{"id":161487,"date":"2022-12-09T10:12:44","date_gmt":"2022-12-09T10:12:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=161487"},"modified":"2022-12-14T07:16:41","modified_gmt":"2022-12-14T07:16:41","slug":"como-controlar-as-suas-emocoes-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-controlar-as-suas-emocoes-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"<strong>Como controlar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o: 20 t\u00e1cticas comprovadas<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando nos tornamos adultos, todos esperam que aprendamos magicamente a controlar as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. <strong>Well, isn\u2019t it time we all admit we have no clue how it\u2019s done?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sei que encarei o controlo dos meus sentimentos como uma miss\u00e3o imposs\u00edvel.<\/strong> Demorei algum tempo a domin\u00e1-lo e, agora, aqui estou eu, a partilhar a minha sabedoria convosco.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-control-your-emotions-in-a-relationship\">Como controlar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siga este guia passo a passo para recuperar o controlo das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-identify-your-emotions\">1. Identificar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita a pensar enquanto est\u00e1 junto \u00e0 janela\" class=\"wp-image-161490\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/beautiful-woman-thinking-while-standing-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can\u2019t expect to learn how to control your emotions if you haven\u2019t reached a stage where you can identify them in the first place.<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/8-sinais-de-emocoes-reprimidas-formas-de-lidar-com-elas-com-sucesso\/\"> Reprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> might seem like the easier way to go, but trust me \u2013 in the long run, it will only cause you trouble.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That is why the first step of this process requires you to be honest with yourself. A lot of people have a habit of, for example, claiming to be angry when they\u2019re actually sad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Esta pr\u00e1tica n\u00e3o \u00e9 ben\u00e9fica para a sua sa\u00fade mental. Em vez disso, seja suficientemente corajoso para olhar todas as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas nos olhos e enfrent\u00e1-las como um adulto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-find-your-triggers\">2. Encontre os seus gatilhos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Todos n\u00f3s temos pensamentos e emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas. Mas a chave para a intelig\u00eancia emocional \u00e9 conhecermo-nos suficientemente bem para chegarmos ao fundo dos nossos est\u00edmulos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Qual \u00e9 o padr\u00e3o de comportamento na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que vos faz sentir mal? Quais s\u00e3o as coisas que mais o provocam? E, mais importante, porqu\u00ea?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s say that your significant other doesn\u2019t reply to your text. That is your trigger, and it makes you feel bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mas porque \u00e9 que se sente assim? Isso fere o teu ego? Sente-se<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-sinais-de-que-e-uma-mulher-emocionalmente-negligenciada\/\"> emocionalmente negligenciada<\/a>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este comportamento desencadeia a sua<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-dicas-para-problemas-de-abandono-de-alguem\/\"> quest\u00f5es de abandono<\/a>? Tem<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-rapariga-com-problemas-de-confianca-esta-a-implorar-te-para-nao-fazeres-estas-12-coisas\/\"> quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/a> that make you believe they\u2019re texting someone else?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-don-t-judge-yourself\">3. Don\u2019t judge yourself<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher s\u00e9ria com \u00f3culos sentada em pensamentos profundos\" class=\"wp-image-161491\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/serious-woman-with-glasses-sitting-in-deep-thoughts-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to control your emotions in a relationship in a healthy way, you must forget about self-judgment.<strong> You shouldn\u2019t feel ashamed for feeling a certain emotion.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Who says that a certain feeling isn\u2019t appropriate? Who says that you\u2019re not allowed to feel that way? Your emotional state is your business alone, and you should accept and embrace all of your emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-try-being-as-realistic-as-possible\">4. Tentar ser o mais realista poss\u00edvel<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of the hardest things is to observe your love life from a realistic point of view. After all, you\u2019re involved with it, and sometimes it\u2019s impossible to be objective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, for the sake of your mental well-being, you have to try and take a step back. Forget about the infatuation, the anger, true love, resentment, grudges&#8230; Actually, try forgetting about all of your emotions completely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Em vez disso,<strong> observar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o como algu\u00e9m de fora. Imagine que um amigo pr\u00f3ximo veio ter consigo com este problema exato.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O que \u00e9 que lhes diria? Bem, aplique esse mesmo conselho a si pr\u00f3prio!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-observe-your-partner-s-emotions\">5. Observe your partner\u2019s emotions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Da mesma forma que se concentra nos seus sentimentos, se quiser um <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/15-caracteristicas-de-uma-relacao-saudavel\/\">rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>, you should also observe your partner\u2019s emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o uma equipa e as vossas reac\u00e7\u00f5es est\u00e3o normalmente ligadas. A sua cara-metade tamb\u00e9m tem dificuldade em controlar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Is it possible that you trigger each other\u2019s negative thoughts and emotions? In that case, you don\u2019t have a healthy relationship, and that\u2019s something you should work on before anything else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-remember-that-you-re-in-charge\">6. Remember that you\u2019re in charge<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a olhar para longe no horizonte na praia\" class=\"wp-image-161492\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-looking-away-in-horizont-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whatever happens, you must keep one thing in mind: you\u2019re in control here! Even when it appears like things are falling apart, you\u2019re the one holding the steering wheel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Your emotions don\u2019t control you \u2013 you\u2019re in charge of them. You\u2019re the combination of your heart and mind, and it\u2019s your job to find balance between the two.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019s even worse than allowing your emotions to take control over you is allowing someone else to be in charge of your feelings and entire well-being. You should never get yourself into a situation where your entire mood depends on another person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don\u2019t care if we\u2019re talking about true love here \u2013 your partner shouldn\u2019t have that kind of power over you. You\u2019re not their puppet, and they shouldn&#8217;t be pulling the strings!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-surround-yourself-with-positivity\">7. Rodeie-se de positivismo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/4-maneiras-elegantes-de-se-livrar-de-pessoas-negativas\/\">Afastar-se de pessoas negativas<\/a>, and you\u2019ll stay away from negative emotions as well. I don\u2019t care if these toxic people are your closest friends or family members \u2013 if they\u2019re bringing negativity into your life, ditch them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What if you\u2019re surrounded by negativity in a place you can\u2019t escape from, for example, at work? Well, if you can\u2019t find another job, at least compensate for that negativity with as much positivity as you can. In the meantime, please try looking for a new job because your mental health should come first!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why not try taking a break from social media? You spend all of your days scrolling through other people\u2019s fake posts and fake love lives.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So naturally, you assume that you have it worse. Everyone\u2019s partner treats them better \u2013 they get more expensive gifts, and they are intimate all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the other hand, your relationship looks like a wreck compared to theirs. Consequently, you become overwhelmed with negative emotions you can\u2019t control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-stop-overthinking-and-worrying-too-much\">8. Deixar de pensar demasiado e de se preocupar demasiado<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Como controlar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o: Bem, comece pelos seus pensamentos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As long as you dissect everything your partner says or does, you\u2019ll be overwhelmed with negativity. Trust me, overthinking and worrying too much are your biggest enemies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 this doesn\u2019t mean that you should just go with the flow. You\u2019re still in charge of your life, and thinking your decisions through is the mature thing to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, you don\u2019t have to analyze every little thing that happens in your relationship. Most importantly, you don\u2019t need to assume that there will always be the worst possible outcome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yes, you should take control of your emotions. However, you should be aware that you can\u2019t have full control over everything that happens to you. That\u2019s why you have to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-nao-pensar-demasiado-numa-relacao\/\">deixar de pensar demasiado na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some things are meant to be, and you thinking about them and worrying yourself sick won\u2019t prevent them from happening. So, why not sit back and enjoy your life instead of ruining it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-healthy-communication\">9. Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"Casal feliz a conversar num caf\u00e9,\" class=\"wp-image-161493\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/Happy-couple-talking-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can\u2019t have a healthy relationship without <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-comunicar-melhor-numa-relacao\/\">comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>. And you can\u2019t hope to figure out how to control your emotions in a relationship if it isn\u2019t healthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I mean, it\u2019s completely natural that you\u2019ll be angry, frustrated, and unhappy all the time if you and your partner fight every day. Don\u2019t get me wrong \u2013 I\u2019m not saying that there won\u2019t be any arguments in your relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>No entanto, o respeito m\u00fatuo deve existir mesmo quando os dois discutem. Pratique falar devagar e com calma, sem levantar a voz. Se necess\u00e1rio, conte at\u00e9 dez antes de dizer algo no meio de uma discuss\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But that\u2019s not the entire point of healthy communication. You both have to learn how to verbalize your feelings correctly, without the fear of judgment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-body-language-communication\">Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o em linguagem corporal<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another important aspect of healthy communication is body language communication. If you and your partner display aggressive or avoidant body language, you\u2019ll have a hard time controlling your negative emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-find-the-source-of-your-negative-emotions\">10. Encontrar a origem das suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We\u2019ve already discussed the fact that you should stay away from whatever triggers your negativity. But it\u2019s time to look at something else, as well: the source of your negative thoughts and emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>O caminho para a pr\u00e1tica <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-com-que-so-uma-mulher-emocionalmente-inteligente-se-pode-identificar\/\">intelig\u00eancia emocional<\/a> is to understand why you feel the way you do. Dwell deep inside yourself and try figuring out where these negative feelings are coming from. I bet they\u2019ve piled up for a reason.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Como \u00e9 que foi tratado na inf\u00e2ncia? Qual \u00e9 a sua <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-que-e-a-ligacao-emocional\/\">estilo de fixa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>? Tem alguma bagagem emocional de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o anterior?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estas perguntas podem n\u00e3o parecer relacionadas com o seu romance atual, mas acredite em mim, as respostas s\u00e3o cruciais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-ask-for-professional-help\">11. Pedir ajuda profissional<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you find it impossible to take control of your emotions, maybe it\u2019s time to ask for professional help. Don\u2019t get me wrong, I\u2019m not trying to diagnose you, but there are several personality disorders and mental health conditions that might prevent you from taking charge of your feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Se receia sofrer de um determinado problema de sa\u00fade mental ou se apenas sente que as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o demasiado fortes para si, consulte um profissional de sa\u00fade mental. <\/strong>Um especialista diagnostic\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 e, sobretudo, indicar-lhe-\u00e1 o caminho a seguir ao longo desta viagem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even if you have a personality disorder or suffer from something else, it\u2019s not the end of the world. It definitely doesn\u2019t make you crazy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pelo contr\u00e1rio, enfrentar os seus problemas a tempo e pedir ajuda profissional \u00e9 uma atitude madura e corajosa!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-engage-in-self-care\">12. Envolver-se no autocuidado<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a sentir-se relaxada no sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-161494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-feeling-relaxed-on-the-couch-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O amor-pr\u00f3prio, o respeito por si pr\u00f3prio e o cuidado consigo pr\u00f3prio s\u00e3o fundamentais para se manter s\u00e3o e mentalmente saud\u00e1vel. Todas estas coisas combinadas aumentam a sua autoestima e far\u00e3o com que se sinta muito melhor consigo mesmo numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>You have to be aware of one thing: the romance you\u2019re currently in is not the most important relationship in your life. In fact, the one you have with yourself is.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se dominar a arte de<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-amar-a-si-proprio\/\"> amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/a>, your partner will have no choice but to follow your lead. You\u2019re showing them by example that there is a certain standard you\u2019re willing to settle for and that anything less is unacceptable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The same goes for self-respect. The more you respect yourself, the more respected you\u2019ll feel in your relationship. Consequently, there will be way fewer negative feelings to deal with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O autocuidado \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m uma parte importante desta viagem. Temos de aprender a mimar-nos. Quando se aprende a <strong>tratarmo-nos como algu\u00e9m que amamos<\/strong>, your mood won\u2019t be affected by anyone\u2019s actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-self-help-methods\">13. M\u00e9todos de autoajuda<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to control your emotions, you have to learn how to deal with their consequences as well. What should you do when a negative feeling gets the best of you? How do you stop the process and help yourself?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You know exactly what I\u2019m talking about \u2013 you feel anger, hatred, or sadness taking over. <strong>You\u2019ve reached the level of emotional intelligence to recognize the signs that they\u2019re there, but now, you need the tools to overcome them and calm yourself down.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O melhor e mais simples m\u00e9todo \u00e9 respirar fundo. Isto abrandar\u00e1 o ritmo card\u00edaco e ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a pensar com clareza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If possible, remove yourself from the situation. Tell your partner that you need some time off and that you\u2019ll finish your discussion after you calm down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally, if you\u2019re really not feeling well, try accessing a mental health resource, such as a hotline in your area, or even call your therapist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-stay-in-the-present\">14. Permanecer no presente<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many people have a hard time remaining in the present moment, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. Even if everything is going great now, you can\u2019t stop thinking about that argument you and your significant other had a few weeks ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ou continua a preocupar-se com o futuro. Para onde vai esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Voc\u00eas os dois t\u00eam um futuro juntos? V\u00e3o acabar por passar o resto das vossas vidas um com o outro?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E se o teu namorado te deixar? E se ele se apaixonar por outra pessoa? Como \u00e9 que poderia viver a vida sem ele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The list of these questions is endless, but I\u2019m sure you get the point. At the end of the day, you\u2019re consumed by negative feelings that have nothing to do with the present moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Em vez de aproveitar o que tem agora, passa a maior parte do tempo a stressar com cen\u00e1rios potenciais ou com certas coisas que deviam ter ficado no passado.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-practice-gratitude\">15. Praticar a gratid\u00e3o<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a respirar profundamente ao ar livre\" class=\"wp-image-161497\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/young-woman-breathing-deeply-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re wondering how to control your emotions in a relationship, the answer is to focus on positive emotions. Easier said than done, I know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Bem, porque n\u00e3o tentar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/citacoes-de-agradecimento-para-inspirar-a-gratidao\/\">praticar a gratid\u00e3o<\/a> para uma mudan\u00e7a? Em vez de prestar toda a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s coisas que faltam na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, olhe para as que tem.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Can\u2019t think of anything? Start writing a gratitude journal.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every night before you go to bed, write down everything good that happened between you and your partner that day. But make sure you don\u2019t take anything for granted.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Write down things such as: \u201cWe shared a passionate kiss,\u201d \u201cThey sent me a good morning text.\u201d, \u201cThey hugged me.\u201d, \u201cThey made me laugh.\u201d, \u201cThey helped me bring in the groceries.\u201d and so on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This way, you\u2019ll go to sleep with a smile on your face, filled with positive emotions. Not only that: the next time you are overwhelmed with negative feelings, just open your gratitude journal and start reading. All of a sudden, you\u2019ll realize there is not so much to worry about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-16-no-assumptions\">16. Sem pressupostos<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A wise man once said that assumptions are the termites of relationships. Don\u2019t overestimate yourself by thinking of yourself as a mind reader.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trust me, you have no clue what is going on in your partner\u2019s head. <strong>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nenhuma necessidade de se preocupar com o facto de eles o deixarem s\u00f3 porque presume que isso vai acontecer.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t stress yourself out about your partner allegedly being angry if they hadn\u2019t specifically told you that was how they felt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And it works the other way around as well. Never think that they can assume how you feel \u2013 you must verbalize your emotions and be direct. It\u2019s the only way to protect them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-17-find-a-support-system\">17. Encontrar um sistema de apoio<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se continuar a ter dificuldade em descobrir como controlar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, fale com algu\u00e9m em quem confie para al\u00e9m do seu parceiro. Dirija-se a um amigo pr\u00f3ximo ou a um familiar e fale com ele sobre as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even though your loved ones are not mental health experts, they know you to the bottom of your heart. They might help you process or understand your emotions. Maybe they\u2019ve been through a similar situation or dealt with some mental health issues that made them feel like they\u2019re losing control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If nothing else, they\u2019ll hear you out and give you a shoulder to cry on \u2013 which is sometimes more than enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-18-be-open-about-it\">18. Ser aberto sobre o assunto<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher preocupada a olhar para o telem\u00f3vel enquanto est\u00e1 sentada no sof\u00e1\" class=\"wp-image-161498\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1-960x641.jpg 960w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1-1080x721.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1-1200x801.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/worried-woman-looking-at-mobile-phone-while-sitting-on-the-couch-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No entanto, a pessoa mais importante com quem deve falar sobre este problema \u00e9 o seu parceiro. <strong>Even if you\u2019re dealing with a certain mental health condition or a personality disorder that causes your<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-controlar-as-mudancas-de-humor\/\"> altera\u00e7\u00f5es de humor<\/a>\u00c9 algo com que a sua cara-metade deve estar familiarizada.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fale com eles sobre os seus est\u00edmulos, para que o possam ajudar a evitar os que mais o afectam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re asking them to treat you like a porcelain doll. But they should know what you\u2019re struggling against.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And if they love you enough, they won\u2019t let you go through this alone. They\u2019ll hold your hand and help you learn how to control your emotions in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-19-the-art-of-forgiveness\">19. A arte do perd\u00e3o<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lembra-se de termos falado que n\u00e3o vale a pena olhar para o passado? Bem, para que isso seja poss\u00edvel, \u00e9 preciso aprender<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-perdoar-alguem-que-nos-magoa-continuamente\/\"> como perdoar<\/a> o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se voc\u00eas os dois ultrapassaram algumas coisas e se a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o sobreviveu a alguns obst\u00e1culos, porque \u00e9 que ainda guardam rancores? <strong>O ressentimento \u00e9 uma das emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas mais poderosas e \u00e9 preciso livrar-se dele antes que o coma vivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I won\u2019t lie to you: forgiving isn\u2019t always easy. In fact, sometimes it\u2019s the hardest thing you have to do. However, you\u2019ll feel liberated once you achieve it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-get-a-life\">20. Arranjar uma vida<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Okay, this might sound harsh, but you\u2019ll never learn how to control your emotions in a relationship until you<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/como-deixar-de-ser-co-dependente\/\"> deixar de ser emocionalmente dependente<\/a> no seu parceiro. <strong>As long as they\u2019re the only person who can control your mood swings, I\u2019m sorry to say, but you\u2019re doomed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s great that you\u2019re so invested in your relationship. However, it doesn\u2019t mean your entire world should revolve around it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Resumindo, arranje uma vida fora do seu romance. Saia com os amigos, encontre alguns passatempos e, mais importante, trabalhe em si.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-to-wrap-up\">Para terminar:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once you learn how to control your emotions in a relationship, you\u2019ll reach a level of emotional intelligence you didn\u2019t even know existed. These skills will help in all other fields of your life and in all the other relationships you have.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mais importante ainda, ajudar\u00e1 a melhorar a sua sa\u00fade mental, e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais importante do que isso!<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Como controlar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o: 20 t\u00e1cticas comprovadas Pinterest\" class=\"wp-image-161637\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/How-To-Control-Your-Emotions-In-A-Relationship-20-Proven-Tactics-Pinterest.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you become an adult, everyone expects you to magically learn how to control your emotions in a relationship. Well, isn\u2019t it time we all admit we have no clue how it\u2019s done? I know I saw taking charge of my feelings like mission impossible. 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