{"id":161012,"date":"2022-12-04T15:51:39","date_gmt":"2022-12-04T15:51:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161012"},"modified":"2022-12-12T11:39:17","modified_gmt":"2022-12-12T11:39:17","slug":"como-convidar-um-colega-de-trabalho-para-sair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-convidar-um-colega-de-trabalho-para-sair\/","title":{"rendered":"Como convidar um colega de trabalho para sair: 14 dicas com os melhores exemplos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some people say that office romances are the worst and that they would never engage in something like that. However, I can\u2019t agree with this because, from my own experience, work relationships are often the most passionate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No entanto, pode ser complicado e compreendo perfeitamente as suas preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es. <em>A parte mais dif\u00edcil, e aquela com que mais nos debatemos, \u00e9 como convidar um colega de trabalho para sair. Temos dificuldade em encontrar a oportunidade certa e qual ser\u00e1 a proposta de encontro correcta.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fortunately, you can see this article as the end of your struggles because today, I\u2019ll teach you the right way to ask your coworker out on a date. You can thank me later, of course. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-ask-a-coworker-out-14-brilliant-tips\">Como convidar um colega de trabalho para sair: 14 dicas brilhantes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date.jpg\" alt=\"casal feliz a conversar no seu primeiro encontro\" class=\"wp-image-161013\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-couple-talking-on-their-first-date-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Dating a coworker can be difficult, but it\u2019s definitely harder to gather the courage to ask them out. To help you out with that, I\u2019ve left you the most helpful tips below that will help you do it the right way and lead you straight to a romantic date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-make-sure-your-intentions-are-pure\">1. Certifique-se de que as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o puras<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Para al\u00e9m da quest\u00e3o de como convidar um colega de trabalho para sair, deve considerar outra: Porque \u00e9 que o quer convidar para sair? \u00c9 porque gosta dele de uma forma rom\u00e2ntica ou tem outras inten\u00e7\u00f5es?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If it\u2019s the first scenario, then you have the green light to continue with your date proposal. <\/em>We don\u2019t choose when and with whom we\u2019ll fall in love, and if that person happens to be your coworker, sharing your work environment shouldn\u2019t be an obstacle for you to invite them out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>On the other hand, if there\u2019s any hidden agenda behind your date invitation, you shouldn\u2019t go on with it.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Especially if it\u2019s a new job because if they found out your true intentions, it may completely ruin your professional relationship with that coworker and create<a href=\"https:\/\/resources.workable.com\/stories-and-insights\/hostile-work-environment-signs-fixes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> um ambiente de trabalho hostil.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-think-about-the-power-dynamic-between-you\">2. Pensem na din\u00e2mica de poder entre v\u00f3s<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with asking your coworker out. However, I don\u2019t think it\u2019s a good idea to invite your boss out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Casal com desequil\u00edbrio <\/strong><strong>din\u00e2mica de pot\u00eancia<\/strong><strong> nunca t\u00eam uma boa hip\u00f3tese de manter uma <\/strong><strong>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong> Sooner or later, they allow it to interfere with their relationship, and that\u2019s when they understand they really aren\u2019t compatible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Relacionadas:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-o-seu-chefe-quer-dormir-consigo\/\"> <strong>18 sinais ocultos de que o seu chefe quer dormir consigo<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-try-to-find-out-what-their-relationship-status-is-first\">3. Tentar saber primeiro qual \u00e9 o seu estado de relacionamento<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You should ask around about your coworker&#8217;s <\/strong><strong>estado de relacionamento<\/strong><strong> antes de os convidar para um encontro.<\/strong> If they\u2019re already dating someone else, then you can\u2019t expect them to accept your invitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I\u2019m not saying you should ignore your feelings or give up on them if you find out they\u2019re in a relationship, but you shouldn\u2019t mess with someone else\u2019s relationship. <\/em>Also, there is a great chance that it won\u2019t end well and that it\u2019ll create a hostile work environment between you two.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-try-to-build-a-friendship-with-them-first\">4. Tentar construir uma amizade com eles primeiro<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a olhar para algo no port\u00e1til\" class=\"wp-image-161015\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-looking-at-somthing-at-laptop-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have known them for a short time, you shouldn\u2019t immediately ask them out. You should<strong> tentar tornar-se <\/strong><strong>bons amigos<\/strong><strong> com eles primeiro<\/strong>A partir do momento em que o utilizador os conhece e se relaciona com eles a um n\u00edvel mais pessoal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>It\u2019ll allow you to find out what their perspective, thinking, and interests are, which will make it easier for you to win them over.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-wait-for-the-right-opportunity-and-the-right-time\">5. Aguardar a oportunidade e o momento certos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you think that inviting your coworker out while having casual water cooler small talk is a good idea? You obviously aren\u2019t aware of how wrong you actually are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio esperar pelo <\/strong><strong>oportunidade certa<\/strong><strong> para os convidar para um encontro, ou a sua proposta j\u00e1 est\u00e1 condenada.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you notice they\u2019re nervous about something that happened or they\u2019re too busy that day, then you should forget about your date proposal and hope that they\u2019ll be in a better mood tomorrow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-it-s-important-to-be-and-stay-yourself\">6. It\u2019s important to be and stay yourself<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>You should never change yourself to get another person to like you, even if it\u2019s a coworker you\u2019re trying to win over so desperately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Afinal de contas, trabalha com essa pessoa e passa muito tempo com ela. <em>You\u2019re so very wrong if you think that your real face won\u2019t&nbsp; come to the surface sooner or later.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-respect-your-workplace-culture\">7. Respeitar a cultura do seu local de trabalho<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Most workplace cultures don\u2019t have any hard and fast rules when it comes to workplace romances. However, they do when it comes to their employees&#8217; behavior at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ou seja <\/strong><strong>colegas de trabalho<\/strong><strong> shouldn\u2019t allow their personal relationships to affect their <\/strong><strong>rela\u00e7\u00f5es profissionais<\/strong><strong>. <\/strong>Al\u00e9m disso, outra regra \u00e9 que os colegas de trabalho que est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica t\u00eam de sair<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-significa-pda\/\"> o PDA<\/a> entre as suas pr\u00f3prias quatro paredes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Eu sei que quando nos apaixonamos, tudo o que queremos \u00e9 estar com essa pessoa 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana. No entanto, \u00e9 preciso respeitar o seu <\/em><em>cultura no local de trabalho<\/em><em> acima de qualquer outra coisa.<\/em> Once you finish your work and leave your workplace, you\u2019re allowed to do whatever you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-do-it-in-person-not-over-social-media\">8. Fa\u00e7a-o pessoalmente, n\u00e3o atrav\u00e9s das redes sociais<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher encontram-se num bar\" class=\"wp-image-161016\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-meeting-in-bar-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Sei que hoje em dia este tipo de coisas \u00e9 resolvido sobretudo atrav\u00e9s das redes sociais, mas acreditem em mim, <strong>it\u2019s always better to do it in person than online.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most relationship experts actually agree that inviting someone on a date in person is the key to getting an affirmative answer. If you do it online, the other person may think you aren\u2019t brave enough to do it in person or that you aren\u2019t even sure you really want to go out with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-flirtation-is-a-must\">9. O flirt \u00e9 OBRIGAT\u00d3RIO&nbsp;<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to make it clear that you\u2019re inviting them out on a romantic date, then you should flirt with them a bit. <strong>Otherwise, they may think you\u2019re asking them out on a casual coworker hangout and won\u2019t get your true intention.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Compliment them and surprise them with a nice gesture every now and then. That way, they\u2019ll figure out that you like them even before you actually invite them on a date.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-offer-them-help-with-something-over-a-dinner\">10. Oferecer-lhes ajuda com algo durante um jantar<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>You don\u2019t have to make it a romantic date invitation \u2013 you can invite them on a casual hangout. <\/em>That way, they\u2019ll accept even if they don\u2019t like you romantically, and you\u2019ll get the opportunity to change their mind and win them over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just offer them help with a project or something and make sure they really need it, so they can\u2019t refuse your invitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-just-ask-already-and-don-t-make-a-big-deal-out-of-it\">11. Just ask already, and don\u2019t make a big deal out of it<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I know you\u2019re scared because of all the possible outcomes, but you really shouldn\u2019t make a big deal out of it. The worst thing that can happen is getting rejected.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E mesmo que isso aconte\u00e7a, qual \u00e9 o problema? Basta levantarmo-nos e continuarmos a avan\u00e7ar. <strong>After all, if they don\u2019t agree to go on a date with you, it\u2019s their loss, not yours.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Pense da seguinte forma: se <\/em><em>don\u2019t ask<\/em><em>, you\u2019ll never get a date with them, and the case will definitely be closed. <\/em>Por outro lado, se os convidar, pode ser rejeitado, \u00e9 verdade, mas eles tamb\u00e9m podem aceitar o seu convite, e isso pode ser o in\u00edcio de algo novo e maravilhoso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-don-t-rush-them-with-their-answer\">12. Don\u2019t rush them with their answer<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a conversar num caf\u00e9\" class=\"wp-image-161017\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>To be honest, we\u2019re all afraid of office relationships a bit, especially those who aren\u2019t familiar with it or those who\u2019ve already had a bad experience with workplace dating. <strong>That\u2019s why you need to be patient if your <\/strong><strong>colega de trabalho<\/strong><strong> pede-lhe que lhe d\u00ea algum tempo para refletir sobre a sua proposta.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let them have their time, especially if it\u2019s<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-uma-colega-de-trabalho-gosta-de-si-mas-esta-a-esconde-lo\/\"> uma colega de trabalho<\/a>, because it\u2019s a general fact that women are indecisive and like to keep their men waiting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-plan-the-perfect-first-date\">13. Planear o primeiro encontro perfeito!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Quando finalmente receberes um SIM do teu <\/em><em>colega de trabalho<\/em><em>O seu pr\u00f3ximo passo \u00e9 planear o encontro mais rom\u00e2ntico de sempre, que os arrebatar\u00e1 imediatamente e os far\u00e1 querer um segundo encontro.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your coworker has some good friends at work, you should talk to them to find out what your date likes and what their interests are. That way, you\u2019ll have a better chance of organizing the best date of their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-no-matter-what-happens-don-t-let-it-affect-your-professional-relationship\">14. No matter what happens, don\u2019t let it affect your professional relationship<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Os romances no local de trabalho podem, por vezes, prejudicar o ambiente de trabalho, uma vez que o casal pode terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o em m\u00e1s condi\u00e7\u00f5es. <em>Se um dos parceiros trair o outro ou algo semelhante acontecer, haver\u00e1 muitos rancores e emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas entre eles.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to be aware of it, and no matter what happens, pay attention to maintaining a healthy professional relationship. If you can, <strong>manter o seu profissionalismo e<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-vida-privada-e-uma-vida-feliz\/\"><strong> <\/strong><strong>vida privada<\/strong><\/a><strong> <\/strong><strong>separado<\/strong>mesmo que decidam estabelecer uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica com o seu colega de trabalho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-ask-a-coworker-out-45-best-examples\">Como convidar um colega de trabalho para sair: 45 melhores exemplos<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea.jpg\" alt=\"homens e mulheres sentados no exterior a beber ch\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-161018\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/men-and-women-sitting-outside-drinking-tea-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that we\u2019ve gone through the theoretical part, let\u2019s dive into the practical one. I\u2019ve gathered the best examples of how to ask a coworker out I could find online and compiled them into the list below. One thing is for sure, these examples will get you a date. \ud83e\udd1e<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1. You seem great; I\u2019d love to meet up sometime. Are you around next week?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. Espero que descanses bem esta noite. Gostaria de tomar um caf\u00e9 ou um pequeno-almo\u00e7o amanh\u00e3 de manh\u00e3?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. Ever heard of a backward dinner? We kick start with ICE CREAM and wind up doing CANAPES at midnight. The plan is best executed on Friday night \u2013 does that work ok for you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4. O que vais fazer na sexta-feira? Tens <\/strong><strong>querer<\/strong><strong> tomar uma bebida depois do trabalho?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>5. Os filmes, tu e eu fazemos o plano perfeito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>6. I\u2019ve been gathering the courage for some time to ask you on a date, so I\u2019d be grateful if you could be so kind as to put me out of my misery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>7. I\u2019ve been trying to figure out how I should ask you out. So, I decided to take you out for a date tonight. Meet me at (place) (time).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>8. Encontrar uma altura em que ambos nos possamos encontrar = pesadelo. Caf\u00e9 com leite na segunda-feira, combinado ou n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>9. I\u2019m going to see this band on the 1st when it comes to town. Tickets are cheap. Do you wanna come?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>10. How\u2019s your day going? Would you like to have dinner?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>11. Can\u2019t think of a good reason to go out for a celebratory drink . . . but I\u2019m sure it\u2019s someone\u2019s birthday somewhere right now, so we should toast to that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>12. Se quiseres ir para minha casa depois do trabalho, diz-me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>13. I\u2019ve wanted to try this new restaurant, and they have your favorite food. What time are you free?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>14. I\u2019d love to grab your number. Maybe we can get a drink or a cup of coffee sometime.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>15. Tenho-me divertido muito contigo. Posso convidar-te para um encontro?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>16. Dev\u00edamos encontrar-nos fora do trabalho um dia destes. O que \u00e9 que achas?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>17. That just makes me think of ASIAN FOOD . . . Looks like we\u2019ll have to get that this weekend to satisfy my craving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>18. Penso que isto \u00e9 algo que deve ser discutido ao jantar.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>19. Que tal sairmos esta noite, s\u00f3 n\u00f3s os dois, e termos um jantar sumptuoso?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>20. Em que dias est\u00e1 normalmente livre? Tem <\/strong><strong>querer<\/strong><strong> sair um dia destes e fazer algo divertido?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>21. Bom dia! Est\u00e1s livre para almo\u00e7ar?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>22. You\u2019re ridiculously busy. I\u2019m ridiculously busy. Let\u2019s multi-task and do a work date. Just promise not to distract me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal num caf\u00e9 a tomar caf\u00e9\" class=\"wp-image-161019\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-couple-at-cafe-having-coffee-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>23. O que est\u00e1 a fazer neste momento? Apetece-te ir beber um caf\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>24. I think Friday is a legit excuse to enjoy one too many beers\/cocktails. Wouldn\u2019t you agree?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>25. I\u2019m so proud of you and can\u2019t wait to see you. Let\u2019s go out and celebrate!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>26. My phone&#8217;s been acting weird all day. I gotta go to the mall to see if they can fix it. Wanna keep me company?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>27. Hands tired . . . fingers aching . . . all this texting is giving me RSI. Let\u2019s carry this conversation on in person \u2013 is after work good for you?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>28. Gosto de falar e enviar mensagens consigo e gostaria de a levar a sair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>29. My friends and I are going out on Saturday. We&#8217;d be happy to have you along.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>30. Koen d\u00e9-Gwener? Asked you out in Cornish . . . Points for originality?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>31. Tenho um bilhete extra para aquele filme que querias ver. A que horas devo ir buscar-te?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>32. Os meus amigos e eu reunimo-nos todas as quintas-feiras \u00e0 noite para jogar p\u00f3quer. Devias vir uma semana.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>33. Bem-vindo \u00e0 tradi\u00e7\u00e3o das quintas-feiras com sede. Acho que consegues aguentar um STRAWBERRY CHEESECAKE SHOT numa noite de trabalho... por isso, est\u00e1s disposto a juntar-te a n\u00f3s mais tarde?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>34. Tenho este evento em breve e gostaria que me acompanhassem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>35. What are your thoughts on pizza? A new place just opened up, and I&#8217;ve been looking for someone to check it out with me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>36. I go jogging with some friends every Saturday morning. You&#8217;re welcome to come whenever you&#8217;d like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>37. Let\u2019s link up this weekend. Picnic for good weather, indoors if not.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>38. Hey, I\u2019m thinking about you, dinner, drinks, dessert, and a date. Looking forward to spending some quality time with you and making it a night to remember!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>39. I go to a book club every other week. If you want to come to check it out, we&#8217;re open to new people attending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>40. My family is getting together this weekend. I\u2019d love it if you\u2019d join me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>41. The weather is supposed to be great this weekend. If you&#8217;re looking for someone to take advantage of it with, hit me up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>42. Will you be my date tonight? Place: It\u2019s a surprise (I will pick you up at your front door. Don\u2019t be late). If you\u2019re in, text YES.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>43. Is it bad to admit I\u2019m bored at my desk? How about we rename today Madness Monday and make it like it\u2019s Friday night?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>44. My friends think we\u2019d make a cute couple. Let\u2019s prove them right. Will you please go on a date with me tonight? Waiting to meet you at (place\/time).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>45. Este \u00e9 um lembrete para limpares todo o teu trabalho do dia e sa\u00edres para um encontro comigo.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-convidar-um-rapaz-para-um-encontro-12-dicas-para-ter-sucesso\/\"> <strong>Como convidar um rapaz para um encontro? 12 dicas para ter sucesso<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-know-if-a-coworker-likes-you\">Como \u00e9 que se sabe se um colega de trabalho gosta de n\u00f3s?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a olhar para um homem sentado num caf\u00e9\" class=\"wp-image-161020\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-at-man-while-sitting-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Most coworkers try to hide their feelings towards another of their coworkers because they\u2019re afraid of being rejected and the possible outcome it may have for their professional relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>No entanto, por mais que tentem escond\u00ea-lo, h\u00e1 outras coisas que acabam por revel\u00e1-lo.<\/strong> S\u00f3 precisa de seguir estas dicas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por exemplo, se o seu colega de trabalho tem <em>linguagem corporal nervosa \u00e0 sua volta, envolve-se em <\/em><em>conversa fiada<\/em><em> com frequ\u00eancia e come\u00e7a a fazer-lhe perguntas pessoais, oferece-lhe ajuda sempre que precisa, d\u00e1-lhe <\/em><em>tratamento preferencial<\/em><em>e que, subtilmente, se atira a si, pode ter a certeza<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/20-sinais-inequivocos-de-que-um-colega-de-trabalho-gosta-de-si-e-quer-algo-mais\/\"><em> <\/em><em>gostam de si.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The good thing is that even if you don\u2019t figure it out, be sure that some of your other coworkers will, and they\u2019ll share their doubts with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-is-it-ok-to-flirt-with-coworkers\">\u00c9 correto namoriscar com colegas de trabalho?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>It\u2019s definitely not okay to go off randomly and flirt with all of your <\/em><em>colegas de trabalho<\/em><em>. No entanto, se gostar de um determinado <\/em><em>colega de trabalho<\/em><em> and start catching feelings for them, it\u2019s okay to flirt with them.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>No entanto, \u00e9 preciso ter cuidado e manter a <\/strong><strong>rela\u00e7\u00e3o profissional<\/strong><strong> uma prioridade em todos os momentos. <\/strong>Se notar que o seu namorico o incomoda, deve saber quando parar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you overdo it, you might get a sexual harassment complaint, which may even end in you getting fired. That\u2019s why you need to be very careful and call it quits on your flirtation if your coworker clearly shows that they aren\u2019t into you romantically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-hint-to-a-coworker-that-you-like-her\">Como \u00e9 que se d\u00e1 a entender a uma colega de trabalho que se gosta dela?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, you can\u2019t be upfront with them and immediately admit your feelings for them because it\u2019ll be a huge turn-off. <strong>N\u00e3o s\u00f3 pode afast\u00e1-los, como tamb\u00e9m pode afetar a sua <\/strong><strong>rela\u00e7\u00e3o profissional<\/strong><strong> e criar um <\/strong><strong>ambiente de trabalho hostil<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9 preciso ir com calma e deixar-lhes pistas subtis que lhes mostrem o que sente por elas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Try to look your best whenever they\u2019re around. A little innocent flirting never killed anybody. Make them laugh. Engage in <\/em><em>conversa fiada<\/em><em> frequentemente, o que lhe permitir\u00e1 conhec\u00ea-los um pouco melhor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Offer them a genuine compliment from time to time but don\u2019t make it work-related. Make your body language cooperate with you and let it do the talking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-to-conclude\">Para concluir<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"casal a tomar uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9\" class=\"wp-image-161021\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/couple-having-a-cup-of-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now you have it all, both the theoretical and practical parts on how to ask a coworker out. I wish you luck, but trust me, you don\u2019t need it if you follow my tips carefully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Whether it\u2019s a female or <\/em><em>colega de trabalho, estes<\/em><em> dicas e exemplos s\u00e3o absolutamente tudo o que precisa para conseguir um encontro com eles.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Encontros no local de trabalho<\/strong><strong> pode ser um desafio, mas todos os desafios valem a pena se os dois forem compat\u00edveis e felizes por estarem juntos. <\/strong>No entanto, \u00e9 preciso ter em conta que a sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o pode criar uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o embara\u00e7osa entre v\u00f3s e um ambiente de trabalho hostil que n\u00e3o seria saud\u00e1vel para ambos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>So, if you can\u2019t get along together and decide to<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/35-sinais-de-que-a-sua-relacao-esta-a-chegar-ao-fim\/\"><em> terminar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/em><\/a><em>tentar manter uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Espero do fundo do meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que o seu estado de relacionamento mude depois deste artigo e que o seu colega de trabalho se torne a sua alma g\u00e9mea.<a href=\"https:\/\/emojipedia.org\/hearts\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> \ud83d\udc95<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Como convidar um colega de trabalho para sair 14 dicas com os melhores exemplos Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-161543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Ask-A-Coworker-Out-14-Tips-With-The-Best-Examples-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some people say that office romances are the worst and that they would never engage in something like that. 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