{"id":15987,"date":"2018-03-08T10:53:06","date_gmt":"2018-03-08T10:53:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=15987"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:40:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:40:38","slug":"maldita-rapariga-7-sinais-de-que-precisa-de-ter-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/maldita-rapariga-7-sinais-de-que-precisa-de-ter-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Damn Girl - 7 sinais de que precisas de sair dessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

You meet a guy, you\u2019re wary. He sem esfor\u00e7o<\/strong> tells you what you want to hear, you know, that he\u2019s, \u201cNever met anyone like you before\u201d, \u201cYou\u2019re amazing\u201d, \u201cYou\u2019re beautiful,\u201d… Blah, blah, blah.<\/p>\n

It just rolls off his tongue like it\u2019s been rehearsed\u2026 You can bet your ass baby girl, that that shit has been replayed over and over again to each and every girl who sets her sights on him. Agora est\u00e1 a ver, mesmo a tempo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a baixar a guarda<\/a><\/strong>, you start to let him in and feel real emotions, emotions you haven\u2019t felt for a long while\u2014because you believe this man is perfect for you.<\/p>\n

You think, \u2018Wow, he\u2019s too good to be true.\u2019 Yep, you guessed what I am going to say next\u2014that\u2019s because they usually are. They are all very well-behaved in the beginning, they are trying to impress you, reel you in. Then BOOM\u2026 WTAF?!<\/p>\n

Not all relationships start off like this and end in disaster but the ones not worth staying for are the ones that start off oh so magical but then turn out like a scene from Titanic\u2026 Tragic.<\/p>\n

Corre enquanto podes.<\/p>\n

The thing is, there are very few genuinely good eggs left out there. Not all of them are big, fat, phony fakers but you need to know when you are just \u2018too good\u2019 for that good for nothing guy.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 uma rapariga en\u00e9rgica, cheia de vida e alegre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You light up the room when you\u2019re in it, people flock to you, you are positive and give off good energies. You live life to the full and have a wicked sense of humor.<\/p>\n

He is the complete opposite of you\u2014he\u2019s quiet, never interested in anything other than himself, and overthinks to the point of creating an uneasy atmosphere. He makes you feel like you are attention-seeking, so you pull back to become the person you are not.<\/p>\n

NUNCA<\/strong> mudar para estar com outra pessoa. They don\u2019t like who you are? They can take a hike. Adios.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9s muito atencioso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9s uma pessoa atenciosa, est\u00e1s a fazer o teu dia normal, mas v\u00eas constantemente coisas de que ele pode gostar, por isso compras-lhe porque queres faz\u00ea-lo feliz.<\/p>\n

When the tables are turned\u2014you receive nothing but empty promises. You leave cute little notes for him to find when you\u2019re not with him. He can barely text you back, let alone make such an effort to lift a pen. Are you mad?! Ha. It\u2019s the little things in life that count,<\/strong> so if he isn\u2019t thoughtful with doing the little things, imagine your wedding day…\u201cDo you take\u2026\u201d, \u201cWait, where is he?!\u201d\u2014need I say more.<\/p>\n

Tu \u00e9s o \u00fanico que mostra emo\u00e7\u00f5es de qualquer tipo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So you\u2019re missing your guy, you freaking love the man in your life, you tell him so but wait\u2026 What is this I hear? I thought so, the sound of tumbleweed drifting past. Is it even reciprocated?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que sabes, ele mal te diz, a n\u00e3o ser que o chateies e, mesmo assim, acreditas nele? Acabamos por ficar com tantas perguntas sem resposta na cabe\u00e7a que ficamos doidos.<\/p>\n

If your guy won\u2019t open up to you or won\u2019t tell you how he really feels about you, do you really want to waste your time on a guy who may or may not like you as much as you like him?<\/p>\n

There are plenty of awesome guys out there who won\u2019t leave you guessing\u2019 ELE VAI DAR A CONHECER!!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9s tu que fazes a rela\u00e7\u00e3o avan\u00e7ar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Every day seems to be a struggle, too much like freakin’ hard work. You are having to repeat to him how to not treat you, how to treat you, remind him that you are his girlfriend and not one of his guy mates.<\/p>\n

Existe SEM ESFOR\u00c7O<\/strong> de qualquer tipo de the guy who\u2019s supposed to love you<\/a>. You\u2019re tired but will keep fighting for the both of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He thinks everything is fine, you know it\u2019s not. You talk to him about it, he tells you he\u2019s listening but his actions prove otherwise.<\/p>\n

Quando somos n\u00f3s que temos o r\u00e1cio 80\/20 na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, sabemos que os dias dele est\u00e3o contados, mas por quanto tempo mais podemos fazer isso antes de finalmente nos separarmos? Antes que ele a quebre, ele precisa de se equipar ou sair. Adeusinho!!!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Toda a gente v\u00ea o que ele tem para al\u00e9m dele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019s taking you for granted, he knows everyone thinks you\u2019re beautiful, that you\u2019re a catch, that you have this <\/strong>freakin’ personalidade fant\u00e1stica e est\u00e1 com ele.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He thinks now that he has you, he doesn\u2019t have to do anything to keep you. ERRADO.<\/strong> That dude couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. He barely compliments you anymore, you try to get his attention and short of flashing him your boobs, you\u2019re fighting a losing battle.<\/p>\n

Girl, if he cannot see what he has and let\u2019s face it, most guys are batting above their average, then his unnoticed becomes another man’s noticed and we all know who the real winner is here. YOU. Deixar o rabo dele<\/a> if he doesn\u2019t love and respect or even NOTICE what he has. Someone else will.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a chave<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he struggles to even text you once throughout the day now, when before he would hit you with those bad boys 24\/7, there\u2019s something wrong\u2026 Not with you. No, my love, there\u2019s something wrong with him.<\/p>\n

Never let a guy make you feel like you don\u2019t deserve his time.<\/strong> You do deserve it, he\u2019s just making excuses\u2014 \u201cI am really busy\u201d, \u201cI forgot to reply.\u201d Bullcrap.<\/p>\n

He goes to take a leak right, a cigarette break maybe? He has time, he has just become lazy in the way he is treating you. If his communication starts seriously slacking, more so than his attempts to woo you, then I would drop him like a sack of shit because nobody got time for chasing. Let him do the chasing. If he doesn\u2019t chase, you have your answer. You did the right thing.<\/p>\n

Confie sempre no seu instinto.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your gut is a lifesaver\u2014if something isn\u2019t feeling right, you start to feel overly anxious about the relationship and if he\u2019s the right guy for you. O seu instinto est\u00e1 a dizer-lhe alguma coisa.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

When something is right it should be easy, you should love freely, it should just feel right. If your gut is telling you to get out then you need to listen to that bitch because that could stop you from being in a world of pain in the future, more so than what you\u2019re feeling now.<\/p>\n

Alguns homens podem e v\u00e3o mudar se realmente quiserem<\/strong> but if he continues to ignore it after you have told him once about how you\u2019re feeling, then he isn\u2019t good for you.<\/p>\n

You never know, he may just pull the rabbit out of the hat and surprise you but if the above keeps happening, then you need to get out of that relationship\u2014 the one-sided relationship that\u2019s only working for him.<\/p>\n

\"Damn<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You meet a guy, you\u2019re wary. He effortlessly tells you what you want to hear, you know, that he\u2019s, \u201cNever met anyone like you before\u201d, \u201cYou\u2019re amazing\u201d, \u201cYou\u2019re beautiful,\u201d… Blah, blah, blah. It just rolls off his tongue like it\u2019s been rehearsed\u2026 You can bet your ass baby girl, that that shit has been replayed…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":15991,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/chris-hsiao-517272-unsplash.jpg",800,576,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15987"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15987\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}