{"id":161137,"date":"2022-12-05T12:02:48","date_gmt":"2022-12-05T12:02:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161137"},"modified":"2023-01-11T09:53:02","modified_gmt":"2023-01-11T09:53:02","slug":"a-mulher-quer-um-casamento-semi-aberto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-mulher-quer-um-casamento-semi-aberto\/","title":{"rendered":"14 coisas para saber quando a sua mulher quer um casamento meio aberto"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cMy wife wants a half-open marriage\u201d… I think this is the hardest sentence a man can say out loud. I have nothing against polyamorous relationships when both partners agree to it, but in my opinion, it\u2019s a little difficult when one partner wants to make it one-sided.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No entanto, tamb\u00e9m sei que IF you love your wife, you\u2019ll choose to stay with her, no matter what. <\/strong>You\u2019ll stay married to her even if she suggests a half-<\/em>rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, I also understand you and all of your mixed emotions. It\u2019s definitely not easy to go through something like this, and I want to be here for you and make your journey through this new life path at least a little bit easier. So, let\u2019s do this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14 coisas a ter em mente quando a sua mulher quer um casamento meio aberto<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Portanto, se a sua mulher quiser isto tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> all of a sudden and you don\u2019t know what to do, I hope these tips will bring you peace and brighten your path so you can make the right decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Pense nas poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es que a levaram a pensar num casamento semiaberto<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"homem<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I know you couldn\u2019t even imagine this when you were saying \u201cI do\u201d to your wife, but it\u2019s happening, and now you need to think about how you\u2019re going to deal with it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se acha que ainda consegue fazer com que a sua mulher mude de ideias, ent\u00e3o tem de pensar em todas as raz\u00f5es que a levaram a tomar este tipo de decis\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O seu <\/em>rela\u00e7\u00e3o sexual<\/em> bom? A fa\u00edsca entre voc\u00eas ainda est\u00e1 viva? Ela mostrou algum desejo por <\/em>poliamor<\/em> quando estavam a namorar?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

These are all the questions you need to ask yourself to understand your wife\u2019s sudden need for a half-open marriage. And once you come to a conclusion, you should try to fix that part of your marriage or talk to her about it because that might make her give up on the whole half-open marriage thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Confia no teu melhor amigo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I know it\u2019s not easy to go through this all alone, so my advice is to share what\u2019s going on with the person you trust the most. Naturally, it\u2019s not easy to go to your friend and tell them, \u201cmy wife wants an open marriage,\u201d but in the end, if they don\u2019t understand you, who will then?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m sure your <\/em>melhor amigo<\/em> estar\u00e1 l\u00e1 para o apoiar, independentemente da sua decis\u00e3o. <\/em>Mais importante ainda, podem at\u00e9 dar-lhe alguns bons conselhos sobre o que deve fazer para o ajudar a tomar a decis\u00e3o certa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Afinal de contas, o seu <\/strong>melhor amigo<\/strong> \u00e9 a pessoa que o conhece melhor, talvez at\u00e9 melhor do que voc\u00ea pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> Is there anyone better to consult with regarding something like this than your bf? You can bet there isn\u2019t!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Tem a certeza de que consegue lidar com o facto de a sua mulher ter sexo com outras pessoas?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t just need to see your wife with a new partner, but you\u2019ll need to accept the fact that she\u2019s having sexual relations with another man<\/a>. Tens a certeza que consegues lidar com isto?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most men are very protective over the woman they love, and they don\u2019t like to share with anyone else.<\/em> If you\u2019re one of these men, then don\u2019t even try with the whole half-open marriage thing because you\u2019ll freak out the first time your wife tells you she has another sexual partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Abrir-se com ela<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"uma<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Direct and open communication is the key to making this type of relationship work. If you don\u2019t communicate all your needs in the beginning, your marriage will already be doomed to fail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever it is that you\u2019re feeling right now, you need to share it with your wife.<\/strong> If at any moment you start feeling that you can\u2019t handle it anymore, you should approach her immediately and admit that you\u2019re having second thoughts about it all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Isso afectaria a confian\u00e7a entre v\u00f3s?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Se acha que todo este novo conceito no seu casamento levaria a uma quebra de confian\u00e7a, tem de o comunicar \u00e0 sua mulher, porque isso seria um enorme <\/em>quebra-galho<\/em>.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you want to make this work, you\u2019ll need to trust each other above anything else. If it affects the trust between you, you\u2019ll slowly start growing apart and decide to split up sooner or later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. You\u2019ll need to set some ground rules<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Defini\u00e7\u00e3o <\/strong>regras b\u00e1sicas<\/strong> e<\/strong> <\/strong>limites claros<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>s\u00e3o necess\u00e1rias. <\/strong>\u00c9 preciso ser claro e inequ\u00edvoco sobre estes aspectos logo que se decide a iniciar esta nova viagem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you aren\u2019t okay with your wife doing something with new partners, you need to tell her right away. On the other hand, if she doesn\u2019t want you to be involved in her other relationships, she also needs to say that and include it in her boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. E fazer controlos regulares<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

As much as it\u2019s important to have open communication, it\u2019s also important to have regular communication. You need to share how you feel often because there will be a lot of mixed feelings along the way, especially when your wife meets her first new partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Controlos regulares<\/strong><\/a> evitar\u00e1 qualquer falha de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o entre v\u00f3s e tornar\u00e1 tudo muito mais f\u00e1cil. <\/strong>That way, your partner will know how you feel in every moment, and they will be able to sense when something is wrong with you or when you aren\u2019t okay with certain things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Manter as suas expectativas realistas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"um<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Right from the beginning, you\u2019ll need to set and maintain realistic expectations. Don\u2019t expect your wife to change her mind one day and go back to having<\/strong> <\/strong>um <\/strong>rela\u00e7\u00e3o exclusiva<\/strong><\/a> <\/strong>consigo novamente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A verdade \u00e9 que pode nunca acontecer, e \u00e9 preciso ter consci\u00eancia disso. <\/em>If you can\u2019t handle sharing your wife with other men, just say so right away \u2013 don\u2019t keep those false hopes in because they may break your heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Resolver todos os seus problemas subjacentes da forma correcta e atempadamente<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Depois de definir o <\/em>regras b\u00e1sicas<\/em>Deve tamb\u00e9m eliminar todas as d\u00favidas que possa ter sobre a sua mulher.<\/em> I know you have so many questions running through your head, so don\u2019t be afraid to ask her each and every single one of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll encounter many ups and downs if you decide to have a half-open marriage. And you\u2019ll need to take care of them in time if you want to maintain your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Os ressentimentos escondidos conduzir\u00e3o, mais cedo ou mais tarde, ao div\u00f3rcio<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You might immediately accept your wife\u2019s suggestion just to make her happy or to keep her by your side, but this would definitely be the wrong decision. You need to think it through and be ready for everything that comes with it before accepting your wife\u2019s suggestion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Caso contr\u00e1rio, o <\/em>ressentimento oculto<\/em> acabar\u00e1 por destruir completamente o vosso casamento. <\/em>If you aren\u2019t honest from day one, you can be sure that you won\u2019t be able to maintain your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. A sua vida sexual ser\u00e1 definitivamente afetada<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m not sure how, but the fact is that your sex life will be affected by the new concept in your marriage. It may be beneficial, but it will also bring many new issues into the bedroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s why you need to set clear boundaries regarding a <\/strong>rela\u00e7\u00e3o sexual<\/strong> tamb\u00e9m. <\/strong>A sua mulher ter\u00e1 de ter cuidado com o seu <\/em>novos parceiros<\/em> and use protection every time to keep you both safe. It\u2019s really the <\/em>regra de base<\/em> para todos<\/em> <\/em>rela\u00e7\u00f5es abertas<\/em>.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, your wife may learn some new things, and you may start experimenting with different sexual positions and toys in bed. That\u2019s the good side of having a half-open marriage, reigniting the spark between a married couple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Mantenha a sua liga\u00e7\u00e3o forte<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
\"um<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019ll need to work on your connection constantly. If, at any moment, your connection starts weakening, you can see it as the end of your marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t be able to handle the <\/strong>casamento semiaberto<\/strong> thing if you don\u2019t keep your connection rock solid. <\/strong>Open relationships are never easy to maintain, but when the couple has a strong connection, they\u2019ll always know clearly what their priorities are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Don\u2019t let other people\u2019s opinions affect you<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9 necess\u00e1rio ter em conta o facto de que um <\/em>muitas pessoas<\/em> s\u00e3o<\/em> <\/em>contra <\/em>poligamia<\/em><\/a> and won\u2019t approve of your decision \u2013 even some of your loved ones may be against it. <\/em>However, the decision is up to you, and you shouldn\u2019t bother about others and their opinions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They have their own lives, and they should focus on them. Don\u2019t let their judgy looks interfere with your decision because you and your own happiness are all that matters in this story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. O que a tua mulher quer \u00e9 importante, mas o que tu queres \u00e9 muito mais importante!<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Your wife\u2019s wishes are important, but yours are equally or even more important. <\/em>While you\u2019re making a decision, try to keep that in mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know that you want to make your wife happy and that you would make all of her wishes come true if it were up to you. However, do you really want to be stuck in a marriage where you don\u2019t feel happy for the rest of your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Este pode ser um <\/strong>momento da l\u00e2mpada<\/strong> for you because you might now understand that your wife doesn\u2019t love you the same way you love her. <\/strong>She is more than enough for you, while on the other hand, she\u2019s the one who wants to try new relationships and have a half-open marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um casamento meio aberto pode funcionar?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\"um<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It can, but even if it doesn\u2019t seem like it, a lot of work and effort is needed to maintain this type of marriage. The truth is, todos <\/strong>tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong> pode resultar quando o casal est\u00e1 empenhado em lutar para que resulte.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

A coisa mais importante para manter um casamento semiaberto \u00e9 a honestidade. Ambos os parceiros precisam de ser honestos um com o outro a toda a hora e de ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais regulares. <\/em>check-ins<\/em> where they\u2019ll be able to share their feelings.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Outra coisa que um casal deve fazer num <\/strong>casamento semiaberto<\/strong> \u00e9 definido algum <\/strong>regras b\u00e1sicas<\/strong>. <\/strong>Without it, things won\u2019t be completely clear to both sides, and sooner or later, those discrepancies will raise far greater issues and problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, open communication is a must in these types of marriages (it\u2019s actually a must in every type of marriage). All underlying issues need to be solved on time; otherwise, they\u2019ll provoke bigger issues and lead to a potential divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os casamentos abertos t\u00eam taxas de div\u00f3rcio mais elevadas?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s a fact that non-monogamous marriages have a low success rate. It\u2019s probably due to the fact that most couples run into it too soon or without thinking it through properly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Alguns estudos demonstraram mesmo que o 92% de <\/strong>casamentos abertos<\/strong> falham e acabam em div\u00f3rcio.<\/strong> It\u2019s really not that hard to believe this data because it\u2019s very hard to maintain this kind of marriage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Both partners need to be in it 100%, and if one of them isn\u2019t honest about their feelings, their <\/em>casamento aberto<\/em> est\u00e1 em perigo. <\/em>And once a couple decides to try a non-monogamous relationship, it\u2019s hard for them to get back on track and continue having a monogamous marriage. It\u2019s actually close to impossible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Um casamento aberto pode ser unilateral?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

It can, but it\u2019s very difficult to maintain that kind of marriage. Mais cedo ou mais tarde, o parceiro que quer ter um <\/strong>casamento monog\u00e2mico<\/strong> come\u00e7a a sentir-se desconfort\u00e1vel e muda de opini\u00e3o sobre o <\/strong>casamento semiaberto<\/strong> coisa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Actually, it\u2019s hard to maintain an open marriage, and it\u2019s so much harder and way too complicated when it\u2019s half-open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Os parceiros ou t\u00eam de ser muito liberais, ou t\u00eam de estar perdidamente apaixonados um pelo outro. <\/em>Mais uma vez, como eu disse, haver\u00e1 algumas reconsidera\u00e7\u00f5es e reavalia\u00e7\u00f5es que poder\u00e3o levar ao fim do casamento.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No encerramento<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Lidar com a situa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil que se segue quando uma esposa quer um casamento semiaberto nunca \u00e9 f\u00e1cil, especialmente quando o marido ainda est\u00e1 loucamente apaixonado pela sua mulher. It\u2019s easy for those who\u2019ve stopped loving their wives because they can simply reject their suggestion or respond to it with divorce.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most men want a traditional marriage, and that\u2019s what they hope they\u2019ll get when they commit to one woman. Of course, a casamento tradicional<\/strong> ser\u00e1 sempre um <\/strong>casamento monog\u00e2mico<\/strong> \u2013 <\/strong>n\u00e3o-monogamia<\/strong> n\u00e3o faz, de modo algum, parte da tradi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s one reason most men will struggle to accept this idea, and the wife\u2019s wish for a half-open relationship will, in most cases, lead to divorce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O que se passa \u00e9 que tem de ter em mente que precisa de tomar uma decis\u00e3o e, independentemente do tipo de decis\u00e3o, ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de o julgar. If you love your wife and feel that it\u2019s the right thing to give her what she wants, go for it.<\/strong>On the flip side, if you can\u2019t accept it or think that a non-monogamous relationship would make you miserable, you have every right not to agree to it.<\/em> Mesmo que isso custe o seu casamento, afinal, a sua felicidade e paz de esp\u00edrito devem ser a sua prioridade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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