{"id":16129,"date":"2020-09-12T09:18:49","date_gmt":"2020-09-12T09:18:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=16129"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:15:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:15:32","slug":"nunca-perdoar-o-sofrimento","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-perdoar-o-sofrimento\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca me poderei perdoar por te ter magoado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aqueles que dizem que n\u00e3o existe um homem perfeito nunca te conheceram. Eras o mais pr\u00f3ximo da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o que qualquer homem alguma vez ser\u00e1. S\u00f3 fui suficientemente tola para n\u00e3o me aperceber disso a tempo.<\/p>\n

Tive a minha quota-parte de experi\u00eancias dolorosas antes de te conhecer. Os homens antes de ti magoaram-me de formas que nunca poder\u00e1s imaginar.<\/p>\n

They used me, disrespected me and none of them actually loved me. You already know that\u2014 my a dor definiu quem eu era<\/a> and you couldn\u2019t help but notice it.<\/p>\n

Mas em vez de me servirem de li\u00e7\u00f5es, esses homens fizeram-me ser igual a eles. E essa \u00e9 a minha maior derrota.<\/p>\n

Quando apareceste na minha vida, assumi automaticamente que eras igual a toda a gente.<\/p>\n

Pensei que a sua \u00fanica inten\u00e7\u00e3o era aproveitar-se de mim<\/a> ou para me manipular emocionalmente.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Estavas sempre a mostrar-me que eras diferente, que as tuas inten\u00e7\u00f5es para comigo eram honestas, mas nada me provava o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Esfor\u00e7aste-te muito para me mostrar o quanto me amavas, mas eu recusei-me a acreditar em ti.<\/p>\n

I admit it now\u2014 Sempre fui ego\u00edsta quando se tratava de ti.<\/strong> Eu era possessivo, controlador e excessivamente ciumento.<\/p>\n

I never opened up to you completely\u2014 I always kept a part of my personality for myself only. I was constantly running away from you and your love.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, quando penso nisso, provavelmente estava a fugir de mim pr\u00f3prio e da forma como me fazias sentir.<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean I didn\u2019t love you. Because I did, very much.<\/strong> I know it\u2019s hard for you to believe that now but I was crazy about you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pensei que mudarias o teu comportamento no momento em que eu mudasse o meu. Pensei que deixarias de me amar no momento em que eu te mostrasse o meu amor.<\/p>\n

E pensei que deixarias de fazer qualquer esfor\u00e7o na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o assim que eu mostrasse algum interesse.<\/p>\n

What I didn\u2019t realize is how much I was hurting you<\/strong> in the process. I didn\u2019t understand that I was doing to you exactly what all of those guys from my past had done to me.<\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t want to see that you were taking the blame for every guy who had ever done me harm. And none of it was your fault.<\/p>\n

Most of all, I didn\u2019t realize how much I was hurting you. You gave me your love, your attention, your respect, your compassion and care and you got nothing in return.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, ficou com a minha amargura, a minha negatividade, a minha falta de confian\u00e7a e todos os dem\u00f3nios do meu passado.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When I come to think about it, you never asked for anything in return; you didn\u2019t want my gratitude or admiration.<\/p>\n

You just wanted me to love you back and to appreciate everything you\u2019d been doing for me. And I couldn\u2019t even give you that.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que te dei foi dor e rejei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong> E isso \u00e9 algo que nunca me poderei perdoar por ter feito.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t expect for you to accept my tearful apologies,<\/strong> because I have no one else to blame but myself for losing you. And I don\u2019t expect you to understand me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve deserved this guilt I\u2019ve been feeling for chasing you away. Nothing and nobody can help me get rid of this guilt.<\/p>\n

E nada, exceto isto, me ajudou a lidar com isso: Descubra o segredo para lidar com o culpado<\/a><\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t even expect your forgiveness. Even if you ever find the strength to forgive me, I want you to know that I can never forgive myself for hurting you and for losing you.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve had my heart broken<\/a> em peda\u00e7os muitas vezes, mas nunca nada me magoou tanto. Eu partir o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o foi uma das coisas mais dolorosas que j\u00e1 fiz na minha vida.<\/p>\n

And I don\u2019t expect your compassion for that. It was all my fault and it\u2019s time for me to deal with the consequences of my actions.<\/p>\n

Eu sou um exemplo vivo de que nunca se sabe o que se tem at\u00e9 o perder.<\/strong> I didn\u2019t appreciate you enough while I had you and now I regret it more than anything.<\/p>\n

Now I know that you were the best person I\u2019ve ever met. I know that a man like you will never cross my path again.<\/p>\n

You were the only one who had any intention of giving me everything I ever wished for but, sadly, I didn\u2019t know how to take it.<\/p>\n

Agora, eu sei tudo. But it\u2019s too late now.<\/strong> E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possa ser feito.<\/p>\n

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Those who say that there doesn\u2019t exist a perfect man never met you. You were the closest to perfection any man will ever be. I was just foolish enough not to realize that in time. I had my share of painful experiences before I met you. Men before you hurt me in ways you can…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":120454,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16129","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/I-Can-Never-Forgive-Myself-For-Hurting-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16129","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16129"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16129\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/120454"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16129"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16129"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16129"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}