{"id":160958,"date":"2022-12-01T14:33:53","date_gmt":"2022-12-01T14:33:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=160958"},"modified":"2022-12-08T11:31:54","modified_gmt":"2022-12-08T11:31:54","slug":"devo-enviar-lhe-uma-mensagem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/devo-enviar-lhe-uma-mensagem\/","title":{"rendered":"Devo enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto? 22 coisas importantes para pensar primeiro"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Did you go out on a first date with a girl and still haven\u2019t heard from her? Or have you met someone on a dating app? Or, could your girl be giving you the silent treatment, and you don\u2019t know what to do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever your current situation, it\u2019s irrelevant. <em>O importante \u00e9 que uma \u00fanica quest\u00e3o tem estado a ocupar a sua mente ultimamente, a saber: devo <\/em><em>enviar-lhe uma mensagem<\/em><em> ou n\u00e3o, estou certo?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Well, texting rules may be confusing sometimes, and it\u2019s perfectly normal that you feel confused and maybe even a bit scared about your next move.<\/strong> That doesn\u2019t make you any less manly because the truth is, we all feel that way when we really like a girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just follow this guideline, and you\u2019ll figure out whether you should text her or not and when the right time to do that is. Also, you\u2019ll find out the most common mistakes guys make when texting women that cost them leaving a good impression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-should-i-text-her-17-things-to-think-about-first\"><strong>Devo <\/strong><strong>Enviar-lhe uma mensagem<\/strong><strong>? 17 coisas em que pensar primeiro<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem deitado no sof\u00e1 e a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-160961\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-lying-on-couch-and-looking-at-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Antes de escrever a sua mensagem e carregar no bot\u00e3o enviar, eis algumas perguntas que deve fazer a si pr\u00f3prio. <strong>Seja honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/strong> porque s\u00f3 respostas sinceras o ajudar\u00e3o a tomar a decis\u00e3o correcta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-what-s-your-current-mood\"><strong>1. What\u2019s your current mood?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Your current mood is one of the most important factors that determine whether it\u2019s really a good idea to text her or not. In other words, if you\u2019re in a bad mood, angry or tired after you had a busy day or something like that, you should probably leave it for tomorrow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re happy and relaxed, then you have the green light when it comes to texting the girl you like. <strong>Afinal de contas, a coisa mais importante a fazer se quiser conquistar uma rapariga \u00e9<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fazer-rir-a-rapariga-4-situacoes-funcionam-com-charme-evitar-grandes-desvios\/\"><strong> <\/strong><strong>faz\u00ea-la rir.<\/strong><\/a><strong> <\/strong>Humor is always the safest way to a girl\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-why-is-it-such-a-big-deal-to-you\"><strong>2. Porque \u00e9 que isso \u00e9 t\u00e3o importante para si?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Why are you making such a big deal over it? It\u2019s just a text \u2013 what\u2019s the worst that could happen after you hit that send button?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ahh, estou a perceber. Gostas dela e est\u00e1s preocupado<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-saber-se-uma-rapariga-gosta-de-ti-sinais-de-que-esta-louca-por-ti\/\"><em> sobre <\/em><em>o que ela sente por si<\/em><\/a><em>. <\/em>You know that her reply may be a good indicator of her feelings toward you, and that seems pretty scary to you. That\u2019s why it\u2019s such a big deal to you and you want to think about it before you decide to send her a text.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-what-is-your-current-relationship-status\"><strong>3. Qual \u00e9 o seu estado de relacionamento atual?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Are you currently single or in a relationship with another girl? If it\u2019s the first case, if<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-ainda-sou-solteiro\/\"> you\u2019re single<\/a>, then there\u2019s probably no reason not to send her a text.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On the other hand, if you\u2019re dating someone, why are you even thinking about texting her? Wouldn\u2019t that be unfair to your current partner?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I mean, it\u2019s okay if she\u2019s just a friend and you want to send her a friendly text, but I doubt it because you wouldn\u2019t be thinking about whether you should send her that text this much.<\/em> If she\u2019s a friend, you would text her without even thinking about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Before you decide whether you should text her or not, think about your partner and how it would make her feel if she found out that you\u2019ve sent another girl a text. <\/strong>Se gosta da sua parceira, nunca a colocar\u00e1 nessa posi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-it-depends-on-what-your-intentions-are\"><strong>4. Depende das suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles.jpg\" alt=\"homem escreve no telem\u00f3vel e sorri\" class=\"wp-image-160962\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-texts-on-phone-and-smiles-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Tens de pensar na verdadeira raz\u00e3o pela qual queres enviar-lhe uma mensagem. <strong>And it\u2019s important to be honest with yourself because it\u2019s the only way you\u2019ll come to the right decision.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se tem saudades dela, quer recuperar a sua namorada, ou <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-pedir-a-uma-rapariga-para-ser-sua-namorada\/\">convid\u00e1-la a sair<\/a>, you should send her a text without thinking about it any further. On the other hand, if you\u2019re looking to have some fun because you have too much free time, then don\u2019t text her because you might hurt her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you aren\u2019t really into her, it would be unfair to keep texting her and stringing her along. <em>Find something else to have fun with because it\u2019s never a good idea to play with a person\u2019s feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-did-you-meet-in-person-or-were-you-texting-online\"><strong>5. Encontrou-se com <\/strong><strong>pessoalmente,<\/strong><strong> ou estavam a enviar mensagens de texto online?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Did you meet online, and texting was and still is your only form of communication? Or, on the flip side, have you met in person but haven\u2019t texted since?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>In the first case, it\u2019s okay to send your girl a <\/em><em>bom texto<\/em><em> e certifique-se de que mant\u00e9m o seu <\/em><em>conversa de texto em curso<\/em><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019ve met face to face, you should think about the reason you still haven\u2019t heard from her, or if you think your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-enviar-a-um-rapaz-depois-do-primeiro-encontro\/\"> primeiro encontro<\/a> in person went well, be a gentleman and reach out to her first. Who knows, maybe she\u2019s waiting for your text the same way you\u2019re waiting for hers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-did-you-leave-a-good-impression\"><strong>6. Deixou um <\/strong><strong>boa impress\u00e3o<\/strong><strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019ve met in person, you should think about the impression you left. <strong>Se ela j\u00e1 lhe disse que foi um prazer conhec\u00ea-lo <\/strong><strong>pessoalmente<\/strong><strong> or that she had a good time with you, then you\u2019ve probably left a good first impression.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nesse caso, deve<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/paragrafos-de-boa-noite-giros-para-ela\/\"> enviar-lhe um simples boa noite<\/a>\/Envie uma mensagem de texto de manh\u00e3 e agrade\u00e7a-lhe pelo encontro. Termine o seu texto com<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/emoji-de-namorico\/\"> um bonito emoticon<\/a> but don\u2019t overdo it. I\u2019m sure you won\u2019t be left without a reply.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-is-she-an-ex\"><strong>7. Ela \u00e9 uma ex?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If she is an ex, then it\u2019s even more complicated to know what to do. Whether you should send her a text or not depends on so many things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Tem de pensar na forma como a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o terminou, quando foi a \u00faltima vez que falou com ela e se existe um objetivo oculto por detr\u00e1s do seu desejo de a contactar. <\/em>After you think about these things, you\u2019ll know what to do next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-did-you-do-anything-that-may-have-upset-her\"><strong>8. Fizeste alguma coisa que a possa ter perturbado?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1067\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"homem com um smartphone preto na m\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-160964\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone-960x640.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone-1080x720.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-a-black-smartphone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you know you\u2019ve made a mistake that hurt her, be very careful about your text. You can\u2019t just slide into her inbox with a simple \u201cHello.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Deve<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-pedir-desculpa-a-sua-namorada-por-mensagem-de-texto\/\"><strong> pedir desculpa pelo que fez<\/strong><\/a><strong> e f\u00e1-lo rapidamente. <\/strong>Otherwise, your girl may start thinking that you don\u2019t care about her and block you on social media, so you\u2019ll lose your chance to communicate with her again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-have-you-already-sent-her-a-text\"><strong>9. J\u00e1 lhe enviaste uma mensagem de texto?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019ve already reached out to her and sent her a follow-up text, but she left you without an answer, it probably wouldn\u2019t be a good idea to text her again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u00ea-lhe mais algum tempo para responder \u00e0 sua mensagem anterior. <strong>And if that doesn\u2019t happen, if she doesn\u2019t reply, just leave her be because it\u2019s a sign she doesn\u2019t like you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-how-did-your-last-conversation-end\"><strong>10. Como \u00e9 que terminou a vossa \u00faltima conversa?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a very important question you should ask yourself. If your last conversation ended well, then it\u2019s safe for you to reach out to her again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Por outro lado, se tiveram uma discuss\u00e3o da \u00faltima vez que trocaram mensagens, pode enviar-lhe uma mensagem, mas tem de ter muito cuidado com o que diz.<\/em> Se lhe enviar a mensagem errada, s\u00f3 a pode irritar e piorar ainda mais as coisas entre voc\u00eas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-does-she-ever-text-you-first\"><strong>11. Ela manda-te mensagens primeiro?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re the one to always initiate your text conversations, then you aren\u2019t aware of the most basic rule of thumb when it comes to texting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>O <\/em><em>r\u00e1cio de mensagens de texto<\/em><em> between you and your crush needs to be equal because that is the only way you\u2019ll both know for sure you share the same emotions.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If she never texts you first, then you should know it\u2019s a huge red flag she isn\u2019t into you at all. If she responds to your texts, perhaps<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/50-sinais-de-que-ela-gosta-de-si\/\"> ela gosta mesmo de ti<\/a> mas, infelizmente, n\u00e3o da mesma forma que tu gostas dela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-are-you-familiar-with-how-she-feels-about-you\"><strong>12. Sabe o que ela sente por si?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz a escrever no telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-160965\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-typing-on-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ela j\u00e1 admitiu a si ou a qualquer outra pessoa que tamb\u00e9m est\u00e1 interessada em si? Se tinham uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tem a certeza de que ela ainda tem sentimentos rom\u00e2nticos por si?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>It would be so much easier to answer your question, \u201cShould I <\/em><em>text her?\u201d<\/em><em> se soubesses com certeza o que a tua rapariga sente por ti. <\/em>The fact is, no matter what\u2019s going on between you, if she loves you, she will answer your texts sooner or later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-are-you-currently-chatting-with-any-other-girls\"><strong>13. Est\u00e1 atualmente a conversar com outras raparigas?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re registered on an online dating app, I suppose you chat with other girls too. Or, do you do it on social media?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que tem de ter cuidado, especialmente se gosta mesmo desta rapariga. <em>If she finds out you\u2019re chatting with other girls online, too, it might be reason enough for her not to respond to your text.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you\u2019re into her, you should stop flirting with other girls.<\/strong> I know that men like to have backup plans, but it\u2019s really unnecessary when you find a girl you want to be with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-what-do-you-actually-want-to-text-her\"><strong>14. O que \u00e9 que quer realmente <\/strong><strong>enviar-lhe uma mensagem<\/strong><strong>?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>H\u00e1 alguma pergunta espec\u00edfica que lhe queira fazer? H\u00e1 algum tema sobre o qual queira falar com ela?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ou quer simplesmente enviar-lhe uma mensagem porque tem saudades dela?<em> This is also a justified reason \u2013 the thing is just that you need to know what you\u2019ll <\/em><em>enviar-lhe uma mensagem<\/em><em> antes de o fazer.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If this is the first time you\u2019ll reach out to her, you need<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/melhores-frases-de-engate-no-tinder\/\"> uma boa frase de engate<\/a> que a vai arrebatar. <\/strong>And if you haven\u2019t heard from her for quite some time, you can\u2019t go with a simple \u201cHi\u201d or \u201cHow are you?\u201d text because she\u2019ll just think that you have too much free time on your hands and want to have some fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all, you can\u2019t send her an empty text or just an emoji. Well, you can, but it would be a foolish and immature thing to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-is-she-on-your-mind-24-7\"><strong>15. Est\u00e1 sempre a pensar nela?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem a sorrir e a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-160966\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-smiling-and-looking-at-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Is the same \u201cShould I text her?\u201d thought on your mind constantly? If you can\u2019t get that girl out of your head, then it\u2019s worth taking the risk of sending her a text.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>That way, at least you\u2019ll know you\u2019ve tried. You won\u2019t regret missing your chance one day, and that will really mean something to you, as it should.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, you should still try to keep things light and not immediately admit that you\u2019re thinking about her constantly. That may scare and drive her away, and I know for sure that\u2019s the last thing you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-16-are-you-ready-to-face-the-outcome\"><strong>16. Est\u00e1s preparado para enfrentar o resultado?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Sabes que pode n\u00e3o ter um final feliz, certo? <strong>Mesmo que tente realmente enviar-lhe uma boa mensagem de texto que a deixe de boca aberta, pode acabar por ser rejeitado e ficar de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know this hurts to hear, but you need to be aware of it. If you aren\u2019t ready to handle the truth, no matter how ugly or great it is, you shouldn\u2019t send your girl a text.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Espere at\u00e9 ganhar coragem para aceitar o resultado e encontrar uma forma de o enfrentar.<\/em> Na vida real, nem mesmo os pr\u00edncipes e as princesas t\u00eam sempre o seu final feliz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-17-weigh-in-on-the-pros-and-cons\"><strong>17. Avalie os pr\u00f3s e os contras!<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Antes de tomar uma decis\u00e3o final, deve refletir sobre os pr\u00f3s e os contras de lhe enviar um <\/em><em>mensagem de texto<\/em><em> e dar a sua opini\u00e3o sobre eles.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pode enviar-lhe<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mensagens-de-boa-noite-meu-amor\/\"> um bom texto<\/a> que pode levar a uma conversa fiada com a sua rapariga, mas tamb\u00e9m pode ser rejeitado depois de carregar no bot\u00e3o enviar. Ou, pior ainda, pode ser ignorado, o que d\u00f3i mais do que a rejei\u00e7\u00e3o, acredite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can\u2019t know the outcome for sure, but you know what the pros and cons are. After you think about them and weigh in on them, everything will become clearer, and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll make the right decision, the one that will be right for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-when-should-you-not-text-her\"><strong>Quando \u00e9 que n\u00e3o se deve <\/strong><strong>Enviar-lhe uma mensagem<\/strong><strong>?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem confuso a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-160963\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/confused-man-looking-at-his-phone-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>There is no hard-and-fast rule when you shouldn\u2019t text a girl, but there are some situations when it\u2019s not a good idea to send your girl a text message, even if it seems like the hardest thing to do at the time. So, let\u2019s find out what those situations are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-she-made-it-clear-that-she-doesn-t-like-you\"><strong>1. She made it clear that she doesn\u2019t like you<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Quero contar-vos a minha m\u00e1 experi\u00eancia com uma rapariga que conheci numa aplica\u00e7\u00e3o de encontros em linha. And\u00e1vamos a trocar mensagens de texto h\u00e1 algum tempo e depois combin\u00e1mos encontrar-nos pessoalmente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Achei que a reuni\u00e3o correu bastante bem e decidi<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-lista-definitiva-de-textos-de-bom-dia-para-ela\/\"> enviar-lhe uma mensagem de bom dia<\/a> no dia seguinte. Tudo o que recebi em troca foi uma resposta curta e r\u00e1pida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conhecia o seu estilo de mensagens, e ela era<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-nao-ser-uma-pessoa-que-envia-mensagens-de-texto-secas\/\"> nunca \u00e9 uma pessoa que escreve em seco<\/a>. A resposta dela foi um pouco estranha, mas pensei que talvez estivesse a ter um dia ocupado e decidi enviar-lhe outra mensagem \u00e0 noite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I was thinking things like, \u201c<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/com-que-frequencia-se-deve-enviar-mensagens-de-texto-a-alguem-com-quem-se-esta-a-namorar-casualmente\/\"><em>Com que frequ\u00eancia deve enviar mensagens de texto<\/em><\/a><em> a girl?\u201d<\/em><em> and \u201cShould <\/em><em>Envio uma mensagem a uma rapariga<\/em><em> e convid\u00e1-la para um <\/em><em>segundo encontro<\/em><em> um dia ap\u00f3s o <\/em><em>primeiro encontro<\/em><em>?\u201d<\/em> Pensei que poderia fazer-me parecer desesperado, mas decidi arriscar e enviei-lhe aquela mensagem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Maybe that was a turn-off for her, or I just didn\u2019t leave a good impression after meeting-up.<\/strong> O resultado final \u00e9 que ela me rejeitou e bloqueou no Tinder e em todas as outras aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de redes sociais que us\u00e1vamos para nos mantermos em contacto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por isso, seria bom para si aprender com a minha experi\u00eancia. <em>The moment a girl shows you loud and clear that she isn\u2019t into you is when you should turn your back on her and leave.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-she-is-done-with-you-for-good\"><strong>2. Ela acabou de vez contigo<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a afastar-se do seu companheiro\" class=\"wp-image-160967\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/sad-woman-walking-away-from-her-partner-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If a girl has broken up with you for good and made it pretty clear, you shouldn\u2019t debase yourself by sending her texts constantly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-regra-de-nao-contacto\/\"><strong>N\u00e3o estabelecer contacto<\/strong><\/a><strong> <\/strong><strong>and have faith that it\u2019ll help you move on faster. <\/strong>After all, you can\u2019t keep someone by your side who doesn\u2019t want it. You can\u2019t force her to stay with you, and no amount of texts will change a woman\u2019s mind when she\u2019s determined to leave you behind and move forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-she-asked-you-not-to\"><strong>3. Ela pediu-lhe para n\u00e3o o fazer<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Se uma rapariga lhe pediu para parar de lhe enviar mensagens, vale a pena pensar se deve ou n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When we fall head over heels for someone who doesn\u2019t reciprocate our feelings, we all tend to expect a huge turn and continue trying to win them over. <\/strong>However, that\u2019s a mistake, and the sooner we understand this, the sooner we\u2019ll be able to move on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Al\u00e9m disso, se continuar a enviar-lhe mensagens de texto e a assedi\u00e1-la, ela pode apresentar queixa \u00e0s autoridades e pedir uma ordem de restri\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/em>Isso f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 parecer um verdadeiro psicopata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-she-s-already-dating-someone-else\"><strong>4. She\u2019s already dating someone else<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher ignora o homem\" class=\"wp-image-160968\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-ignores-man-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s some dating advice from a guy who had to learn it the hard way: don\u2019t ever text a girl who is already in a relationship with another man. Just trust me and don\u2019t do it, bro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Afinal de contas, pense como se sentiria se outro homem enviasse uma mensagem \u00e0 sua namorada. <em>Don\u2019t interfere in someone else\u2019s relationship, and don\u2019t ruin other people\u2019s happiness because karma is really a bitch.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-she-didn-t-respond-to-any-of-your-last-texts\"><strong>5. She didn\u2019t respond to any of your <\/strong><strong>\u00faltimos textos<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019ve already sent her a few text messages and didn\u2019t get a reply to any of them, it\u2019s clear that she doesn\u2019t want to<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-manter-uma-conversa-com-uma-rapariga\/\"> manter a conversa em curso<\/a> convosco.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She is ignoring you and hoping that you\u2019ll get the message she is, in fact, trying to send to you. <strong>She isn\u2019t interested, and you should back off!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Of course, there might be a good explanation when someone doesn\u2019t respond to your text instantly. <\/em>However, if they don\u2019t reply for more than a day, it\u2019s hardly possible that they aren\u2019t doing it on purpose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-the-3-day-text-rule\"><strong>O que \u00e9 a regra do texto de 3 dias?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone.jpg\" alt=\"homem com telefone na m\u00e3o\" class=\"wp-image-160969\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-holding-phone-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A regra de envio de mensagens de texto mais popular chama-se<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dar-lhe-3-dias\/\"> a regra dos 3 dias<\/a>. <strong>A maior parte dos especialistas e treinadores de rela\u00e7\u00f5es acham que 3 dias \u00e9 o <\/strong><strong>per\u00edodo de tempo<\/strong><strong> deve esperar antes de decidir contactar a sua paix\u00e3o e enviar-lhe um <\/strong><strong>mensagem de texto<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s a piece of texting advice you\u2019ll get from most dating experts.<em> That way, you\u2019ll give the other person enough space to think about you, and you\u2019ll also get enough time to think about your feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, you won\u2019t seem clingy or possessive to your crush, which is highly important. The truth is, no one likes clingy people, and bothering someone with text messages 24\/7 definitely won\u2019t bring you anything good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-make-a-girl-miss-you\"><strong>Como \u00e9 que se faz uma rapariga sentir a nossa falta?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a enviar mensagens de texto no telem\u00f3vel\" class=\"wp-image-160970\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-texting-on-phone-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Se queres fazer com que uma rapariga sinta a tua falta, tens de lhe dar espa\u00e7o para as suas pr\u00f3prias necessidades, ao mesmo tempo que a controlas regularmente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tenha uma vida fora da sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/strong>If you\u2019re having a busy day, don\u2019t just ditch your responsibilities when she calls you. Of course, she needs to be your priority, but she also needs to know that you\u2019re a mature, responsible person who needs to behave that way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Also, don\u2019t always reply to her texts instantly. <\/em>Isso s\u00f3 ir\u00e1<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/flirting-flings\/dating-game\/signs-youre-too-available-for-your-partner\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> torn\u00e1-lo demasiado dispon\u00edvel<\/a>, and here is a secret I want to reveal to you: girls don\u2019t like availability. They want a good chase, and<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-fazer-com-que-ela-o-persiga\/\"> faz\u00ea-la perseguir-te<\/a> \u00e9 uma \u00f3ptima maneira de a fazer sentir a tua falta como uma louca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-will-she-miss-me-if-i-give-her-space\"><strong>Ela vai sentir a minha falta se eu lhe der espa\u00e7o?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira a pensar\" class=\"wp-image-160971\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/blonde-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want me to be honest with you, no amount of time and space will make a woman miss you if she doesn\u2019t have any feelings for you. She won\u2019t even think about you because she\u2019ll probably forget that you even exist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>On the other hand, if we\u2019re talking about a woman who likes or is in love with you, giving her some space may make her understand that she actually can\u2019t live without you. <\/strong>You know the saying, \u201cabsence makes the heart grow fonder,\u201d and I really believe it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No entanto, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio <strong>ter muito cuidado.<\/strong><em> Se lhe dermos demasiado espa\u00e7o, podemos parecer desinteressados e ela pode come\u00e7ar a duvidar dos nossos sentimentos.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Siga a regra dos 3 dias e envie-lhe primeiro uma mensagem de texto. Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao tempo de resposta dela e \u00e0 dura\u00e7\u00e3o das respostas. Se ela continuar a enviar-lhe respostas curtas, pode ser um sinal de que a sua mulher precisa de mais espa\u00e7o e tempo a s\u00f3s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-on-the-whole\"><strong>No seu todo<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So, are you still in \u201cshould I text her or not?\u201d\u2019 stage, or have I helped you figure out the right answer? However, the truth is only you can come to the right decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00c9 claro que o c\u00e9rebro e o cora\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00eam de estar de acordo.<\/strong> You shouldn\u2019t allow your heart to come to a decision alone, nor should you allow your brain to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Also, don\u2019t think about whether she\u2019ll <\/em><em>enviar-lhe uma mensagem de volta<\/em><em> or not. Even if she decides to ignore your message and doesn\u2019t reply, you shouldn\u2019t allow it to make you sad.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least you\u2019ll know you tried. You won\u2019t regret the missed chance sometime in the future, and whatever happens after you send the text, you should be proud of yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You were fighting for the girl you liked. You didn\u2019t back off or just sit on your hands and hope that she\u2019d come to you by herself. You should be proud of yourself because you aren\u2019t a coward but a strong man who isn\u2019t afraid to follow his feelings and see where they\u2019ll take you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Devo enviar-lhe uma mensagem de texto? 22 coisas importantes em que pensar primeiro Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-161408\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Should-I-Text-Her-22-Important-Things-To-Think-About-First-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you go out on a first date with a girl and still haven\u2019t heard from her? Or have you met someone on a dating app? Or, could your girl be giving you the silent treatment, and you don\u2019t know what to do? Whatever your current situation, it\u2019s irrelevant. 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