u00edlia<\/strong> e porqu\u00ea?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The point is to get the names of their family members, so if they\u2019re really a scammer, it\u2019ll be easier for you or the authorities to catch them through their family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deve fazer com que falem da sua fam\u00edlia e amigos e tentar lembrar-se ou escrever os nomes que mencionam. <\/strong>You can also search for their family members on social media platforms and see whether they\u2019re real or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Onde \u00e9 que estudou?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Se a pessoa ou o seu perfil de encontros disser que j\u00e1 se licenciou, deve perguntar-lhe onde estudou. Se mencionarem <\/em>Harvard<\/em> ou outra faculdade de prest\u00edgio, pode verificar isso na fonte ou pesquisar o seu nome no diret\u00f3rio dessas escolas.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Podemos mudar o nosso chat para <\/strong>Hangouts<\/strong>, Facebook, ou outro <\/strong>s\u00edtio de redes sociais<\/strong> tem um perfil?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s important to ask them whether they have any other social media profiles. Of course, before you ask them, you can do your own little search.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If they\u2019re a true professional scammer, they might also have fake accounts on other <\/strong>plataformas de redes sociais<\/strong>. <\/strong>However, in most cases, they won\u2019t bother with those kinds of things, and they\u2019ll simply say they don\u2019t like social media sites or something like that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Podemos <\/strong>conversa\u00e7\u00e3o por v\u00eddeo<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If they\u2019re a real person, this shouldn\u2019t be a problem for them, especially if you\u2019ve been texting for a while. On the contrary, they should be eager to see you on video.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the flip side, if they\u2019re a <\/em>golpista de encontros<\/em>, they\u2019ll make up some excuse and avoid going on <\/em>conversa\u00e7\u00e3o por v\u00eddeo<\/em> convosco. <\/em>The reason is obvious: they don\u2019t want you to see their real face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. What are you doing right now? Send me a selfie \ud83d\ude0d<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Or, you can send them a selfie, and they\u2019ll do the same if they don\u2019t have anything to hide. On the other hand, if they send you a pic of an attractive person, and you realize instantly that the pic was taken by a professional, you should run it through the reverse image search on Google.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If it\u2019s a fake profile, and they\u2019re using photos from another person, they don\u2019t even have to be a scammer \u2013 they\u2019re already committing a felony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Using someone else\u2019s photos without their consent is considered the same as stealing their identity, and it\u2019s a crime.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe they have another reason they\u2019re using pics from another person, and you should give them a chance to explain themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you notice they are still lying to you, you should immediately report their profile as a fake one and make sure the dating site knows they were using another person\u2019s identity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION \ud83d\udea8: When can we meet <\/strong>cara a cara<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This is the most important question you need to ask them. And don\u2019t ever share any personal information about yourself before actually meeting them in person. Also, most importantly, don\u2019t send them your <\/em>conta banc\u00e1ria<\/em> ou dinheiro de qualquer forma at\u00e9 que eles concordem em encontrar-se consigo.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se evitarem encontrar-se <\/strong>cara a cara<\/strong> and always have some lame excuse for why they can\u2019t, you can be sure that something is off with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Block their profile, forget that they ever existed in your life (even if it was only virtually), and move on. You definitely don\u2019t need those kinds of troubles in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que \u00e9 que um <\/strong>Golpista de romance<\/strong> Quer?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Os burl\u00f5es de encontros t\u00eam diferentes objectivos em mente, mas a maioria deles quer uma coisa: DINHEIRO, claro. O seu principal objetivo \u00e9 enganar as pessoas para que lhes d\u00eaem dinheiro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Registam-se em v\u00e1rios <\/em>sites de encontros<\/em> sob <\/em>perfis falsos<\/em> e chegar a pessoas diferentes. <\/em>They make sure to gain their complete trust by texting them 24\/7 and getting to know them. Then they make sure the other person falls in love with them, and that\u2019s when their real operation starts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dizem que <\/strong>amo-te,<\/strong> e a pr\u00f3xima coisa que eles fazem \u00e9 pedir o seu <\/strong>conta banc\u00e1ria<\/strong>.<\/strong> If that doesn\u2019t go well with their victim, they ask them to send them gift cards or make donations to unreliable sites or associations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They\u2019re professional con artists who can make others believe in their sob stories or how they\u2019re head over heels in love with them, even though they\u2019ve never seen or met them in person. Then, they take as much money as they can from you and leave you completely heartbroken.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como \u00e9 que se revela um <\/strong>Golpista de romance<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"pessoa<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Estas perguntas reveladoras que deve fazer a um burl\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntico ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o definitivamente a desvend\u00e1-lo e \u00e0s suas verdadeiras inten\u00e7\u00f5es. They\u2019ll probably have a <\/strong>hist\u00f3ria antiga<\/strong> for some of these questions, but they definitely won\u2019t be prepared to answer them all if they\u2019re indeed scammers.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e9m disso, pode tentar com <\/em>BeenVerified<\/em>, TruthFinder, Instant Checkmate e semelhantes <\/em>inqu\u00e9rito pessoal<\/em> s\u00edtios. <\/em>Pode utilizar as fotografias que t\u00eam no seu perfil de encontros e digitaliz\u00e1-las atrav\u00e9s da pesquisa inversa de imagens no Google.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No final do dia, se a pessoa continuar a evitar encontrar-se consigo pessoalmente, deve considerar isso como uma enorme bandeira vermelha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give them some time, but if they still don\u2019t want to go out with you, the only logical explanation is that they don\u2019t want you to reveal their true identity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Como \u00e9 que se \u00e9 mais esperto que um <\/strong>Golpista de romance<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"mulher<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

After you\u2019ve exposed a scammer, the next step is to plan how to outsmart them. You need to do everything in your power to make them go on a video call with you or meet with you face-to-face (even though I\u2019m pretty sure they\u2019ll never accept a meeting in person).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No momento em que eles mostram a cara, \u00e9 preciso tirar uma fotografia deles, ou uma ideia ainda melhor seria gravar o seu <\/strong>conversa\u00e7\u00e3o por v\u00eddeo<\/strong>\/chamar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O objetivo \u00e9 obter provas da sua verdadeira identidade. Depois de conseguir o que quer, pode divertir-se com eles e dizer-lhes que sabe tudo sobre o esquema rom\u00e2ntico que estavam a planear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tell them that you\u2019re going to report them to the authorities immediately with all the evidence you have against them. <\/em>Oh, do take another pic of them at that moment because I\u2019m sure their expression will be priceless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturalmente, deve sempre denunciar o esquema de encontros ou qualquer outro esquema de que tenha provas \u00e0s autoridades. Para ser mais exato, deve denunci\u00e1-lo \u00e0 Comiss\u00e3o Federal do Com\u00e9rcio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tamb\u00e9m pode avisar os servi\u00e7os de encontros em que o seu burl\u00e3o tem perfis de que o perfil \u00e9 falso e que devem apag\u00e1-lo ou remov\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Principais conclus\u00f5es<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Online dating sites are unfortunately full of fake identities and profiles. There are many dating scammers who operate on those kinds of sites and social media platforms, and it\u2019s impossible to catch them all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fraudes em linha<\/em> tornaram-se uma coisa normal, e muitas pessoas j\u00e1 se depararam com esse tipo de experi\u00eancias desagrad\u00e1veis.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why I hope from the bottom of my heart that this list of personal questions to ask a romance scammer will help you expose those online dating scams and frauds. I would be eternally happy to know that I helped someone expose a scammer and saved them from a broken heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Por favor, tenham cuidado com o mundo online!<\/strong>Pay attention to what you post on your social media sites, and don\u2019t ever reveal too much about yourself on dating apps. The moment you notice red flags about a person, do a background check on them or report them to the authorities immediately and let them do a check-up on them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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