{"id":16004,"date":"2018-03-08T12:13:09","date_gmt":"2018-03-08T12:13:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16004"},"modified":"2022-02-21T18:41:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T18:41:46","slug":"procurara-outros-nao-encontrarao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/procurara-outros-nao-encontrarao\/","title":{"rendered":"Procurar-me-eis em todos os outros, mas n\u00e3o me encontrareis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>She\u2019s the girl who would have done anything for you.<\/strong> The kind of girl who bent over backward to make you happy. She\u2019s the kind of girl who put your needs before her own. She would have loved you unconditionally.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s the girl who gave you cuddles and love when you were feeling down and out, or even just because. She\u2019s the girl who <strong>deu-te o seu corpo<\/strong> when she was afraid to do so. She\u2019s the girl who gave you her heart, soul and mind because you convinced her to let go and she did it willingly because you \u2018loved her\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s the girl who loved to sit up talking to you until the early hours just to make you smile. <strong>She\u2019s the girl who made you stare at her so intensely because she was herself.<\/strong> She\u2019s the girl who would make a fool out of herself just to hear you laugh. She\u2019s the naive girl who believed every word that you told her because she started to fall for you. She\u2019s the idiot who continued to love you after you treated her so badly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s the girl you will spend the rest of your life searching for.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O que n\u00e3o reparou foi que a rapariga <strong>mesmo \u00e0 vossa frente.<\/strong> When she looked deep into your eyes, this girl was looking for you to love her like she loved you. The girl who hugged you so tightly because she was so scared that if she let you go, you wouldn\u2019t come back. You were too <strong>egoc\u00eantrico e ego\u00edsta ver a rapariga que est\u00e1 \u00e0 sua frente a fugir porque pensou que ela estaria sempre l\u00e1, acontecesse o que acontecesse!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Essa rapariga estaria l\u00e1 se tivesses aberto os olhos e a tivesses tratado com o amor e o respeito que ela merecia. Se a tivesses tratado como <strong>a tua namorada e n\u00e3o como um peda\u00e7o de lixo descart\u00e1vel depois de terminares.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She was the girl who never asked for much from you, only a fraction of your time. She\u2019s the girl who understood your other commitments <strong>ocorreu sobre ela<\/strong> and she gave you all the space you needed even though it killed her. She\u2019s the girl who only wanted <strong>a simple text now and then when you were too busy to say that you loved her\u2019 or \u2018missed her\u2019.<\/strong> She\u2019s the girl who craved the attention you used to give her. The girl who accepted that <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/deu-prioridade-a-tentativa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ela nunca seria uma prioridade<\/a> na sua vida<\/strong> but settled to get pieces of you as and when you\u2019d give them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A sua filha nunca devia ter-se conformado tanto tempo como se conformou.<\/strong> She\u2019s the girl who deserves to be someone&#8217;s number one priority, she\u2019s the girl who deserves to be loved unconditionally just like she loved you. She deserves the world and you could have given her that. It was right in front of your face. She didn\u2019t deserve to be left out in the cold all alone because <strong>abandonaste-a t\u00e3o cruelmente<\/strong> que ela n\u00e3o teve outra escolha sen\u00e3o ir-se embora. Partiu-a depois de ela ter acabado de se arranjar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>This girl didn\u2019t want to walk away<\/strong>, she gave you so many chances for you to understand what she was asking from you. It wasn\u2019t a lot! She never asked you for half as much as she gave to you. This girl wanted to be needed, wanted and cared for. <strong>She was NEVER a dependent or \u2018clingy\u2019 girl<\/strong>\u2014you confused your past relationships with one that was based purely on affection and love. You allowed your past to ruin the <strong>a melhor coisa que te podia ter acontecido.<\/strong> This girl didn\u2019t want to feel so alone when she was with you. This girl soon realized that <strong>your love was a lie, you couldn\u2019t have loved her like she loved you because if you had, you would have done anything to keep her.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s the girl who laughed at your hurtful jokes about something she was insecure about just so you wouldn\u2019t know she was crying inside. She\u2019s the girl who started to sacrifice her own happiness just so you could have yours. She\u2019s the girl who<strong> n\u00e3o esperava nada de si e, na verdade, n\u00e3o recebi nada<\/strong>. She\u2019s the girl who would lie awake at night beside you, sobbing because you had stopped embracing her in your arms but would instead turn your back on her. She\u2019s the girl you got into a relationship with, the one you led to believe you wanted.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019s the girl you broke, whose heart you tore into two, all because you didn\u2019t realize what you had\u2014you had her at, \u201cMorning beautiful.\u201d It became all about you and never about her, never about \u2018us\u2019. <strong>She\u2019s the girl you slowly stopped contacting, hoping she would just \u2018go away<\/strong>\u2019, when once all you did was overwhelm her. She\u2019s the girl who hoped you weren\u2019t lying when you told her you \u2018loved\u2019 her. She\u2019s the girl who waited by her phone for the text she knew she would never receive. She\u2019s the girl whose heart would be in her mouth when you canceled seeing her. She\u2019s the girl who once shined so brightly but your harsh interior rapidly dimmed her light.<\/p>\n<p>Disseste \u00e0 rapariga que amas (que amas) que ela te esgota porque \u00e9 uma pessoa feliz e alegre, a rapariga por quem disseste que farias tudo, a rapariga a quem imploraste que te deixasse entrar e n\u00e3o fugisse. A rapariga que disseste que merecia mais e que lhe podias mostrar isso. A rapariga que fizeste tua namorada quando, no fundo, querias uma <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-sinais-apenas-fling\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">arremesso<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A rapariga que confiava em ti, a rapariga que um dia beijaste na testa e abra\u00e7aste.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s the girl you wouldn\u2019t open up to, who you wouldn\u2019t let in,<\/strong> even though she tried so hard to be the one to \u2018get you\u2019. She\u2019s the girl who you pushed away with your insecurities and inability to be honest about your demons. She\u2019s the girl you rejected again and again toward \u2018the end,\u2019 with your cold and detached demeanour.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She\u2019s the girl you wouldn\u2019t become emotionally available for.<\/strong> A rapariga com quem nunca sa\u00edste, a rapariga em quem nunca pensaste realmente, a rapariga que ainda te amava e todos os teus defeitos. <strong>She\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-ha-mais-menina-simpatica-estou-farto-de-tolerar-as-suas-merdas\/\">a boa rapariga<\/a> who you \u2018ghosted\u2019 because you are a coward who never grew a backbone enough to let her go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>ESSA RAPARIGA ERA EU.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eu era a rapariga que tornaria a tua vida melhor. Eu era a rapariga que te apoiaria nos bons e nos maus momentos. Eu era a rapariga capaz de te amar como mais ningu\u00e9m o faria ou poderia fazer. <strong>I am the girl you couldn\u2019t keep!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s only in time that you will <strong>compreender a dor e a m\u00e1goa que fez passar esta rapariga.<\/strong> Ela nunca mereceu isso, nem uma \u00fanica vez te causou tanta m\u00e1goa.<\/p>\n<p>When you wake up alone craving everything you once had and didn\u2019t fight for, only then will you want, miss and need this girl who begged you not to hurt her. You will then feel everything that she felt and more\u2014you will have one of the biggest mistakes you have ever made haunting you. You will regret letting her go. Go have all the one-night stands you want, go do all the things in your schedule that you wouldn\u2019t \u2018fit\u2019 her into\u2026 You will one day wake up and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/um-dia-percebera-que-vale-a-pena-lutar-ate-tarde\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">perceber o que tinha, mas <\/a><strong>ela j\u00e1 se foi embora.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What you should have known is this and she told you enough\u2026 <strong>\u00c9 uma mulher que conhece o seu valor,<\/strong> she\u2019s a woman who would never put up with the same shit for too long. She\u2019s a woman who had to make one of the hardest decisions in her life and that was to leave the man she loved behind, as he was slowly killing her.<\/p>\n<p>Este diamante acabar\u00e1 por encontrar o homem que o faria <strong>QUALQUER COISA<\/strong> para ela, o rei para a sua rainha. O <strong>HOMEM<\/strong> que morresse por ela e n\u00e3o a usasse como escudo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019re the guy who everyone calls an \u2018idiot\u2019 because of your actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You will soon find that she\u2019s the girl you will be searching for in every other person but I will tell you now, you will never find her. Why? Because she was already standing by your side but you lost her while you were too busy ignoring her existence.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You were the other part of me, now you\u2019re the guy I used to know.<\/p>\n<p>Da rapariga que nunca olhar\u00e1 para tr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-16017 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/toa-heftiba-295056-unsplash-4.jpg\" alt=\"Procurar-me-eis em todos os outros, mas n\u00e3o me encontrareis \" width=\"467\" height=\"700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/toa-heftiba-295056-unsplash-4.jpg 467w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/toa-heftiba-295056-unsplash-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/toa-heftiba-295056-unsplash-4-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 467px) 100vw, 467px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She\u2019s the girl who would have done anything for you. The kind of girl who bent over backward to make you happy. She\u2019s the kind of girl who put your needs before her own. She would have loved you unconditionally. She\u2019s the girl who gave you cuddles and love when you were feeling down and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":16016,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/ishan-gupta-233742-unsplash-1.jpg",800,524,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16004"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16004\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16016"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}