{"id":16030,"date":"2020-09-08T18:59:37","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T18:59:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16030"},"modified":"2022-02-07T03:42:05","modified_gmt":"2022-02-07T03:42:05","slug":"a-esquerda-tomou-o-coracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-esquerda-tomou-o-coracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando partiste, levaste o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o contigo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dizem que se ultrapassa tudo e todos, mais cedo ou mais tarde. S\u00f3 precisamos de tempo. E, em parte, t\u00eam raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>O tempo cura a maior parte das feridas. Mas essas feridas deixam cicatrizes que nunca poder\u00e3o ser curadas.<\/p>\n<p>O que ningu\u00e9m vos vai dizer \u00e9 que <strong>nunca se esquece verdadeiramente algu\u00e9m que se amou a s\u00e9rio.<\/strong> De alguma forma, aprendemos a viver sem eles na nossa vida.<\/p>\n<p>Aprendes, porque tens de aprender. Porque somos obrigados a faz\u00ea-lo e porque \u00e9 a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que nos resta se quisermos sobreviver.<\/p>\n<p>O que ningu\u00e9m nos diz \u00e9 que a verdadeira dor emocional <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/que-resta-do-amor-o-coracao-cicatrizado-e-desagradavel\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">fica com marcas para toda a vida<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t tell you it changes you forever and that you can never be the person you were before something devastating happened to you.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t tell you it turns you into a completely different person, into someone you don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112415\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada na cama\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Agora sei isto, mas ningu\u00e9m me disse nada disto quando te afastaste de mim. Eu era um destro\u00e7o emocional e era o fim do mundo para mim.<\/p>\n<p>Mas toda a gente me dizia que isto era apenas<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-verdades-absolutas-sobre-separacoes-que-nunca-ninguem-lhe-diz\/\"> uma simples separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, that it wasn\u2019t a big deal and that I would forget you sooner than I thought.<\/p>\n<p>Diziam-me que eu estava a exagerar, que pensava que te ia esquecer em breve e que o tempo seria a sua testemunha.<\/p>\n<p>E eu queria acreditar neles, queria mesmo. Mas, no fundo, eu sabia a verdade. Sabia que o teu abuso emocional me tinha prejudicado para sempre e que tinhas deixado uma marca forte na minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>And I was right, as much as I wished I wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s been years since you left me but somehow <strong>ainda existes dentro de mim.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you ask people close to me, they will all tell you that you are just a distant memory. They will tell you that I moved on with my life ages ago and that I\u2019ve probably forgotten that you even existed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112417\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a desenhar o cora\u00e7\u00e3o no vidro da janela\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-woman-drawing-the-heart-on-the-window-glass-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Things really look like that. And I can\u2019t say I think about you all the time. I like other guys, I smile and I am happy at times.<\/p>\n<p>But I can never be completely happy again. Whatever I do, there is a memory of you somewhere in the back of my mind. Don\u2019t get me wrong, it is not a painful memory, it just serves me as a reminder.<\/p>\n<p>Faz-me lembrar a mulher que eu era antes de te conhecer. Lembra-me como eu tinha um cora\u00e7\u00e3o aberto, como confiava nas pessoas e como pensava que havia algo de bom em toda a gente. Lembra-me como eu acreditava no poder do amor.<\/p>\n<p>Faz-me lembrar como confiei em ti. E como <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/trust-broken-rebuild_us_57439b3ce4b00e09e89fde36\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">quebraste a minha confian\u00e7a<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It reminds me of everything I\u2019ve been through since you left. Of all the sleepless nights, of all the tears I cried, of all the mornings I woke up without you by my side.<\/p>\n<p>E acima de tudo, <strong>faz-me lembrar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> Lembra-me que eu tinha um cora\u00e7\u00e3o amoroso e que tu o destru\u00edste.<\/p>\n<p>Levaste-o contigo, sem qualquer inten\u00e7\u00e3o de o trazer de volta. Transformaste-me numa mulher amarga que se esqueceu de como amar e de como ser amada.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112421\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste e atenta, de p\u00e9 na varanda\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/sad-mindful-woman-standing-on-the-balcony-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You turned me into someone who doesn\u2019t open up to anyone, into someone who thinks everyone around me just wants to take advantage of me.<\/p>\n<p>You turned me into everything I hoped I\u2019d never become.<\/p>\n<p>Deixei de confiar nas pessoas, porque me mostraste o que acontece quando damos a nossa confian\u00e7a a algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Deixei de me entregar completamente a qualquer pessoa, porque agora sei que quanto mais nos entregamos a algu\u00e9m, mais temos a perder quando esse algu\u00e9m nos deixa.<\/p>\n<p>Deixei de confiar em mais ningu\u00e9m para al\u00e9m de mim, porque me mostraste que as pessoas nunca est\u00e3o l\u00e1 para te apoiar, para te apanhar quando cais.<\/p>\n<p>E, acima de tudo, deixei de acreditar no amor, porque me mostraste que era apenas uma ilus\u00e3o. Eu tinha medo do amor, at\u00e9 que isso me ajudou: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hypnosisdownloads.com\/relationship-problems\/fear-love\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Superar o medo de se apaixonar e desfrutar de uma vida mais plena<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I forgave you everything. I forgave you for treating me badly while we were together, for leaving me as if I meant nothing to you, for breaking me\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Mas nunca te poderei perdoar por me teres transformado numa pessoa diferente. Nunca te poderei perdoar por teres mudado a ess\u00eancia de quem eu era. Nunca te poderei perdoar por me teres tirado a esperan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>E<strong> Nunca te poderei perdoar por teres levado o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o contigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112427\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/When-You-Left-You-Took-My-Heart-With-You-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Quando partiste, levaste o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o contigo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/When-You-Left-You-Took-My-Heart-With-You-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/When-You-Left-You-Took-My-Heart-With-You-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/When-You-Left-You-Took-My-Heart-With-You-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/When-You-Left-You-Took-My-Heart-With-You-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/When-You-Left-You-Took-My-Heart-With-You-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They say you get over everyone and everything sooner or later. You just need time. And they are partially right. Time does heal most of the wounds. But those wounds leave scars which can never be healed. What nobody will tell you is that you never truly get over someone you loved for real. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":112422,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16030","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/03\/When-You-Left-You-Took-My-Heart-With-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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