{"id":161397,"date":"2022-12-08T10:16:49","date_gmt":"2022-12-08T10:16:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161397"},"modified":"2022-12-15T07:04:17","modified_gmt":"2022-12-15T07:04:17","slug":"como-destruir-um-psicopata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-destruir-um-psicopata\/","title":{"rendered":"Como destruir um psicopata: 13 maneiras comprovadas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A maioria das pessoas pensa que \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel quebrar um psicopata. Bem, isso deve-se ao facto de nunca lhes ter sido ensinado <em>como<\/em> para destruir um psicopata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Devo avisar-vos: n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma tarefa f\u00e1cil. Mas pode ser feita! Aqui est\u00e1 exatamente como.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-destroy-a-psychopath\">Como destruir um psicopata<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a conversar sentados numa doca\" class=\"wp-image-161399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/man-and-woman-talking-while-sitting-on-dock-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Siga este guia passo a passo para destruir o mal puro:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-spot-their-psychopathy\">1. Detetar a sua psicopatia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the most difficult things in this process is accepting that you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-o-teu-homem-faz-estas-8-coisas-ele-e-um-psicopata-emocional\/\">lidar com um psicopata<\/a>. I mean, it\u2019s never easy admitting that your husband, wife, or other family member has psychopathy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No seu novo livro <em>Cobras em fatos<\/em>, o psic\u00f3logo forense canadiano Robert Hare fala sobre o <strong>formas sorrateiras <\/strong><strong>psicopatas<\/strong><strong> disfar\u00e7am-se de <\/strong><strong>pessoas comuns<\/strong><strong>. It\u2019s not like they walk around displaying <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-o-teu-homem-faz-estas-5-coisas-ele-e-um-psicopata-emocional\/\"><strong>psicopata<\/strong><strong> <\/strong><strong>tra\u00e7os de personalidade<\/strong><\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pelo contr\u00e1rio, misturam-se perfeitamente. Na maior parte dos casos, escondem o seu mal do p\u00fablico e s\u00f3 o manifestam junto das suas v\u00edtimas. De facto, por vezes, os especialistas em psiquiatria t\u00eam dificuldade em reconhecer esta perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s no surprise that you needed this long to accept who you\u2019re dealing with. However, seeing as you\u2019re here, it means that you\u2019re getting there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From this point on, there is no going back. Accept things as they are, come to terms with the fact that they\u2019ll never change, and find the best way to save yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-destroy-their-ego\">2. Destruir o seu ego<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>They say that you can\u2019t beat fire with fire. Well, in this case, that is exactly what you must do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here\u2019s the first thing you need to know about psychopaths: they have no vulnerabilities. At least, not in the way a neurotypical person does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basicamente,<strong> if you want to hurt their feelings, stop right now because you\u2019ll just be wasting your time, effort, and energy. These people have no emotions in the way you have them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, there is one thing that you can successfully destroy: their ego. And that\u2019s the part of them you must aim for if you want to destroy them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sei que isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 normal para si, mas tem de ser feito. Comece por insultar e humilhar o seu agressor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re scared of their revenge, and if you think they might get physically abusive when you do, try with backhanded compliments and subtle insults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The thing that will trigger them the most is public humiliation. They\u2019re quite similar to narcissists. The moment a psychopath is embarrassed in front of others is when their world starts to collapse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-show-no-emotion\">3. N\u00e3o mostrar emo\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever you do, don\u2019t show any feelings in front of this person \u2013 no happiness, no sadness, no remorse, no excitement, no guilt, no anything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They have to see that they\u2019ve lost the ability to provoke any kind of feelings from you. Trust me \u2013 this realization will destroy the psychopath more than anything in the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>They\u2019ve lost their impact. In the same way that they can\u2019t make you smile or laugh, they can\u2019t make you cry, either. And that means that they have no more power over you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might think that showing them hate would break their heart, but that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. If you show them hatred, they\u2019ll know that they still have influence over you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que a indiferen\u00e7a \u00e9 o melhor caminho a seguir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At first, hiding all of your emotions will be tough, but with time, you\u2019ll get used to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-emotional-detachment-is-the-key\">4. O desapego emocional \u00e9 a chave<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada a olhar pela janela\" class=\"wp-image-161403\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-sitting-looking-out-of-window-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re wondering how to destroy a psychopath, you keep forgetting that this should be more than an act. It\u2019s one thing if you show no emotion in front of them. But if you keep on eating yourself alive after everything they say or do to you, you won\u2019t make much progress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9 exatamente por isso que \u00e9 preciso praticar<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-se-desligar-emocionalmente-de-alguem\/\"> distanciamento emocional<\/a> while hiding your feelings. You know what they say \u2013 fake it until you make it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If you succeed in emotionally detaching yourself from this person and this relationship, you won\u2019t have to hide your emotions for much longer because there will be none left inside of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First and foremost, forget about the potential your relationship once had. Forget about the person your psychopath was at the beginning of your romance \u2013 that was nothing but a disguise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Esque\u00e7a todos os \"e se\", \"poderia ter sido\" e \"deveria ter sido\". Aceite a dura realidade e fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para come\u00e7ar<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-esquecer-alguem-2\/\"> super\u00e1-los<\/a> while you\u2019re still in this relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-find-out-more-about-them\">5. Saber mais sobre eles<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re trying to figure out how to destroy a psychopath, you have to be armed with the correct data about them. Psychiatry says that psychopathy is a genetic personality disorder. However, there are certain environmental factors that impact it as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9 preciso ser suficientemente astuto para chegar ao fundo destes factores ambientais. <strong>O que fez com que o seu <\/strong><strong>psicopata<\/strong><strong> desta forma?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quais foram os seus factores de desencadeamento? Como foi a sua inf\u00e2ncia? Quais s\u00e3o os seus traumas mais profundos?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De quem herdaram os seus tra\u00e7os de personalidade? Os seus pais tamb\u00e9m eram psicopatas? Como \u00e9 que isso os fazia sentir?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se quiser conhecer as suas vulnerabilidades, este \u00e9 o caminho a seguir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-find-their-weak-spot\">6. Encontrar o seu ponto fraco<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>I have to warn you: you\u2019ll have to be ruthless in this step. You\u2019ll have to use their dirtiest and most painful secrets against them \u2013 if you want to destroy them correctly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now that you\u2019ve learned a lot more about your psychopath, it\u2019s time to focus on their weakest spot. Don\u2019t worry, they have one. Even though they don\u2019t have vulnerabilities in a typical sense, I\u2019m sure there is a part of their life they don\u2019t want to tackle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Their weak spot is usually something off-limits, something they never talk about, something they buried deep in the past. Well, it\u2019s your job to bring it back to the surface.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Try different things and see what triggers your abuser the most. Do they go crazy when you insult them in public? Or maybe when you mention the mother they\u2019ve spent years without talking to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Talvez isso aconte\u00e7a quando questionamos a sua capacidade de fazer algo. Ou talvez quando a comparamos com outra pessoa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O que quer que funcione!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-play-with-their-mind\">7. Brincar com a sua mente<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a afastar-se do homem ap\u00f3s uma luta\" class=\"wp-image-161401\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-facing-away-from-man-after-fight-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/pos-namoro-com-um-psicopata-emocional-2\/\">namorar um psicopata<\/a>, you\u2019ll <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-subtis-de-manipulacao-numa-relacao\/\">manipula\u00e7\u00e3o de experi\u00eancias<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/iluminacao-artificial-numa-relacao\/\">ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a>e outras formas de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-alarmantes-de-que-esta-a-ser-vitima-de-abuso-emocional\/\">abuso emocional<\/a>. Esta pessoa est\u00e1 literalmente a brincar com a sua mente e a distorcer a sua vis\u00e3o da realidade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bem, <strong>when you\u2019re trying to figure out <\/strong><strong>como destruir um psicopata<\/strong><strong>, you\u2019ll have to use their weapons against them. Show them that the student has become the master!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean, out of everyone, you\u2019ve had the chance to master all of these manipulation techniques. So, who better at applying them than you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-do-it-effectively\">Como o fazer eficazmente<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll need to lie to them, deceive them, and even cheat on them with someone else. When they figure out what happened and what you\u2019re doing, proceed to gaslight them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tell them that they\u2019re losing their mind, that they made you behave like this, that they\u2019re imagining things, or that they should blame themselves for the state of your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Envie sinais contradit\u00f3rios ao seu psicopata. Age como a pessoa mais amorosa e carinhosa num dia, e no dia seguinte come\u00e7a a provocar brigas sem qualquer motivo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Destruir a sua autoestima, apontando constantemente os seus defeitos, e depois dizer-lhes que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-vida-depois-de-amar-um-psicopata-emocional\/\">adoram-nos<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ghost them all of a sudden. Don\u2019t pick up your phone, don\u2019t respond to their texts, but be active on social media and post stories as if everything is perfectly fine. Then, out of the blue, make a big comeback into their life and try acting as if nothing happened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know that all of this sounds cruel. And I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 it really is. But it\u2019s the only way to fight this pure evil. Besides, they\u2019ve been doing the same thing to you for years, haven\u2019t they?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-work-on-your-body-language\">8. Trabalhar a sua linguagem corporal<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Psychopaths are often highly intelligent. Just because they have no empathy doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re unable to read through people. In fact, they\u2019ve spent a lot of time studying their victims, so your abuser can likely read you like an open book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9 por isso que <strong>you\u2019ll have to put in some extra effort if you want them to believe you&#8217;re really indifferent or that you\u2019re telling the truth when you\u2019re lying.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To achieve this, you must work on your body language. You can\u2019t expect them to think you\u2019ve become coldhearted if your face lights up every time they enter the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can\u2019t expect them to believe they have no impact on your whatsoever if your eyes tear up the moment they raise their voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Practice your facial expressions and learn how to lie. It\u2019s not an appealing quality, but it will come in handy when dealing with a psychopath.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-charm-is-your-biggest-weapon\">9. O charme \u00e9 a tua maior arma<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A maioria das pessoas com psicopatia <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/articles\/199401\/charming-psychopath\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">confiar no seu charme<\/a>semelhante aos narcisistas. Estes dois tipos de pessoas podem convencer-nos a pensar e a fazer o que quiserem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma habilidade que deves aprender com o teu agressor. O charme deve tornar-se a tua maior arma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Firstly, use it against them. It will come in handy when you\u2019re lying to them, deceiving them, or sending mixed signals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But most importantly, you\u2019ll need it when you decide to ruin this person\u2019s reputation and public image. <strong>Precisa que os outros acreditem que o seu <\/strong><strong>psicopata<\/strong><strong> n\u00e3o \u00e9 nem de longe o homem ou a mulher que finge ser.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So instead of spending your days plotting your revenge, get out there. Make new friends, expand your social circle, and slowly start preparing for what\u2019s coming next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-game-theory\">10. Teoria dos jogos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar com o namorado\" class=\"wp-image-161404\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-her-boyfriend-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Game theory is the science behind the decision-making process. It can help you a lot when you\u2019re trying to figure out how to destroy a psychopath. In simple terms, it means that you have to strategize in advance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>O <\/strong><strong>pior coisa<\/strong><strong> O melhor que pode fazer \u00e9 confiar nas suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Em vez disso, antes de dar um passo, \u00e9 preciso avaliar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o de forma objetiva e realista. \u00c9 necess\u00e1rio efetuar uma an\u00e1lise custo-benef\u00edcio.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What matters here is for you to see your psychopath as your opponent. Forget that they\u2019re your romantic partner, parent, friend, or sibling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They\u2019re your enemy, and your job is to come up with a way to defeat them because that\u2019s the only way you can win.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is no love, compassion, or concern here. You\u2019re only focused on your end goal and making choices that exclusively benefit your personal interest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-tit-for-tat\">11. Tit-for-tat<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cTit-for-tat\u201d is all about equivalent retaliation. It means paying someone back in the same way they did you dirty. It\u2019s also a successful strategy when trying to figure out <\/strong><strong>como destruir um psicopata<\/strong><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Basically, you get your revenge by doing to them exactly what they have been doing to you. You mimic their words and actions, and you treat your psychopath in the exact same way they\u2019ve been treating you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only problem here is that their reaction will never mimic yours. Even if you put them through everything they\u2019ve put you through, you\u2019ll never succeed in hurting them with the same intensity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But achieving that would be impossible because we\u2019re not talking about an average human being. However, you will definitely get a reaction and be on your way to destroying them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-cognitive-apathy\">12. Apatia cognitiva<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Psychopaths don\u2019t feel in the same way the rest of the world does. However, they are able to develop cognitive empathy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This means that they can understand and perceive the emotions of others. When you think that they feel sorry for you, they don\u2019t. They\u2019re only acting that way because they know it\u2019s expected of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, that means that they\u2019re able to develop cognitive apathy. <strong>To put it simply, it\u2019s indifference or loss of interest in something or someone.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>And that\u2019s exactly what you want to achieve \u2013 for a <\/strong><strong>psicopata<\/strong><strong> perder o interesse em si e deixar de a ver como uma v\u00edtima atraente.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A melhor forma de o conseguir \u00e9 n\u00e3o lhes dar qualquer tipo de rea\u00e7\u00e3o, o que j\u00e1 discutimos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But the trick is to evoke cognitive apathy in a psychopath only toward the end of your journey. If you manage to do it in the beginning, you\u2019ll set yourself free, but you won\u2019t succeed in destroying them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-cut-them-off\">13. Cort\u00e1-los<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Por fim, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/cortar-o-contacto-com-as-pessoas\/\">cortar o seu psicopata<\/a>. It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about your mother, father, or sibling, let alone your romantic partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ve figured out how to destroy a psychopath, and there is absolutely no point in keeping them in your life anymore. You can\u2019t stay friends with them, and you can\u2019t continue playing this game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Cortar o contacto significa apagar o n\u00famero da pessoa, bloque\u00e1-la em todas as suas contas nas redes sociais e n\u00e3o responder a nenhuma das suas tentativas de contacto. Por vezes, significa mesmo mudar o seu n\u00famero ou morada.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Significa manter-se afastado dos locais onde sabe que os pode encontrar. Significa romper os la\u00e7os com os amigos comuns e com todos os que possam falar-lhes de si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most importantly, cutting them off means never going back to them! I don\u2019t care if they\u2019re going through a rough patch or you want to say your condolences because they suffered a painful loss \u2013 you need to stay away from them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-do-you-get-rid-of-a-psychopath\">Como \u00e9 que se livra de um psicopata?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1060\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"mulher cansada sentada no seu sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-161400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa-1024x678.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa-960x636.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa-1080x716.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa-1200x795.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/tired-woman-sitting-curled-up-on-her-sofa-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Se quer realmente livrar-se de um psicopata, eis o que deve fazer:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-forget-about-excuses\">1. Esque\u00e7a as desculpas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re wondering how to escape a psychopath, the first thing you have to do is forget about justifying their behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No, they\u2019re not having a bad day. No, they\u2019re not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/reconhecer-um-homem-emocionalmente-indisponivel\/\">emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a>, and no, you won\u2019t change them. No, you didn\u2019t misinterpret the signs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u00c9 preciso compreender que <\/strong><strong>psicopatia<\/strong><strong> \u00e9 um <\/strong><strong>perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade<\/strong><strong>. You\u2019re dealing with a <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-maneiras-de-identificar-um-manipulador-narcisista\/\"><strong>narcisista<\/strong><strong> e um <\/strong><strong>manipulador<\/strong><\/a><strong> tudo em um.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, you have to forget about the blame game as well. You didn\u2019t do anything to provoke their behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-realize-that-they-won-t-change\">2. Realize that they won\u2019t change<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The next step is accepting that they won\u2019t change. I know that this might be the hardest part of the journey, but trust me, if you don\u2019t, you\u2019ll keep going back to your psychopath. And that\u2019s the worst thing you could do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Para tomar <\/strong><strong>controlo total<\/strong><strong> da tua vida, tens de deixar de acreditar nas suas mentiras, <\/strong><strong>manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><strong>e <\/strong><strong>palavras emocionais<\/strong><strong>. Por muito doloroso que isto possa parecer, um <\/strong><strong>psicopata<\/strong><strong> n\u00e3o \u00e9 um <\/strong><strong>pessoa m\u00e9dia<\/strong><strong> \u2013 they couldn\u2019t change even if they wanted to.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nada que se possa fazer para os fazer mudar. Portanto, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/cortar-o-contacto-com-as-pessoas\/\">iniciar o seu processo de cura<\/a> com o tempo, e aceitar este facto doloroso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-make-plans-ahead-of-time\">3. Fazer planos com anteced\u00eancia<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages.jpg\" alt=\"mulher feliz de amarelo sentada num caf\u00e9 a ler mensagens\" class=\"wp-image-161406\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/happy-woman-in-yellow-sitting-in-cafe-reading-messages-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ll be honest with you: walking away from a psychopath is not the same as leaving any other person. The truth is that they won\u2019t let you go easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is exactly why you must plan ahead, especially if you\u2019re married to this person or live with them. <strong>Find yourself a place to stay, and make sure you\u2019re financially taken care of. Basically, you have to come up with an escape plan.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, planeie como os vai deixar. Sei que quer ser um ser humano decente e faz\u00ea-lo pessoalmente. Em qualquer outra circunst\u00e2ncia, eu aplaudiria as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, this situation is different. Discussing why you\u2019re breaking up is practically impossible, so it\u2019s best if you just text them or leave them a letter saying that you\u2019re leaving them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seja como for, nunca exponha a sua nova localiza\u00e7\u00e3o ou qualquer outra coisa relacionada com a sua nova vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-go-no-contact\">4. N\u00e3o entrar em contacto<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>O pr\u00f3ximo passo \u00e9 cortar todos os la\u00e7os. Quando eu te disser para ires <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/regra-de-nao-contacto-o-poder-do-silencio\/\">sem contacto<\/a>Estou a falar a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tenha cuidado, porque os psicopatas s\u00e3o incrivelmente sorrateiros. O seu agressor far\u00e1 tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para encontrar uma forma de voltar \u00e0 sua vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se os deixarmos entrar s\u00f3 um bocadinho, eles far\u00e3o o poss\u00edvel por rastejar at\u00e9 ao fim da nossa vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-ask-for-help\">5. Pedir ajuda<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if you\u2019re dealing with a sociopath who might get physically abusive? If you\u2019re worried about your safety, ask for professional help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Antes de mais, <strong>denunciar os maus tratos dom\u00e9sticos \u00e0s autoridades. <\/strong>Se o seu psicopata o persegue ou \u00e9 abusivo de qualquer outra forma, ele pode ser internado num hospital psiqui\u00e1trico ou mesmo ir para a pris\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t forget to take care of your mental health as well. See a mental health expert who will guide you through the healing process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-a-psychopath-s-weakness\">What Is A Psychopath\u2019s Weakness?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para o seu parceiro\" class=\"wp-image-161402\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-looking-at-her-partner-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Embora nem todos os psicopatas tenham uma fraqueza universal, o seu ego \u00e9 a coisa mais importante do mundo para eles. Por isso, \u00e9 a primeira coisa que se deve ter em vista quando se pergunta como destruir um psicopata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Quando os fazemos perceber que falharam na destrui\u00e7\u00e3o da sua v\u00edtima, todo o seu mundo se desmorona.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The same goes for their public image. You have to understand that psychopaths are, in many cases, respected members of society: lawyers, police officers, CEOs, doctors&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They put a lot of effort into manipulating everyone around them. So, when you reveal their true colors to the world, they\u2019re ruined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-a-psychopath-be-afraid\">Um psicopata pode ter medo?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ao contr\u00e1rio dos seres humanos neurot\u00edpicos, <strong>psicopatas<\/strong><strong> cannot be afraid. To be more exact, they can sense danger, and at that moment, they\u2019re aware that something might happen.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, they don\u2019t feel the emotion of fear, at least not in the way an average person feels it. This absence of fear, combined with their lack of empathy, is what makes them this way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-do-psychopaths-know-they-are-evil\">Os psicopatas sabem que s\u00e3o maus?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Na maioria dos casos, <strong>psicopatas<\/strong><strong> est\u00e3o perfeitamente conscientes da sua <\/strong><strong>tra\u00e7os de personalidade<\/strong><strong>. At the end of the day, they know that what they\u2019re doing is wrong on many levels.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But keep in mind their lack of empathy. They do know what they\u2019re doing to their victims on a cognitive level. Still, a psychopath can never feel your pain, and they can never emotionally understand the impact of their behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, I\u2019m talking about highly-intelligent psychopaths here. There are also the ones who are completely unaware that their actions are wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-to-wrap-up\">Para terminar:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar com um homem que n\u00e3o a est\u00e1 a ouvir\" class=\"wp-image-161405\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/woman-talking-to-man-who-is-not-listening-to-her-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Even though I\u2019ve taught you how to destroy a psychopath, I\u2019ll be honest and tell you that<strong> todo este processo ir\u00e1 atrasar o seu caminho para uma cura saud\u00e1vel.<\/strong> Yes, you\u2019ll get the satisfaction you need. You\u2019ll end up feeling like you\u2019ve paid them back for everything they did to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No entanto, <strong>a coisa mais inteligente a fazer seria investir toda essa energia na repara\u00e7\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> By trying to destroy them, you\u2019re wasting more of your time \u2013 precious time \u2013 that you could use for healing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if you still want to get revenge, I understand completely. I know that you will never feel at ease until you know that you\u2019ve managed to hurt them just a little bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In that case, I can\u2019t wish you anything but good luck!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Como destruir um psicopata: 13 Formas Comprovadas Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-161683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people think that breaking a psychopath is impossible. Well, this is because they were never taught how to destroy a psychopath. I have to warn you: this is not an easy task. But it can be done! Here is exactly how. How To Destroy A Psychopath Follow this step-by-step guide on destroying pure evil:&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":161398,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-161397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Destroy-A-Psychopath-13-Proven-Ways-1024x678.jpg",1024,678,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=161397"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161397\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/161398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=161397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=161397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=161397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}