{"id":160394,"date":"2022-11-22T15:01:26","date_gmt":"2022-11-22T15:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=160394"},"modified":"2022-11-30T08:11:02","modified_gmt":"2022-11-30T08:11:02","slug":"engatar-a-mesma-pessoa-varias-vezes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/engatar-a-mesma-pessoa-varias-vezes\/","title":{"rendered":"22 Coisas para saber sobre curtir com a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lately, you\u2019ve been <\/span>engate<\/span> com o <\/span>a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes<\/span>. Voc\u00eas dois dormem juntos desde <\/span>de vez em quando<\/span>, but you\u2019re clearly not in a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sinto-o, porque tamb\u00e9m estive nessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o. E continuei a interrogar-me:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que \u00e9 que tudo isto significa? Quais s\u00e3o as coisas que devo saber antes de <\/b>engate<\/b> com o mesmo rapaz ou rapariga vezes sem conta?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What are the pros and cons of this arrangement? Why do guys hook up with a girl more than once without asking them to be their girlfriends? Why do women do the same thing? What are the surefire signs that it\u2019s <\/strong><\/b>mais do que um engate<\/b><\/strong><\/a>?<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll get the answers to these questions and much more if you read on.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ficar com a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes: 4 Pr\u00f3s<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Here\u2019s why <\/span>engate<\/span> com a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes \u00e9 uma \u00f3ptima ideia:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Qu\u00edmica fant\u00e1stica<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Uma coisa \u00e9 certa: voc\u00eas os dois tiveram <\/span>qu\u00edmica incr\u00edvel<\/span><\/a> desde o <\/span>primeira vez<\/span> que se juntaram. E, quer alguns gostem de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, a qu\u00edmica neste tipo de relacionamento \u00e9 normalmente muito mais forte do que em <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas<\/span> que seguem as regras desde o in\u00edcio.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The butterflies practically never fly away. Whenever you two meet, you can\u2019t keep your hands off each other. It\u2019s like your bodies are magnetically drawn to one another.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that feels great. Maybe it\u2019s not the whole package, and maybe you\u2019d get more somewhere else, but deep down, you know that not many people could evoke these feelings inside you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Mais tempo para si pr\u00f3prio<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s another amazing advantage to <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00f5es casuais<\/span><\/a>: tens todo o tempo do mundo para ti. <\/span>You\u2019re basically single, but at the same time, you have someone to sleep with, kiss, or cuddle.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you play your cards right, you get the best of both worlds. You don\u2019t have to find time in your busy schedule to meet up with them on a daily basis, you don\u2019t have to respond to boring <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> every morning, and you most certainly don\u2019t have to plan holidays to fit in with their family either.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the best part of hooking up with the same person multiple times is that you don\u2019t have to invest most of your time and energy in a quest for a new partner. You don\u2019t feel pressured to go on dates or go through endless talking stages because you already have someone.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now, you can do whatever you want with your life. You\u2019re free to plan your next vacation without having to consider your partner\u2019s desires. You have enough time for your friends, hobbies, and, most importantly, personal improvement.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Manter-se fiel a um <\/b>parceiro sexual<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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If you\u2019re <\/span>engate<\/span> with this person on a regular basis, you likely won\u2019t feel the need to sleep with anyone else. <\/span>Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not saying you should be faithful to your casual partner if you\u2019re not exclusive.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, manter-se fiel a um parceiro sexual e n\u00e3o entrar em <\/strong><\/b>sexo de risco<\/b><\/strong><\/a> \u00e9 sem d\u00favida uma das vantagens deste tipo de acordo.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

First and foremost, there is less risk of STDs. Also, you\u2019ve already built a kind of bond with this person. At least you know what their <\/span>dobras<\/span> e outras prefer\u00eancias na cama, e tamb\u00e9m sabem como o satisfazer.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. It\u2019s never boring<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Even though you\u2019re hooking up with the same person all the time, things never get boring. <\/span>Voc\u00eas os dois n\u00e3o est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer hip\u00f3tese de este quase romance cair na rotina.<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t get enough of each other as you don\u2019t spend all your time together. And every time you miss them, your attraction, chemistry, and feelings intensify.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Engate<\/b> Com o <\/b>A mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes<\/b>: 5 Cons<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Infelizmente, nem sempre tudo corre bem. Eis porque \u00e9 que pode esperar problemas no para\u00edso:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Problemas de relacionamento sem estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

A primeira desvantagem do <\/span>engate<\/span> com o <\/span>a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes<\/span> is having relationship problems without actually being in a relationship. If you don\u2019t know what you\u2019re doing, it\u2019s easy to fall into this trap.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Basically, you two fight, you\u2019re both jealous, you fix each other\u2019s problems, and you break one another\u2019s heart… Yes, all of these things happen in a real relationship, but you also get a lot of the good things.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you don\u2019t get the nice parts. You don\u2019t have someone to hold your hand when you need it most. You don\u2019t have a plus one at weddings and family functions. You don\u2019t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, and as hard as it is to admit, at the end of the day, you\u2019re single.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Demasiado drama emocional<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o de idas e vindas com <\/span>uma pessoa<\/span> for some time brings too many emotional ups and downs, especially if you\u2019re sensitive. As much as you try not to get attached, frequently, that\u2019s possible.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sem darmos por isso, o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a passar por diferentes fases.<\/span> You\u2019re trying not to fall in love with them, and then you realize that you can\u2019t help yourself. After that, you hide your emotions and do your best to fight them off.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, in the meantime, you\u2019re constantly overthinking and overanalyzing their every move. Do they love you back? Is this more than a casual fling?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

And don\u2019t even get me started on the mind games. You try not to play them, but this kind of situationship makes them inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sem mais nem menos, acabamos mais magoados e de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido do que nunca. Acabamos numa <\/b>tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/b><\/a>, even though you\u2019re technically not in a relationship. <\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. It\u2019s unlikely to become a <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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It\u2019s one thing if you really want this to stay a <\/span>engate<\/span> para sempre. No entanto, se planeia <\/span>tornar-se mais do que um <\/span>engate<\/span><\/a> a este rapaz\/rapariga, tenho de rebentar a sua bolha.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Casual relationships are unlikely to become real ones, so don\u2019t get your hopes up. This means that one of these times will really be the last time you sleep with your sexual partner.<\/strong><\/b> As coisas ter\u00e3o de acabar entre voc\u00eas os dois, mais cedo ou mais tarde, porque n\u00e3o t\u00eam futuro juntos.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. You\u2019re not allowed to be jealous<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Let\u2019s make things clear: <\/span>your almost boyfriend\/girlfriend has all the right to see other people. You two aren\u2019t <\/b>namoro exclusivo<\/b><\/a>, and no matter what they do, you can\u2019t classify it as cheating.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E como \u00e9 que se sente em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a isso? Bem, em muitos casos, acabamos por nos sentir de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido, como se tiv\u00e9ssemos sido enganados.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the worst part is that you\u2019re not allowed to say anything about it. If you do, you\u2019re stepping out of line. Besides, you\u2019re the one who agreed to these terms, aren\u2019t you?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t ask them where they\u2019ve been, you can\u2019t get angry if you see them with someone else, and you\u2019re not allowed to check up on them. Of course, you feel jealous \u2013 you just can\u2019t do anything about it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Rela\u00e7\u00f5es futuras<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Officially, you\u2019re single. However, <\/span>engate<\/span> com a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes d\u00e1-nos a ideia de estarmos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Embora, por vezes, n\u00e3o ter de ir a encontros seja uma coisa boa, tamb\u00e9m tem a sua quota-parte de desvantagens. <\/span>A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o situacional f\u00e1-lo perder alguns bons homens e mulheres que o poderiam ter feito feliz.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recusa-se a dar uma oportunidade a algu\u00e9m novo simplesmente porque o seu engate est\u00e1 a ocupar todo o seu tempo e energia. <\/strong><\/b>Even more, if you\u2019re falling for them, you don\u2019t even think of letting someone new into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porque \u00e9 que os homens se envolvem com a mesma rapariga<\/b> V\u00e1rias vezes<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Uma vez tive um homem que estava sempre a voltar para mim, mas nunca quis tornar as coisas oficiais. E eu estava sempre a pensar <\/span>porque \u00e9 que os homens ficam com a mesma rapariga<\/span> uma e outra vez. Depois de muito pensar, eis o que conclu\u00ed:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ela est\u00e1 demasiado dispon\u00edvel<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re the girl in the story, you won\u2019t like what I have to say. Why does your <\/span>homem quer<\/span> para <\/span>engatar<\/span> with you all the time? Well, in most cases, it\u2019s not because he\u2019s in love with you but trying to hide it.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A verdade \u00e9 que <\/b>you\u2019re too available<\/b><\/a>. He\u2019s run out of options. All the other girls have turned him down, he has nowhere else to be, and he turns to you \u2013 his backup choice.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He knows that you\u2019ll always reply to his <\/span>mensagem de texto<\/span>. It doesn\u2019t matter if it\u2019s the middle of the night, if you\u2019re getting up early in the morning or if you\u2019re super busy. You always have time for him.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, yes, you\u2019re this guy\u2019s <\/span>engate,<\/span> and he calls you because he knows you\u2019ll pick up \u2013 It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ela \u00e9 boa na cama<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s another pretty obvious answer to the question, \u201cwhy does a <\/span>homem quer<\/span> para <\/span>engatar<\/span> com o <\/span>a mesma rapariga<\/span> over and over again?\u201d <\/span>You\u2019re <\/b>bom na cama<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O seu <\/b>dobras<\/b> s\u00e3o os mesmos, tu <\/b>lig\u00e1-lo<\/b><\/a> como nenhum outro, e adora dormir consigo.<\/b> Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that you don\u2019t have other qualities.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019re an amazing person, but for now, this is all he sees and needs.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. He is testing if she\u2019s girlfriend material<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Eu sei que dizem que os homens s\u00e3o <\/span>criaturas visuais<\/span>. No entanto, acredite em mim quando lhe digo que \u00e9 preciso muito mais do que uma apar\u00eancia fant\u00e1stica para que um homem a veja como <\/span>material de namorada<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, guys start things casually just to see if the girl they\u2019re with will suit them for a relationship. They don\u2019t want to give her false hope and call her their girlfriend from the very start.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the same time, they also want to be single to keep seeing other girls. However, if it turns out they\u2019re compatible through their <\/span>engate<\/span>, planeiam rotular o seu romance.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 emocionalmente dispon\u00edvel<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Este homem \u00e9 <\/span>engate<\/span> consigo porque <\/span>he\u2019s emotionally unavailable<\/span><\/a>. This has nothing to do with you; he wouldn\u2019t be able to love any other girl in the world, either.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deep down, he might have feelings for you. But sadly, he doesn\u2019t allow them to appear on the surface. In fact, he himself is probably unaware of these emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So instead of trying to get him to love you, just accept that you\u2019ll never defrost his cold heart and move on. Unless, of course, you\u2019re perfectly okay with being nothing more than his <\/span>engate<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porqu\u00ea as raparigas <\/b>Engate<\/b> Com o mesmo homem v\u00e1rias vezes<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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But girls do it too. They\u2019re also <\/span>engate<\/span> com o <\/span>a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes<\/span>. No entanto, na maioria dos casos, as raz\u00f5es s\u00e3o diferentes. Eis as mais comuns:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ele f\u00e1-la sentir-se segura<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Uma mulher voltar\u00e1 para <\/span>uma pessoa<\/span> all the time only if that person makes her feel safe. The wildest thing is that she doesn\u2019t necessarily have to love him to feel this way.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A lot of men don\u2019t know this, but in general, women have to feel comfortable sleeping with a man. She has to deal with a bunch of insecurities and fears. And she can\u2019t disregard all of these negative emotions in front of every random guy.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se uma mulher se sente segura com um homem, o <\/span>primeira vez<\/span> she sleeps with him, she\u2019ll remember that emotion forever. And she\u2019ll go back to him whenever she has the chance.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ela est\u00e1 apaixonada por ele<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Outra raz\u00e3o pela qual uma mulher \u00e9 <\/span>engate<\/span> com o <\/span>a mesma pessoa v\u00e1rias vezes<\/span> \u00e9 o amor.<\/span> Maybe she won\u2019t admit it because she agreed to take things casually at first, but the truth is that she fell for this guy hard.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This woman is trying to fight her feelings, but she can\u2019t help it. She is too scared to ask him to take their relationship to the next level. So, she settles for having him as a <\/span>engate<\/span> e nada mais.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Or she hopes he\u2019ll realize she\u2019s the one for him. She is dying for him to finally see her as the woman of his dreams and to give her the title of his girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. She doesn\u2019t want to sleep around<\/b><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s pretty simple: <\/span>esta rapariga encontrou o seu par no quarto. Este homem agrada-lhe e satisfaz as suas necessidades sexuais, por isso, por que raz\u00e3o haveria ela de procurar outra pessoa?<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n

She\u2019s not a prude, but she doesn\u2019t like sleeping around, either. First of all, she\u2019d be too concerned for her health if she does.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u00e9m disso, ela precisa de tempo para relaxar e sentir-se \u00e0 vontade com um homem. Ela tem coisas melhores para fazer do que procurar um parceiro sexual perfeito quando j\u00e1 tem um.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

How Do You Tell If It’s More Than A <\/b>Engate<\/b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You\u2019re sleeping together, <\/span>you\u2019re <\/span>acariciar<\/span><\/a> afterward, and they\u2019re sending you cute <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span>… Everything is starting to feel more and more like a real relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, you\u2019ve never made things official, and you\u2019re <\/span>a sua meia-namorada<\/span><\/a>. No entanto, tudo o que foi mencionado acima \u00e9 uma <\/span>sinal seguro<\/span> que isto \u00e9 muito mais do que <\/span>sexo casual<\/span>. Aqui est\u00e3o algumas outras pistas que o podem ajudar a ver isso:<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n