{"id":159993,"date":"2022-11-11T08:51:26","date_gmt":"2022-11-11T08:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=159993"},"modified":"2022-11-24T12:28:24","modified_gmt":"2022-11-24T12:28:24","slug":"um-narcisista-pode-ser-fiel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-narcisista-pode-ser-fiel\/","title":{"rendered":"<strong>Um narcisista pode ser fiel? Tudo o que precisa de saber<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Um narcisista pode ser fiel? Tecnicamente, sim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you think of being faithful as not cheating, then, sure, a narcissist could probably be in a relationship and never sleep with someone who isn\u2019t their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But just because a narcissist isn\u2019t cheating, <strong>it doesn\u2019t mean they feel love and commitment<\/strong>. The reason why they\u2019re being faithful is that they\u2019re either still getting what they want from their partner or that they\u2019ve never had an opportunity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ser fiel \u00e9 mais do que n\u00e3o fazer batota.<\/strong> Fidelidade significa <em>amar algu\u00e9m de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/em> and choosing them over everyone else in the world. But a narcissist isn&#8217;t capable of that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Continue a ler para saber mais sobre narcisistas, amor e lealdade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-narcissist-be-faithful-here-s-why-the-answer-is-no\">Can A Narcissist Be Faithful? Here\u2019s Why The Answer Is No<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente com \u00f3culos a escrever no telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-159994\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-with-glasses-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Narcissists are far more likely to be cheaters than the majority of people. They believe that rules that apply to others don&#8217;t apply to them. This is why they can have sex with someone who isn&#8217;t their partner without a second thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Even if a narcissist never sleeps with someone other than their partner, the answer to the question, &#8220;Can a narcissist be faithful in a relationship?&#8221; is <em>n\u00e3o<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A narc might not be sleeping around, but they\u2019re not faithful out of love and loyalty \u2013 it\u2019s only because it\u2019s in their best interest. The only reason a narcissist isn\u2019t cheating is that they\u2019re still getting what they need from their partner or a chance hasn\u2019t presented itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To understand why that is, let\u2019s first learn more about narcissists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-are-you-in-a-relationship-with-a-narcissist\">Est\u00e1 numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People often use the term \u201cnarcissist\u201d to describe someone who has narcissistic traits, such as being self-centered, but narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition that involves more than a single personality trait.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Narcissism is a spectrum. Having a slightly overblown ego is common, and simply being arrogant doesn\u2019t mean that someone has narcissistic disorder. <strong>Someone with narcissistic tendencies is capable of healthy relationships, but someone with NPD isn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Como \u00e9 que se pode saber se a pessoa com quem se vive tem tra\u00e7os narc\u00edsicos ou se tem uma perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica? <\/em>Apenas um m\u00e9dico pode diagnosticar um problema de sa\u00fade mental como este, mas existem alguns sinais de alerta que podem tornar as coisas mais claras.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-superiority\">\u2022 SUPERIORITY<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The quickest way to know that you\u2019re with a narcissist is to pay attention to the way they treat others. <strong>A narcissist believes that they\u2019re not like other people.<\/strong> Todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es baseiam-se no que podem obter dos outros, incluindo de si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Um narcisista sacrificar\u00e1 a sua felicidade, os seus interesses e o seu bem-estar em prol dos dele e n\u00e3o ver\u00e1 qualquer problema nisso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Podem nem sequer estar conscientes de como o seu pensamento est\u00e1 distorcido porque<strong> v\u00eaem-se a si pr\u00f3prios como a \u00fanica pessoa que importa e todos os outros como instrumentos utilizados para alcan\u00e7ar o que pretendem.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-entitlement\"><strong>- <\/strong>ENTITLAMENTO<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They feel entitled to whatever they want because they think they\u2019re special, and <strong>precisam de valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante<\/strong> para lhes recordar este facto. Para o efeito, <strong>exploram os outros<\/strong> sem ter em conta o seu bem-estar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Um narcisista sente que o mundo lhe deve as coisas que ele quer. <\/strong>Admiration, attention, success, acknowledgment \u2013 whatever it is that they crave, they expect to be given because they believe they\u2019re entitled to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-abuse\">\u2022 ABUSE<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you&#8217;re in a relationship with a narcissist, nearly every day is a struggle to find hope in the face of narcissistic abuse. <strong>Um narcisista explora as suas inseguran\u00e7as e medos,<\/strong> depois distorce a realidade para te fazer acreditar que o comportamento deles \u00e9 culpa tua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>O gaslighting \u00e9 uma das principais armas de um narcisista <\/strong>\u2013 they\u2019ll never admit to a fault or a mistake. Instead, they\u2019ll make you doubt yourself and your perception. They must always preserve the image they hold of themselves, and your sanity isn\u2019t a too steep a price to pay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>RELACIONADO:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-que-os-narcisistas-dizem-numa-discussao\/\"><strong> <\/strong><strong>52 Coisas Manipuladoras que os Narcisistas Dizem Numa Discuss\u00e3o<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-narcissist-genuinely-love-someone\">Pode um narcisista amar verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita a rir-se com um homem num piquenique na natureza\" class=\"wp-image-159995\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/beautiful-woman-laughing-with-man-on-the-picnic-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You could say that the only person a narcissist loves is himself or herself, but that\u2019s not quite true.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Narcissists don&#8217;t really feel self-love. What a narc feels underneath all the superiority is <strong>self-loathing and low self-esteem they&#8217;re trying to fight against at the expense of others.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is why narcissists need constant affirmation from those around them that they&#8217;re as great as they&#8217;re trying to convince themselves they are. Everyone appreciates attention, but for a narcissist, it\u2019s the only way to feel good about themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ao contr\u00e1rio da maioria das pessoas, os narcisistas s\u00e3o incapazes de alcan\u00e7ar a realiza\u00e7\u00e3o a partir de dentro.<\/strong> A sua autoestima depende inteiramente da valida\u00e7\u00e3o externa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Como se pode ver, isto anda de m\u00e3os dadas com a batota.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When their partner can\u2019t give them what they\u2019re looking for, they seek attention elsewhere. They don\u2019t feel bad about it because <strong>a sua conduta baseia-se inteiramente no facto de se sentirem bem.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you try to confront them, you\u2019ll be faced with a complete refusal to take responsibility. The narcissist will use manipulation and emotional abuse to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-os-narcisistas-precisam-desesperadamente-que-duvidemos-de-nos-proprios\/\"> fazem-nos duvidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A narcissist can\u2019t feel real love because they have no interest in other people\u2019s needs and feelings or the willingness to understand them. But <strong>os narcisistas podem disfar\u00e7ar o seu abuso como amor<\/strong>. They can be hurting you and make you feel like you&#8217;re the one hurting them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-narcissistic-traits-and-cheating\"><strong>Tra\u00e7os narcisistas e trai\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uma das caracter\u00edsticas que definem<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tracos-narcisicos-que-pode-nao-reconhecer-imediatamente\/\"> tra\u00e7os de narcisismo<\/a> \u00e9 um <strong>falta de empatia<\/strong><strong>. <\/strong>Isto significa que um narcisista \u00e9 incapaz de se ligar a outras pessoas, o que o impossibilita de amar outra pessoa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os narcisistas t\u00eam um <strong>sentido grandioso de auto-import\u00e2ncia. <\/strong>They believe that everyone is beneath them and expect special treatment. For a narcissist, other people only have value if they serve a purpose, so they don\u2019t think twice about taking advantage of others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00eam um <strong>sentido de <\/strong><strong>direito<\/strong><strong> <\/strong>and believe that they\u2019re owed things, most of all <strong>admira\u00e7\u00e3o, aten\u00e7\u00e3o e <\/strong><strong>valida\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>. They use manipulation and abuse to get what they want if it\u2019s not given.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Todas estas caracter\u00edsticas fazem com que, para um narcisista, a trai\u00e7\u00e3o seja t\u00e3o banal como algo que n\u00e3o magoa ningu\u00e9m.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They don\u2019t see cheating any worse than, for example, hanging out with a friend when you\u2019re lonely and your partner is busy. If a narcissist isn\u2019t getting attention from their partner, they\u2019ll cheat on them as easily as if they were calling up a friend for drinks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But even if a narcissist can\u2019t see <em>porqu\u00ea<\/em> they shouldn\u2019t be unfaithful to their partner, it doesn\u2019t mean that they don\u2019t know that what they\u2019re doing is wrong. They\u2019ll hide the infidelity, not because they don\u2019t want to hurt their partner\u2019s feelings, but <strong>so that they don\u2019t have to bear the consequences<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-sexual-narcissism\">Narcisismo sexual<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a beijar-se na cama\" class=\"wp-image-159996\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/young-couple-kissing-in-the-bed-2-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O narcisismo sexual \u00e9 composto por quatro partes: <strong>explora\u00e7\u00e3o sexual, sentido grandioso de habilidade sexual, direito sexual e falta de empatia sexual.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In other words, a sexual narcissist feels they&#8217;re great in bed and believes they\u2019re entitled to sex. They\u2019re willing to use people and don&#8217;t care about their sex partner\u2019s experience. This is consistent with all other aspects of narcissism.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Isto significa que um narcisista \u00e9 suscet\u00edvel de ter sexo casual e sexo sem liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional. <strong>De acordo com um<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/link.springer.com\/article\/10.1007\/s10508-014-0282-6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong> investiga\u00e7\u00e3o sobre o narcisismo sexual<\/strong><\/a><strong>, it\u2019s also tightly linked with infidelity.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Narcissists are likely to cheat because they don\u2019t place value on others unless in terms of what they can get from them. They use sex to prove to themselves that they\u2019re superior at it, but also to fill their need for attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>It\u2019s of no consequence to a narcissist how their romantic or sexual partners feel. <\/strong>They easily justify to themselves sex outside of the relationship as something they\u2019re entitled to because they\u2019re better than ordinary people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If they can\u2019t get what they need from one person, they see no problem in looking for it with multiple partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-a-narcissist-want-in-a-relationship\">O que \u00e9 que um narcisista quer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s only one thing a narcissist wants from a partner, and that\u2019s to use them to fulfill their own desperate need for attention and admiration. <em>How can a narcissist be faithful when they can\u2019t genuinely love someone?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os narcisistas nunca s\u00e3o realmente leais aos seus parceiros, de qualquer forma que seja. Para um narcisista, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o termina quando n\u00e3o tem mais nada a ganhar com a sua v\u00edtima, pelo que nunca se compromete verdadeiramente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>They\u2019re unfaithful because they&#8217;re always keeping their options open in case you stop giving them what they need<\/strong> \u2013 limitless attention, admiration and feelings of superiority.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-narcissistic-supply\">Fornecimento narcisista<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"casal a conversar na cama em casa\" class=\"wp-image-160000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/couple-talking-on-the-bed-at-home-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As rela\u00e7\u00f5es com parceiros narcisistas podem durar de alguns meses a v\u00e1rios anos. Para compreender o funcionamento de um narcisista, \u00e9 \u00fatil familiarizar-se com o conceito de <strong>oferta narc\u00edsica<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os narcisistas precisam de valida\u00e7\u00e3o constante. Receber tratamento especial \u00e9 a forma de compensar as suas inseguran\u00e7as, pelo que t\u00eam de ter sempre <strong>uma fonte que lhes proporcione a admira\u00e7\u00e3o e a aten\u00e7\u00e3o de que necessitam<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They&#8217;re incapable of real bonds with people, so they target those around them who can fulfill their needs. <strong>Para manter a sua fonte de abastecimento narc\u00edsico, manipulam e abusam das suas v\u00edtimas.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-narcissistic-relationship-cycle\">Ciclo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es narc\u00edsicas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c9 assim que funciona uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista: <strong>Primeiro prendem-nos, depois destroem-nos e, no fim, deitam-nos fora.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As long as you serve your purpose, you\u2019re useful. This is how the idea that a narcissist can be faithful can seem plausible: even if they\u2019re abusive, they could still be faithful because what they\u2019re getting from their victim is <strong>alimentar a sua oferta<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As tr\u00eas fases da <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/padrao-de-relacionamento-narcisista\/\">ciclo de rela\u00e7\u00f5es narc\u00edsicas<\/a> s\u00e3o:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stage-1-idealization\">Fase 1. Idealiza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do you believe in true love at first sight? Maybe you don\u2019t, but then you meet <em>o \u00fanico<\/em>. A sua alma g\u00e9mea. Algu\u00e9m t\u00e3o perfeito para si que o tempo que passam juntos parece um conto de fadas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando um narcisista precisa de algu\u00e9m que lhe d\u00ea a aten\u00e7\u00e3o necess\u00e1ria e encontra algu\u00e9m suficientemente vulner\u00e1vel para o usar, coloca-o num pedestal.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Os narcisistas idealizam as suas v\u00edtimas porque querem acreditar que o seu fornecimento vem de uma fonte valiosa, n\u00e3o porque as amam.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At this stage, a narcissist might even believe that they feel love, but they don&#8217;t. They&#8217;re creating a fantasy version of you that can do no wrong so that they can deem you <strong>digno de ser seu fornecedor<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They\u2019re probably faithful at this point because they\u2019re getting what they need from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The narcissist learns what their victim wants and presents themselves as the ideal partner. They give their victim what seems to be intense love and affection \u2013<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-e-um-bombardeamento-amoroso-e-nao-um-amor-verdadeiro\/\"> mas est\u00e1, de facto, a bombardear de amor<\/a> \u2013 to get their trust so that they\u2019ll let their guard down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stage-2-devaluation\">Fase 2. Desvaloriza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"Casal jovem e s\u00e9rio sentado num sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-160002\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Serious-young-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Soon enough, a narcissist realizes that you aren&#8217;t the person they made up inside their head. They think in absolutes \u2013 you can be either flawless or worthless. <strong>You can&#8217;t keep up with the demands of the narcissist, so you lose their value to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even worse, if you love a narcissist, they&#8217;ll think of you as inferior and worthless. They transfer their feelings about themselves onto you. This is how they see themselves deep down, so if you love them, something is wrong with you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The narcissist devalues their victim and puts them down because they don&#8217;t belong on the pedestal any longer.<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/abuso-narcisico\/\"> <strong>Abuso narc\u00edsico<\/strong><\/a><strong> \u00e9 o castigo por n\u00e3o sermos o que eles imaginavam e n\u00e3o podermos dar-lhes o que eles precisam.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Amea\u00e7as de viol\u00eancia, gaslighting, viola\u00e7\u00e3o dos seus limites e isolamento dos seus familiares s\u00e3o alguns dos comportamentos abusivos que um narcisista pode utilizar para o castigar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nesta altura, <strong>podem ser infi\u00e9is se j\u00e1 tiverem encontrado outro fornecedor<\/strong>. If they haven&#8217;t, they might appear remorseful and restart the cycle to get what they need from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-stage-3-discarding\">Etapa 3. Descarte<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When a narcissist can\u2019t exploit you the way they want any longer, they first punish you, then discard you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No entanto, antes de se desfazerem completamente da sua v\u00edtima,<strong> a narcissist wants to make sure that they\u2019re punished the way they deserve. <\/strong>Invalidam os seus sentimentos, fazem-se de v\u00edtimas e lan\u00e7am campanhas de difama\u00e7\u00e3o para arruinar a sua reputa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Often, even after they discard their victims, a narcissist still leaves the door open so that they can come back in case there\u2019s still more for them to take from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Tudo se resume ao facto desanimador de que um narcisista \u00e9 incapaz de amar. <\/strong>Alguns deles podem acreditar que <em>pode<\/em> feel love, so when they inevitably become disappointed in their partner, they\u2019ll place the blame on them and look for someone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After discarding their old, \u201cfaulty\u201d significant other, a narcissist moves on to a new romantic partner, but in reality, all they want is another supply.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-tell-that-a-narcissist-is-unfaithful\">Como saber se um narcisista \u00e9 infiel?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente sentado no sof\u00e1 e a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-159997\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-couch-and-looking-at-mobile-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Isto depende do tipo de trai\u00e7\u00e3o em que o narcisista est\u00e1 envolvido.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, all they\u2019re trying to get is more attention from their partner, and sometimes they want attention from whichever source they can get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-types-of-infidelity\">Tipos de infidelidade<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some narcissists are satisfied with emotional infidelity, while others sleep with everyone who\u2019s willing. Some are serial cheaters, and others have affairs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If a narcissist doesn\u2019t give as much value to sexual conquest as they give to, for example, wealth, business success or popularity, <strong>they might stay faithful, but only because they wouldn\u2019t gain anything from infidelity.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-physical-infidelity\">1. Infidelidade f\u00edsica<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A infidelidade f\u00edsica significa que o narcisista est\u00e1 a ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais fora da rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <strong>Isto pode ir desde um caso a longo prazo at\u00e9 encontros de uma noite. <\/strong>This is what we usually think of when talking about infidelity, but it\u2019s often connected to other types as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-emotional-infidelity\">2. Infidelidade emocional<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A infidelidade emocional acontece quando algu\u00e9m se torna emocionalmente \u00edntimo de outra pessoa que n\u00e3o o seu parceiro. <strong>Desenvolver uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional com outra pessoa pode ser t\u00e3o prejudicial para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o como um caso sexual.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, because a narcissist isn&#8217;t capable of really bonding with others, an emotional affair to them can mean different things than it does to an ordinary person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-cyber-infidelity\">3. Infidelidade cibern\u00e9tica<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente sentado no ch\u00e3o e a escrever no telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-160001\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/smiling-man-sitting-on-the-floor-and-typing-on-the-mobile-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A infidelidade cibern\u00e9tica significa geralmente <strong>utilizar as redes sociais e as aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros <\/strong>estabelecer algum tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00edntima com outra pessoa ou <strong>consumo excessivo de pornografia<\/strong>. It can stay on the level of just liking someone\u2019s sexy pictures or escalate into sexting or video chatting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-object-infidelity\">4. Infidelidade ao objeto<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While it\u2019s not often thought of as cheating, focusing on something to the point of obsession and neglecting your partner is a form of infidelity. This includes, for example, <strong>someone who\u2019s so focused on their work that their relationship suffers.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se um narcisista encontra a valida\u00e7\u00e3o de que necessita ao ser bem sucedido no seu trabalho, pode ignorar o seu parceiro na procura de ainda mais admira\u00e7\u00e3o que pode obter ao alcan\u00e7ar o sucesso empresarial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-micro-infidelity\">5. Micro infidelidade<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A micro infidelidade pode arruinar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a longo prazo, por mais inofensiva que pare\u00e7a.<strong> Envolve ac\u00e7\u00f5es aparentemente insignificantes que algu\u00e9m faz e que incomodam o seu parceiro.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, if someone constantly flirts even though their partner doesn\u2019t like it, the longer it goes on, their partner is more likely to get hurt, even if there\u2019s no intention of taking it further.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>RELACIONADO:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/49-sinais-de-um-parceiro-traidor\/\"><strong> <\/strong><strong>49 sinais de trai\u00e7\u00e3o a que deve estar atento<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-warning-signs-of-infidelity\">Sinais de aviso de infidelidade<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"jovem simp\u00e1tico \u00e0 procura de um espa\u00e7o exterior\" class=\"wp-image-159998\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/nice-young-man-looking-aside-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are the signs that show that a partner might be cheating on you, regardless if they\u2019re a narcissist or not. The main difference is that a narcissist will be much more defensive if you confront them and take their gaslighting to another level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-lack-of-interest-in-sex\">\u2022 Lack of interest in sex<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If your partner suddenly loses interest in sex, it&#8217;s possible that they&#8217;re getting enough sex elsewhere. For any cheater, and especially a narcissist, sex outside of the relationship is far more exciting than sex with their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-changes-in-sexual-behavior\">\u2022 Changes in sexual behavior<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When your partner suggests something they\u2019ve never even mentioned before, it might be a sign of cheating. They might have tried something with the person they\u2019re cheating with and liked it, so now they want to do it again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-claims-to-be-working-all-the-time\">\u2022 Claims to be working all the time<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Suddenly having to work overtime or on the weekends might be an excuse, especially if your partner can\u2019t give you answers to questions you ask them about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-going-out-with-friends-more-than-usual\">\u2022 Going out with friends more than usual<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If your partner is meeting friends more often than usual, they might actually be meeting their affair partner. It\u2019s especially likely if the things they tell you about hanging out with their friends are vague.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-doesn-t-want-to-spend-time-together\">\u2022 Doesn\u2019t want to spend time together<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If your partner is avoiding you, they might be trying to hide something from you. It\u2019s much easier to not talk at all than to talk and accidentally let something incriminating slip out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-unusual-behavior\">\u2022 Unusual behavior<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When your partner is acting oddly and you feel that something is off, it might be a sign that something is going on. For example, if they\u2019re more irritable than usual, defensive when you ask them anything or if they blame you for everything that goes wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-suspicious-technology-use\">\u2022 Suspicious technology use<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hiding their phone is one of the first signs that your partner might be cheating. If their phone is always on silent, if they leave the room to answer a call, if you sometimes can\u2019t reach them on the phone, they might be sneaking around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-paying-attention-to-appearance\">\u2022 Paying attention to appearance<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If your partner has started paying attention to their appearance more than they used to, it could be because they want to look good for the person they\u2019re cheating with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-suspicious-spending\">\u2022 Suspicious spending<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Os d\u00e9bitos invulgares no cart\u00e3o de cr\u00e9dito ou os levantamentos de dinheiro inexplic\u00e1veis podem significar que o seu parceiro est\u00e1 a gastar dinheiro com o seu parceiro e a financiar a sua trai\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-final-thoughts\">Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"homem bonito com cabelo encaracolado a sorrir para o exterior\" class=\"wp-image-159999\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/handsome-man-with-curly-hair-smiling-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, a narcissist\u2019s victim isn\u2019t even aware that what they\u2019re being put through isn\u2019t okay. A narcissist works hard to <strong>normalizar os comportamentos abusivos<\/strong> and make their victim believe that they deserve credit when they\u2019re not being hurtful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, finding comfort in the fact that they\u2019re not cheating on you is a result of their abuse. <em>But can a narcissist be faithful to their partner when they can\u2019t really love them?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A resposta \u00e9, infelizmente, n\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A narcissist only uses people for their own gain. Even when they believe that they love someone, it\u2019s temporary, on their own terms and only depends on what they can get from them. Sooner or later, they become disillusioned and move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If you\u2019re in a relationship with a narcissist, you won\u2019t be the one to change them. <\/strong>Ningu\u00e9m pode e a \u00fanica maneira de sair do ciclo de abuso \u00e9 sair o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Um narcisista pode ser fiel? Tudo o que precisa de saber Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-160577\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Can a narcissist be faithful? Technically, yes. If you think of being faithful as not cheating, then, sure, a narcissist could probably be in a relationship and never sleep with someone who isn\u2019t their partner. But just because a narcissist isn\u2019t cheating, it doesn\u2019t mean they feel love and commitment. The reason why they\u2019re being&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":160003,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-159993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Can-A-Narcissist-Be-Faithful-Everything-You-Need-To-Know-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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