{"id":159962,"date":"2022-11-10T22:07:58","date_gmt":"2022-11-10T22:07:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159962"},"modified":"2022-11-23T07:08:14","modified_gmt":"2022-11-23T07:08:14","slug":"quanto-tempo-se-deve-falar-com-alguem-antes-de-namorar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quanto-tempo-se-deve-falar-com-alguem-antes-de-namorar\/","title":{"rendered":"Quanto tempo \u00e9 que se deve falar com algu\u00e9m antes de namorar? (Um guia)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sabemos imediatamente quando gostamos de algu\u00e9m, mas ser\u00e1 que gostamos o suficiente para come\u00e7ar a sair com essa pessoa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The talking stage is all flowers and butterflies until you need to decide if it\u2019s time to take your relationship to the next level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, how long should you talk to someone before dating? A week? A month? Three months? Should you have \u201cthe talk\u201d the moment you start liking them, or should you go with the flow and trust the process?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se quiser encontrar o momento certo, sugiro que leia este artigo e siga as dicas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quanto tempo deve<\/strong> Falar com algu\u00e9m antes de namorar?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"namorado<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Well, don\u2019t be disappointed when I tell you that a resposta depende<\/strong>porque depende de facto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Em primeiro lugar, depende de a seriedade com que encara as rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/strong>. Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um grande compromisso para si? Quer entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o apenas quando pensa que a pessoa pode ser um bom parceiro?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or are you willing to make the relationship official and develop a deeper one? You can tell where I’m going with this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, how long should you talk to someone before dating doesn\u2019t only depend on you. It depends on a outra pessoa tamb\u00e9m<\/strong>. There are many things you should consider, and everyone\u2019s different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what are those things you should consider? Let\u2019s find out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14 coisas que deve ter em conta<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"conversa<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It isn\u2019t easy for many of us to simply ease into a committed relationship. Of course, you can never be sure if you have found the right person if you don\u2019t spend enough time with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re all a little different on dating apps and social media than face-to-face. You only see the tip of the iceberg on the first date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aqui est\u00e1 uma lista de coisas que deve ter em conta antes de namorar com algu\u00e9m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. T\u00eam maturidade suficiente?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A maturidade \u00e9 um fator importante para decidir quanto tempo deve falar com algu\u00e9m antes de namorar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A maturidade influencia a qualidade da conversa<\/strong> e o qu\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio se leva essa pessoa.<\/strong> \u00c9 a base de todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es e casamentos bem sucedidos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The level of trust, dependability, and support from your partner is defined by how mature they are. So, if you see that they aren\u2019t mature enough, it\u2019s best to wait a little longer or not make things official.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ou emocionalmente est\u00e1vel?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Emotional stability is also an important quality of a person. Everyone has some emotional damage, and nobody\u2019s perfect, but it\u2019s much easier with pessoas emocionalmente est\u00e1veis<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Est\u00e1 pronto para come\u00e7ar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/a> with someone with anger issues, a lack of empathy, who never admits they\u2019re wrong, and who runs from their problems?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pode esperar meses para ver essas caracter\u00edsticas diretamente, e quem quer isso? Por isso, tente apanh\u00e1-los em pequenos actos e leia nas entrelinhas o mais poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Pode dizer-se que se pode confiar neles?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"jovem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Sim, a confian\u00e7a \u00e9 algo que se constr\u00f3i<\/a>, and you can\u2019t simply trust someone you just met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, h\u00e1 algumas situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que se pode concluir they aren\u2019t trustworthy<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you catch them changing little details of a story they\u2019ve already told you or if they keep hiding their profession, past, friends, or any other significant aspect of their life, it\u2019s a sign they aren\u2019t trustworthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s best not to start an exclusive relationship with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. E as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Our past doesn\u2019t define us \u2013 however, ela molda-nos.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although talking about previous relationships is a big no if you\u2019re looking for a new romance, if you\u2019re spending time with them, it\u2019s natural for this topic to arise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 poss\u00edvel detetar se they\u2019re <\/a>over their ex through this conversation. Also, a good trait for a potential partner is if they don\u2019t talk badly about their exes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although not a rule, it\u2019s a strong indication they won\u2019t talk badly about you and keep all<\/strong> os seus segredos para si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Quais s\u00e3o os seus interesses de vida?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"namorado<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

A beleza da vida est\u00e1 na sua diversidade<\/em>. It is good that everyone has different interests, but if you want to start a new relationship with someone, it\u2019s best to have similar interests.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The phrase \u2018\u2018opposite attracts\u2019\u2019 is a myth. Os interesses comuns s\u00e3o outra base importante para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida<\/strong>e todos os especialistas em rela\u00e7\u00f5es confirmam-no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

With common interests, you\u2019ll be able to have more fun together because you like the <\/strong>os mesmos passatempos, comida e entretenimento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will give you a better insight into their personality and make things easier. So, ask yourself whether you are ready to have the exclusivity talk with someone you don\u2019t share any interests with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Est\u00e1 a ter conversas de alta qualidade?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

As conversas de alta qualidade s\u00e3o frequentemente um reflexo da sua maturidade, interesses e valores comuns.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

They are a sign that you\u2019ll have uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> com eles porque a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 aberta, e you\u2019ll form a strong connection<\/strong> com eles desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you come home after every date and feel like that person gave you a good brain massage, congratulations, it\u2019s time to talk about the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Eles respeitam-no at\u00e9 agora?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need a relationship coach to tell you how important respect is in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unpleasant comments about you and your loved ones, constant lies, comparing you with others, and flirting with others are signs they don\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se detetar sinais de um parceiro desrespeitoso<\/a> at the beginning, then it\u2019s obvious you shouldn\u2019t have the exclusivity talk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. \u00c9s amigo deles?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Ao decidir quanto tempo deve falar com algu\u00e9m antes de namorar, uma parte importante \u00e9 saber se eram amigos antes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se come\u00e7aram como amigos e, passado algum tempo, perceberam que tinham sentimentos um pelo outro, it\u2019s normal that you won’t wait too long.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You already know each other quite well, and now it\u2019s time to get to know them better from a romantic perspective. So feel free to make the relationship exclusive any time you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Do you love each other\u2019s energies?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, you just know they\u2019re the right person. It\u2019s o seu instinto<\/a> that tells you they\u2019re the one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe there isn\u2019t something specific you love about that person; it\u2019s just that you feel like you\u2019re always in the right frame of mind to spend time with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you felt a deja-vu feeling when you just met, an instant click, you finish each other’s sentences, and have a synchronized body language \u2014 that\u2019s it, feel free to make things official.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Tem os mesmos valores?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The same values are a good sign that it\u2019s time to stop the \u2018\u2018apenas casualmente <\/em>conviver<\/em> sometimes\u2019<\/em>\u2019 and start making them an important part of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having similar values will keep you connected when things are going well in your relationship and when they’re not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os valores podem ser ajustados, mas n\u00e3o podem ser alterados. D\u00e3o-nos a nossa identidade.<\/strong> Os casais que n\u00e3o t\u00eam os mesmos valores ficar\u00e3o sempre desiludidos e ressentidos um com o outro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Existe paix\u00e3o na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Passion is not the only thing that defines if you\u2019re ready to start dating someone, but it matters quite a lot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll know you\u2019re passionate about them if you can\u2019t wait to see them again and if you constantly think of them and look forward to a future together, even if you just met.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you can be vulnerable around them without feeling that they might hurt you, it\u2019s a jackpot because you\u2019re already inconscientemente comprometido com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Que temas devem ser evitados?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s best to avoid certain topics, which most often refers to temas pol\u00edticos, humor negro e tudo o que possam considerar inapropriado.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you meet someone new, you don\u2019t know to what extent their humor goes. You may say something they\u2019ll find offensive, and because of this, they\u2019ll immediately cut you off, no matter how compatible you two are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The same goes for political topics and something they might take offense to. It\u2019s better to get to know someone and make certain statements after you\u2019ve made it clear you\u2019re on the same page.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. O que \u00e9 que <\/strong>bandeiras vermelhas<\/strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Quando come\u00e7amos a falar com algu\u00e9m, esquecemo-nos facilmente dos factores de rutura e dos sinais de alerta, porque o entusiasmo inicial e a liga\u00e7\u00e3o nos cegam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se quiser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/a>Para isso, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o aos sinais de alerta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some red flags should send you running for your life, but don\u2019t ignore your personal bandeiras vermelhas<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

De facto, nunca os ignore because they\u2019ll hugely impact your further relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. \u00c9 um ressalto?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Se voc\u00ea ou o seu potencial parceiro acabou de romper com algu\u00e9m, a \u00faltima coisa que quer \u00e9 ficar preso a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o pouco saud\u00e1vel. rela\u00e7\u00e3o de ricochete<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know how they say you\u2019ll forget someone faster if you find someone new? Most of the time, this isn\u2019t the case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you notice they talk about their ex constantly, compare you to them, and keep things superficial, it\u2019s a sign they aren\u2019t ready for a relationship, and you shouldn\u2019t talk about making things official.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando \u00e9 a altura certa?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

S\u00f3 tu saber\u00e1s qual \u00e9 o momento certo para tornar as coisas oficiais. Depende de a vossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o, interesses comuns, estado de esp\u00edrito, se a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem sido \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia at\u00e9 agora.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There isn\u2019t even a rough rule that says: \u2018\u2018Okay, after these two months of talking, it\u2019s time to go official.\u2019\u2019<\/em> Se vir que a pessoa est\u00e1 t\u00e3o interessada em si como voc\u00ea nela, sinta-se \u00e0 vontade para iniciar a conversa sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most people say it\u2019s normal to make things official in the primeiro e segundo meses do <\/strong>palco de conversa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>mas deve ter sempre em conta tudo o que foi mencionado anteriormente no artigo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E se come\u00e7ares a namorar imediatamente?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Dating someone just after a few dates might turn out well, but most of the time, it doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you start a relationship right away, you don\u2019t know who you\u2019re dating. It might turn out they\u2019re the complete opposite of what they\u2019ve told you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe you\u2019re only a rebound to them, or they\u2019re trying to use you and then break up with you. There are thousands of possibilities, and none of them are good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s best to get to know them in general, their past, friends, and interests, and then decide if they\u2019re a good match for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E se esperar demasiado tempo?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"casal<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Se esperarem demasiado tempo e nenhum dos dois iniciar a conversa sobre a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, pode parecer que you aren\u2019t interested in one another.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

It may become stressful and damaging to your relationship, even though you really like each other. That\u2019s why podem come\u00e7ar a sair com algu\u00e9m<\/a> outra pessoa que esteja pronta para come\u00e7ar uma nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe they won\u2019t even find someone new, but what then? Are you ready to estar no <\/strong>palco de conversa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong> indefinidamente?<\/strong> This is emotionally draining, and in the end, you\u2019ll ruin something that started great.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Resumindo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Quanto tempo se deve falar com algu\u00e9m antes de namorar? \u00c9 depends on you, the person you\u2019re talking to, and your connection.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

There isn\u2019t an exact, universal time you should wait for. We\u2019re all different, and we all have our preferences, needs, and ways of thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, deve ignorar qualquer per\u00edodo. O que importa s\u00e3o as experi\u00eancias que partilham, n\u00e3o o tempo passado com eles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1 os viu zangados, tristes, desiludidos, no seu pior? Como reagiram quando estavam com ci\u00fames e felizes por si? S\u00e3o compassivos? Resumindo: don\u2019t count minutes, count moments.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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